₦airaland Forum

Maximus85:
A man asked his wife to refund the money he gave her to cook soup because he said the soup didn't taste the way he expected?

Is he justified or just pure wickedness?

Your opinions please.

wisemum:
I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.

My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out.

He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all.

He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker.

Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail.

He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.

aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

Gullah:
What a fight!! Very exciting from beginning to the end. One thing is clear though, Anthony Joshua will have his head taken off any day he steps in the ring with either of these two guys

KingAttitude:
�Black fighters are being defeated back to back this year, something must be wrong somewhere: Wetin pain me pass be say 3 of them are Nigerians!
�
• Israel Adesanya.
• Anthony Joshua.
• Efe Ajagba.
• Deontay Wilder.

Tpave:
Her car broke down and couldn't start that morning according to her and I travelled.
It was a big mistake on her side for taking such decision.
That's not the issue now, I just asked if there could be a way to recover it?

anonymous1759:

Looking like a fixed match to me if Tyson Fury losses his WBC to his next opponent I’ll conclude it’s all fake.
It'll be obvious the boxing world don’t want the Belts to be unified.

SmartPolician:
Lazy Nigerian journalists have run out of ideas.
Coming from Sahara Reporters, I am so disappointed. Even Buhari knows that any move to extend his stay beyond 2023 will facilitate the end of Nigeria. Nigeria is one of the world's most unstable countries.

IgweBUIKE1:
abeg tell me wetin de special about this bonny structure other than the pretty face and the Yankee background? ?una go just open mouth de talk to people anyhow

Canih28:
Reason Brazil at ur own risk
Everything for there na drug drug drug

Homeboiy:
Mugu

Your wife did this , your wife did that

Your wife is giving your troubles because you don’t appreciate her.

You know she’s not good for you and you had sex with her raw.

Oga go back and love your wife

And peace you shall receive

DropsMic:
Lol.... All of a sudden the vaccine no be the mark of the beast again .

Emmhychidi:
When she posted her story she had no right to morality again, we the public have every right to condemn her wrong doing and then proceed to advice her, but the one she is talki6 about texting his wife is more wrong... To prove what... If I am the man I would just lie...

And please advise to the man; go do DNA test when the child is born. It may be for another person...

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice
Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

SarkinYarki:
Same situation ...the plane was still not the ground with it's engines off...I am still guessing this happened in a Nigerian Airport ...there is currently a shortage of ground Auxiliary Power Unit in FAAN, once the the jets come on it will cool

Ikpunekenwa:
Okay because another hungry illiterate blogger wrote that it now validates your regulator theorem while compromising mine.

Did I see you write that the plane was still bound to be airborne? Yes I saw it, did I say anything about a plane not having the AC on until airborne? Yes I said that, because of what? Because some planes need all the power they turbine if it is a turbofan engines can provide to go airborne and when in its cruising attitude can then switch on every temperature control appliances of the plane.
Show me an example or evidence of an airplane that is airborne that the cli ate control/Ac is not running.

Most of these bloggers turn noting into news to gain my patronage from lazy people like who are too myopic and short sighted to do their own elaborate research.

Ikpunekenwa:
Is there anything called a regulator in a plane?
Stop confusing yourself.

SarkinYarki:
Which aircraft was it ? Make we even start from there so I can tell u what you experienced

davodyguy:
When did he come to Nigeria to prostrate to the president?

Where in Nigeria did this happen?

Mftivi:
What excuse does PWC one of the worlds biggest audit firm have for helping a firm cook their books resulting in a $300 billion dollars fraud ? Or you didn’t see the news ? Cos e dey hot like this. It’s only news that paints Nigerians as the worst that you like ? Emancipate yourself from mental slavery.

Mftivi:
tell us the number naa, you said we all know the number of Nigerians doing fraud in the US only for you to bring the article about just one doctor. So there are no whites there that are into fraud too ? Do you not see what Nigerians are able to achieve over there ? leading in different sectors. You are a bloody hypocrite most of you in this country are bloody hypocrites and that's why this country will remain like this for long. A good government providing jobs will not fully eradicate fraud but it will reduce it drastically and that's no rocket science! You would rather assume that many Nigerians will be into fraud even if Jobs and an enabling environment were provided because they are greedy than blame the government for providing no jobs. You are a bloody hypocrite and shame unto you and people like you who can't tell themselves the truth. Shame unto you! Let government provide that Job first then let's see truly if Nigerians are naturally greedy and fraudulent until those jobs are provided you have no right to make such claims. Spit on you Moda foka!

Folabifreeman:
Guess what?

I've been speaking English all my life and no British man has made a video to show off.

Nonsense and Femi Fani-Kayode

Decentdave:
I dnt really blame the youth doing fraud..u see what Buhari government has caused.check out most of them are graduates oo

Dozis:
Okay, that's the justification for calling him brainless.

Dozis:
I support him, I will do more than that.
How can you say someone has no brain?

SarkinYarki:
It's Technically not possible to be hot when Yiu plane crosses 20 thousand feet , infact the aircraft has to regulate the Temperature if not you will even freeze

SarkinYarki:
They will not tell you the plane was on the ground....No ground Auxiliary Power Unit in place and onboard APU not working ...Once the jet engines are started the plane will cool

chatinent:
Commot eye for your niece, baba.

This is Nigeria!

chatinent:
So how does his brother or sister, her parent, feel about this?

Incest is so much these days.

Make parents dey dey careful with their children now o. Some children are opened to be stupid while some have standby pedophiles who don't mind making them useless.

The rate of moral decadence is so alarming.

TheGiftedOne:
Of all kind of relationship, its an incestuous one this failed Brazilian footballer chose. Spits! Inbreeding is morally, scientifically and spiritually bad!

paulolee:
this guy wey sabi score insane long range shots n bully players with his physique..
congrats to him sha bt why his niece na? he is rich, tall n handsome n gat nice physique dt can win any bea heart, why his niece na?
maybe Brazil tradition accepts it but its kinda strange to hear..
my papa say "d worst tin to do in dis life is to criticize wat u don't understand or wat u av no idea about"
congrats to d lovely looking couple..

Kingcalls:
Y do u messi minions lie alot... u people are so deluded...extremely deluded