₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
Yes you're right?
Ewoma-zino means All the goodness life has to offer has come to me**


Ovie-zino means a king has bn born(arrived)


Most people thinks. Zino is an English name .its a beautiful name Sha.

OK... I thought as well. Zino sounds Brazilian

ahnie:
Mine is ewoma-zino not what you mentioned.

Are they similar in meaning? ... What's the meaning of ewoma Zino and I think it's feminine while ovie is masculine

Smitaro100:
Blood of Jesus

Sickness dey dis life o.. always thank God for sound health.

My brother, I dey badly broke but people still wonder why I am always happy after falling from grace to grass. They concluded I have hidden wealth somewhere hence no support of any kind even family members. As a science student, I understand how body science works, it's actually a miracle that we breath everyday and live healthy, that alone gives me joy and peace of mind. Money is relative and it can come any day but you see health and wellness.... No gift pass that one. It is even better to die than to be terminally ill

ahnie:
Chasing my son was like government job in the mall....Elon musk boy.


Zino was busy picking what she needs

Oviezino must be from Delta... I like that name

Iamcrazy:
My problem with Nigeria is between me and God. So it doesn't concern Nigeria or her governing body in any way. I still don't know why God sent me here in the first place. It remain the greatest mystery of my whole entire life and nothing else can take up that soace in my life.

I can't imagine what the feeling would be like if I'm reading Nigeria news as a citizen and resident of Canada or Germany. Nigeria is nothing but hell. I think people sent here are those who misuse their opportunity one way or the other when they were in the better part of the world.

Probably we are sent to this place to see of the hardship and events of this place would have negative or positive consequences on us or not because sometimes, Things happening in this country targets our behaviour and attitude with the aim to make us wicked, mean and cruel in relating with others. We are just too unlucky to be here. Even the mineral resources is a problem in disguise.

Only God knows why I'm in this country. It is only in this part of the world that you will encounter challenges that doesn't have a physical or define cause/reason.. Some situation will even make you think God dey whine you

LOL, this your explanations and definitions is something else... Look like you are having a discussion with God one on one

nepapole:
This babe no get taste.

From alaafin to portable.

Bad bad taste.

Women are loyal to their emotions... Do anything you can to capture their emotions

Triangles1:
Then why didn't you bring your father.

Hahaha, so you were positioned to target who to insult just because of 30k. Bro go find work ooo, I thought you were normal.

Triangles1:
Because he's more qualified than any other candidates.

I hope I answered your question right.

Yes very well. Nigerians are useless if this is the best they can produce.

Racoon:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-wike-visits-ganduje-amid-defection-rumour/

I can imagine the circle of....

Triangles1:
Return the subsidy please, it doesn't favor the masses.

So why did you vote for him

Abagworo:
https://www.thecable.ng/exclusive-tinubu-considering-temporary-subsidy-on-petrol-as-landing-cost-rises/amp

Old man is old man

Almiron:
A picture of the house in Zungeru, Niger State, where Frederick Lugard actually signed the amalgamation Northern and Southern Nigeria on 1 January 1914 into effect.

Source

Chai, the beginning of the woe

Nice2023:
Let me give u am example.
There was a time my younger brothers friend followed me and he was to drop at a junction before mine.

In the course of our discussion,he told me he was planning to marry,and me being me,I advised him never to marry a woman that is not doing anything at all because the guy works in place that has great future.
I wasn't surprised he told my brother everything which he too advised him further never to try it.

Do u know this guy married a liability,I mean a non contributing wife,his income has depleted badly that,he now beg and live basically on loan,just immediately his wife gave birth.

If u go to his house,he would be begging u for money because he got it all wrong. There were girls in his level and those above his level In the office but he left there and got hooked with a liability...now his father that depends him can no longer get anything from him anymore and i heard that his father is very angry.

What a life.

The father was a liability in the first place but a man who cannot feed a liability cannot stand. Children in the infant stage are liabilities... Practice makes perfect. Everyman should make enough dough to feed at least 10 liabilities that's the bitter truth if not you can't stand

Wodu89:
His spirit is dead inside. He needs motivation. I've met several people in this situation during my counselling sessions. The work of men is extremely hard, and it goes deeply beyond hardworking or being lazy. It goes deeper than the soul into the spirit.

What I can advice the woman is to take what he needs to him to revive his spirit.

In such a case, preachings that can revive his spirit and soul. She should be playing very good scripture based teachings at home to revive his spirit.

He's dead internally and revival can't take place if there's nothing to bring him back to life.


Ezekiel 37:13-15



If he listens to good preachings at home for sic months, he'll find his lost zeal.

You are either a psychologist or a good pastor. A lot of men die internally with no one helping to light up there candle again, I don't know what causes it but someone must help you in that situation

Taylor90:
Women do it too

Men should reciprocate
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All these ones quoting me and crying

Do you know it’s very easy for a woman to make it in this life than a man?

If women put so much efforts men put the ratio of women making it to men should be 90:10

A woman would be so relaxed and cool being a house wife of a billionaire

But few men shouldn’t relax and be a husband of a rich woman

Make una dey play the table is gradually turning

Everything is men, pay for sex, find hotel or apartment for sex, financial provision, etc

Kings lemme burst your brain

Do you know that it’s the responsibility of the brides family to pay for wedding expenses?

They’re just scamming us

Traditionally, the brides family pays but white or court wedding, the guy pay but me I no send, I just do my thing

ganisucks:
https://nairametrics.com/2023/08/15/fg-dissolves-advertising-standard-panel-over-all-eyes-on-the-judiciary-billboards/

Military government and he is going to Niger republic to piss... Is alright

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

Don't leave a man because there was a mistake but a man should leave a woman wether mistake or not. Women make the mistake with all consciousness, don't let them deceive you because, they will make the mistake again and blame innocent mistake.

Jewessgratitud3:
So you expect them to still be collecting cowries? LoL... The value of things have gone up and those things they collected back then no longer have value now.

The list they gave my elder changed when my twins suitor went to collect their own list. They even wrote upgraded list and this was 8 years ago. we were all laughing that day.

Only God knows how much my own go be when the time comes. LoL..

Na waiting I dey tell you... Have you asked who is the engineer of the list. If the enemy of your family is the village head or at the top, he will impose a list that will suffer you. Your wife should know when it's not normal and help you out. If she is adamant on whatever they say, it's not good.

Jewessgratitud3:
It depends on where you're from. In my place, a woman has no say even her father has no say. The kinsmen and elder brothers are the ones who dictate what should be done. Tradition is tradition. A woman can only negotiate where there's no tradition or in a wait and get marriage. Period!

Bro, those who made those traditions didn't make them with N1000 notes, they didn't know what was small stout or beer but today you hear things like, 10 crates of small stout, 150000 cash, milo and milk, cows etc. How does this equate to the tradition of 1800AD where they use cowrie and palm wine? Lets assume they are measuring it according to the cost then, who measured the value of cowrie and the inflation of then and now. Bro, tradition is not tradition, people make traditions according to the state of things but with corrupt leaders everywhere, you will agree with me that most of the laws, constitutions and traditions we have at the moment were no written with the inspirations of the gods or God.

A lot of things have changed, I urge women to conive with there fathers to make things easier (not easy) for the young man according to his or her pocket. After the wedding comes the marriage and those kinsmen will not be there to help you and beware that Tinubu don't care. If you like go spend all your money on some greedy kinsmen or flanboyant wedding, na two of una go suffer am. Tinubu cannot and will not reduce the price of fuel because of your wedding, thats the bitter truth.

Jewessgratitud3:
*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

A woman is supposed to help her husband negotiate... African marriage is an over bloated nonsense. Guys should marry according to there pocket abeg

pansophist:
An over-30-year-old woman with a child thinks she is a catch. Women logic.

I mean, you can be a catch as a good person, as a good mother, as a good friend, etc, but as far as sexual market value is concerned, humans, including men, aint a catch in attractiveness as they grow older, and it's worse for women.

Like I always said, feel free to live in delusion, reality will deal with you wotowoto offline.

They are been deceived easily. She was actually a catch as a mother and a wife to someone else but immediately she allowed that get into her head and left what made her a catch, that was the end. If your wife is a public servant, if she is truthful to you, she will tell you how men are stupidly asking her out so, the hoeish ones will allow that get into their head and may descend to divorce thinking they will now be free to mingle with the big boys. Immediately the stupid chikers sees that they are now single, they will abandon them to their fate. I don't know why some married women think they can compete with fresh single girls in there 20s. They don't know what makes them attractive is the Mrs. attached to there name. The con ones will want to eat there cakes and have it by cheating and still answering Mrs. but the end is always the same.

mushroomFarm:
So when it was time for swimming, I declined. Recently a Nigerian died in another city. He drowned in a river. He was a good swimmer but in Russia, the rivers are dangerously cold...one dive and you could start suffering from disorientation, hypothermia, etc before you actually get drowned. Someone here on Nairaland once said 'life has no duplicate is a black man's mantra" this is very correct. But our pastor's wife insisted that I would be very safe if I swim with her. (I never enter river before oooo)
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Na so we enter sha... After few minutes I was already swimming in the deepest part of the river....but she was close by at all times...and sometimes when I dive and don't surge nor emerge quick enough she would swim to my location lol remember I told you the church here shows and practice a kind of love that would start making you wonder if something else is not getting involved.
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Well, here is a picture we took before swimming. No mind me...I con wrap my hair na jjc I be

This fine woman is swimming with you and D no worry you... Una strong for there

Nice2023:
I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?

Wife and kids, house of your own, business of your own... And good caring of your parents and parent in laws.

Exceed15:
You didn't mention just one good thing about this guy. I suspect there's more to this story.

Don't mind them... I pity any man that want to satisfy that gender 100%. The guy no good at all and you open leg carry bele, move in with him, cohabited for over 10yrs and you are just realizing he is an addict and confused

Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



Thank you .

Nlfpmod front page please

Thanks

The new problem you will still have is Okafors law. Your next man is going to suffer all these problems you created for yourself. However, must you live with a man to survive. In Nigeria, anyone who hasn't paid your dowry is not your husband. You can go with your child or leave the child for him and go your way. If he apologizes, give him conditions. If he fufills the conditions, they reconcile with him but I doubt you will find the happiness you are looking for. No man can make you happy if you are not happy with yourself first. So, get a job, get a nice place to stay and make yourself happy. A good man will still come and you will start telling him how your ex use to fuckkk better than him, now you are complaining he is on drugs... If you get a man that is not on drugs, don't complain of boring bedmatics oooo

Taylor92:
Since the head is rotten

What do you expect from the tail and branches

Show me your principal and I’ll tell you who you are

Make do with anything you like with this post

If you like go mention Bobo Chicago na you sabi

They are following the Ronu chairman AKA Amoda Rashidi... If they like make them put Yekini, na them sabi

slimfit1:
Please let me let the Northern and Middle belt people know that we are in support of whatever agreement they come up with.
so also, we Yoruba people have the same father and mother with some people in Togo and Benin republic just incase you don't know now you know. Next time your people close the border between us again thunder go fire inner.

Nigeria is one kind of a country

Racoon:
16-year-old Chioma Opara scores 9As in WAEC,345 in JAMB, wins $340,000 scholarships to abroad universities.
https://www.scholarshipregion.com/16-year-old-nigerian-girl-scores-9as-in-waec-345-in-jamb-wins-340000-scholarships-to-us-universities/

It's only IPOB girls can do this... We know where others belong

lincsnuel:
The legend about this footballer has helped write his name in history.

When we were kids, we were told great tales of how he helped rescue Nigeria by scoring a winning goal. I can't vividly remember but legend described of how the football turned into a stone, others said lion head or head of palm tree.

Whoever, forged that fairy tale and made it viral is the king of social media influencer

adenigga:
Source: https:///Petrol-Price-May-Jump-To-N750-Per-Litre-IPMAN

I want it to hit 2000 per liter... It will Favour me

Ofunaofu:
One of the most foolish decision ever made by this calamitous Tinubu government is the exchange rate unification nonsense


Instead of putting measures in place to drag the parallel market exchange rate down from 750/dollar to meet the official exchange rate of 460/dollar, the government move the official exchange rate up to meet the parallel exchange rate masking it as exchange rate unification.


After he must have removed subsidy from petrol without any single local refining capacity


How did we get here as a Nation

Consequences of performing surgery without Anastasia. I am sure most of you supported him. He was busy listening to Obi on debates and interviews now he don't understand what's happening. You can copy me but you can never be me.

T9ksy:
Exactly! That was why I advised my people not to bother themselves in their sham election. I have NEVER voted in Nigeria' S/election Processes 'cause I can smell the coffee ☕!

By voting, you are just validating their selection process but obidients thought, this time it will be different. Oh well, shebi you are awaiting their court decision. Una go wait, tire.

If MNK has told them to forget about it... Everybody would have cursed him but e dey play e dey show