₦airaland Forum

Eriokanmi:
That force is pulling you towards diabetes and high blood pressure. Run!

u think is easy to overcome addiction.pls dear try google professional dt handle such addiction nd read wateva advice they give.also search for stories of pple with similar addiction nd hw they overcame it.maybe dt might help u

3nity7:
you get waffi blood, you supposed know what to do

yes e dey wrk for babes for 2013 but nt indomine generation bae.i no too undastand them.for example if na millennial(2013) bae nack am waffi akpako she go flow well but try am with akpako indomine generatn bae e no dey wrk.i need to be schooled.

3nity7:
when she updates her status, start from there.

but wat if is nt updated her status.or she does but is d same kind of videos pic nd quotes .wat shuld i do

3nity7:
guy calm down. Principles don't change regardless of time, and the red pill doesn't teach you how to get women. It teaches you how to maximize your masculinity

love to ask hw do i chatup with lady on watsapp i jux only want friendship.i still go blank

peanutbutterr:
baba narrative has changed. back then women were not money inclined rather they were more interested in knowing you as a person, but now once they sense the nigga is still struggling, na monosyllabic word then go dey use for you. those creatures are very sentimental sha.

is like is dt bad .

i have a problem .to collect a lady number is nt a problem .but to start chatting up them for watsapp nd start ssducing them is a big problem.u said in ur part 1 that you chat with a lady like she ur gf .have tried it but still go blank.kindly help me in this area of chatting a nigeria lady nd seducing them

oikirodah:
Opinion: Peter Obi Show Us Your Real Face By Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah


Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah is the Chairman and CEO of Bush Radio Academy.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/peter-obi-and-the-face-of-biafra-matters-arising-by-osigwe-omo-ikirodah/

Source iReporteronline.

propaganda so edo state na ipob edo state is from d east.edo pple carry obi mata pass ibos .most niger deltans are strong obidient even my village in delta stste are strong obidient.so forget dis guy nd em propaganda

BigDawsNet:
"Whc stupid loyalty u dey test, she be Jesus" statement is not right... even if she was offered 1m per one round... it's very Wrong to do it when you are in a serious relationship......

I think all men should just stop with this testing... because if you don't stop... you may be disappointed for real... so if you wanna marry her... go ahead... if you have second thought, just dissolve everything

God bless

women test men loyalty too.d true is marriage is a seriouz thing .the right way go about it .is to fast nd pray nd ask GOD TO CHOOSE A WIFE/HUSBAND FOR YOU.THE ONE HE(GOD)LIKE ND WANTS FOR YOU.ND NT D ONE YOU LOVE .DT D PRAYER POINT NEVA GIVE GOD DESCRIPTION OF D KIND OF PARTNER U WANT BY DOING SO U LUSTING ND DICTATING FOR GOD. ND MOST MARRIAGE COUPLE IN D BIBLE WER CHOOSE MY GOD because MARRIAGE WAS INVENTED BY GOD HE NEEDS TO BE FROM THE BEGINING because U SEE DIS AREA DISCEPTION FULL AM.A MAN OR LADY CAN PRETEND FOR U FOR THREE YEARS .ND WEN U WANT TO MARRY ANY BDY YOU WILL ONLY KNW D SURFACE OF THEIR FAMILY BACKGROUND NA ONLY GOD DT CAN GRANT U A GOOD PARTNER.ND WEN GOD GRANT U A GOOD PARTNER HE BLESS THE MARRIAGE.FINANCIALLY ND OTHER THINGS.DT WHERE D PHRASE OF MARRY ND MONEY GO COME.PHRASE ONLY HAPPENS WHEN GOD CHOOSE A PARTNER FOR YOU.ND ONE MORE THING U NEED ALSO ASK GOD WHERE HE CHURCH DEY .THERE MANY FALSE CHURCH SUCH FASTING ND PRAYER WILL NT BE ANSWER IN D ALTAR OF A FALSE PASTOR

Penguin2:
Hmmmm

So Dbanj is a yam eater ?

No wonder we didn’t hear from him during the EndSARS.

let jux wait for investigation to concluded .if his found guilty he fuckup big time .at his brand nd stage of success na name dem dey preerve now all his songs wouldnt be played ,this will affect his pikin because music is off d table fpr e pikin( i think I hear of e wife don born another pikin).

blueAgent:
Very true.

All part of NWO.

it fit be.let me nt form holler at thou most pple watch porn.nd some get addicted.but have come to observe one thing about porn .d cumshot matter do u knw dt for dt same usa if u cum on woman bdy nd she build a good lie lie accusation against u .u go go jail or fill in as a sex offender ur stigmate don start .so am like if is nt ok for woman to shallow sperm or pour on their face nd bdy why ferminist doent ask it to be ban .with other perverted sex pratice dt like sexual assault like fetish sex .they even made a film on it called 50shades of grey dt sold out (na women like d movie pass)ferminist are so quiet on dis matter .but are busy doing metoo campaign e no jux make sense to me unless person fit explain it beta to me

Xkale1996:
God knows why he said abstain from sex but people no dey hear word

no be their fault.the porn is tp be blamed.nd usa govt back it under freedom of exression.porn is destroying lives .porn is d main reason perversion is high in boys.also related to hiv risk .u knw d entertainment indudtry ( hip hop,porn nd socialite)are causing harm to pur youth.u are brainwash to lust after woman wen u in ur youth.PORN DOESNT PROMOTE SAFE SEX ,DEGRDE LADIES AS SEX SUBJECT ND NO FERMINIST MOVEMENT AGANIST THE WAY PORN PORTRAY WOMEN because IS A LIBREAL IF U NOTICE PORN STARS ARENT CELEBRATED IN USA.

Islandlady:
Without long story, in what way can I tell my newly moved in couple neighbours who occupies the top apartment that they should reduce their moaning when having sex at night!

It's very awkward and annoying...

Matured Nairalanders I just need your advice on how to tell them politely without sounding rude or making them feel embarrassed. Thanks!

if u have kids it will be quite easy.since u are a lady find a way to talk to d wifey .but say it in a mature way.u can say pple are nt able to sleep at night (if u nt d only tenant )but approach d wife(since u are a lady) start with dnt be offended

dnawah:
eat alone and die alone.one day kwa we go come there and we go do like say we no know you.

no too blame her .from my observatn most nigeriams who succed overseas are d ones from middle income families.wer there no family financial pressure.ur popsi nd momsi nd sibling are exposed nd guiding u thru d journey with prayer nd wise guidance which one needs overthere as a young person u get confuse on what ur nxt m0ve,ur decisions u make over there .which u share with ur peeps back home nd u advise ond matter is prayed on.
but d pako mama nd papa even worst d ones dt are illetrate nd think dem dey pick moni on d street of oyinbo country.all die n a die mentality parents nd siblings is a big problem u neva settle dwn for like two mobths as u arrive they don dey ask for moni .some even shw no regard about ur well being over there jux dey put financial pressure nd even say wrong things to their pikin .which kind lead one going into crime
imagine mama go dey say make my pikin go ghana go hustle all way na way or die na die .na d pikin hit small moni ndtrue true die na em d mama come dey cry mtsew.it taket time for person to settle in a foreign land .some parents knw this but nt all parents knows or care to knw

kenny714433:



Why would they apologise?
Is the first lady not feeding fat from tax payers money?
Has she shown enough empathy to the over 113 million poor people her husband has created?
Is freedom of expression not enshrined in our constitution?


What's the easiest thing to do between; Remaining quiet and keep enjoying the country's money, coming out to set the records straight by telling us her businesses/her work and arresting a young lad for expressing his opinions?

na abokis dem dem ignorant pple always slaves to their oppressors because of religion.if na south e happen na uproar na by now .so no stress ur self for mortherners .if bubu decide to cancel thiselection nd run for third term d same northerners will vote for him happily.nd start flooring south wen d heat too much for them.

Kobonaire234:
Well, the problem is not 'blacks' , what we need to do is reinvest in youth football, and training of youth coaches, then we will see how things can change.

Countries that do well at the world cup have good youth systems...not teams hurriedly gotten up to win FIFA tournaments, but good youth systems which bring up young players from childhood to adulthood in football.

yeah u right like example our npfl doesnt have under 23 .17.15.but la liga has .even uefa champions league has under 23.nd 17 .

IgOga:
I am not sure where some of these come from...but the highest form of giving is to give God your life.

Your money does not move God as much as your godliness and obedience. "obedience is better than sacrifice"

yes but when God bless u .u must give tithe WHY DO U GIVE TITHE IS because D CHURCH DOESNT HAVE BIZ DT FUNDS D ACTIVITIES OF THE CHURCH LIKE BUYING DISEL FOR GENERATOR FOR CHURCH SERVICE.PAYING JUNIOR PASTORS because THEY EARN MONTHLY SALARY PAID BY D SENIOR PASTOR.ND OTHER THINGS.D PP FORGOT PARTNERS SEED BUT ALL WHAT OP GAVE AS 7 TYPES OF GIVING IS ACTUALLY UNDER CHURCH GIVING
THERE ARE THREE TYPES OF GIVING GOD INSTRUCTED D ISREALITES
1)CHURCH GIVING ( as explain by d op)
2)GIVING TO THE NEEDY( MOTHERLESS ,BLIND,DIABLES )
3)PASSOVER GIVING( MORE OF FESTIVE GIVING WHICH ONLY APPLY TO JEWISH TRADITION)
THE SAD PART IS MOST NIGERIAN CHRISTIANS WHO CARRY BIBLE FOR HEAD ONLY DO CHURCH GIVING.ND FAIL TO GIVE TO THE NEEDY WHICH APOSTE PAUL ADVISE OFTEN EVEN JESUS ADVISE TOO REMEMBER THE RICH MAN ND JESUS .GIVING TO THE NEEDY GOD LIKE AM WELL WELL SOTE JESUS TALK ABOUT IT WHEN HE SAID GIVE TO THE POOR ND NEEDY IN SECRET ND NT MAKE A PUBLIC SHOW OUT OF UR GIVING .

nocera:
1. OFFERINGS: there are different kinds of offering and different ways a Christian can give an offering. They're as follows;
a. There is the regular weekly offering called the Freewill offering – 1Corinthians 16:1-2.

b. There is the offering raised for a particular cause or project. This can be in form of donations – Acts 11:29-30. Ezra 2:68-69. Exodus 35:5-29.

c. There is another kind of offering - not involving money but solemn verbal oblation, a kind of worship and thanksgiving made by word of mouth. Psalms 119:108.

"What is the church offerings used for"?

...it is used to maintain the church, take care of the widows, orphans and buy equipment and necessary materials used for worship services. Acts 6:1-3. Leviticus 24:2. Numbers 4:9. Exodus 35:5-29.

2. TITHE: a controversial subject but still very much a relevant aspect of the believer's obligations to the divine government of Christ. The tithe is a tenth of the increase (income) of the believer given in the local church where the Christian receives spiritual nourishment.

This command is not imposed on anyone as this teaching can only be received by committed and faithful believers. Malachi 3:10. Matthew 23:23. Hebrew 7:1-25.

*Should my tithe be given to the poor?
No. Your tithe should be given in your local Church. Deuteronomy 12:11.

* Who receive my tithe? ...Your Pastor. Numbers 18:24.

* What is the tithes used for? ...The tithe is used to compensate the Preacher and his assistants, the ushers, the music department and other church workers. Nehemiah 13:5.

3. VOW: A vow is a solemn promise made to the Lord, in the presence of a priest, to perform a particular act of appreciation if the Lord grants an urgent request. It is much like an agreement, a contract whereby God grants a present need and gets a "reward." Ecclesiastes 5:4. 2 Samuel 15:8. Judges 11:30-40.

4. FAITH SEED: As the term implies, this is an act of sowing spiritual seeds – in the form of money or any thing of value, with expectations of a harvest. Psalms 126:5-6.
This seeds can be sown in a person's life – to receive a particular grace one desires in the life of that individual. It can be sown in a Church, workplace, school etc. This is by no means trying to buy spiritual gifts with money, rather it follows the Scriptures that admonishes; "Give, and it shall be given unto you. Good measure..." Therefore, one gives a "seed" in faith expecting GOOD MEASURE. Luke 6:38. Ecclesiastes 11:1 and 6.

5. FIRSTFRUITS: This is the giving of the first of the Christian's harvest (income) or initial profits from a contract or business venture within the year. Nehemiah 10:35.

Now, this subject is also controversial as people – including believers, reason that, "why should they give ALL their income – especially that of "tough" January, to the church, do they want us to starve!? Honestly, I was even more curious than those believers.

However, I did a thorough Biblical research on this subject and found the answer, at last. Firstfruits was first mentioned by Moses, on the instructions of the Lord, in Exodus 23:16-19, but was stated more clearly in Leviticus 23:10, saying; "Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, When ye come into the land which I give unto you, and shall reap the harvest thereof, then ye shall bring A SHEAF of the firstfruits of your harvest unto the priests..."
Notice the phrase A SHEAF (bundle). The SHEAF is a bundle, eg of yams, maize, wheat etc. In this connection, it is therefore obvious and reasonable to declare that the Lord wasn't asking for ALL the first yields of their harvest (income) but a fraction ( a PART) of it. I challenge anybody to prove me wrong – with Scriptures of course.

6. HONORARIUM (PROPHET'S OFFERING) : This is an act of honour given as cash or gifts to a man of God. A Christian is not advised to host or visit a man of God with empty hands. The Bible says that there is a reward for honouring a man of God. Matthew 10:41. 1 Samuel 9:7. 2 Kings 5:3-16.

7. SACRIFICE: This is the act of giving or offering something very dear, or of very high value to God. It can mean that a Christian give away ALL that he has by the inspiration or instruction of The Lord.
This is the highest form of giving by a Christian.
Where did God command one to give his ALL in the Bible?
1. Abraham and Isaac: Genesis 22:2.
2.The rich young man: Luke 18:22-23.
3. Even God gave His ONLY SON: John 3:16.
I usually tell believers that if The Lord demands YOUR ALL, He wants to give you HIS ALL.

***Giving to the poor, however, is and should be a daily work of charity by every believer and shouldn't be seen as something too special, although it is by no means lesser than the aforementioned as the Bible says that those who give to the poor lends to God. Meaning, you make God indebted to you anytime you give to the poor! _ Proverbs 19:17.

Shalom.

I WILL LOVE TO CORRECT SOMETHING ABOUT SOWING SEED/ VOW .IS AN AGREEMENT BTW YOU ND GOD(ABSENCE OF UR PASTOR )PASTOR MUST NT KNW.PASTOR WHO ASK U TO SOW SEED /VOW IS A FAKE PASTOR ND THIEF.GENUINE PASTOR DNT ASK U TO SOW SEED OR MAKE VOW.IF THEY ADVISE OR PREACH SOWING SEED/VOW TO YOU.THEY MUST INCLUDE D CLAUSE DT IS APRIVATE AGREEMEMT BTW U ND GOD

MoneySEASON:
That kneeling shit is just a waste of time. It has no significant effect on tackling racism.

Bad things don't die easily. Infact racism will never end no matter how they tackle it.

That's why Wilfred Zaha stopped taking the knee in the premier league. While he was taking it, he was still facing racism and still saw people face it too, so he was like, 'what's the point'?

Although, Between USA and UK I don't know who are the most racial people.

truth be told racism cant end .only pple who can end it .is we africans .until africa beta nd developed.for instance qatar ,u.a.e has help reduce d negative sterotype bin ladin nd terrior group cause arabs .now imaging nigeria be like canada while equatoral guinea b like qatar d effective it will have on racism is huge because d news media cant promote us as pple dt live on trees .na because africa still have wicked nd cprrupted leaders dt make us poor dt why racism still dey

SadiqBabaSani:
This Prophet always wants to be in on show, No advice should be ignored, but I would really want this prophet to advice the Adamawa man to forget his pipe dream of another northern Presidency.


President South 2023

dt prophet na hustler.nd attention seeker no b him dey hype saraki prior to mid election .sey na saraki go be president nd go fix naija.nwaday pastor are playibg prpphesy game .if one of their prophesy cone to pass biz don start

Skepticus:
I do disagree with the money part.

No doubt, money enhances your confidence and better ability to making more choices with women but once you don't have a dominant masculine frame, with your billions, women would still mess you up.

That's why you see some rich men being played and abused by women and broke, jobless and unambitious guys having success with women.

ilol dt dudes still believe in money when it comes to women .do u knw hw many babes wer don cheat on their rich guy.dt matter don cast.na yahoo boi scope b dt .dt why they mostly marry error gals

ubunja:
humans learn through two ways: advice/teaching and experience. If these men turn a deaf ear to lessons written by other people, then life's greatest teacher will teach them himself. That teacher is Experience. Sooner or later, one way or the other they'll learn.

ubunja is nt practical in his teaching too theory.xxtedyxx try in his teaching nd charles nneji try small ...
u knw there was a guy called shola who campaign on simp loving nd wrote a book do u knw dt some guys online on twitter were attacking d guy before ferminist report his account ( tho partially his fault ) nd got suspended.
what am i saying u knw we men gender ha e had a past ill treatment towards women which has brought ferminisn to limelight so some guys in their quest tp be a real man.due to domestic violence get deceive by d media about being a real man nd end up being a simp

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

op u part of d problem.let me explain why all these are happening to we men is because d male gender is ignoring(educating)the male child.we expect a male to be a man but dnt pratically educate him but judge him if he lose guard.for example many guys dnt knw hw to chat with nigerian ladies because as we knw ladies in dis country dnt knw hw to chat nd bring bring up conversation is a problem.so some guys are l0oking for solution to d problem but get tongue lash by dude online is becoming absurd because ladies dnt do dt quite often .but if a lady dt seek solution or a question is asked for female folks to answers u see some guys answering doing busy bdy some will write espitles on a female question as if u are woman is becoming annoying

ebukajay184:
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most nigerins has dt behaviour nd very common with our sisters.dt why from my observation some genuinely rich guys nd girls try to hid their rich statue by riding modest car to avoid unwanted sycophant attention which most nigerians have.nd they are d ones dt genuinely help infact they are d divine helpers we pray about.
another moral lessson ur her story is since Nigerians worship moni nd hid their true character because you are rich.try hiding it by d car u ride .because nwadays na car nd house pple use to measure ur financial statue.FOR EXAMPLE A CHURCH MEMBER I GOT TO KNOW CLOSELY REVEAL DT HIS WIFE ND CHIDREN DEY ABROAD BUT THIS GUY GUESSS D CAR HIS RIDING TOYOTA YARIS.ND HE SAID D REASON IS MAKE PPLE NO PUT EYE FOR HIM BDY.D SAME WITH REASON A COLONEL TOLD MY BRO WHY HE CHOOSE OLD TOYOTA COROLLA

LordIsaac:
I know universities that set applied questions. Stop generalising.

universities is dead in nigeriA both private nd public ones let stop deceivibg ourselves.hw can a agric dept in university dnt have demonstration farm on plantations tomato, yam etc nd livestock farm nd have farming kits like mobile raise bed for each to agric students to use to learn hw to cultivate to harvest

Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

the problem with most nigerians going abroad .they dnt do research on d country.jux want to jakpa nd hustle .most nigerians who are succeeding are d ones from family dt dnt give financial responsiblity pressure on them secindly they have parents who pray nd guard them thru the journey.which some poor illetrate /educated illetrate parents dnt do.
concerning op his problem is loneliness which is an issue for oyinbo socieety i read someway dt going to video gaming conference help or sport events do help in socializing . also to mingle with other african communities nd asia community before oyinbo

rayvelez:
West with the hypocrites

stupid england is always them all d time.they always do this silly criticism.first it was south africa the criticism then was crime.s.a hosted it nd came successful even had d best world cup soundtrack albium .second was brazil.now is qatar they even critize india when they hosted commonwealth their team said they saw snake in their room.nd india hosted commonwealth successful.england always critize show skeptism when 3rd world country want to host a global sporting event .what pains me the most is when england host olympic .the opening /closing ceremony was the most dry ceremony i have ever watched

bestdudes:
Then you shouldn't be worrying your head over anything... just talk to her like you would to a male friend.

noted thank man for d tip

bestdudes:
lmao Bros, are you sure it’s just platonic relationship you want?

lol 100percent��

bestdudes:
oh no. That one is easy. just go with the flow. in a platonic relationship, there are no expectations.... and there are fewer pressures too.

yeah but chatting can be dry after two first chatup session ( despite nt chatting often).due to same pattern of chatup.nd u knw our sistas dnt bring up gist.u can help with some tips ( help me to be spanteous in each chattibg seasion)

bestdudes:
if you are dealing with a girl, don’t try to be to serious…. Just have fun and enjoy the time.

Girls say they would love to marry and build career but na lamba… no even try to bring up such topic. Don’t try to be serious.

Topic could be anything around her, from her hair, her nails, looks, etc anything you know women love generally but never try to be too serious.

Also learn to deflect some things that can trigger you cos women love to test men and see how they react. They love to know whether he is emotional or stoic. In whatever you do, never show your emotion to a woman.

thanks.but does it apply to platonic friendship ( ie ladies u only want friendship nt more than dt)

bestdudes:
You summed it up perfectedly, It is why I let the first one go because I know she has many dudes on queue.

yeah, that second one is money driven and I didnt even waste time. the 3rd one is weird....

love to ask which social topic ladies love to engage( chat about) e.g we guys na fpotball be pur favourite social topic