ajl: What's really wrong with Benin people? There must be a reason for this.
let me nt sound tribal or as if am against d tribe .but I believe tribes should start changing d evil norm in ur pple. D problem with bini pple is their mama.bini mama too dey greedy ND have dis poverty mentality very bad.like d other day a cab I enter d guy na bini guy started narrating his ordeal.him ND e mama no dey agree sote e mama dey tell him he suppose nt be first born na.e last last born suppose b d first born why because e get moni.see eh I gist bini mother's matter d epistle go too long.na bini mama go tell e own daughter make e go do ashawo dt e daughter no see mates.dt why no blame most bini for Europe dey do ashawo na their mama dey push them.
It is so disturbing that a mother would encourage her child to get involved in criminal acts like yahoo, hard drugs, prostitution, ritual killing and armed robbery. One wonders what such desperate women plan to achieve with their acts of greediness. When caught they cry and a lot of times claim poverty as their reason.
Parents no longer tell their children “remember the child of who you are”.
Sometimes I tend to believe that poverty is a choice. Those people who choose to do menial jobs and keep their sanity and integrity are not stupid. Slow and steady wins the race, as they say.
These days our youths are so greedy and impatient to drive Mercedes cars. Their lazy parents use their children as tools to achieve what they out of their lazy lives failed to achieve. The result is what we see today with many parents getting arrested with their children and getting jail sentences.
In the end, their names already damaged by their involvement in crimes, gets worse, as no one wants to relate with that family anymore.
By the way, how was this woman feeling during her court hearing with her son as her co-accused? What a big shame.
very common in Benin most Benin mother's Nd some few non benins mother's in Benin city love moni like mad dey encourage their children into Yahoo Nd prostitutn DT why to marry Bini gal dey hard person because of their mama. most Bini gals are always pleasing their mother greed.nd their mamas can like JuJu eh.
ajl: Nigerian men and lawmakers putting the women down. If this is an exclusive Yoruba national assembly, all those laws supporting women will pass. Go to any yoruba religious groups, you will find women leaders (Iya Ijo or Iya Adinni). In commerce, you will find Iya-loja or Iya-laje. In yoruba royal court, you will find Iyalode. And in Yoruba cosmology, you will find the Iyami's, the owners of the night. If you don't give them their due, you are doomed.
Nothing will work in any society where women are subjugated or put down. The Yoruba spiritual oral record by Orunmila told us what happened in the early days of creation of the earth. Olodumare sent down some divinities to come and make the earth habitable before the creation of humans. The male divinities neglected the only female divinity (Osun) in the team because in their mind they assumed because she is a female energy, her presence or input was not needed. Osun represents water. Without water there can be no life. So, when they all got to earth to perform the various tasks, nothing worked right. After all the failures, they returned and complained to Olodumare that nothing has worked for them in their assignment on earth. Then Olodumare ask them where is the female divinity (Osun) that was to join them on the assignment, they responded that they did not invite her because they assumed that her input is not required, being a female energy. Olodumare send them to go and beg Osun for forgiveness. She accepted their request for forgiveness, and returned to earth with them to work on the assignment Olodumare gave them. From then everything worked for them.
The lesson here is that nothing will work in Nigeria except our women are accorded their due. You men think you are strong? I pity you. We are in this state because foreign religions and colonialism taught us to subjugate our women (at least in Yorubaland). In Yoruba tradition, women are still accorded their rightful due. "Meji meji la da ile-aiye", meaning "the world is created in duality". Man and woman, positive and negative, good and bad. It's all intended to achieve balance. It must not lay too heavily on either side.
Look at Rwanda as a good example. I am a man myself. So far a woman behave herself, just as any individual, she must get her rightful due. We know that not all women can perform "magic" because the possibility of them performing well is high. We had a good example in Dora Akinyuli, and still in Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala. More opportunities for women mean more brilliant female achievers in government.
WAT WOMEN NEEDNOW IS FIRST LADY REFORM DT MAKES OUR FIRST LADIES AT FG,STATE ND LG TO HANDLE GIRL SCH.WOMEN ND CHILDREN HOSPITAL ACROSS D NATION.DT WILL HELP GIRL CHILD EDUCATION ND STOP CHIRLD MORTALITY ND POLIO ONCE ND FOR ALL.DT BILLS IS LIKE FIGHTING FOR POLITICIANS WIFE MISTRESS TO TAKE SEAT IN D N ASSEMBLY ND NT D COMMON WOMEN IN NIGERIA
ABEG SOMEBDY SHOULD PLS EXPLAIN THE ELECTRIVITY BILL PASSED DT STATE STATE IS ALLOWED TO GENERATE TRANSMIT ELECTRIVITY IN AREAS COVERED BY NATIONAL GRID.THE BILL IS KIND OF CONFUSING DOES IT MEAN STATE CAN NOW BRING INVESTOR TO power light in their state but with FG GOVT APPROVal
Farmerakinloye6: imiforce,caterpillar force,SAAF,Ortiva top,avesthrin,tecnokel Cabrio duo.you will need to go through the thread to see how I use each. When you are familiar/use to your crop, you will know what to apply... for example, yesterday make it 8 days I sprayed anything on my cucumber plant...I just looked at it, and spray only imiforce at 15ml. What my plant need may not necessary what your plant require.
I will check.by d way cucumber dey do well for southern naija
I am in urgent need of your advice on a decision I am about to make that could shape my life and my young family in about few months from now.
I am currently running successful businesses which give me a steady minimum of N1.5M per month with a potential for expansion. I have been nursing the idea of going to UK on a study Visa by September this year in with the hope that I can get a well paying job that could surpass my current earnings here in naijja. I also intend to keep my naija business running but we all know trusting people with kind of investment can be tricky and risky.
What assurance do I have about earning more and having a better life in UK? What happens to my businesses I already built up in Naija? What happens to my properties here in naija?
Your advice will be of great help at this critical decision making moment of my life. Thank you
D BEST THING TO DO IS INVEST IN UK INSTEAD.RESEARCH WHICH BIZ TO INVEST IN OVER THERE IN UK
d truth is no Ibo/Niger Delta politician can match tinubu except atiku .DT d truth.why because PDP mess up as opposition their governors didn't really do wonders in their state.because as an opposition u need to do extremely well in Dev of Ur state infrastructure.dt why pDp rite now as no gud candidate to rivalry tinubu.in terms influence in d party , popularity Nd moni
I knw sey na land.village pple can be very stupid .many of them aren't worried about Buhari hardship na t land,throw charm hit relatives wer dey hustle for twn na em dey their head na dey Sabi well
Tired2022: I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.
Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised. No
I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.
So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.
I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.
I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!
My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............
I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!
I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.
Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.
Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.
Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.
She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.
This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.
I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.
Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.
I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!
deliverance u may need for any spiritual issue.but also physical therapy too so where Ur problem started was frm d beginning u were shy Nd couldn't socialize DT means u were an introvert if am right .Nd u didn't have pple or got information on hw to make female friendship at DT time ( which wat I dey vex for guys who judge guys but dnt educate guys esp young guys on area of female friendship) wat u need now is info on hw to have female friendship e no easy at Ur stage of addiction .u need to train Ur mind in having non sexual females .A START go to tinder or badoo Nd start chat up.do d normal intro den ask she looking for ( hookup or friendship or relationship) DT u looking for friendship .THE THINGS U GIT TO THIS MESS BCKS U WERE NT INFORMED .SEE REAL MEN FIRST LEARN TO HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS DEN LATER HAVE FEMALES FRIENDS ABOVE THEIR LEAGUE BEFORE THEY START having gfs
the problem about being a man in dis country is DT u nt told hw to handle small things about woman.they ( guy) expect u suppose knw on Ur own.nd judge u if u loseguard.in regards to dis scenario like Badoo,tinder 40 to 60 percent are olosho over there some make it clear they are nt.hw do u knw by asking d right way which is wat looking for relationship hookup or friendship
obembet: Lady Evangelist who claimed she went to hell has confess that it was total lie and ask for forgiveness from church.
The prophetess has previously said she saw Jesus Christ, father Abraham and many Angel has told the church that it was total lie and appeal to church for forgiveness.
be warned Neva patronise any bdy DT tell u sey u see vision of heaven or hell sey e popular figure in either side .na hustle dem dey hustle.dt hw one lady did d same thing made millions frm her book until she truly saw a vision where God clear her sey make she go confess in every church Nd event she told dis lies if nt she go true true experience d 2nd death( hell) she claim she saw.HEAVEN ND HELL IS REAL BUT NO BDY DEY THERE UNTIL JUDGEMENT DAY.NA LIGHT ND DARKNESS PPLE DEY GO
D truth is there three types of tithe in d Bible DT God instructed Israelite to practice 1) tithe to d church 2) tithe to d poor 3) tithe for Passover( festival tithe) DT why the Jews give 20% of their income 10% to d poor 10% to d church or Judaism temple.dt why grace they follow them Nd they Jews undastand (cheeful giving)charity wrk very well.why d West only practice the to d poor.nd undastand cheerful giving.some of them even try to have investment DT funds their giving to d poor Nd do it in secret.
tillaman: Oshey Alchemist!! This is not a SE matter alone it’s the entire nation, What about those yahoo boys smoking Colorado in SW, I was in Ogun state Mid September so I invited this chic to my hotel room I controlled her all the way from Abk so she told me to give her money for smoke which I did, she got to my room it’s wasn’t the regular weed She sprinkled some brown or ash stuff on it I really don’t know what it was but looks more like nyaope, she wrapped a very tiny smoke and she said this shit cost her 2,500 I was unbothered so she only took 3 puffs I swear na so this babe begin drool like new born baby all efforts to snap her out of that realm were fruitless, me I don dey pack my bag the moment she started breathing abnormally Naso babe talk say make I no foh say na the trips dey make her do like that, I just manage shower relax for couch while she was in her trance all the konji wey hold me don clear! Naso she enter bathroom like 3 hours later she wan dey romance me Naso I change am for the babe oo, she apologized and all once 6:30 knack I checked out straight up!
Addiction is a demon, once you are hooked on any substance then you need to seek all the help you can find, our youths needs to do better, Parents should observe their wards and get those with questionable characters the help they need either SW, SE or SS This is a wake up call to every concerned quarters
SultanOfPuna: Not just the regular STD, he collected the Buy 1 get 2 free type of STD. My boy has been scratching since monday. He has tried lots of antifungal creams but it keeps worsening. Today he was driving me, his left hand on steering the other hand on his gbola scratching it furiously..
Today he confessed that he paid a runz girl from Choba uniport 50k for 4 rounds sex during weekend. He just spent 50k to collect free STD and with the way he is scratching i have decided to no longer shake his hands anymore.. I just dey vex for am, based on say him just waste money and the bani sef don block him number. He doesn't want to go to hospital, and he don't know what StD he has but I'm worried that if I continue hanging around with him. The StD might transfer to me via air or by touch. Is StD transferred by hanging out with infected person.
did he wear condom or did it raw with d runs gal.jux curious
SultanOfPuna: Not just the regular STD, he collected the Buy 1 get 2 free type of STD. My boy has been scratching since monday. He has tried lots of antifungal creams but it keeps worsening. Today he was driving me, his left hand on steering the other hand on his gbola scratching it furiously..
Today he confessed that he paid a runz girl from Choba uniport 50k for 4 rounds sex during weekend. He just spent 50k to collect free STD and with the way he is scratching i have decided to no longer shake his hands anymore.. I just dey vex for am, based on say him just waste money and the bani sef don block him number. He doesn't want to go to hospital, and he don't know what StD he has but I'm worried that if I continue hanging around with him. The StD might transfer to me via air or by touch. Is StD transferred by hanging out with infected person.
Wat Davido did is good Nd wat his advocating swt me.in America celebs over there have gone beyond giveaways to fans Nd now doing charity like scholarship,funding sch project ,etc Nd went USA have come issue like flood they all come together regardless of industry beef.dt why USA govt dey fear Hollywood celebs.dt wat Davido advocating eg Davido ,WIZKID ,olamide,burns boy ,don jazzy etc join their voice for a charity cause.like right now we Nigerians have no control of each of our states Nd country.it has being taken by d political elites regardless of whether there PDP or APC .imaging maybe don jazzy or macaroni come out to contest Lagos state governorship for a new party DT common man is involve no moni politics Nd had dope ass party policy.imagine all d celebs come together to support DT in one voice like endsars .play play lagosians don collect Lagos frm Tinubu.lagos go beta play play other state go follow suit
SuperStriker: Good day everyone. I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?
seem we all learning here.see counselor help.but I need ask u some questions.am nt a marriage expert o .was she cool Nd excited with sex.wen u guys married ,When did she start to feel dis way ,When u having sex with her do u think about ur satisfaction Nd nt her satisfaction 'Hw is Ur sex communication with her The two last questions are important because wat have notice is DT wen women no longer get satisfied or nt satisfied in bed they like hmm ok or let me jux allow him.so DT I can have my peace.but wen a lady is satisfied or beta gain orgasm ( nt DT easy if ur small but takes alot of knowledge about it)lady tends to want it more alittle Nd as a man is good to make a lady demand for sex frm u sometimes.
Denvacandy: We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.
When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.
We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.
Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.
You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.
She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.
Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.
I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.
how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.
How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.
do u go to a living genuine church.bcis dis Mata na God hands e dey u have to pray about.see Ur pastor about it nd fast Nd pray about it.ur situatn can happen to anybody.u knw women nwadays dnt invest in relatnship DT much.nd most women are like dt
I feel d hate towards Davido is because his a rich man pikin me Nd bro Wer discussing about it Nd he pointed it out is d same thing DJ cuppy is receiving apart from d zlatan issue in which is other celeb dem for don forget d mata.WHY SAY SO IS because IF IT WAS WIZKID DT DID SUCH NO BDY GO TALK DEM GO DONATE REACH 500MILLION NDBE PROUD ABOUT IT WHY because HE CAME FRM A POOR BACKGROUND .NIGERIA MUSIC FANS LIKE GRASS TO GRACE ARTISTE.THEY DNT KNW DT 70% OF MUSIC ARTIST ARE FRM RICH HOMES
if govt was responsible enuf they were suppose to turn dis university to non profit sch.were a good intl non profit sch will partner with govt on d area on busary of sch fees Nd use our children sch fees to maintain d campus infrastructure Nd even establish tertiary football leagues and other sport tournaments.why govt na to pay salaries
soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibed well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever.
She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from each other was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow.
I felt that her asking for my number was that she needed to spend more time with me if I am not available physically. So we started chatting. The chats was going smoothly and to my surprise we do chat all through the day we literally chats all hours of the day. Then I did what all single Hot guy will do, out but apart from the Hot which I am not most times; I asked her out. I was not after sex perse I just wanted enough closure bridging through the platonic platform to a more romantic setting.
But she replied with this exact same words "I am not ready for a relationship, I want to complete my schooling and be focus with my education."
Well despite her reply killed my envisioned sun setting romantic bliss; I understood as she was a good girl, a virgin and someone very focus with academics. I know this because she tells me everything about her things happening each day, minutes and seconds.
I was contented with the platonic relationship, I thought I would wait maybe 2 or 3 years as that's what she was indirectly telling me. A month later from the time I asked her out and was turned down, that time was December: Christmas period. I took my sister out to a nice eatery and I asked her if she could come along as a friend. She obliged but told me she would be going some place after that I said ok.
So after she left to her place of wherever. My sister told me she is worried, I asked her why, she said she went to her guy's place. I was shocked this is a lady that is not ready for relationship. This guy in question is a Yahoo guy by the appearance and all. The guy later broke her heart as that's the first time she is dating I think at 21. Another guy in the area too was like dating her as well after that guy, at the point of dating he got another girl pregnant and broke her heart (same Yahoo guy).
I thought why did she ever chose not to date me. If at all you were not physically attracted to me why didn't you just tell me instead of all these mumbo jumbo. I am actually an average looking guy. Maybe a 6 or even a 7 based on world standard.
My question is why do girls always refuse to date me, I am not a good guy neither am I a bad guy. The one I am asking out says I am not in her level, that she is in a very low level for me to look at her or ask her out. She believes I am after sex.
The next one said I am too low for her. Though she was older. The one I confessed my feelings for her heart isn't even with me but another but she started catching feelings but sometimes she gets to her senses and she convince herself she belongs with another.
The girl who I don't even know that keeps greeting me Everytime but I keep ignoring her, I later went for her after a year she turned me down. I just tire o.
Edit: Not every woman I meet, I ask out. I have a particular type of lady I ask out that depicts my taste. Any Lady beyond or below I show zero interest.
People saying I should move on, I have already. I was never pained o. And those calling me a simp I no even understand, where did you read any simpish move from me? Or do you at all know what SIMP is? My problem isn't sex o. If I wanted sex I would get it easily from those low class street girls without spending a dime. I am after my kind of girls but they are saying NO.
bro d lady no dey feel u.some ladies are like DT esp d younger 20s.the solution to Ur problem is train Ur love emotions ie try dilute love.hw do u do it start making female friends.frm Ur write up Ur kind of girls like d moni guy( yahoo / big boys) which is common nwadays with ladies below 26yrs in d country.am sure d said yahoo Boy may have treated her like slut Nd dump her.try have only female friends for now biko make pressure no go make u join yahoo like some guys do
AmericanDad: Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock. I for like ask did u always use condom .
The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.
AmericanDad: Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock. I for like ask did u always use condom .
The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.
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Time is ticking oo.