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BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 12:11pm On Aug 30, 2016
austinosita:
It will do you no good to tarnish my image for nothing. I never lied against you. I appreciated your effort and thanked you for it.

Though my goods was already opened, but I wouldn't like to disclose the negative things you tried to do with my goods, which I was told when I got to Arise and shine(I don't tarnish people's images)

Thanks all the same.

Wish you well
Had you said this earlier I would have blocked you at Arise and Shine office and give some punches on the face.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 12:00pm On Aug 30, 2016
austinosita:
It will do you no good to tarnish my image for nothing. I never lied against you. I appreciated your effort and thanked you for it.

Though my goods was already opened, but I wouldn't like to disclose the negative things you tried to do with my goods, which I was told when I got to Arise and shine(I don't tarnish people's images)

Thanks all the same.

Wish you well
If you had said this earlier, I would have blocked you at Arise and Shine office and give you some punches on the face.Idiot.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 11:46am On Aug 30, 2016
austinosita:
It will do you no good to tarnish my image for nothing. I never lied against you. I appreciated your effort and thanked you for it.

Though my goods was already opened, but I wouldn't like to disclose the negative things you tried to do with my goods, which I was told when I got to Arise and shine(I don't tarnish people's images)

Thanks all the same.

Wish you well
**** I challenge you to disclose the negative thing I tried to do with your goods which you was told when you get to Arise and Shine with evidence.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 9:51am On Aug 30, 2016
abbeyforex:
Like Bookiemart01 pleaded, pls @Obynolee give a helping hand to this importer. I appreciate your good gesture,pls complete it .
The guy has collected his goods from Arise and Shine but he will not come here to tell the house because his aim was to discredit me not necessarily getting his goods,that was why he came here to tell lies that I refused giving him his goods as if I have it.It's a pity that his type makes it impossible for others to get help.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 7:26am On Aug 27, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
why I go dey fear? grin good morning smiley
Good morning
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 7:17am On Aug 27, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
yes ke grin grin
OK,remember that what goes around comes around (law of karma),the same cup you used to meature for others will be used for you(biblical). This is how it goes and my prayer for you also;you will marry,chase your husband's relations away(because you need privacy), you will have children (both male and female),the male will get married and their wives will chase your children (including you) away because they need privacy as a couple.May it be so in Jesus name. Amen.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 7:06am On Aug 27, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
God forbid bad tin, I rebuke you and your type in the name of Jesus! grin grin lipsrsealed
Lol!,you dey fear like this?
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 6:19am On Aug 26, 2016
greatgod2012:
ko le to yen!
This life is very simple!
And the world is a global village.

He needs your help now doesn't mean you can't need his help in the future.

It may even be your children that he will render help to in the nearest future.

We shouldn't use today to destroy our tomorrow.

Instead of making life miserable to him, speak out your mind to him, ask him if he too can accept what he's doing to you from another person. Not with screaming or cursing or throwing tantrums but maturely and patiently.


Remember, nobody is totally bad!
Her type doesn't think about tomorrow because they're myopic.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 6:14am On Aug 26, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
the guy is not even her in-law angry he's a total stranger, living in a rent free house with free food and all, and he's been staying in the house for a year angry would you allow a stranger to stay in your house for more than a year, eating your food and not paying rent? angry
Is it the OP that brought him in or the hubby?,is it the OP that pays the house rent and buys the food?,since the hubby isn't complaining who is the OP to complain?. I pity your husband or your husband to be if at all you will get one as it's not a must to have one.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 6:03am On Aug 26, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
how can you allow your in law to stay with you for a year? huh There will be no privacy and he will be involved into their private affairs. Would you like your in-law to be involved with you and your wife's private affairs. So what's the point of getting married then huh
In law as in the husband's younger brother have no right to stay in his elder's brother's house to go to school or learn a vocation?. The husband should chase them away because he is married and suppose to have privacy?.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 5:58am On Aug 26, 2016
Rossy99:
i av neva leave my chores for him to do,d only chores i expect him to do is sweep d parlour whr he sleep,wash dishes or fetch water which he hardly does.u said if i sweep he wud feel guilty conscience,this one doesn't,he wud lift his leg for me to sweep nd adjust well,wen i was preg,he wud b watching me fetch water nd d next day he wud use d water to bath not until i warn him lik 3tym b4 he stop using water i fetch to bath
What will you be doing if this guy is not in your house?,leave those work you expect him to do undone or for your husband? Or pay people to do them?.will you be here complaining if this guy is your younger brother?. The unfortunate thing is that this guy is not here to state his own side of story. Woman face your chores and leave the boy alone. I blame the whole thing on poverty, do you think that it's the guy's wish to be staying in your house and be using your parlor as bedroom as an undergraduate?.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 5:47am On Aug 26, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
wow, the guy has no right to stay for that long angry what happened to privacy? Is he leaving soon? If not, complain to your husband and tell him your mind, if he doesn't listen, keep complaining to your husband until he tell the guy to leave. It's not right angry
He has no right staying in his relation house to go to school or finish his studies?, he should rent a house where his relation is willing to accommodate him?.I wish God gave me your type as wife so that I will teach you how to accommodate my relation.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 5:36am On Aug 26, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
wow, the guy has no right to stay for that long angry what happened to privacy? Is he leaving soon? If not, complain to your husband and tell him your mind, if he doesn't listen, keep complaining to your husband until he tell the guy to leave. It's not right angry
Another bad wife spotted, so the husband has no right to stay with his relation maybe his brother again simply because he married her?.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Obynolee(f): 5:26am On Aug 26, 2016
Rossy99:
he has bin staying for 1 nd half yr nw nd for how long,i dnt knw
You're one of those wives that I detest,you're giving the guy small food hence your Hubby's complains,you're here because the guy is not from your side.You want to chase him out of the house with this flimsy excuse and bring in your relations. Go do your house chores,he is not your maid.Thank God your hubby is still using his brain.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Condemns Zamfara Blasphemy Killings by Obynolee(f): 7:48pm On Aug 23, 2016
J
FearGodAndLive:
Same characters. Different actors. It's been going on for years. Jesus and Mohammed, violent characters from faraway Asia causing havoc in the African continent years after thier corpses have decayed.

I hope to read one day, news that Germans and French fought over Ifa and Chineke.

Allah and Yahweh are a curse to Africa..how many more Africans will die before we.get.sense and stop killing each other in the name of foreign gods?
God bless you,you're reasoning. Religion have done more harm than good in Africa and should as a matter of urgency proscribed.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 6:49pm On Aug 21, 2016
Bookiemart01:
Let your supplier accept PayPal then
I have preached to her about it but she doesn't want to include it in her payment options. She told me that she doesn't have it.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 6:30pm On Aug 21, 2016
Please I need help,I want to pay my supplier via Alibaba and wants to use third party shipping,the issue is how my supplier will get her money considering the fact that Alibaba needs a tracking number to track the goods to ensure that it gets to its destination (Nigeria) before releasing the money to the seller.Help please.
RomanceRe: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Obynolee(f): 7:28am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
no big deal if he had treated d lady on brown well she wud av accepted his calls nd chat

he probably truly loved d one he married nd not d lady on brown

so i wouldnt blame d lady on brown actually

if a man leaves me to marry my a frnd of mine or any lady i wont b mad

u truly loved her dan me #smiles

an indicator u were cheating on d lady on brown nd showering d one u married with love till u married her

no hard feelings
I disagree with your first paragraph, some girls can form,I remembered in school one idoma girl that I have good plans for treated me like the girl in brown cloth for two years and when I met my wife and dating her she started showing interest but then it was too late because I don't believe in double dating. Some girls can be so confused and don't know what they want in life..
RomanceRe: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Obynolee(f): 7:20am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
High rate of break up and divorce
Is your parents divorced?, if No,then correct yourself and change your orientation. With this type of orientation as a young girl,you will always fall into the wrong hands.
BusinessRe: Alaba Market Closed As Traders Protest Over Obosi - The Sun by Obynolee(f): 6:02pm On Aug 17, 2016
enigma2007:
It needed to move to FP so that people can plan their journey before they get stuck in the middle of that fracas
There is peace now,since yesterday
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 7:05am On Aug 17, 2016
Praisemelody:
austinosita why not visit arise and shine cargo office first? Since you have the pictures of the goods visit there office and explain to them. I think there office is located at green Plaza alaba
You have time to waste,the address on the goods is mine,even an idiot will know that I cannot be at Alaba International and opted to receive or receiving my goods from either Ajao or Trade fair office of Arise and Shine but the fact is that Astinosita is not concerned about getting his goods rather to drag my name in the mud.My solance is that I have good intention and truth always prevails.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 8:27pm On Aug 16, 2016
Bookiemart01:
Thanks for sharing your side of the story. I can understand how annoying it is when people want to turn help into something else

I think the issue here is communication
Mr austinosita, I think you need to go to arise and shine office to see if your goods are still there since Mr obynolee said he left your goods there.

I'll still like to plead that youmy obynolee should please put Austinosita through on the arise and shine office visit. Please give him their Nigerian address and link him up with someone in their office so that his job will be faster.
Thank you Bookiemart01 for understanding but the issue with Austin is that he will never visit the cargo office because I am a liar(after all Bishop who is in China have told him that since the goods came in my name that I have collected it)I have sent the address to him long time ago and will not do that again. The cargo address is not his problem because he have Bishop's contact. He will not have problem claiming his goods IF HE EVENTUALLY DECIDES TO VISIT THE CARGO because I have told them(the cargo) everything about the goods(that it doesn't belong to me and that the owner will come for his goods and how I met the owner,in fact, from Genesis,Onyebuchi is aware of it).I have no option than to open up when they keep calling me to know why I haven't or refused to collect the goods.But I don't think Austin is interested in all these,what he wants is to tell the whole world that I am a liar and a fraud.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 7:54pm On Aug 16, 2016
austinosita:
It is always good to be truthful! You told me that I cannot get my goods anymore and that you will send back my money. The problem was not that it was not complete, bcoz I said I was still down with the illness and I would complete it when I come for the goods. But bcoz you said I can't get it anymore, I had to stop pestering you since I was still very down healthwise. You even asked in the chat, why do I need the goods now.......my goods??!! I should forfeit my sweat??!!

I am still begging you brother, we really don't need all these. I have apologized and begged, what else do you want me to do? Please kindly tell me where to get my goods or take me there let me claim my goods and let's put an end to this!

I dey beg u. Plssss
Show proof where I said that you can't get your goods anymore. I asked why you want the goods now because of the way you sounded before owing to the fact that it's over 4 months the goods arrived. We are here doing this because you wanted it.I should take you to the cargo?,as a jobless person abi?,I should give you cargo's address?,have you deleted the message I sent to you when the goods arrived?, if yes,you can now see why I asked why you want your goods now because no serious business man will do that because the message consists of the address, the amount you will pay to get your goods.You have Bishop's contact, why not ask him about his Nigeria office address?. Is it hard to understand that I have since washed off my hands of this your goods of a thing and doesn't want to be involved anymore ?,why can't you allow me be guy?.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 7:10pm On Aug 16, 2016
austinosita:
The chats up there are so understandable! I did not insult you in any way. I asked you to bring up any insult I altered! I have been begging and apologising to you, but you kept on insulting and abusing me. They are all up there!

You said my name was on the goods, but I sent you the picture of the package with your name, address and number on it. I don't want to upload it here. I beg you again openly, if u know where my goods are, please kindly tell me so I can go and claim it.

Bishop(Arise and Shine) said if truly you know the office where my goods are, you should take me there, and that his contact person there knows you and will know how to bring out my goods.

I beg you brother, please help me get my goods. I appreciate your kind gesture and I regret all that transpired, and I'm deeply sorry.
All I want is my goods.

Thanks
You're poor in understanding and I hope someone here will help you because I think it is high time i stop gloryfying you with a quote. Show proof where I told you that the goods was in your name.Is it only express insults that you know?,how about the innuendos??.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 6:52pm On Aug 16, 2016
Bookiemart01:
obynolee please help her in anyway you can so that the help you rendered will be to the end

I understand people sometimes take good gestures for granted and you may be angry that she's stressing you. Please do what you can do to at least get the goods out considering that austineosita was ill when the goods came from China, it can happen to anybody

Biko
Ejor
Ndo


Cc
Aleairhub
BDavis
InfinitI concept
Egohsa
Dragnet
Entropro

Every importer in the house
At a point he suggested that I ask Arise and Shine their total cost so that he sends the money to me to get the goods and keep in my place, I agreed because I wanted to help.I called the cargo(Arise and Shine) to know their dollar rate,it was 326/$ we calculated it the total cost was #6500 approximately, he requested for my account details which I sent,after sometimes I decided not to keep the goods(my fear was that this person that I don't know and who doesn't keep his promise because it's always one story or the other might accuse me of stealing part of his goods that he kept in my care) I informed him and told him to go get his goods from the cargo anytime he is strong enough. One night I got an alert from him of 6k(by the time of this alert dollar was trading between 360-370 and the 6500 cost was arrived at using 326/$),I requested to know why he sent the money despite me telling him earlier not to send it.I requested for his account details to transferred the money back to him which he did and I sent back the money(6k) immediately. I don't know why he could come back after over two months to hold me hostage for not producing his goods(maybe I should get the goods from the cargo and take it to his house if not he will make me regret my life)
Ghost walkers.
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 6:00pm On Aug 16, 2016
Bookiemart01:
obynolee please help her in anyway you can so that the help you rendered will be to the end

I understand people sometimes take good gestures for granted and you may be angry that she's stressing you. Please do what you can do to at least get the goods out considering that austineosita was ill when the goods came from China, it can happen to anybody

Biko
Ejor
Ndo


Cc
Aleairhub
BDavis
InfinitI concept
Egohsa
Dragnet
Entropro

Every importer in the house
The story is a long one,I offered to help and indeed helped but I am regretting it now because there have been lots of innuendos that i am a liar that could not be trusted.I never told him that Arise and Shine have disposed off his goods, what I did was to draw his attention to one of the Arise and Shine term of contracts that States that they have the right to dispose off ones goods after some months if the person didn't claim it.I never used foul words if not today that he sent messages on whatsapp threatening to make me regret my actions. I told him that his goods is with Arise and Shine,he has not taking time to investigate(visiting their office), he labeled me a liar by believing what Bishop(who is in China)told him that, since the goods came on my name that I have collected it.The same thing played out when this same goods was forgotten at Bishop's office in China, he accused me of lieing and fraud, when the goods was found, he apologised but the unfortunate thing is that I don't belong to the class that give priority to sorry because I suffered injury and your sorry will not bring me back to where I was.I don't have his goods,I have told him where to go to look for his goods,I don't know why he keep accusing me without proof of having collected his goods and recently threatening to make me regret,I asked, regret what?,helping you?.I am not a thief, I don't have intention of stealing tomorrow or any time soon but he have labelled me a criminal (because it's only criminals that take what doesn't belong to them).I took the whole insults in good faith because we learn everyday. I regret helping and it will never happen again.
BusinessRe: How Much Did You Exchange The Dollar For Today? by Obynolee(f): 7:56pm On Aug 13, 2016
Jainine:
So far so good.

I can recommend the following people that if you leave your money with them a week they won't disappear and there will be no drama;

Infinitekoncept
Justi4jesu
Aleairpay

I also ones both Bitcoin from Chemashie

That's that.
I add Tumababa to the list
BusinessRe: How Much Did You Exchange The Dollar For Today? by Obynolee(f): 7:51pm On Aug 13, 2016
Intelligentdude:
You should have a representative in Lagos who can make the transfer on your behalf.It won't be wise of us to make the online payment without you crediting our account and vice versa.
Hi,I am in Lagos,can we meet in the bank for transaction?, I want about 60,000rmb in Chinese bank.
Car TalkRe: Pixs Of A Massive Car Manufacturing Plant In Kano You Never Believe Exist. by Obynolee(f): 6:31pm On Aug 07, 2016
lawani:
What I am trying to make you see is that Innoson too is an assembly plant and that company is ahead of Innoson in Nigeria. Afterall, Mr Innocent Chukwuma is not an Engineer but a spare parts dealer. The foremost indigenous machine part fabricator and equipment designer in Nigeria is Prof G A Makanjuola with his Makstech Nig ltd based in Ilesa. He is also a Prof in the university at Ile Ife and a holder of 3 British patents.
Innoson doesn't assembly but manufactures, he only import chassis and engines the other components are locally sourced, the tyres,bumper and other fittings plastic fittings comes from his plastic industry in Enugu.Him being a spare parts dealer is immaterial because he is not the person making the cars but employs engineers. When he started, each Chinese that was working there has two Nigerians under him to train. At least you I hope you saw different stages of motor making when innoson plant was in the news?,ranging from when it's been fabricated and stage when it's being tested to ensure that water doesn't enter the car and rest of them but all I can see in this picture is fixing of body parts or can you educate me more on this company.
Car TalkRe: Pixs Of A Massive Car Manufacturing Plant In Kano You Never Believe Exist. by Obynolee(f): 2:50pm On Aug 07, 2016
lawani:
If there is something that company is buying abroad for N100 which Innoson can supply for N95, let Innoson submit their quotation, afterall they are in business to make profit.
Are you talking as the CEO of the company or as a sympathizer?
Car TalkRe: Pixs Of A Massive Car Manufacturing Plant In Kano You Never Believe Exist. by Obynolee(f): 1:03pm On Aug 07, 2016
basisop:
Is it indigenous or owned by some set of Lebanese who won't pay tax?

Innosson is 100% Nigerian.
How can you compare the two?,This is an assembly plant not manufacturing
BusinessRe: Do It Yourself Importation Guide Free - Season 2 by Obynolee(f): 9:11pm On Aug 03, 2016
AMZYMAYO:
Infinitikoncept did a fast exchange for me yesterday. Honest and great communication skill are among his virtues. Thanks bro
Yeah,the same with me today,1650rmb.I am very happy, hope to do more business with him

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