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Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainian Sisters Arrested For Twerking On The Graves Of Fallen Soldiers by occfx: 4:57am On Aug 31, 2023
AImiron:
They’re shaking flat bumbum here, I didn’t trust auto spam that’s why I didn’t add this to main post.
I think instead of the 5 years prison sentence, they should send them to frontline or any line.

This is the video link. https ://x. com /heshcomps/status/1696939519394627835?s=46

Remove the spaces. They both have flat yansh btw.
They should just send them to Nigeria for proper dick king... Just one week here, they won't have waist to twark again, nonesense
Politics › Re: We Will Give Edo State Permission To Fix Bad Federal Roads - Umahi by occfx: 4:43am On Aug 31, 2023
Edo2020:
https://metrowatchxtra.com/2023/08/30/edo-federal-roads-stop-playing-politics-with-peoples-lives-fg-slams-obaseki-metrowatch/
So without permission, bad roads cannot be fixed? It is possible, the south east does not have permission to fix there bad roads... Nonesense
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ali Bongo: I Don't Know What's Happening, I Have Been Arrested, make noise by occfx: 2:33pm On Aug 30, 2023
Offpointng:
But why are Ipobs happy on Coup happenings in Africa and wishing same on Nigeria??

Oh they think they'll live much better under a Military rule?? A sect of people who cheer a domestic terrorism called "Sit at home" who in turn became a Nemesis to affect their well being can mean nothing to be but a Foolish people

South East will Suffer more under a Northern Military Rule - FFK
So someone's suffered for 9 months to give birth to you only for you to be drinking and be eating ipob
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ali Bongo: I Don't Know What's Happening, I Have Been Arrested, make noise by occfx: 2:31pm On Aug 30, 2023
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
should we tell him?
Yes that he is a bloody civilian and his time has gone. He should just come to zamfara and enjoy his loot with bandits.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ali Bongo: I Don't Know What's Happening, I Have Been Arrested, make noise by occfx: 2:29pm On Aug 30, 2023
YouEssay:
You are fortunate to still be alive.

Gaddafi cried & begged for his life, but was dehumanized & killed by an evil mob sponsored by the West. cry

The liberation of Africa from the grip of UTTERLY USELESS western terrorists continues...

Which country is next? Cameroun?
That Cameron is worst than Nigeria... I expecting there own news soon
Foreign Affairs › Re: Brice Nguema, The Man Behind The Gabon Coup, Celebrated By Soldiers by occfx: 1:50pm On Aug 30, 2023
bennybuhari:
Why are citizens jubilating over these coups? It is because the politicians have failed them and democracy is not working in Africa
Simple, Africans just discovered they were better under military rule. However, I think military rule is not the best but Africans need to discover themselves or invent a type of democracy that will work. We had our type of leadership before the white came.. We need to go back to Oba and Obi type of governance. Fuckkk colonialism
Politics › Re: Michael Taiwo Akinkunmi Is Dead. Nigerian Flag Designer Dies! by occfx: 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2023
jaguanana007:
SOURCE
The flag hasn't benefited us in anyway... May his soul rest in peace but Nigeria needs redesign. I don't even know if this flag is our problem
Politics › Re: Obidients Attack Governor Of Illinois USA, After Chicago University Lock Twitter by occfx: 8:32pm On Aug 29, 2023
duro4chang:
Their problem has gone beyond ordinary
The idiot at the top must be brought to book
Crime › Re: Police Disrupt Gay Wedding In Delta State, Arrest 100 Suspects by occfx: 8:28pm On Aug 29, 2023
ghanaman5050:
Are you against a man can marry two or more women, and a woman cannot, marry under age girls ?
Are you against or supporting anus sex with a woman ?
Pls read the subject again and come back please.
Crime › Re: Police Disrupt Gay Wedding In Delta State, Arrest 100 Suspects by occfx: 2:04pm On Aug 29, 2023
ghanaman5050:
What is your culture? A man can marry two or more women, and a woman cannot, you can marry under age girls ?
So you prefer your fellow man anus...?
Crime › Re: Police Disrupt Gay Wedding In Delta State, Arrest 100 Suspects by occfx: 10:55am On Aug 29, 2023
taylor88:
Good one

Infact kill all gays at sight

Bcuz I don’t know how you’ll leave very big soft nyash and breast say na another man anus be your problem

Imagine me getting erection at the sight of Adams oshiomole

If you’re a gay reading this may Amadioha strike you

Bastards

We’ve a million problems already in Nigeria

And someone’s prayers point is his fellow mans anus

Na una wey Tinubu suppose send go Niger to go fight
Very irritating beings. Oyibo should just carry there culture and go to wherever they are coming from. God designed African women well with serious endowment yet these idiots want bones and anus... Nonesense and ingredients
Christianity Etc › Re: Pakistan Christians Worshipping God In Churches Destroyed By Extremists(Videos) by occfx: 4:30am On Aug 28, 2023
Westerhoffe:
Christians has always been persecuted because they chose not to fight back.
Until Christians begin to resist these persecutions, they will keep getting persecuted.
Isreal decoded that long time ago... And today they have peace and no head slamming idiot crosses their path. Ipob learned the same thing from Isreal and today, there are no more janjaweedds in the bushes killing and raping.
Romance › Re: Help, Redpill Eventually Damaged My Lovely Relationship by occfx: 3:14am On Aug 28, 2023
manoflove22:
my girlfriend broke up with me after catching me cheating on her with her friends, i have been begging her since weeks now, she said we can never date again.

And this is what i saw and emulated from red pill thread that a girl get attracted with you more if u have other option and she knows other girl want u

now I'm badly missing her we haven't call since weeks now

please how can i get over thinking about her, please alpha males skip this thread i don't need ur abundance mentality jargons make ogun no kill una, lovely relationship omg cry cryembarassed
In this life use your sense.
Satellite TV Technology › Re: Breaking: Appeal Court Orders Multichoice To Sub-license Channels To Rival by occfx: 7:00pm On Aug 24, 2023
davodyguy:
Breaking: Appeal Court orders MultiChoice To sub-license Channels To Rival | CKN News

This is to officially and formally inform all our Esteemed Partners and customers that we are good to go as our Signal will hit the air on or before the 7th of November with all the expected and desired Channels especially the Sports and live football channels.
God gave us the victory and this is permanent.

You can spread it. Post it anywhere it's permitted

This journey started in October 5th 2019 when the GIANT in the pay tv industry, DStv used EFcc to shut down 9 indigenous pay tv cable companies in Nigeria just because they want to enjoy Monopoly of the industry with regards to sports channels especially live football matches which is the most selling power for pay tv companies.

To refresh our memories, the companies shut down are (1) Metrodigital in PH. (2) CTL in PH and all thier branches nation wide. (3) CMTV in PH (4) Hashtronics in Kano (5) ABG-Metro in Kano and Kaduna (6) WorldLink Comm. In Warri (7) MCL in ABA (cool Highland Comm in Ibadan .

It should be of note that many lost thier jobs and means of livelihood and most are still in the saturated labour market till date because a company want to have monopoly so as to maximize profit by high subscription.

Only one company took this as a challenge while the others felt it will be too much of a hassle to fight the GIANT and get victory for Nigerians. We went to court well armed with the amended NBC (National Broadcasting Commission) code that specifically prohibits Exclusivity of Premium Channels including football channels, by stating that any broadcaster who is licenced in Nigeria to air these football matches *SHALL* sublicense to any other at an agreed rate, but the GIANT refused, This code was taken to the Fed. High Court for interpretation where the GIANT swore to an oath they are not the owner of the channels even though the code did not say "owners but licencee" base on this the court in it's wisdom though agreed with the provisions of the code but can't order who did not have to give what they don't have, our Signal came on air waiting for the owners to show forth and the owners finally wrote us agreeing they are the owner and that we have no right and permission to broadcast these channels this is after getting the first judgment that rely on the affidavit that they are not the owner, on this strength we appealed the High Court Judgement in 2021 hence our Signal went off air again.

And in July 2022, the appeal court gave it's Judgment setting aside the High Court Judgement and Specifically ordered NBC to implement the section other code which means giving directive to whoever have that right to sublicence, we celebrated this with great hope and we commenced putting in a place technically to start but our hopes were dashed again with delays to the carrying out of the court order. We started another fight from July when we got the Judgment till we got that which the court says yesterday and we are ready to go without any hindrance and even if they want to appeal to Supreme Court which we are not aware of yet as we will never give up, this one is obeyed and gives us the right to do our business without hindrance so that Nigerians can watch live football matches with no holes in thier pockets.

THIS IS THE STORY OF THE JOURNEY SO FAR.
THANKS FOR BEING THERE FOR US WAITING PATIENTLY. We got it because we refuse to give up like others.



https://www.cknnigeria.com/2022/07/breaking-appeal-court-orders.html
Sltv metro really fought this fight
Romance › Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by occfx: 6:20pm On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
She married you for marriage sake... And you married her because she is financially stable. If you wan enjoy marriage, make money, marry a struggling young beautiful girl, they are usually loyal, make her financially stable and enjoy her to the fullest. You think say Ned is stupid
Crime › Re: Man And Lover Killed Themselves During Fight And Not Ritual Killing (photos) by occfx: 4:03pm On Aug 24, 2023
Dexy4yah:
Any relationship wey i dey once my peace of mind is compromised....i don Japa be dat.

My peace of mind is priceless.

Sad...rip to them
Peace of mind is something you cannot buy in the market no matter how rich you are. Bros, anything that will take away your peace of mind, bros avoid it. Wether woman, G, ritual, politics anything. Devil is seriously mining peace of mind from mankind with all his agents that's why Jesus specifically said what he brought to earth is peace and only him can give you peace of mind, wealth and add no sorrow to it. Don't listen to anybody who tells you otherwise... Na the msg I carry come today.
Crime › Re: Man And Lover Killed Themselves During Fight And Not Ritual Killing (photos) by occfx: 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2023
Tracka:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CwUi-NbKHTb/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Previous Story: https://www.nairaland.com/7814285/suspected-yahoo-boy-run-after
May be cult case of brutal retaliation. Guy man may be fuckeddd another G girl friend... G came to the caban saw the two birds, tries to revenge, guyman resisted, G mud the two of them and left no traces but knives
Politics › Re: Ondo Youths Reject Igbo Politician As Council Caretaker, Storm Street To Protest by occfx: 12:35pm On Aug 24, 2023
proeast:
The most tribalistic set of people in the world!!!

Their tribalism is currently destroying Nigeria yet they've refused to learn.

Spits!
I see jealousy and envy among Afonjas... They see igbos as threats to both their land, women and resources just like the south Africans. Work hard they won't
Politics › Re: Naira Weakens To N773.4/$ At I&E Window, N905/$ At Parallel Market by occfx: 9:59am On Aug 24, 2023
Racoon:
https://www.thecable.ng/naira-weakens-to-n773-4-at-ie-window-n905-at-parallel-market/amp nlfpmod
So naira is no longer floating but devalued from 450 to 700... Very soon they will indirectly bring back fuel subsidy and still sell fuel at 600.. APC govt is a government by the thief, of the thief and for the thieves
Sports › Re: I'm A Beautiful Woman And I Want To Start A Family— Francisca Ordega by occfx: 10:09pm On Aug 23, 2023
tundetech4:
https://www.pulsesports.ng/football/story/im-a-beautiful-woman-and-i-want-to-start-a-family-super-falcons-star-cries-out-2023082308464711589
With all these free jabulani roaming the streets, you don't have any issues just come back to Nigeria
Foreign Affairs › Re: India Beats Russia, US To Become First Country To Land On The Moon's Lunar Pole by occfx: 8:33pm On Aug 23, 2023
Benjaniblinks:
embarassed
With Tinibu as the president, Africa (Nigeria) will be the first to land on Mars
Tinubu will land on jupiter live.. And will fly to saturn with agbada and his Agbadorians.
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 8:04pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
1. How can all orphanages be governmental properties? By the way, all the more reason why it is pivotal that the citizens make sure to alert the government when something is not going well in any state-run agency, don't you think? undecided

2. It seems to me that you are desperately trying so hard to be as unreasonable as possible. So, I think it is best to leave you to believe as you choose to. This is 2023, and with google at your fingertips, I see no reason why a grown individual should hold the ideas you do regarding the plight of the homeless children in Nigeria. undecided
It's OK may be I have been away from the real Nigeria for too long. If you say Nigeria has improved in the orphanage business, that's good news because, nothing works in Nigeria.
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 7:46pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
How many orphanages are you aware of in that Nigeria sef? Most of the kids you meet on the street are actually homeless — not living in an orphanage at all. So, if you know any orphanage that actually sends kids out to beg and hawk, then please go ahead and let us know so we report them. undecided
Report to who na...? I thought orphanages are government property. Why do we still see homeless children on the streets when we have a place we call orphanage homes? It tells me that the so called orphanage home is nothing to write home about. I am considering the innocent children who may not end well in the orphanage homes.
Food › Re: A Roaster Maize Seller Divides Maize In Half For Those Who Cannot Afford Full by occfx: 7:37pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Corn 150-200 smh. Modernization of agriculture must be prioritized for a nation with over 100M people
Fulani janjaweedds will just eliminate you in the farm. Let us tackle those idiots first... Ban all types of grazing and allow all man to carry weapons.
Food › Re: A Roaster Maize Seller Divides Maize In Half For Those Who Cannot Afford Full by occfx: 7:35pm On Aug 23, 2023
mdokaba1:
Considering the economic situation in the country, a roasted maize seller was spotted dividing a maize into half in order to sell to those who can not afford to buy a full maize, which sells for between 150 and 200 naira depending on the size.

Things are really tough for many.
The mama is a G... She understands jagaban. The jagaban tenure is really favoring her. Shege banza
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 7:32pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
What is with the storytelling for heaven's sake? undecided

2. You actually think it is better for the 8-year-old to serve as a maid in someone's house rather than being in an orphanage and likely still in school? shocked shocked shocked

3. How many orphanages do you know that do that? Bring names make we report them abeg! undecided
OH never knew they have improved. So what's all these children I see hawking on the streets when they should be in orphanage homes? If Nigerian orphanage homes are doing well, we won't be seeing child beggers on the streets.
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 5:18pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
I am sorry, what? OP is struggling to feed herself as is. So how did you arrive at accommodation being the bigger of the two problems? undecided

By the way, what I asked if how you expect OP in her current situation to magically accomplish any of what you wish to have her and the kids do. undecided
Life is full of challenges... If he cannot figure out how to feed himself at this young age I wonder when he will do that. The same person probably has a girl friend somewhere. Assuming he has accommodation, the 8yr old can serve as "maid" to the younger one while he go out and hustle. Children easily grow tough skin in this kind of situation. I am worried because, orphanages in Nigeria looks like Nigerian prison and those people make money by giving out children. If you restrict them from giving out these one's, they expect you to be bringing food ones in a while otherwise, who knows what will be there fate. If op wife dies God forbid, he won't take his children to the Nigerian orphanages. I even suggest he gives them out as a maid to some rich people in the village or town so that, they will be taken care of partially.
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 5:06pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
Intersting. OP is about to lose her apartment and complains she is having a hard time feeding herself as it is. Yet you expect her to magically come up with seed money to set up a small kiosk in front of the apartment to have these kids fend for themselves? Are the kids also going to feed OP and pay her rent from all that magic money you envision they will get from this kiosk? undecided
Yes accommodation is the biggest problem here not feeding.
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 4:12pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod
Engage them, don't run away from responsibility, that's why we are men.
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by occfx: 4:11pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.
Most people don't just like responsibilities... Thats why you hear them sometimes say they are searching for a working class woman, a host they will feed on. He is looking at them now like liabilities but if was landed property now, he won't think of handing it over to the government @ 8 and 5yrs boys are grown ups already. Set up small kiosk in front your house and engage them. They may get favors and return to school

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