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LordIsaac:
I know universities that set applied questions. Stop generalising.

universities is dead in nigeriA both private nd public ones let stop deceivibg ourselves.hw can a agric dept in university dnt have demonstration farm on plantations tomato, yam etc nd livestock farm nd have farming kits like mobile raise bed for each to agric students to use to learn hw to cultivate to harvest

Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

the problem with most nigerians going abroad .they dnt do research on d country.jux want to jakpa nd hustle .most nigerians who are succeeding are d ones from family dt dnt give financial responsiblity pressure on them secindly they have parents who pray nd guard them thru the journey.which some poor illetrate /educated illetrate parents dnt do.
concerning op his problem is loneliness which is an issue for oyinbo socieety i read someway dt going to video gaming conference help or sport events do help in socializing . also to mingle with other african communities nd asia community before oyinbo

rayvelez:
West with the hypocrites

stupid england is always them all d time.they always do this silly criticism.first it was south africa the criticism then was crime.s.a hosted it nd came successful even had d best world cup soundtrack albium .second was brazil.now is qatar they even critize india when they hosted commonwealth their team said they saw snake in their room.nd india hosted commonwealth successful.england always critize show skeptism when 3rd world country want to host a global sporting event .what pains me the most is when england host olympic .the opening /closing ceremony was the most dry ceremony i have ever watched

bestdudes:
Then you shouldn't be worrying your head over anything... just talk to her like you would to a male friend.

noted thank man for d tip

bestdudes:
lmao Bros, are you sure it’s just platonic relationship you want?

lol 100percent��

bestdudes:
oh no. That one is easy. just go with the flow. in a platonic relationship, there are no expectations.... and there are fewer pressures too.

yeah but chatting can be dry after two first chatup session ( despite nt chatting often).due to same pattern of chatup.nd u knw our sistas dnt bring up gist.u can help with some tips ( help me to be spanteous in each chattibg seasion)

bestdudes:
if you are dealing with a girl, don’t try to be to serious…. Just have fun and enjoy the time.

Girls say they would love to marry and build career but na lamba… no even try to bring up such topic. Don’t try to be serious.

Topic could be anything around her, from her hair, her nails, looks, etc anything you know women love generally but never try to be too serious.

Also learn to deflect some things that can trigger you cos women love to test men and see how they react. They love to know whether he is emotional or stoic. In whatever you do, never show your emotion to a woman.

thanks.but does it apply to platonic friendship ( ie ladies u only want friendship nt more than dt)

bestdudes:
You summed it up perfectedly, It is why I let the first one go because I know she has many dudes on queue.

yeah, that second one is money driven and I didnt even waste time. the 3rd one is weird....

love to ask which social topic ladies love to engage( chat about) e.g we guys na fpotball be pur favourite social topic

[quote author=bestdudes post=118463081]lol...I used to be like you who think money and business is the koko... if you dont learn how women operate, you will suffer for it. M my problem is dt we d male gender ignore male child nd iz causing problem.what bestdudes has outline is a big problem dt we guys are facing.nd no one is teaching we guys hw to solve d problem
for example,hw to chatup a lady as a student nd as a graduate wrking
hw to sustain conversation with a nigerian lady bcoz they cant bring up conversation
what topic do ladies esp nigerian ladies love to gist about (for we guys is football english premier league to be precise ,while old men is politics is their favourite topic while women ( married /older women)na to gossip other pple family nd marriges.or marriages.but ladies nd bae i no knw don try find no fit get a single clue

bestdudes:
They are likely above 24.

i read thru ur write up.no b only u such as happen to.the truth is the1st girl is d i jux want to enter social platform because am bored.a guy wrote a thread about it on nairaland they are time wasters.
2nd lady is d normal money cautions lady which is common in ladies of nwadays which is caused by yahoo bois excessive expensive .
3rd lady is nt intrested maybe she has a bf or ecpnomic situation has make her focus on making money.
NUTSHELL IS NIGERIAN LADIES DNT KNW HW TO CHAT ND HAVE LOW SENSE OF HUMOR.COMPARE TO WHITES OR NIGERIAN BAE WHERE JAKPA GO ABOARD ND CHANGE HER NIGERIA LADY MENTALITY.

bestdudes:
Lmao.. you are funny. So point out where I made a mistake and the girls are not at fault?

Did I ask them for sex or ask them for anything? What will it cost a grown-up adult to be decent in their engagement? At my age? At my age, I would leave any girl alone as soon as I see any indecent attitude or red flag.

Maybe you are the kind that tries to convince yourself that "it is not a problem, continue to try your luck and gets disrespected even further"

Gerrraheree mien

hw old are dis lady .am sure they around 24 yrs below.

NigeriaIsGreat:
you be olodo. I can't waste my time engaging you

lol because is true .both chanels nd nta(a national tv) are nt showing flag off of apc flag off campaign rally.dt too bad.

Illegal1:
u never even start to cry....

hw can he cry when awhole nta is nt shpwing it .both nta nd channels are showing another event .pdp atiku is still open for job application i think they pay u well.because obidient no dey pay shi shi

NigeriaIsGreat:
Tinubu will convincingly win the coming election and succeed Buhari


Go and relax

nd nta is nt even showing it.

NaijaMutant:
The number of girls going into hook ups is geometrically increasing by the day.

It seems to be the easiest way out if this hellish economy for lazy girls

If you are yet to marry, sorry for you.

Chances of marrying an ex-olosho is now at it's all time high.


God save us

economy is to be blamed but wat worrisome is some mothers now are indirectly encouraging their daughters into ashawo.also the mentality of my daughter will marry rich man.i thought is media ,friends nd i phone craze dt causing it until i started knwing some of these girls moms .most of these hookups gals have materialistic moms esp d high end runs gals.if u think of it all these girls doing dis hustle in abj or lag or ph there mama no knw wetin dem dey do.d truth is some mothers knw nd encouraging hw did i knw is wen some fathers complain to my pastor about hw their mamadey encourage their children into such.even a family friend a woman i respected shocked me with her altitude towards her daughter walk walk ways

Tinubuadvocate:
Ipob are coming for you. Upon all the support they gave you during your reelection this is what you want to use to pay them back..

i need to address this ignorance express by yorubas nd northerner.most yorubas/n0rtherners always refer south south(niger delta) as south east(ibo) which shows dt pple in these two regions need to go back to geography class dt study d map of nigeria.so benins are ibos .or warri nA ikechuckwu full there or cross river na ibo or awka ibom na ibos mtsw pls educate urselvez .ipob dey benin nd deltastate or ipob dey cross river nnamdi kanu na benin boy .mtsew pls educate urselves(yoruba nd northerners) is becoming annoying

Medianna:
We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

ladies do it .but my sister naija bae image is very bad due to harsh economy lust for iPhone.nd hw yahoo boi dey use gal do yeye if you listen to guys gist about today young bae Nd their disgust about hw ladies are now reducing their value because of iphone .even now mothers are supporting their daughters into olosho as economy harsh .what is worrisome is that it might reach the level when jss1 boy wer join yahoo go dey nack ur agemate dey do sex party with ur age mate.respect no come dey.but there a good NEWS SOLUTION TO ALL THIS IS GOOD GOVERNANCE PLS GET UR PVC ND BE OBIDIENT .FURTHER BAD GOVERNANCE IS GOING TO BE VERY BAD.DT LADIES WOULDNT BE ABLE TO DEFEND FEMALE YOUTHS IN TOPICS LIKE THIS.

[quote author=Sweetplum post=117102939]Only you 3 or more girls instead of focusing on just one and really show her how much you loved and want her?
You are testing mic.
You ll lose all the girls.[/quuote]but ladies do it too.but dt nt issue.the image of a Naija bae is very bad right now.many naija girls have reduce their value because of iphone ( to oppress other ladies).one will see d way our sista to dey follow one ugly rag yahoo boi dt don't know hw to treat women rite,treat them like Joe's meanwhile treat guys who knw hw to treat ladies well badly because he no get moni.nd further observation due to the harsh economy are now compromising Nd support their daughters into olosho.give like more 8yrs with yahoo boys .naija ladies go to yeye .u start seeing jss1 drop out yahoo boi is nacking one 300 level bae.person wer support to dey greet such ladies.kai.SOLUTION TO THIS SERIOUS PROBLEM IS GOOD GOVERNANCE IF U ARE A LADY ND U DONT HAVE PVC ND U NT OBIDIENT PLS KINDLY GET OUT OF THIS THREAD.

Dt naija gal for you.but we guys contribute to dis their behaviour.few years back wen we were busy telling u guys no use moni catch woman.cant use moni buy love many guys dey insult even some guys go post quotes on spending moni on ur gf dt moni is important blah blah .these d end result entitlement in ladies .now we guys are now crying.when we our Mumu do.many African man mentality like I b man as a man I should be the one in charge of the relationship do u know their are guys u have it wrong to ask their bae for cash once a while.the bad news is it as backfired on us.all this man pride man is a lion dt our fathers Nd grandfather brag Nd exhibit as backfired on us.women are now using it against us.
The best things for us now is to start educating guys on woman matter.the era of ignoring male child by male gender needs to stop.is affecting us

Farmerakinloye6:
this one you hold no BIG my brother check page 24 and compare. it make no sense for we growing commercially to allow it to be too BIG.

have seen it.do hw many does a cucumber plant bear.nd does cucumber plant continuing to bear in substituent farming seasons after ur first harvest.

Farmerakinloye6:
plant greengo and worry no More with hand pollination.

is d green go going to be as big as this one.

loosecanon50:
Even if Peter Obi meets voters in the grassroots, there are people who will still complain and say things like, "because he wants votes from them, he's now humble". Allow the man to do what he feel is best for him to turn Nigeria around for good.

In life, people must always talk. Everyone cannot like you. If everyone likes you, then check yourself. You must be doing something wrong.

I tiya o .campaign Neva start na.when campaign start he will do that .all candidates are not meet up with voters because campaign Neva start

[quote author= post=94634088]Have spray the farm, timber loader pass through my vegetable farm,bust my PVC and scatter my drip,so am installing new one.Am expanding the farm to six thousand stand, but my plan is to plant 5000-5500 stand.[/quote]hw do u handle d baby cucumber .because I planted one in my compound wen it started flowering I did hand pollination after watching it on YouTube but d female flower still dying .how do u handle this area

mrvitalis:
Funny thing is Ghana was on it way around 2010 to 2013 when they had their dancehall beats in all Nigerians parties then they had inferiority complex and started to copy Nigeria

For years Nigerians tried to sound like black Americans in music blacky , rugged man , mode 9 , Sasha p , style plus ...but we never made any headway ...till be stock to what we liked and made it popular

Look at south Africa amapiano today ...you can't go to Nigerian night clubs without hearing it

That's how you grow stick to what you enjoy sooner or later people would understand why you enjoy it then join you

let me correct sometime here for our much younger folks.style plus actually made Nigeria ladies love naija music after Tu face.so te pple couldn't wait for olufunmi video .rugged man on the other hand advocated for artiste to sing in their mother tongue in the song he did feature 9ice.what music expert in Nigeria are saying in regards to Ghana music is they should learn Nd create their own local music craft because dancehall is frm Jamaica Nd it glories Jamaica or carribbean.if you love at s.a they did jux that when few of their artiste notice that we go creative with local sounds

Ulunne777:
Nollywood groomed their movie industry,they'd later turn theres to full nudity and extreme sexuality .But I heard its now comatose.

they even spoil our nollywood.their d reason nollywood started glorifying slay queens/ run girl movies when our directors thought their nudity Nd sex scenes go fetch moni.this move is what kill d artistry of nollywood

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

the problem with our gender is we guys wouldn't nt teach u to be a real man ( like hw to handle women) but will judge u when u make a mistake .we always feel as a guy grewing up we don't need to be taught that u should have all d knowledge as a man in regards to woman matter.but is not d case.let talk about the scenario of first tym u wan nack a Naija bae they will start trying to distract u.when u wan make ur move.their one case with my friend Nd e bae d girl did struggle with my guy even close her legs my guy come force d leg open pull her pant Nd nack her.but it was consensual.d bae like my guy.if na me I go retract.there so many issues ladies exhibit that as a guy u need to be educated on hw wise to go about it.but sadly when u try to gain such education no guy will educate u why some don't know hw to explain it.that why u see young guys dey loose guide with women nowadays because they aren't educated.WE NEED TO STOP THIS MENTALITY OF MAN NA LION ( STOP IGNORING THE MALE CHILD,TEENAGE BOYS) IS BEGINNING TO AFFECT US .TAKE FOR INSTANCE MANY GUY THOUGHT MONEY WILL MAKE THEM GAIN GIRLS ND GFS BUT IT HAS BACKFIRED.ND NOW GUYS ARE CONFUSED ABOUT GF ND HAVING WIFE because WITH UR MONEY THEY GO STILL CHEAT.

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

see what u do .any of ur siblings knows her.if yes na small issue .let ur sibling with their phone,call Nd plead with her on ur behalf Nd make her see dt u her bf u guys normal had sex.dt u nt a rapist Nd dt she safe with u Nd dt u being down emotionally.she response to u after.d trick dey wrk well well but na only once u use this trick if u use it more e go backfire or ur sibling wouldn't be uncomfortable.

MadamVanessa:




Nobody betrayed loud mouthed Wike, rather he betrayed himself by always spitting fire and dragging his fellow southerner Peter Obi while asslicking Tambuwal a northernèr, who chooses his fellow northernèr over loud mouthed Wike.

So in a nutshell, it's safe to say that Wike betrayed himself and the whole southern region.

very wrong it shows u nt living in niger delta.if u really knw the truth story wike was treated unfairly why let me start frm 2015 when. Jona lost the elections other regions abandon pdp for apc esp. niger delta ND east ( I can't remember d situation of pdp in east at dt time )because niger deltans loved jona ND didn't want tinubu to take control d oil in d region .but d party was weak at dt point in fact it was dead in Edo state so apc was inputting imposters like modu sherriff Dem Dem to end d party at dt time it was akpabio dt was looked upon but failed to lead until wike came in to strengthen d party then came election in edo state ( d obaseki vs godfatherism oshomohole ND tinubu) in which wike travel to Benin ND made an impact in making sure obaseki wins under his new party he( obaseki )decamped to.after dt election it send new waves to d north some northerners pdp leaders who were having factions stated to settle.u see wike has sacrifice for PDP survive in political party system .so dishing like dt na serious mistake unless atiku consider pdp chairmanship for him as abeg no vex because wike is d most influential politician in d south south region.okowa is a failed project he didn't perform as a governor in his state ND having betrayal issue with d godfather ibori over pdp governorship ticket

AnonPoet:
OPINION: A LIFE OF UNENDING BETRAYAL AND TREACHERY – HOW DIRI BETRAYED WIKE - Christopher Amadi


https://nigerdeltagist.com/opinion-a-life-of-unending-betrayal-and-treachery-how-diri-betrayed-wike-by-christopher-amadi/

on the matter pdp VP ticket what happen as I take hear d gist .what happen was dt wike won d votes but was change because some pple in d party felt wike would be too strong for atiku to control as VP.to aviod worse senario like wat happen btw atiku ND obj he should go for someone weaker he can control ND atiku wanted an Igbo to seek votes frm east he wanted iheidioha frm imo stare but his pple want him for governor to push hope uzodinma out .so okowa was an alternative but this decision has put d party in disarray.because wike is a strong element of pdp

AccessME:
Tell him to picture the adverse effect it will have in his sex life, physique and health in general then when he conclude thinking, he shud imagine battling with the adverse repercussions in future or change his ways now before it becomes too late... Again, he should learn to sway his mind off any action that may arouse him thereby putting him in a position to release semen. In such way, I think he will be able to control his urge!

Thanks I will tell him I appreciate

AccessME:
Exactly. Just like a man who will see a sexy naked woman and his body doesn't move while another wouldn't even see her unclothedness o but yet, starts having an erection. it's just mindset!

Sorri for d question because I have someone struggling with d habit.will gist about it last nite ND he said his finding difficult to change his mindset to porn ND d habit dt he don fast ND pray tiya but to no avail.so wat ur advice for my friend.

AccessME:
As in.. my mind has been swayed out of it hence, deriving any form of satisfaction wen watching it doesn't work on me anymore.

congrats because dt is hard for some pple.nd some pple tends to fall back to it after a while.is like is a mind thing.