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GanagiBitrus:
Leopard Eel.
But you should be more concerned with whether it qualifies as stomach infrastructure.

Everything is protein, go and ask Chinese

Funkybabee:
Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎

I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.

Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.

I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.

Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that

Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing

A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence

You wan go bill am na for this Tinubu regime? No, he is wise but he is a wise jew man. Me i go collect one round for that scattered hair, then show you my empty pocket. You are supposed to be wife material after all, you no suppose vex, na so country dey. Later, we go UN for peace talk

Newton2024:
Pic1: Mango farm in Egypt

Pic2: Orange farm in Israel

The two countries are desert lands.

Fulani janjaweedds and the Fulani herders will use there stupid cows and terrorists to destroy everything. Nigeria is not workable with the current arrangement. Let herders have there country and produce enough cows to feed the whole world while others have farms and produce food. Oil is a curse on the Niger royal company aka the zoo. May renewable come fast and dismantle the nonsense.

rottable:
Good Day Niairalanders,

I am caught in a dilemma currently. I am currently working for a top telecom agency as a sales agent. The job is extremely demanding (monday-sunday). Although the salary is not much, I have been able to sustain my family with it because of some tips I get there.

I recently secured another job in tech which is what I have passion for and less demanding with future hope of something better but with a lower salary

Should I forfeit a known for unknown which I don't know the outcome yet or just continue with the job I have less interest in?

I am confused now because Nigeria's economy is not smiling. I need help please 🙏🙏🙏

Wait after PEPT judgment. You know what I am meant.

Love56743:
Only a fool will think tinubu can be kick out of Aso rock, them nor born any justice well to remove tinubu from office

Pls who knows if this PEPT judgment dey bet9ja?

Jostoman:
Na tomorrow we go no wether our constitution is useful or useless.

Which constitution, you are wasting your time.. Constitution is dead on arrival. Nothing dey come out... Nigeria is gone

enemybulldozer:
Why is my spirit telling me that, this was staged all in a bid to link IPOB with criminal elements and by so doing hold Kanu for a longer time. The idiot is even holding a police Ak47 rifle, this alone proves me right.

You know Nigeria has lite brains especially the two most stupid regions.

Adeneeyee84:
Useless POS operators make una use this opportunity to increase una charges again for us for this two days.........

Yes I support everybody to join hands with Tinubu to make Nigeria unhabitable

fuckingAyaya:
Ronaldinho has gat some explanations to make like seriously, omo 😳

Away match

At this point, I sm not expecting any good thing from Nigeria. It's going to be a miracle for Nigeria to return to normal

TyroneP:
You know all those stories you read online and you say, ‘eiyahh, stories that touch.” Hmm, my sister, that is my story, o!

This man, yes, I will refer to him as this man. When I met him years back, I was already working and driving a small car, you know those Picantos that flooded Lagos in those days? Yes, I was one of those who owned one. I was lucky to have landed a good job but aside from that, na sharp Ibo babe I be na, I know how to do market well.
I started a shuttle bus business on the side; for a church. I got my younger brother to run it for me. After about two years, we got another one; at this time, my husband and I had begun to court, he was doing business in Dubai then.
Then Dubai was a very hot destination for Nigerians and I honestly thought his business was doing good.

What was he doing? Buying and selling na? What else? All kinds of stuff; computer parts, female wears…stuff, sha!
Ok, when the matter got to the point of Marriage, he went to know my people in the village. They met with his, you know the rest how these things are, we had our Igba kwu and church. A few years later the kids began to come, we have five children!
Along the line, his business just began to crumble and this happens when you are fraudulent; you cannot sustain good business on fraud, you just can’t!

To be honest, I began to suspect he wasn’t doing genuine business shortly after we got married. He was dodgy about certain things, certain monies coming in, you know, I would ask him for certain papers and he was quite dodgy about them. I decided to mind my own business, after all he had been doing his thing before we met, so which one be my own?
I also knew I had to separate my business from him. I continued to use my maiden name in all my transactions on my own business.

Then he ran into customs wahala in Dubai, his goods were seized and that marked the end of things for him. Naturally as his wife, I encouraged him to be positive, I told him he had to get the right papers, organize his business in such a way that he would not raise red flags every time he passes through customs.
At that time, my job and businesses were thriving, I had five buses in my fleet, I had two schools and the church as clients; also, I had already bought a land from doing cooperative in my office.

Now, that land was bought with the mind that at least, I would be able to give my sons something to inherit. Land is a surer investment; transport business is good but buses always run down, break down, need fixing with you spending money…you get?
So, I first got a piece of land which I bought in my maiden name. That one became wahala for oga at home. He hala me tire, we had long quarrels. He wanted me to put his name on the papers for the land, me kwa, I refused, instead I put the name of my first son; we have three boys and two girls.

I then purchased a second land, again I used my second son’s name….I was just doing business as per say, e dey my blood and this job may not last. I wanted something to retire to as well; I am not the type of woman who waits for a man to provide everything for her and in a way, yes, I wanted to support my husband’s hustle, if he was unable to provide for us, would I fold my arms but no bi say make I kuku carry the load of provision for my head.

But even before the wahala of his business, I was paying school fees, rent, fueling our gen, paying house helps, lesson teacher, driver…Nne, I was Mrs Man in the house o!
Things got bad and my husband just became a degenerate!
You know, he would faff around and go to the club in the evening and come back at past 3am! Biko which kind wahala be dis?
So, I decided to help out, na, isn’t that what a good wife should do?
I swear, I regret it to date!

What did I do? I asked my brother, who I run the businesses with, I mean the one who manages the fleet of buses and over sees the new business we began, to allow my husband to join him, so at least he would have a sense of responsibility, instead of him parading night clubs like a male prostitute!
Abi? As he goes to clubs, no bi my money e dey go spend there?

Husband joined my brother and after a few weeks, na so so complain e dey complain; my brother did this, my brother did that, wahala every day… ol Gehl, I had to ask my brother to leave!
Because the quarrels were everyday and for my peace of mind, I just begged my brother, biko move to the other things we are doing; I asked him to focus fully on the nylon business we had just begun because all I heard every day was my husband complaining and my brother calling to tell me to tell my husband to back off!

Hummn. My sister like I told you, I still had my job and I had five children to raise, so my mind was most times not on the bus business or nylon business.
Then under my husband, who claimed he was helping me save cost that my brother was squandering, the buses would develop fault more often than before; yes, during my brother’s time, the buses too had problems, so it wasn’t a new thing for me.

The difference was that the cost of maintenance skyrocketed! My husband fired the old drivers and hired new ones then he would bring mechanics and his new drivers to me and they would complain about this and that and ask me to bring huge sums of money. At first, I would just sign the cheques for payment of these parts but after like six months, I began to document the things being repaired.
It was just on a hunch; I discovered I was being fleeced by the drivers and mechanics…they were fixing the same things they claimed had been fixed earlier.

Na every six months dem dey repair fuel pump? Gear box? Shocks?
I vexed, one day, I accused one of them of being a thief and cursed him and told him because of this thing he did to me God would punish him. Do you know what the man told me? He said, ‘Madam, na your husband dey do am, na hin tell us to increase price then he will pocket it!’
Nne, I shock but to be sincere, I no too shock because my brother had said the same thing months back.
The driver dropped the bus key and stopped working for us.
So, I had to call my brother, I told him and he told me some of the drivers had called him to tell him the same thing but that he didn’t want to ruin my marriage so he kept quiet after the first time he told me.

Chineke! I said which marriage? Marriage that I had been the one managing since the day we got married. I paid the rents, paid the hospital bills for delivery of all five children, paid the maids, the drivers, bought the land and…and yet he squanders what he gets on ashis at clubs! Abi you think I don’t know that he meets with ashis? Or is he meeting his aunties at the club?
Biko shift o!

I told my brother, enough is enough!
So, I am telling you the same, I no do again… to your tent o Israel!

Nigeria Series written and edited by Peju Akande and based on true stories

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/chai-my-husband-has-been-doing-me-yahoo-yahoo/

Madam hear say guy man dey Dubai rush go marry am in order to upgrade but waiting she ordered no be waiting she got now she is claiming victim, fear this gender. She wanted to yahoo the guy if at all she didn't initially now the guy come dey yahoo back she come dey vex. Nonesense and ingredients. You no see Nigerian man marry na Atiku you dey find.

GanagiBitrus:
Pls contact Animal Welfare Board & hand over to them ASAP.



No vex, I think say na UK I dey.

Akwaibom ayaya

Tboymessiah:
Let me ask you this question,
What if a girl told u that after her parent made some consultation, they were told the man (whom she want to marry ) is not good for her,

but she never left the same man that was not good for, and anytime these same man don't have money to give her she always frown face with moody Body language...

What advise can u give these my street brother.

Since the parents don't want you, let her remain friends with benefits to you... Use her as a stress removal and don't let her attach to much to you in order not to prevent other women into your life. Fact is if a girl loves you much, she won't care what the parents says but since, she takes what the parents says serious, let her remain a fuxk mate till eternity and always remind her what her parents says whenever she wants to play victim.

OkodiDenzel:
We are destroying when we haven't created one?

Why not auction them or give them to teenagers to convert them to some other uses. I mean think about repurposing

Punishment mustn't be about destroying things.

People saying the world doesn't work like that, who is making the rules?

With all the ones LASG has destroyed so far, much hasn't changed still. Tells you this is not the ultimate solution.

Because it's okada, what if it was trailer or luxury bus that disobeyed traffic rules or ply where they are not allowed to, would crushing them also be considered?

When the stupid man was doing that nonsense in rivers, abokis and janjaweedds were hailing him... Now it's there turn. Moral story, never support evil because it usually comes back around. Stupid people in government

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

LOL, yes you have the experience

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

Ofunaofu:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/09/100-days-in-office-tinubus-on-right-track-nigeriansll-soon-reap-benefits-of-his-reforms-adedeji/amp/

Nonsense

Usefulsense:
To be honest with you, the plan is for the entire family to migrate.

In fact, i did my ielts last year and made 7,7, 7.5, 7

As soon as our visa grant came out, I started developing cold feet on account of age.

She has advised that I go and learn forklift driving.
I will commence that this month.

Bro go to Australia... Tinubu don't have any plan for you. I know you are missing Nigerian food and the abundance of big nyash but family is important. Find a way to go and come back if you will Nigeria too much

Wodu89:
You will receive satanic advice that will scatter what you've been building privately. Oga travel and explore, see the world. Refuse to the caged. You can't earn lower than Nigeria in Aussie, not even it's equals. So why stalling ?

I don't understand the simp... How comfortable he is without his wife in a slave company and country? I suspect one small girl is holding him hostage here with either big nyash or jazz. Wife is so clean to encourage him to come over and he is reluctant. May be he is sick and depending on natural Nigeria herbs, that i understand sha but don't bother if another ganja man take over your role in za oza room. The main thing is to be happy and do whatever works for you

Abifarin16:
If you want peace prepare for war. They cannot drop weapons ooo.

That's why they can't drop the weapons

Abifarin16:
Israel did not disown their own yes. In every conflict one party always feel more grieved than the other. Besides this is bias reporting, nobody reported how the Israeli was greeted back at home and again it might not be a religious thing because a lot of Jews are not Christians. It might not be religious.
Russia is till mad at USA for the Cold War and USSR dismantlement. They may not be are rash as this but it still exist.

I hear when Isreal talks... They make it very clear that they want peace. The individuals clearly give examples that if Palestinian or neighbors drop there weapons today, nobody will attack them but should Israel drops weapons today they will be attacked the next day and Israel will seize to exist. Well, let the party that is aggrieved say what the problem is clearly.

Bobloco:


•Lose almost 100%

•As Tunisian Dinar, Libyan Dinar, others emerge top strongest African currencies




https://sunnewsonline.com/concerns-as-naira-emerges-worst-performing-african-currency-in-3-months/?amp

Bulaba is an idiot

Abifarin16:
They have an age old feud. You want to tell me your parents have never told you, OCCFx you see that our neighbors pikin I no want make you ever go there house again I no like them.

Parents do that but that's not my business unless with genuine risk. As human being, I try to be human as possible as I can. My parents feud with his fellow men or women is not my business. I came alone and will be buried alone. With no genuine risk associated with not visiting my neighbors or greeting them, I won't care. The sportsman just did that and they disowned him. If I be him, I will disown them too, change religion and change nationality. Any things that will hold you ransom, hostage or deny you freedom is not of God. To tell you which religion is better, Isreal did not disown there own, they don't have problems with making peace or shaking hands with the enemy... Thats natural human beings but you see the wicked ones dishing out punishment to the innocent man just because, of handshake. #Islamarebad

AllenSpencer:
And some people still believe God created us all!

The truth is that, the devil was also creating his own kind same time God was doing, but it wasn't documented.

With the heart and conscience of some human, it is easy to deduct that, we were not all created from one source.

I don dey reason this matter... Look like devil came to earth to create his own too

foleskay:

Lol. No wonder the Europeans incorporated israel into UEFA football sports and tournaments. I cant imagine Israel,Iran,Iraq Saudi and afgan playing in d same football qualifiers. Na bombs go dey fly everywhere on d pitch.

This is why I always justify any actions of israel against palestine. Its like a lion in d middle of hyneas, eternal enemies. They must always be at alert. D Bible is truly a Living word. All thses happening now has been for seen by bible over 4k years ago. Damnnn

Isreal no dey take chances, it's eye for an eye. The only language the janjaweedds understands

TemplarLandry:
What wrong has he done by exhibiting the spirit of sportsmanship?
Very very hostile set of people.

ISLAM are bad....

fergie001:
SOURCE: AFP

If you hear a drum of war and you come out see say na yoruba man, just go back to sleep

Anitatunde:
Part 5 and Final.




1 week to my release date, I received various death threats from all corners. The prison warden which I slept with also started acting crazy.

The guy think say prison na my house because he was sad and convinced me to stay back, abi you Dey mad ni Omo prison warden.

How do you expect me to give up my freedom and chose to stay in prison. Since the threats was coming left and right, I had to personally request to be moved to a different prison. But it was bounced.

The night to my release was the longest night. I couldn’t sleep all night because I don’t know what’s next for me. I stayed up all night.

Finally it was day break, 6am sharp, I was called up after doing all paper works and stuff. I booked a flight straight to MMIA Lagos from my savings in prison + other money at hand.

I was to be deported immediately. Police men took me to the airport like a celebrity, stayed with me till my flight was due.

They watched me enter the ✈️. I smiled and told one of the guys “I will be back”.

The story is longer than this but I had to summarize everything. I learnt a lot of lessons in my time in Tanzania, nobody loves Nigerians. They might like our music and movies but the hatred for Nigerians is very real.

Stay safe, stay blessed and be wise. Thanks for reading. Feel free to tag nairaland mods.

So na so 30m take kpai... Yea, Nigeria is not a country its just an assemble ground and we export the worst characters in the world

vyncentino:
well some of you are probably,below 30 so you didn't experience,military regime,because if you do you not talk like this,check your history or Google how Nigeria was before military regime,especially before 1984 buhari took over,see in military regime just know you don't vote your leader o, they appoint to you who ever they like,and you don't argue with them,if you questions their leadership style,the kill the person,nobody can do anything about it o,no courts of justice o,
Every player in the military regime in Nigeria is a millionaire today till date, they all crumble Nigeria economy to their individual pucket, the only man who didn't steal public money
is buhari, that is why he came back as civilians and crumble Nigeria economy,what he fail to do 1984,in military regime you can't carry some hair style o or girl wearing trousers hmm
You guys don know any thing poverty was the other of the day you can't insult the president o even on social media,no freedom

This life is stage by stage... That Era is gone. If military fuckkk up, rebels and terrorists will rise up and fight them. One thing Africa don't know is that evil does not last long na why oyibo decided to fix there country to benefit everybody to avoid chaos and war. Democracy in Africa is dead on arrival... Military rule too, won't work unless they decide to play nice game. In the end, we go dey alright

bestman09:
He said the truth. I'm married for 23 years now and I know it's not bread and butter

Especially if money no dey

flipboss:
Gibberish and ingredients

Nonesense and element

Pierocash:
Jokers. Your security outfit should remain only in the North West. I trust the South Eastners, don't go close to that place with your cows and your security terrorist outfit e get why

Only south east understands the janjaweedds and there games.