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Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 11:14am On Mar 15, 2021
Lifepodcastng:
I honestly do not mistake you for an atheist, I just think you might be a lil off the line and likely to fall if you don’t put your self back in the faith. God didn’t make us to be our own gods. Being gods is the decision mankind made in the inception. Everyone must be tested to reveal their true nature just as job was tested to reveal his true nature. Don’t think bc you’re getting the result means you’re on the right path. Not every result is positive, the evil minded person sees a negative result as positive too. Now before you’ll question why you think God hasn’t answered your prayers, you must first ask yourself what kinda leaguers have you been praying? Do you pray realistically or do you pray unrealistically? Some pray for money, others pray for car while others pray for even more ephemeral things, do you understand those are man made things and only man can give himself that? God gives you something more precious than that. God cares more about your soul than he cares about your body so you have to factor that every time you await your answers. Are those things going to lead you away from the path of life? If yes, why then should God give you? Just imagine now, you’ve been stepping away and falling away from reality bc you think you’ve been getting answers, what if this is why God didn’t answer in the first place bc you’ll fall away? Still you thought God didn’t do right by you and became your own god, creating a subjective reality where you can do no wrong so now you’re bending the rules to suit this subjective reality by stating that God made you to be god. This is not so bro. Find your path back to life, start seeing life more holistically and not target reality on your limited perception. We all have limited perception of the reality so we must always factor that into our existence.
Your answers is no difference from what every pastor, preacher, evangelist gave. The idea of me asking unrealistic things is laughable, I'm not a baby to asked for irrelevance things. If I do a legit work and not an illegal work and get results there's nothing EVIL ABOUT.
what are the things that will lead me away from the path of righteousness? You have no idea of what I asked for, things don't take away my conscience, so the excuse of "If given I might be lead away" is baseless.

I didn't declare myself a God, I simply work towards my needs instead of asking for it.
If you asked your father as a wealthy man for your first semester school fees and he refused, you failed your exams due to your inability to pay your fee. The same thing happens 2nd semester, his excuses are "it's not the right time to pay your school fee"... you decide not to ask him anymore, you hustle for your own money and pay your fee.... What crime have you committed against him?
Romance › Re: Man Caught Masturbating In Commercial Bus Beats Woman Who Filmed Him by Offpoint1: 7:59am On Mar 15, 2021
femi4:
It was public too, you probably haven't seen the video.
I'm not here stand with him or against him, I'm here for his own side of the story before I pass my judgment.

I'm not interested in his pasts.
Romance › Re: Man Caught Masturbating In Commercial Bus Beats Woman Who Filmed Him by Offpoint1: 7:25am On Mar 15, 2021
femi4:
you must be a learner. The uber driver's video that was out last month, he used nothing
Do you spot the difference?

Public
Private
Romance › Re: Man Caught Masturbating In Commercial Bus Beats Woman Who Filmed Him by Offpoint1: 7:18am On Mar 15, 2021
femi4:
Watch it in slow mo
I don't need to... Nobody wants in a public bus without tissues or hankie.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 7:15am On Mar 15, 2021
unmask:
I think I am in the same boat as you. A lot of christians and muslims are afraid to challenge things and they suffer for it

Me from a young age I have always questioned. From the day I saw a pastor selling an audio tape at almost 2000% profit because he sang the songs I knew something was wrong
There are a lot of questions bothering them which they are too afraid to ask and too afraid to give an honest answers.

There are too many irregularities in the world and regards religion itself.
Family › Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1: 7:10am On Mar 15, 2021
JustforMen:
you are truly OffPoint, my brother! grin grin grin grin
on a more serious note, life has a purpose. it may not be clear to all but there is a purpose if you are willing to ask the 'why questions'
Like I stated earlier, it's a fact humans don't want to accept.
I'll throw same question I thrown at everyone who quoted regarding life having a purpose, unfortunately none of them replied.

Tell me what purpose of life is...
Romance › Re: What Can A Woman Do In This Situation? by Offpoint1: 10:25pm On Mar 14, 2021
There categories of lustful men, kindly state the category you want us to discuss.

Are we to discuss the ones their wives actions pushed them into lust?

Are we to discuss those influenced by bad friends?

Are we to discuss those influenced by their job nature?

Are we to discuss the irredeemable ones?

Are we to discuss the addicts with high uncontrollable libido?

The category they fall in will determine solution and contribution I can give.

Praying for a cheat to change is like giving him/her a FULL license to go on cheating spree.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Consider Dating As Cheating... by Offpoint1: 10:15pm On Mar 14, 2021
The urge to sell my smartphone and go live in an isolated Island alone is getting stronger on daily basis and Nairaland is fueling it the more.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 10:13pm On Mar 14, 2021
mayor02:
God might not want you to go to school yet. Learn a skill, or grow your business and become a multi millionaire You forced yourself to school, when you come out looking for jobs and didn’t see one for years. Then you will blame God again.
Read your answers again, does it make any sense to you? I'm referring to a teenager here and not an adult.
Family › Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1: 9:34pm On Mar 14, 2021
Nuttella:
Are you trying to say that you are more intelligent than all the people who said they have purpose in life?

Ask God to reveal your purpose here on earth to you.
I'm not here to compare or compete intelligence, neither am I here to insult nobody. I'm here to state the obvious truth which is impossible to accept by humans.

I'll appreciate you tell what you think purpose of life is, I'm eagerly interested in your thoughts and answers.

Don't mistake my general terms of LIFE PURPOSE to individual life purposes, still I'll need your answers for both.
Travel › Re: Buses In Toronto Canada Vs Lagos Nigeria (Video) by Offpoint1: 9:27pm On Mar 14, 2021
Lol, those who have not visited Lagos before will be highly disappointed after they do and realize the hypes
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 9:13pm On Mar 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I was being reasonable even when I said what I did of sin and the assumption that because Paul declared in His letter that all HAVE sinned, somehow it is ok to continue sinning.
I'm going to ask the big question... WHAT IS SIN?
I need your own answer of what sin is.

(My prediction to your answers: "Disobeying God"wink
Family › Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1:
Nuttella:
If your life doesn't have purpose, mine have purpose.
like I clearly stated, it's a fact humans not don't want to accept. If I ask what the purpose of your life is, you'll give an answer millions had given... That's the illusion you're living with.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 9:03pm On Mar 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
According to the teachings of Jesus Christ, work refers to the individual acts of accepting(trusting) and obeying(action) the commandments/teachings of Jesus Christ, the New Covenant. undecided
Faith is a collection of the works done by you following the lead by the Spirit of God i.e. the Will of God. undecided
Who does your explanation of WORK correlate with my work I'm referring here? I'm talking about work known by every human, that little you do to get a reward afterwards....that's the work I'm referring to do. What does trusting, accepting and obeying have to do with physical work?
Family › Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1: 8:58pm On Mar 14, 2021
Ayo13945:
I will have to disagree if you say life has no Purpose; that there is no meaning to any of this; it also means that: THE STATEMENT "LIFE HAS NO PURPOSE" IS ALSO A MEANINGLESS STATEMENT SO NO ONE SHOULD TAKE IT SERIOUSLY.
You can only disagree by presenting to me a reasonable life's purpose.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 8:55pm On Mar 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I never brought in the idea that prayer is not answered as a result of sins. In fact, I don't buy that reasoning because it is not based on what Jesus Christ Himself, the one who defines what sin is, taught His disciples.

Excuse me for thinking out loud for a moment....

* When we ask for forgiveness, God does not forgive us some of our sins, but all of them. So when God has forgiven me all of my sins, why then would God immediately penalize me(refuse to answer my requests) because of Sins He has already forgiven me for? undecided

* Yeah, there is more to it than the claim that it is because of sin. And if sin, should I know which sin it is? I mean there are only about 46 commandments in total in the New Covenant, the Law as far as the Kingdom of Heaven is concerned, so it doesn't help to arbitrarily claim that my requests were denied because of sin? undecided

* If I accept(trust) and obey the teachings of Jesus Christ yet I continue to wonder why God has yet to give me the ice-cream I asked Him for 2 weeks ago, it makes no sense to conclude that sin is the reason for the delay given I already obey His teachings and according to Him, that means I am free from sin. undecided
Now you're talking reasonably
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 6:51pm On Mar 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
HAVE- past tense!

Sin is disobedience of the commandments/teachings of Jesus Christ- He is the New Covenant that defines what is sin as far as the Kingdom of Heaven is concerned. And according to Jesus Christ, those who are sinners are slaves to sin but those who choose to accept(trust) and obey His teachings are those who are declared Sons of God for they are made free from sin as a result of their Obedience. John 8

Now, according to the same Jesus Christ, it is those who are Sons of God that abide in Him(they obey His commandments) and He and His Father will abide in. John 15

So what does it profit a one who claims to believe in Jesus Christ that he chooses to continue to live in sin by hi refusal to accept(trust) and obey the teachings/commandments of Jesus Christ.
The Topic discussed was on prayer and faith, in the cause of discussion you brought in the lines of prayers not being answered because of sins (as expected) you have no idea why and what the reason for unanswered prayer was.

I don't wanna drag on as long as you're too afraid to answer my questions.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 6:21pm On Mar 14, 2021
RuddyFusion:
That's not the only thing I said....The facts remains that the prayer of a sinner is an abomination before God.....

The scriptures said...Watch and pray.....watch pray and watch.....

Prayers works , infact it's the only thing that works because God is a prayer answering God...
Lol, remember this verse "For we've ALL sinned and fall short of God's glory"?

The "Watch and pray" verse you're making emphasis on, have you read read the whole chapter? Do you know what context that emphasis was made on/about?
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 6:16pm On Mar 14, 2021
Samunique:
What solution are talking about?

To provide vaccine ?
You know the solution I'm talking about... Vaccines should be expected from scientists and not church.
Family › Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Offpoint1:
Just marry an understanding woman and save yourself this epistle. An understanding woman who truly love you would find joy in spending her last penny to support you both in courtship and marriage.

The youths of nowadays are after women with big asses, boobs, fine faces and all sorts of physical appearance and the end result is wailing and whining.

Big asses/boobs and artificial beauty ladies believe they have an asset every man wants, so dating them feels like they're doing you a favor. They've exchanged their senses with their "assets"
Romance › Re: Bodybuilder Who Married Sex Doll Gets New Wife - Massive Chicken With Human Head by Offpoint1: 5:48pm On Mar 14, 2021
This guy needs psychological help, same with all gays.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 5:41pm On Mar 14, 2021
specialmati:
hmmmm i dont know what to say again but what if He was directing you to people you must have meet.alot of orphans are in school and people are sponsoring them.
I don't like engaging people regarding God, your mindset towards God differs from mine, I won't force you to have same mindset with me... Practice what works for you.
Family › Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1: 5:36pm On Mar 14, 2021
Firstnebo:
If this is where Atheism gets you, tell me one reason why you are fighting religion?
Atheism?
Fighting religion?

Please take me where I was practicing atheism or fighting religion... If my memory has failed me, kindly take me there or make references.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 5:33pm On Mar 14, 2021
specialmati:
now i see your angle. You are a Christian as i can see my sympathy for your lost.its well.in deed God is faithful. Let me start by hailing you for praying for 10years without working. You tried but after 10years you stoped praying and got to work. Boom result start coming. Now what it means is that God have answered your prayers the first day you seek his face in praying but since you are ignorant of the fact that you have to do something you didnt see the result.i told you any prayer that leaves 100% responsibility is wrong. Now after praying for 10 years on a this particular issue you now start working and result start coming. Thank God you worked God is not going to come down to earth and work the work you are meant to do.so seeing that you prayed and now work is still God because the bible said He is the one that giveth us power to make wealth. You went through a wilderness experience but you didnt learn anything. His God his ways are not our ways after praying to him for 10 years you now give up on him.prayer is a communication between you and God when you pray listen to hear his voice for direction. Maybe be He would have been telling you what to do all these 10years but since you dont listen you must have been wanting it to be done your own way.God is not a man go back to him in prayer with thanksgiving.if i tell you my own story you will run to God and tell him how sorry you are for thinking its by your own strength beloved.shalom
Lol, so in your defense to God answer is I should have started hard labour job at 14, so that was God answers to my prayers that I didn't heargrin
Very interesting answers from yougrin
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 5:05pm On Mar 14, 2021
Samunique:
Church didn't force you to wear a face mask , government did .

Alright ?
If church or mosque provided solutions, there would had been no need for government to imposed the order.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 5:02pm On Mar 14, 2021
specialmati:
grin grin grin grin grin grin now am getting your point you think you working is even by you own power. grin grin grin grin chai,do you see how we think sometime .we think we work because we gat the strength to work. God is the one that give you the strength to even work don't forget that grin grin grin grin grin
Very weak point of approach, I'm not here to talk about giver of strength, if to go that path there will be unending topics... We're talking about prayers and faith here.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 4:59pm On Mar 14, 2021
specialmati:
ok sorry if i didnt give you what you want can you just tell me one of those things that are relevant so i can give you a straight answer on that.the world is too big
Let me give you a more "relevant" scenario.

As a person you loss your parents at your teenage when you were preparing for your higher institution, their death halted that ambition because they were to be your sponsor.
You prayed for a miracle, for a sponsor to show up. You've been dedicated and fervent in your prayers for 10 years and nothing happens. You woke up to reality that prayers aren't making no difference, you quit praying and start working towards sponsoring yourself, you did all kinds of hard labours, saved to achieve your ambitions, after 2 years of rigorous hard labours and saving... You take on your ambition and got your ambition... Can you you attribute this success to prayers or to your hard works? Please be honest and sincere.
Family › Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1: 4:43pm On Mar 14, 2021
Hedonini:
I agree with everything except that your last paragraph isn't the whole truth. Enjoyment is as real as suffering... In the moment. If enjoyment is an illusion, then suffering (including delayed gratification) is also an illusion.

It then follows that in this grand, meaningless, illusory existence of ours, it only makes sense to choose the most pleasurable illusion available to you.... Which is enjoyment!
Are you truly "enjoying" either rich or bro?
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 4:41pm On Mar 14, 2021
RuddyFusion:
This is to the extreme....


The scriptures never asked us to just pray and not work.....God works and while Jesus was on earth he worked all the time....

The scriptures said Watch and.pray that's the instructions...

Prayers works....and it has worked for me and still working...

You won't get answers if you're sinning

You won't get answers if you don't BELIEVE....you must believe and you must be a believer.....


Having said that let me give you few instances...

I resigned from my previous work place at the thick of Covid19 ...

Then had many interviews got to the final stages for 95% of those yet offers weren't coming...I had near offer issues .

I got tired, ingore some invite and then went to God I prayers ..

In fact I joined a deliverance session and within the same week I had two offers

By the end of that month, I had more offers

Offers with good pay and flexible working conditions that I was able to combine two of those....

And more kept coming that I have to turn them down

God answers prayers ...pray right and HE WILL ANSWER
I know I'll get the usual lines "my prayers wasn't answered because of sins" but if I ask what was that sins I won't get an answer.


Why should you pray and work? Where is the God factor in that if your work for it?
Christianity Etc › Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Offpoint1: 4:36pm On Mar 14, 2021
specialmati:
ggg
I asked for honest answers, but you're too afraid to give one. I lost interest in reading your when I start getting a familiar analogy of 6 years old. I'm not a baby to ask for irrelevant things or things I don't need at a time.

You've been very crafty with your answers and I am used to your kind of answers. I needed something different, but I know you'll be too afraid to give.
Family › Re: My Lazy Girlfriend Lacks Ambition And She's Pregnant For Me!!! by Offpoint1: 4:21pm On Mar 14, 2021
She lack ambition and yet you still had an erection.
Business › Re: Zugacoin: Nigerian Cryptocurrency To Be Used To Buy Innoson Vehicles, Others by Offpoint1: 4:08pm On Mar 14, 2021
Let me goan stock pile it up...

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