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specialmati:
am trying to understand you sha.the bible said faith without work is dead.now any prayer you prayed that has 100% dependent and responsibility on God is not a good prayer.there is always a part that we are to play.for example am married and i need a child from God i shouldnt go and be praying to God without meeting with my wife. if i fail to meet my wife apart praying how can she get pragnant.am asking God for a job and i stay in my room praying from now till next year without applying for a job how will God now answer my prayer.hope you have not giving up on God in prayer because thats the tool of every believer.beside where did you get your analysis on people serving God out of fear of hell.hmmmm nawaooo.dont stop praying it will take satan 10-20 to attack your prayer life once that is achieved he will strike.how do you communicate with God self.jesus said paly without season.there is a reason he said so dont listen to satan and think you are wiser by not praying satan is a smart guy you cant win him

Let paint 3 scenarios and I need your HONEST answer.

1. I prayed for something, no results
2. I worked for something, I got a results.
3. I prayed and I worked for something, I got results.

Study this 3 scenarios carefully and give your Honest opinion on scenario 3

APC physicians, they want to take away the last source of joy to us.

merieam16:
U cant rule out the place of prayer in as much work is key. At some point in life will always need that G factor be it Grace or God which only prayer can do

Work without faith is dead,so it goes hand in hand

If I will or should ever pray, it should be to seek forgiveness when I know I've done wrong... Not to seek for help or miracles.

Explain work
Explain faith

Too many unanswered prayers, I quit praying and start working more, building myself more, learning more skills and I start getting results and I say what's the point? Everything you prayed for doesn't happen until you work for it... then what's the point of the prayers? If I asked my earthly father's stuffs and he continuously doesn't give me until I work for it, what's the point of asking? let me start working for it since it's more effective than asking for it.

There are too many things we don't want to speak up both Christians and Muslims because we're too afraid of the hell threats... 50% of humans are serving God out of fear of hell, the rest 50% are serving God out of personal greed which is promised of heaven.

If you're down at accident scene with injuries, no amount of prayers will save you if you're not taking to hospital for medical attention
In sickness it's still the same
In needs your fellow humans will be at your mercy when you speak up or when they noticed the signs.

Maybe the Brain behind our existence Left us to our own faith,
Maybe he made us to be our own gods by having each others backs.

I've gotten to the stage I'm no longer afraid to ask questions, I've stopped buying that "you can't question God" lines pastors and preachers had been giving me... I've stopped buying "the portal and clay" analogy. Clay doesn't complain about how the portal mould it because it's an inanimate object with no consciousness... Don't expect me to be like that.

Don't mistake me for an atheist

Gentle0wavez:
So you are saying I should be an Atheist

I'm not asking you to be anything, I'm just pointing something out to you.

Txt

Sorry I can't date, non marry a fat woman no matter how good she's character wise... Reason being I'll end up cheating on her and I don't want that. I can't even date a THICK woman, if you're not naturally slim.. not happening.

I'm not body shaming anyone. We can be friends, business partner and whatever, but relationship is a big fat NO

needanswer:
Polygamy still dey African culture na. If I Marry a second wife while still married to a first is that not cheating of the highest level?

Cheating is having affair with others without your partner knowledge, taking another wife can't be described as such.

Being manipulative isn't intelligence...

If a woman is smarter than you as a man, then you deserve castration.

Abandoning our culture and adopting the western culture is the reason, any other thing you mentioned are irrelevant.

I've read the lady's side of the story, I'll wait for the guy's side of the story before I pass judgement.

There's no evidence of wanking in the video, all I see is a Young Man scratching his balls. As a Man I know how uncomfortable it could be when my balls itches me in public, some can endured not to scratched to avoid being felt embarrassed, but some guys don't care .. they scratched it anywhere.

As for the *hitting* side of the story, after I've witnessed on 2 occasions in a public bus how insultive and rude some ladies are, I've vowed never to defend any of them on the internet unless I was at the scene of the incident.

Only a foolish human pass judgement without hearing from both sides.

Ladies will get emotional on this thread because none of them have balls and understand how it feels when it itches.

Typing

Life has no purpose, the bitter truth humans don't want to accept, we're no different from other animals... We are just fortunate to have a bigger brain and same brain gives that delusion that we are better than other animals because we can create things.

If you spend more time watching nature or NatGeo wild you'll realise not only humans can build/create... A bigger brain is just the difference.


Op forgot about such thing as enjoyment, it's an illusion.

Gentle0wavez:
Do Muslim believe that Jesus Christ is lord, if not then they are unbelievers, that's what I mean.

Do you know you're unbeliever to a Muslim too?

In the Muslim view, you won't go heaven and Christian view, the Muslim guy won't go to heaven.... Do you see the damage of religion here?

If it happens, he should be the first culprit.

maureensylvia:
Offpoint free me lol

God save sef you smile back, if no be so you for know the kind person I be

I've never seen or heard a white pastor accusing another white man/woman of witchcraft or diabolicals....

Here in Africa, we've been brainwashed of imaginary devil and demons are after our wrecked lives.

We inherit poverty from our ancestors and put blame on imaginary demons which some we claimed are within our very own families.


Like I've always said, if God won't speak to me directly or reveal anything to me directly... He shouldn't bother using a third party because it's a waste of time.... I ain't listening to another sinner just because he wears robes and attended some Academy.

maureensylvia:
U won't understand shaa

See! Right now, I'm going to smile at you and I give you 5 seconds to smile back... To make up for that guy

I'm glad I'm introvert, I'm unpredictable.

maureensylvia:
free me lol

He's not going to FREE you, in fact I'm buying the case... If it was Dangote that smiled at you, would you have made that comment?

Naso una dey look down on young hustlers...

I want you to go back to that place and smile back at that guy and told him you were in a bad mood last time.

UyaiIncomparabl:
2 sure odds.

Then village people cut his ticket

G

Viciheaka:
yes after you put the economy, social amenities, all health services in place within the standard of human living if not just pipe down

That's number thing on my agenda...

Every looter will be shot dead on national TV, no prison for them.

Omihanifa:
I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

You're the wife right?

Better, all doctors to his/her own country.

When I become the president, I'll ban all doctors, nurses, engineers, programmers and scientists from relocating from the country. They are free to go on vacations.

Why take a life you can't give?
They're always dumb, the motorcycle will lead to their arrest.

fake news

Wedding a means of people wasting their funds to satisfy others people attention.


When I'm ready, I arrange meeting with both families to seek their blessings and approval, send her village people 1 quarter of what is needed and promise to get back to them and after that babies next... No public nonsense.


And for the village people waiting for me to get back to them, unto them shall my word be like that of a HR to a Nigerian job seeker.

BadRadio:
You have trust issue and u are brave enough to advertise it?

see... u dont need to care much about what a woman does, so long u dont have plans of getting married to her and even if u do then stop the moment she does what u dont like...

I hate it when guys get themselves worked up over women.

Me as long as I'M GETTING LAID, nothing concern with behaviours

saphiere:
My attention has be drawn to a thread on this forum where some Nairaland ladies were marketed for potential husbands and some people wondered why I was not on the list of those marketed.

Listen my fellow nairalanders, good things do not need advertisement before they are sold. And again, ever wondered why Ferraris are not advertised on TVs? That's because those buying Ferraris don't seat to watch TVs. I can't be marketed on this forum because my future hubby can never be from here. God forbid

Consolation

A nagging boss + a nagging wife = suicide