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[quote author=bestdudes post=118463081]lol...I used to be like you who think money and business is the koko... if you dont learn how women operate, you will suffer for it. M my problem is dt we d male gender ignore male child nd iz causing problem.what bestdudes has outline is a big problem dt we guys are facing.nd no one is teaching we guys hw to solve d problem
for example,hw to chatup a lady as a student nd as a graduate wrking
hw to sustain conversation with a nigerian lady bcoz they cant bring up conversation
what topic do ladies esp nigerian ladies love to gist about (for we guys is football english premier league to be precise ,while old men is politics is their favourite topic while women ( married /older women)na to gossip other pple family nd marriges.or marriages.but ladies nd bae i no knw don try find no fit get a single clue

bestdudes:
They are likely above 24.

i read thru ur write up.no b only u such as happen to.the truth is the1st girl is d i jux want to enter social platform because am bored.a guy wrote a thread about it on nairaland they are time wasters.
2nd lady is d normal money cautions lady which is common in ladies of nwadays which is caused by yahoo bois excessive expensive .
3rd lady is nt intrested maybe she has a bf or ecpnomic situation has make her focus on making money.
NUTSHELL IS NIGERIAN LADIES DNT KNW HW TO CHAT ND HAVE LOW SENSE OF HUMOR.COMPARE TO WHITES OR NIGERIAN BAE WHERE JAKPA GO ABOARD ND CHANGE HER NIGERIA LADY MENTALITY.

bestdudes:
Lmao.. you are funny. So point out where I made a mistake and the girls are not at fault?

Did I ask them for sex or ask them for anything? What will it cost a grown-up adult to be decent in their engagement? At my age? At my age, I would leave any girl alone as soon as I see any indecent attitude or red flag.

Maybe you are the kind that tries to convince yourself that "it is not a problem, continue to try your luck and gets disrespected even further"

Gerrraheree mien

hw old are dis lady .am sure they around 24 yrs below.

NigeriaIsGreat:
you be olodo. I can't waste my time engaging you

lol because is true .both chanels nd nta(a national tv) are nt showing flag off of apc flag off campaign rally.dt too bad.

Illegal1:
u never even start to cry....

hw can he cry when awhole nta is nt shpwing it .both nta nd channels are showing another event .pdp atiku is still open for job application i think they pay u well.because obidient no dey pay shi shi

NigeriaIsGreat:
Tinubu will convincingly win the coming election and succeed Buhari


Go and relax

nd nta is nt even showing it.

NaijaMutant:
The number of girls going into hook ups is geometrically increasing by the day.

It seems to be the easiest way out if this hellish economy for lazy girls

If you are yet to marry, sorry for you.

Chances of marrying an ex-olosho is now at it's all time high.


God save us

economy is to be blamed but wat worrisome is some mothers now are indirectly encouraging their daughters into ashawo.also the mentality of my daughter will marry rich man.i thought is media ,friends nd i phone craze dt causing it until i started knwing some of these girls moms .most of these hookups gals have materialistic moms esp d high end runs gals.if u think of it all these girls doing dis hustle in abj or lag or ph there mama no knw wetin dem dey do.d truth is some mothers knw nd encouraging hw did i knw is wen some fathers complain to my pastor about hw their mamadey encourage their children into such.even a family friend a woman i respected shocked me with her altitude towards her daughter walk walk ways

Tinubuadvocate:
Ipob are coming for you. Upon all the support they gave you during your reelection this is what you want to use to pay them back..

i need to address this ignorance express by yorubas nd northerner.most yorubas/n0rtherners always refer south south(niger delta) as south east(ibo) which shows dt pple in these two regions need to go back to geography class dt study d map of nigeria.so benins are ibos .or warri nA ikechuckwu full there or cross river na ibo or awka ibom na ibos mtsw pls educate urselvez .ipob dey benin nd deltastate or ipob dey cross river nnamdi kanu na benin boy .mtsew pls educate urselves(yoruba nd northerners) is becoming annoying

Medianna:
We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

ladies do it .but my sister naija bae image is very bad due to harsh economy lust for iPhone.nd hw yahoo boi dey use gal do yeye if you listen to guys gist about today young bae Nd their disgust about hw ladies are now reducing their value because of iphone .even now mothers are supporting their daughters into olosho as economy harsh .what is worrisome is that it might reach the level when jss1 boy wer join yahoo go dey nack ur agemate dey do sex party with ur age mate.respect no come dey.but there a good NEWS SOLUTION TO ALL THIS IS GOOD GOVERNANCE PLS GET UR PVC ND BE OBIDIENT .FURTHER BAD GOVERNANCE IS GOING TO BE VERY BAD.DT LADIES WOULDNT BE ABLE TO DEFEND FEMALE YOUTHS IN TOPICS LIKE THIS.

[quote author=Sweetplum post=117102939]Only you 3 or more girls instead of focusing on just one and really show her how much you loved and want her?
You are testing mic.
You ll lose all the girls.[/quuote]but ladies do it too.but dt nt issue.the image of a Naija bae is very bad right now.many naija girls have reduce their value because of iphone ( to oppress other ladies).one will see d way our sista to dey follow one ugly rag yahoo boi dt don't know hw to treat women rite,treat them like Joe's meanwhile treat guys who knw hw to treat ladies well badly because he no get moni.nd further observation due to the harsh economy are now compromising Nd support their daughters into olosho.give like more 8yrs with yahoo boys .naija ladies go to yeye .u start seeing jss1 drop out yahoo boi is nacking one 300 level bae.person wer support to dey greet such ladies.kai.SOLUTION TO THIS SERIOUS PROBLEM IS GOOD GOVERNANCE IF U ARE A LADY ND U DONT HAVE PVC ND U NT OBIDIENT PLS KINDLY GET OUT OF THIS THREAD.

Dt naija gal for you.but we guys contribute to dis their behaviour.few years back wen we were busy telling u guys no use moni catch woman.cant use moni buy love many guys dey insult even some guys go post quotes on spending moni on ur gf dt moni is important blah blah .these d end result entitlement in ladies .now we guys are now crying.when we our Mumu do.many African man mentality like I b man as a man I should be the one in charge of the relationship do u know their are guys u have it wrong to ask their bae for cash once a while.the bad news is it as backfired on us.all this man pride man is a lion dt our fathers Nd grandfather brag Nd exhibit as backfired on us.women are now using it against us.
The best things for us now is to start educating guys on woman matter.the era of ignoring male child by male gender needs to stop.is affecting us

Farmerakinloye6:
this one you hold no BIG my brother check page 24 and compare. it make no sense for we growing commercially to allow it to be too BIG.

have seen it.do hw many does a cucumber plant bear.nd does cucumber plant continuing to bear in substituent farming seasons after ur first harvest.

Farmerakinloye6:
plant greengo and worry no More with hand pollination.

is d green go going to be as big as this one.

loosecanon50:
Even if Peter Obi meets voters in the grassroots, there are people who will still complain and say things like, "because he wants votes from them, he's now humble". Allow the man to do what he feel is best for him to turn Nigeria around for good.

In life, people must always talk. Everyone cannot like you. If everyone likes you, then check yourself. You must be doing something wrong.

I tiya o .campaign Neva start na.when campaign start he will do that .all candidates are not meet up with voters because campaign Neva start

[quote author= post=94634088]Have spray the farm, timber loader pass through my vegetable farm,bust my PVC and scatter my drip,so am installing new one.Am expanding the farm to six thousand stand, but my plan is to plant 5000-5500 stand.[/quote]hw do u handle d baby cucumber .because I planted one in my compound wen it started flowering I did hand pollination after watching it on YouTube but d female flower still dying .how do u handle this area

mrvitalis:
Funny thing is Ghana was on it way around 2010 to 2013 when they had their dancehall beats in all Nigerians parties then they had inferiority complex and started to copy Nigeria

For years Nigerians tried to sound like black Americans in music blacky , rugged man , mode 9 , Sasha p , style plus ...but we never made any headway ...till be stock to what we liked and made it popular

Look at south Africa amapiano today ...you can't go to Nigerian night clubs without hearing it

That's how you grow stick to what you enjoy sooner or later people would understand why you enjoy it then join you

let me correct sometime here for our much younger folks.style plus actually made Nigeria ladies love naija music after Tu face.so te pple couldn't wait for olufunmi video .rugged man on the other hand advocated for artiste to sing in their mother tongue in the song he did feature 9ice.what music expert in Nigeria are saying in regards to Ghana music is they should learn Nd create their own local music craft because dancehall is frm Jamaica Nd it glories Jamaica or carribbean.if you love at s.a they did jux that when few of their artiste notice that we go creative with local sounds

Ulunne777:
Nollywood groomed their movie industry,they'd later turn theres to full nudity and extreme sexuality .But I heard its now comatose.

they even spoil our nollywood.their d reason nollywood started glorifying slay queens/ run girl movies when our directors thought their nudity Nd sex scenes go fetch moni.this move is what kill d artistry of nollywood

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

the problem with our gender is we guys wouldn't nt teach u to be a real man ( like hw to handle women) but will judge u when u make a mistake .we always feel as a guy grewing up we don't need to be taught that u should have all d knowledge as a man in regards to woman matter.but is not d case.let talk about the scenario of first tym u wan nack a Naija bae they will start trying to distract u.when u wan make ur move.their one case with my friend Nd e bae d girl did struggle with my guy even close her legs my guy come force d leg open pull her pant Nd nack her.but it was consensual.d bae like my guy.if na me I go retract.there so many issues ladies exhibit that as a guy u need to be educated on hw wise to go about it.but sadly when u try to gain such education no guy will educate u why some don't know hw to explain it.that why u see young guys dey loose guide with women nowadays because they aren't educated.WE NEED TO STOP THIS MENTALITY OF MAN NA LION ( STOP IGNORING THE MALE CHILD,TEENAGE BOYS) IS BEGINNING TO AFFECT US .TAKE FOR INSTANCE MANY GUY THOUGHT MONEY WILL MAKE THEM GAIN GIRLS ND GFS BUT IT HAS BACKFIRED.ND NOW GUYS ARE CONFUSED ABOUT GF ND HAVING WIFE because WITH UR MONEY THEY GO STILL CHEAT.

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

see what u do .any of ur siblings knows her.if yes na small issue .let ur sibling with their phone,call Nd plead with her on ur behalf Nd make her see dt u her bf u guys normal had sex.dt u nt a rapist Nd dt she safe with u Nd dt u being down emotionally.she response to u after.d trick dey wrk well well but na only once u use this trick if u use it more e go backfire or ur sibling wouldn't be uncomfortable.

MadamVanessa:




Nobody betrayed loud mouthed Wike, rather he betrayed himself by always spitting fire and dragging his fellow southerner Peter Obi while asslicking Tambuwal a northernèr, who chooses his fellow northernèr over loud mouthed Wike.

So in a nutshell, it's safe to say that Wike betrayed himself and the whole southern region.

very wrong it shows u nt living in niger delta.if u really knw the truth story wike was treated unfairly why let me start frm 2015 when. Jona lost the elections other regions abandon pdp for apc esp. niger delta ND east ( I can't remember d situation of pdp in east at dt time )because niger deltans loved jona ND didn't want tinubu to take control d oil in d region .but d party was weak at dt point in fact it was dead in Edo state so apc was inputting imposters like modu sherriff Dem Dem to end d party at dt time it was akpabio dt was looked upon but failed to lead until wike came in to strengthen d party then came election in edo state ( d obaseki vs godfatherism oshomohole ND tinubu) in which wike travel to Benin ND made an impact in making sure obaseki wins under his new party he( obaseki )decamped to.after dt election it send new waves to d north some northerners pdp leaders who were having factions stated to settle.u see wike has sacrifice for PDP survive in political party system .so dishing like dt na serious mistake unless atiku consider pdp chairmanship for him as abeg no vex because wike is d most influential politician in d south south region.okowa is a failed project he didn't perform as a governor in his state ND having betrayal issue with d godfather ibori over pdp governorship ticket

AnonPoet:
OPINION: A LIFE OF UNENDING BETRAYAL AND TREACHERY – HOW DIRI BETRAYED WIKE - Christopher Amadi


https://nigerdeltagist.com/opinion-a-life-of-unending-betrayal-and-treachery-how-diri-betrayed-wike-by-christopher-amadi/

on the matter pdp VP ticket what happen as I take hear d gist .what happen was dt wike won d votes but was change because some pple in d party felt wike would be too strong for atiku to control as VP.to aviod worse senario like wat happen btw atiku ND obj he should go for someone weaker he can control ND atiku wanted an Igbo to seek votes frm east he wanted iheidioha frm imo stare but his pple want him for governor to push hope uzodinma out .so okowa was an alternative but this decision has put d party in disarray.because wike is a strong element of pdp

AccessME:
Tell him to picture the adverse effect it will have in his sex life, physique and health in general then when he conclude thinking, he shud imagine battling with the adverse repercussions in future or change his ways now before it becomes too late... Again, he should learn to sway his mind off any action that may arouse him thereby putting him in a position to release semen. In such way, I think he will be able to control his urge!

Thanks I will tell him I appreciate

AccessME:
Exactly. Just like a man who will see a sexy naked woman and his body doesn't move while another wouldn't even see her unclothedness o but yet, starts having an erection. it's just mindset!

Sorri for d question because I have someone struggling with d habit.will gist about it last nite ND he said his finding difficult to change his mindset to porn ND d habit dt he don fast ND pray tiya but to no avail.so wat ur advice for my friend.

AccessME:
As in.. my mind has been swayed out of it hence, deriving any form of satisfaction wen watching it doesn't work on me anymore.

congrats because dt is hard for some pple.nd some pple tends to fall back to it after a while.is like is a mind thing.

AccessME:
The truth is that I have made up my mind to never masturbate again so, even wen I'm watching porn I don't feel any urge to FAP.. It more like my mind is not poised on getting my satisfaction from self servicing anymore. Real s*x is where my mind relies hence it's only what can make me release!

hw do u do it for pple to learn .because porn naturally trigger masturbation.

AccessME:
I'm writing this with tears draining out of my eyes. I masturbated for over 12 years and lose a lots of body nutrients now I'm weak, feeling pains all over my bones, eyes and body in general.

As in the sperm I've been releasing all this year's have come to hot me now I want to regain them back. Pls which food can I be eating to help me regain my strength/sperm back within a short period of time?

masturbation might reduce weight due to depression we faced trying to quit the habit.or being tired of the habit.
Regain ur strength stop for 6months u regain all ur strength.nd stop porn which target d habit.e no easy o because u have to observe other weak point of u towards ladies like timidity ,lack of boldness,lack of female friends wen u stated d habit

Dagrace01:
People commenting above me are being controversial, one way traffic and irrational.
Trace R.Kelly history, he was a victim of sexual abuse by this same gender that made him become a sex predator, many out there does now have an opportunity to outgrow the monster they were made to be. Many were able to outgrow it, the former was the type of R.Kelly. I'm not trying to exonerate him but let's cut him some slacks, he should face the sentence without feeling rejected.

Trust me, I was a victim of sexual abuse too by grown up women twice when growing up, but I was able to heal and correct what was done to me, others couldn't. Some became impotent, some became sterile, some turned to sex addicts or predators and some became sex maniacs and paedophiles. While a few are normal, not enough excuse though, but boys should start speaking out too so as to avoid the reoccurrence of all these shits!

but one thing we all ignore is pornography is also a problem in we men.pple like r Kelly are porn addict .porn make a man pervert .the problem is nt r Kelly or bill Cosby many of his type will come up in d nearest future the problem is the entertainment industry itself.the industry promote perversion.if u watch secret lives of Hollywood (many celeb are in involve in Extreme secret sex party )

SteveDGreat:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byS5mlQQ_jA

The Northerners are indeed taking this Peter Obi Campaign personal. They have been very strategic in their support for Peter OBI.

All with their personal fund.
For someone they said Northerners won't vote for .

Watch video of one of the huge Billboard mounted in Sokoto state today.

focusing on middle belt states ND taraba southern Kaduna is going make peter obi win forget north they are for atiku.dnt be deceived

Those saying okowa is a wise choice are not frm d state.okowa no perform as a governor .Ask any deltans they will tell u is like atiku choosing ikpeazu as VP hw will east ND abia pple feel is like a spit on d face .udom could have be better since wike is too strong for atiku to control as VP.secondly okowa is nt popular in the region.
As for the state govt aspirant okowa will have to drop his candidate sherriff (who has court case on certificate forgery ) for ibori to have his way.

ujoatu:
HOW PETER OBI CAN WIN THE PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION;
MY MEMO TO HIS SOCIAL MEDIA SUPPORTERS.

I have been inaundated by friends why I’m not in support of the Labour Party candidate. I’m yet to support any other candidate as well, still watching the terrain. For now, I offer to help their MINISTRY sharing this idea drawn from my practical experience in politics including contesting election, holding government offices, my work as a PR practitioner and journalist and affinity with politicians over the years.

I have observed the current frenzy by mostly young Nigerians to have Mr. Obi become the our next president which is fine and within their democratic rights but for that dream to see the light of the day, they need to start taking critical steps outside social media to actualize that.

Here are a few steps in my personal consideration and experience can help.
1. Get your PVC. This is of course number one on the must do list. There is no alternative unless you are below the voting age.

2. Move from supporter to party member. Join Labour Party. Yes, become a part member. Go ask for your Ward Chairman, register with the ward, attend their meetings and encourage them. It is the party members that will are usually mobilized to work for the victory of the party, play crucial roles on election day and protect the votes of their candidates. There variety of assignments party members carry out on election day many I can't say here please. It is only when you are identified as a trusted card carrying member of the party that such sensitive duties will be given to you. Why allow those vital and crucial assignments be given to people that can be bought over? Join and assist or supervise them, see to every detail of what transpires on election day. It's the day you wear jeans trouser, with some cash at hand for LOGISTICS AND ENTERTAINMENT, the day you would spend hours without blinking. Get ready.

3. Start physical campaign not just social media campaign. It is good to campaign on Social Media but there are millions of people who are not on Social Media. These are the people that really do the voting, waiting under rain and sun. They are not elites, they are ordinary people you ignore. They are the ones corrupt politicians buy their votes. They are blue collar workers who don’t give a damn about the ENGLISH YOU SPEAK. They see elections as their own Bazaar to get cash and gifts from politicians they won’t see again until the next election season. Seek them, make them your friends. Enlighten them in the language they speak and appreciate. They are the ones you ignore daily on your way to and fro work in your nice car and outfit. They are in your villages mostly, in slums in the city, they are in towns doing menial jobs. Many serve you as mechanics, security, even your domestic staff you maltreat. Start by showing them love now, before bringing up election and your chosen candidste. Come down from your high horse, mingle with them.

4. Be tolerant of other people’s choices and opinion.
People support party and candidates for different reasons. It is their right to do so. To win them, try to be civil, PREACH TO THEM like Jehovah Witnesses. Acknowledge them for their choice and their right to support who they wish then show them the alternative you proffer in love. Be polite.

5. Be wary of the religious and ethnic lines. This shouldn’t be a Christian vs Moslem or Igbo vs Fulani campaign. Don’t put fear in others, they will gangup against your candidate if you do. Mr. Peter Obi is known for his civility, unassuming nature, nationalistic tendencies, don't tar his reputation and undermine him.

6. Campaign on Issues not Innuendos. Use your candidates profile, his service records and personality backed with his program for Nigerians. Simple. You don't make a point by tarring others with mud. Peter Obi is not a Saint he is human and also has his frailties.

7. Step out on election day to vote. From my experience over the years, elites don’t vote on election days. They see it as holidays. While most youths use it for sports and to mingle in the neighborhood.

8. Start where you are. To influence others, start from your neighborhood, colleagues, relatives, friends etc. Start where you are, leave social media a little.

Best of luck in your OBIdience.

Ik Ogbonna is an Owerri based PR consultant and Journalist, he was SA on Social Media and later ICT to the Imo State Governor (2014-2017)
Lalasticlala fp pl

op is right except d membership even in Twitter some pple share the same opinion .but there one angle that will make it a strong movement like endsars( because peter obi has d best campaign slogan # take back our country) the angle that will make it a strong movement is when the big music celebs enter.for instance davido played a vital role in the campaign for his uncle during d last osun governorship election( the election was tough until sDP omisore decide to go apc favour) The same thing happen in endsars too.anything can happen if wizkid,naira Marley,olamide ND don jazzy enter the matter .it will blow like wild fire.wizkid alone many youths love and worship him.if that happen all celebs becomes one like what happen in endsars then real strategy will start.
THIZ ELECTION IS DIFFERENT FROM OTHER ELECTION SINCE 1999 IS ABOUT SAVING OUR NATION FOR OUR KIDS ,UNBORN CHILDREN.THOSE OLD RECYCLE POLITICIAL ASPIRANT ESP.TINUBU HAS NO PLANS FOR THE COUNTRY ND WANT TO DO MORE DAMAGE TO THIS COUNTRY AND GO THEIR GRAVE , LEAVE US (20s,ND 30s even 40s)WITH A CONDEMN NATION THAT WILL AFFECT THE YOUTHS OF TODAY IN THE NEAREST FUTURE ND OUR KIDS.WHAT ARE WILL GOING TO TELL OUR CHILDREN WHEN WE BECOME PARENTS WHEN THEY ASK US WHAT DID WE DO TO FIX NAIJA.SO IS A VERY SENSITIVE ELECTION because AFTER THIS NXT ADMINISTRATION IS OUR KIDS GENERATION( 30 ND 20s OF TODAY) .WHAT EVER WE DO NOW AFFECT OUR THEM ( OUR KIDS)POSITIVELY OR NEGATIVE.FORGET JAKPA TO OTHER COUNTRY WILL TOO HIGHLY POPULATED WILL OVERPOPULATION OTHER NATIONS WHICH YOU KNW THE DRASTIC NEGATIVE RESPONSE OF OTHER NATIONS TOWARDS US

No insults pls ND the go make money woman go follow u pls isn't welcome as we knw it has already created entitlement in our sisters.
To collect numbers from ladies online isn't much of a problem.The principle to collect their number is to ask for their number giving her d full impression you jux want friendship only.but do it with humor.
The problem. I have is being spontaneous in chatup in watsapp.after dt first chat I have with ladies when nxt I want chat like 2weeks or 3week later na wahala.and I have discovered our naija bae have too much DNT ND turn off.so I will nairaland females to teach us guys hw do u overcome dis challenge.because u ladies always complain about our chatup but d truth is e no easy to chatup naija bae unlike oyinbo bae or some other African bae.i will appreciate

OdogwuBlog:
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ONE NEED TO ADDRESS D ISSUES OF DIVORCE ND SEPARATION.ACCORDING APOSLTE PAUL SEPARATION IS WHEN U LEAVE UR SPOUSE BUT STILL MARRIED TO DT SPOUSE .ND U REMAIN LIKE DT( U WILL NT REMARRY OR SLEEP WITH ANOTHER PERSON ) IS APPLY ON PERCULIAR CASES.LIKE THIS CASE.
BUT IN REALITY WHY MOST CHRISTIAN WOMEN LIKE HER DNT LEAVE IS because OF TWO THINGS

ONE WHAT WILL PPLE SAY ND TREATMENT TOWARDS HER ESP.IN D CHURCH ( CHURCH WOMEN).U SEE WOMEN FRM 40 ND ABOVE THEY ILL TREAT ND GOSSIP BADLY TOWARDS SUCH A LADY MAY OSINACHI MIGHT HAVE A POSITION IN D CHURCH MAYBE SHE ALSO INTO SUNDAY CHURCH ND SHE APPLY SEPARATION .DIS CHURCH WOMEN WILL BE LIKE NO BE DT WOMAN WER NO FIT KEEP E MARRIAGE.DEY FIT SPREAD RUMOUR SAY SHE DEY CHEAT OR SHE DEY WAHALA E HUSSY DEN HUSSY DRIVE AM .ZUCH WOMEN FIT KNW SAY NA DOMESTIC ABUSE BUT MIGHT START ACTING LIKE JOURNALIST KEMI
SECOND REASON WHY WOMEN NO DEY LEAVE IS because OF WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF D CHILDREN.because THOSE WHO WILL ENCOURAGE HER TO APPLY SEPARATION WOULDNT PAY D CHILDREN SCH FEES,ND UPKEEP EXCEPT D CHURCH IF D CHURCH NA BETA CHURCH.EVEN FAMILY MEMBERS FIT DISAPPOINT IN DIS AREA