₦airaland Forum

SageMK:
Evidence for rape that was perpetrated a decade ago?

The countless stories you read every day about minors getting raped by people they trust already established the fact it's very much possible... Just condemn the act.

You don't need to pick sides abeg.

my brother tho pastor might be quilty.but Bob risky have a point.is nt every accusation a lady put 2 a guy u believe u have to pulse ND review u Neva handle husband ND wife issue esp d once 4rm delta.wen u c a case d wife Luk like a bad woman but wen d man dies evidence of wet in d MAn b go shock person.u Neva experience case wen a gal wer u b ur friend e guy dey treat her one kind u no like such but web u cum date her hey u cum b like no wonder dt her ex dey treat am like dis.or Wat of d actress wer accuse taxify driver we no cum hear about d mata again

landmark86:
I felt bad as a Christian with some bad comments from the so called Christians/believers.
Are you people now telling me that there are no real men of God in Nigeria anymore? Nigeria has no turn to a place now where anyone can just wakeup a night and condemn anointed men of God, so bad. And we keep Christians keep encouraging rubbish. Even TB Joshua, Bishop Oyedepo have been condemned too in the past but what was the outcome, progress & success in their ministries.

Am not a COZA member but I know Pastor Fatoyibo way backs in Ilorin, is a true man of God, but i'll never be surprise with allegation like this because that's the only thing any woman can use against him being a very handsome, good looking man. Even our Lord Jesus was also condemn during his own time.

For Timi Dakolo & his wife, I never know what they intended to gain in this, but I pray the repercussion of this doesn't affect you and your children children in future. Because the words of God said" touch not my anointed one and do my prophet no harm".

For me, I stand out as a Christian to condemn this acts, Fatoyibo is innocent.

my brother it is nt u dt will stand for his innocence is God.if d fatoyibo is a true man of God this case na small matter God will fight 4 him.i feel d guy might be quity.because a guy can rape a gal wen he was a sinner but wen God arrest such person 4 real cum pastor such thing might nt raise up. and if such allegation rise up ND d pastor no backslide God go use d case 2 protray his glory bcoz d church is winning soul ND making heaven smile ND God will nt lose such.so my bro pastor na name na God na be d focus.

Bizmagnet:
What if the man is innocent? A rapist (pastor) came to your house by 6.30A.M and you couldn't shout till he did it. He still had the gut to go downstairs to pick something and came back to the same you, yet you couldn't shout all through the period despite the fact that your sister was around in the same building. All through the years you couldn't call him out or sue him despite the fact that your family hasn't been poor. It's now you just woke up from your slumber and remembered someone raped you...you can now just shout! This is not a claim that the pastor is innocent but this "shout" is very suspicious. Now you're gathering vulnerabe people who were not there or living witnesses when the pastor performed the alleged act, and these hungry people will boldly protest and deride the MOG who may be innocent. The way people use wifi dey collect generational curses no be small.

na nw we go know if dis dude is a genuine man of God or those guy pastor doing money laundry for politicians.

Gulher:
my own is that it is unacceptable for a man of God to be this worldly inclined! TF is all this designer and sleek dressing about?! He is the one making all the church ladies fall for him. How will the congregation be in the spirit when Pastor is wearing so much swag. Jeez..

u got a point.dis coza pastor is a motivational speaker.forming pastor.many of such are nt rili pastors but motivational speaker and life coach.dt why I like sum deliverance ministry pastors.

Beninempire:
So a pastor shouldn't dance again?

Christianity isn't a cult, you are free to dance any time of dancing you like, you can express yourself freely. There's no place in the Bible that forbids dancing.

And there's no place in the Bible that said pastor should dress in a particular way, they are humans after all.

Some people will insult him because he choose to be happy and dance, their lives are full of suffering and bitterness

am one of dem.u Neva get problem beyond ur control den meet dis kind pastors. let me tell u sum things can a rmd behave like Wizkid or grandpa b watching barney alone. dis one is nt a real man of God Na one of dis motivator speakers forming pastor.wen God call u b like u were carried hell fire cum bak earth Wat is trendy on social media no go dey ur mind again.dis pastors still following wat trendy in d circular music wen graduate boys were dey hustle no even know d trendy stuff in music ND fashion. even wen a lady marry sef they stop follow trends bcoz of parental reality. I have encounter such pastors Na flexing pastor dem b. d way they handle ones spiritual problem is terrible sum will give u dis bdy Lang. dt implies y u dey always disturb me wit ur problems na only u get problem.they only interested in bring members 2 church thru evangelism.sum dnt have days 4 counseling they tell u after church services wen services u c him telling him e wan travel.

Onecutetivboi:
Freedom At Last
He shud drop a song titled Freedom.
*
*He shud also learn from his mistakes
In Shatta Wale's Voice
'Know the friends dat u keep'
*That Kapaichumar*mar*chukpako Guy is indeed a friend, he nvr left his(marley) side. Even tho he was warned after his release

freedom or is jux d beginning wen u granted bail afta charge to court is different 4rm normal police cell. it means court Don c ur mata Don fix date 2 trial u but go home ND prepare.by d tym dem chop e money eh go humble. so guy dt Wat it means. make him jux pray d mata no bad go fix use moni.

nepapole:

d pix na real

positivelord:
I understand dear. I can actually relate...a dating scammer,granted an interview and call her a drug addict ..in reaction Tonto called him 40-second-man. And boom,some mudar fukars cant see it as a reaction. Typical of our society ,women should bear any kind of abuse humbly.well he met the wrong woman.

stop asslicking Tonto is nt matured. even if na d hussy start am. is she d first married celeb 2 face such scenario or u 4gotten tiwa salvage tillbillz saga. Luk hw tiwa handle d serious accusation on social media brought by her hussy dt maturity. Tonto is a kid. wen ur hussy does such u have 2 b wise wen replying like Wat tiwa did. pple like ehen na so tillbillz be. nt 1minute man.it shwz d man no get issues. (no b bad hussy) bcoz d questn his pple go ask y u no discuss it wit him ND seek solutn.nd is he taking care of his son.

Simjos:
There is this girl in my area that I'm in love with, i wooed her but she refuse to accept me as her boyfriend but she does come to my house, we play, watch movies together etc. All my friends knows her to a point they are all her friends.
I pretty much close to her family likewise she does with mine family.

Lately I beginning to suspect that she likes one of my friend, each time she comes around she always likes to sit with him, talk more with him, what pain me most is that my friend knows, so, he always make use of the advantage and this has making me feel uncomfortable and pissed but I always act mature at all time.

To cut the story short, yesterday she came around and we were all watching a movie and my friend was lying on a mate and the next minute she lie down with him on the mate. I was so upset but I was calm.

I'm afraid I might lose my temper one day, Guys I need your help what should I do in this situation.

op DT y is gud 2 b a playa during ur younger part of ur youth.ie double dating and learning hw 2 attract ladies.it kills wat u feeling now.wat u experience sum of urs have experience it but later found DT being a mature player at a certain period of ur life help a lot 2 kill jealousy because wen it cumes 2 relatnahip u need 2 b overcome jealousy and heartbreak.because chick BTW 16 to 22/23 are interested in flirting. 4get d lie lie talk about luv and relatnship.na ladies wer don finish nysc dey luk 4 am.if lik sey u get females friends wer dey fyn and dey chop beta gals u b like wet in dey do dis 1.because man wer dey chop beta jellof always no go dey pained if owambe rice no reach am

[quote author=Akcc post=74916813]Hi. I’m a university student and in my mid twenties, I have this problem of approaching girls I see for the first time. I don’t think I lack the confidence really but feel like I have no idea what to say to her especially since she’s a stranger, I’m extremely confident of my looks and I’m well to do for a student usually money gives me this confidence when it comes to approaching girls in clubs but outside there I can’t talk to a stranger I’d love to know. So my question here is what do I say to a girl who I just saw for the first time! Specifically on the streets[/quote.4 sch setting if u know book e dey easy 2 attract esp.d book type of girls.one way 2 catch campus babe is 2 use borrowing her note den u can start 4rm there.because Nigerian ladies are highly defensive.nowadays except d jovial ones.anotha way is to start by making friend wit girls below ur kind of girl den improve 4rm there.y i say this girls like jovial guys but mostly likely guys dt other girls are attracted to.observe guys who have female friends and hw it easy 4 them 2 approach ladies.y some ladies wen they c u wit bam phone dem go want u but it leads 2 blow too much moni or mugu thin which leads 2 u being stingy 2 ur guys.but wen they notice u wit a girl or girls wer dey OK or fyn pass them and u are mature about it.they go dey wonder i wan dey less defensive 2 u

smoke9910:
That shows she's a hoe. They're not worth it.

guys u na no dey try at all because wizkid sing about spending money on woman u na think sey dt d way.smh.

Curvinus:
op maybe you're ugly, skinny, not manly or look a little boy that didn't pass through puberty. looks really matter in life and the blame should go to whoever bestowed you with such shitty genetics.
however, you must learn to accept yourself the way you are and hopefully, over time something may change or you may discover what works for you.

but for now, you should concentrate on your studies and strive to become gainfully employed when you leave school to give you some leverage.

u saying dis because it Neva happen 2 u.4wat am cing here na immaturely on d pple around him.if he no get attitude no mature bros dey laugh or mock e fellow guy

undefeateds:
'm a guy in my mid 20s,and am bored about how things are going for me,why am I always rejected,nobody want to listen to me,no one give a damn Bleep about how I feel,even those that am sure am better than,they always want to make fun of me,they now turn me to joking subject.

For instance,if we are given a group work to do in class,and I try to raise a suggestion, no one will listen, but if everything goes wrong,and I bring an idea and perhaps it works, they will see it as ordinary,but if it works through another guy,the person will be like god.
And this thing has now advance from my academic life to real life,all the girls ve ever asked out in my life do turn me down and d most painful one is d one wey I approach d last time, she is my best friend and she is d one I do confide in,she bluntly told me without feeling any remorse that 'I don't need u,I know wat I want'. That is the most brutal response ve ever heard in my life,since that time am just depressed.

i don't know if i always appear stupid or not,but naturally am an introvert and whenever am doing that they see me as a proud guy,but d more I try to get familiar with people,the more they take me for granted, how do I get out from this,cos right now,everything just tire me.

op ur problem no not b u but ur schmate or d pple in ur sch.environment immaturity.so far sey u no dey proud or look down on pple.if u juz a normal introvert without any attitude then na immaturity on ur sch mates.and again can u watsapp me 08130886416.let me c ur appearance. y am saying dis is because it happen 2 me wen i was in secondary sch my last question hw d boys 4 sch.dey behave because wen u said they turn u 2 a joking subject .bros don't do dt 2 their fellow bro.do they do joke or being sarcastic 2wards u wen ladies dey in u na present

Bespoke i will luv 2 ask which soft leather material use 4 sneakers or sport palm slippers.called in d market

I love 2 ask shoe expert.because am planning of making a shoe and palms because i use size 49
I want 2 know the different types of soft leathers in the market.(mention the nigeria names it called in the market)because if u tell shoemakers calfskin he will jux b luking at u and may use a wrong soft leather.secondly which soft leather is the one DT have smooth surface and is use 4 sneakers and sports palm slippers.

quivah:
Yeah, because being a woman in Nigeria is a big risk now. We are potential victims, runs girl or legit or whatever. So long you are female, they see you as their potential money drawer.
Both young and old. I will have baby girls one day, I have female cousins and nieces and I fear for us.
We can't walk on the street now without checking left and right.
Suspecting that man who just passed by who mistakenly or intentionally rubbed his shoulder on us without checking to see if everything is intact.
We can't date rich guys cause his source of money, we don't know. Who knows if he's a ritualist, kidnapper or yahoo guy?
And poor /broke guys? We are scared too cause most of them are desperate to make money and will use those closer to them as a source. Take a look at those who killed that delsu student, do they look rich?
To keep male friends now na risk, if they dont rape, they kill for rituals.
You know your best male friend since primary school? Doesn't mean you can't be his potential victim if he wants.
That guy on the street who sends his 12year old neighbor on errands might likely do evil things to her the next day.
We can't conveniently dry our underwears outside now, pant snatchers are roaming all about.

Being a woman is Nigeria/Africa is a big risk. And yes I am pained, because people mostly men still find justification to these evil vices. You are a leech, runs girl, make your own money, student, married, single ....we are potential victims!

We can't even walk on the road these days.

I wan ask u sum questions b4 u start stereotyping Nigerian guys and Africa.hw many guys have u heard have being use 4 ritual.and why ladies can't do yahoo plus too and use us guys too so dt ladies can buy I phone x and venza.do u knw why is nt happening because guys dey hear word pass ladies.u jux talking wit ignorance and hate.ladies have tried 2 do yahoo plus b4 by using guys semen but when they get 10 victims guys don alert warning.every guys will start be alert while some guys will go do survey 2 babalawo and knw the precautions nd hw 2 counter it this has happen b4 .that why u hardly see a nigerian guy will allow a lady carry his used condom or buy new condom.as 4 u trying 2 divert d discussion trying 2 use 15 yrs gal 2 cover up d fault of most ladies materialistism.nd immaturity.in reasoning.my dear ritual don te no b 2day.but in other cases in d past esp.in 90s when media even nollywood warn us children we listen dt y as a stranger it might b hard 2 give a Nigerian child sweet and take expect d kid 2 accept dt was there tricks then..but ladies dnt listen and ladies dnt like 2 accept their fault.and take precautions like we did wen we were kids.if i wan 2 use a lady 4 ritual is very easy than children or guy.esp.dis december period bxos every bae nw is desperate 4 a guy who will sponsor them 4 xmas gifts.in reality even on social media ladies discriminate hustling guys or average earners guys.or brothers i dey lie.but our sistaz will always deny their fault even when it affecting them .it in their nature.

TheAgba:
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and frustrate u imagine i go my uni.were I graduate 2 use atm.only 4 gate man 2 say na 4 staff and students and DT full area no get bank.u have 2 go inside twn.juz dey make person vex.sometyms u b like is nigeria cursed.

Kastonkastroll:
em but bro you knew her before you asked her for airtime. Yours is understandable. Or are you telling me you just asked a random girl you have never met for airtime and wellaa, she just sent yoyu airtime cause she is father Christmas

4rm wat i read it didn't shw she a random lady.and guy u were dey talk gal done dash u money or give u airtym hw many gals does DT in dis country.why ur bdy jux dey pepper u na wa 4 u.u no knw sey if a gal Neva invest in ur life and u go marry am.wen hards time cum den u go knw why dis guy acted lik dt

funum:
pls how do I get pass the fear of rejection, cause I think that's my only problem....

we all here 2 help ourselves.d solution 2 ur problem is start with the ladies DT ur confident level is higher or stronger 2 handle or approach.4 example let use female celeb 2 approach Genevieve nnaji or Juliet ibrahim u go jux melt why they high pass u.so what do u do u 1st start 4rm simi later u enter niyola enta chidinma by dis time ur level of confident go dey beta off.another trick is to start making female friends then reduce d love/lust tendencies u knw why because some girls are attracted 2 guys dt are socialable.while others are attracted 2 guys were sabi book but note if na book b her priorities.so brotha try fight this weakness no allow b4 u finish sch nd suffer wat i suffered because e go hard fight am afta graduation or nysc.

[quote author=HigherEd post=73174731]I get your point. But remove private schools from your statement. Graduates of Ambassador college or faith academy are not half baked.[/quote.i understand ur stand but let face reality if u rili get my point u could have ask about d technology gap.4 instance hw can student have a cheap academic laptop or shewing machine DT u give assignment 2 d student.bill gate tried 2 solve d issue yrs back but failed because of exchange rates in Africa currencies.is faith academy d only private sch in Nigeria.most private universities have lectures 4rm public universities. dis issue was discuss on BBC.d problem is practical.curriculum absent.I finish 4rm a well renowned respected private secondary sch.in Benin.and private university and what i discover is DT u Jack ur book and pour it on s exam day.is a gud sch wit gud teacher but using a theory curriculum is like barca or real Madrid teaching football in theory.their gud club using bad course curriculum.see China build more trchnical college in their country. let face reality i can bet u take a practical test on our private sch graduates on things like electrical repairs u b shocked on d results DT why private or public Nigerian sch don't come top in ranking in africa.let face reality 2 solve problems.

HigherEd:
I say part privatisation might just be the way forward for Nigerian higher education.
ASUU has successfully depicted a grim picture of the public uni system. However, this rot isn't peculiar to Higher education.

Our healthcare system is rottened, our secondary schools are rottened, our physical infrastructure is rottened, our power sector is rottened, our security apparatus is rottened so it is impractical to have a sudden surge in budgetary allocation to universities without having negative impact across other sectors.

This is why ASUU must put on its thinking cap and seek for ways to partner with the private sector to generate funds. One of the beauty of university autonomy is that you must ensure your very own survival.

The average federal school is richer than the average private school yet the rot is more apparent at the federal level - this is because the vast majority of problems do not have funding at its core. Even if the problem is funding then respond by cutting enrollment down.

Example: If govt gives Unilorin funding that can adequately support 2,000 new students, Unilorin shouldn't admit 10,000 students. Only admit the number of students ur funding can support. It is not the business of a university to increase access for the Nigerian populace, let the Education ministry worry about that. If Education Ministry ask for higher enrollment, you should ask for higher funding.

One of the reasons why UI is highly rated is that it has a lower student enrolment than its counterpart. So Unilorin collects a little lower in FG allocation but has 150% more enrollment. UI while cutting enrollment for students did not cut staff size therefore govt is forced to pay more to UI than Unilorin which is twice bigger.

Caltech(USA) has just 3,000 students yet ranked top 10 Globally
Rice university(USA)has 3000 students yet ranked top 100 globally.
POSTECH(SKorea)admits 300 students yearly yet top 100 globally
Ecole Normale Superierue de cashan(France) has 1,631 students yet top 100 globally.



Well Lalasticlala this is a must for FP.

even if all listed are met NY fg d universities,will still produce half bake graduate due 2 it theory curriculum.d problem of our education system start 4rm d secondary sch.who use theory curriculum dt y most private uni nd secondary sch produce half bake graduates have u though why private student aren't superb in knowledge.the solution abolish secondary sch curriculum nd bring technical college 2 life because most western high sch are actuately technical college

Abati60:
Jonathan should bury his head in shame. If Nigeria is truly a sovereign and not a vassal state why did his government dance to Obama’s command. How many Nigerians watched Obsma’s speech to Nigerians. Did the hunter in Igbeti, nor the fisherman in eket. His government lost because they couldnt perform. He was sharing hard currencies to anyone who can campaign for his reelection. APC’s cloud of political humiliation is full and ready to pour down.

don't knw y some pple talk lik idiot wat d reality in Nigeria shoo.person dey face hardtimes in d society Fulani herdmen dey kill c wat happening in pleateau kadauna nd benue . common biro na 40naira.eitha u do yahoo or go bet if u wan hope 2 harma.parents dey sell children den u cum here dey talk trash.u well so.u think money dey pple pocket.jux tell us u b paid.

olujastro:
GEJ is still as shameless and clueless as he was as president.
You had the Bokoharam problem since 2010 as president where they were raining bombs all over Abuja, Kano, Kaduna, Suleja, Lokoja, Yola, etc. for 5 solid years. Instead of tackling it head-on, you and Dasuki turned it into a billion dollar looting industry and left the people unprotected.
Then 2wks to the election you decided to perform wonders by pushing Bokoharam away so elections can take place for you to get 4 extra years of looting.
How is this guy some people's hero abeg

Regarding the video, I watched it then and always knew Obama wanted a less corrupt president to emerge. And I already was going to vote out GEJ before watching it.
The US has always believed that once Nigeria gets it right, a large population of Africans will benefit and then the rest of Africa will get it right also.
The US isn't happy to be giving aids and donations to a rich country like Nigeria because of massive looting of their treasury by the leaders.

zombie oooo.so pmb adminstratn corruptn no dey.guy hw much b food stuff.obama 4up big tym 4 africa dt y his nt respected here.

yarimo:
See as GOODLUCK jonathan still they mumu himself, so it was OBAMA that told nigerians to votes you out as an incompetent president abi?

sharappp mumu.what did Obama do 4 Kenya if not 4 China Kenyetta couldn't have provide infrastructure in Kenya and Jonathan tried 4 d economy. so u mumu u like d hardship wer dey naija wer parents dey sell their children.so pmb na competent abi.360naira to a naira.jux tell us u are a apc zombie

EwaTOwa:
sometimes its because you as a guy dont know how to chat to girls, and you are not asking the right type of question that will make the girl talk more

DT a big lie stop being sentimental.wat d guy is saying happen 2 me.until i started chating wit ladies outside Nigeria.d problem wit u ladies in dis country u girls lack open mindedness. wen ever I chat wit a jovial gal mehn i b lik na me dey chat lik dis.for example i can say Mary d chop money lady DT luking lik one very rich man beloveth daughter.if she a jovial person she b like I pray o or rich ke.i b lik ur pics is a witness c hw ur skin smooth and soft lik 2day agege bread.she cum reply lol na u soft pass.but many of u na gals reply na huh.or OK.by doing DT u don kill d vibe.DT lead u 2 start asking hw ur day going.have notice sum of our galz are bush in real life but forming online y others can't chat online or too introvert.also have notice DT oyinbo ladies use emorji a lot in their chat it make d chat livly.

exclusivejayce:
Bros bros, na to get laid be ur own neh. Oga HIV,Gono and the likes dey town o.

I get ur point.but ther is condom.i had those fear b4 but man let face it konji is real even ladies d thin dey worry dem is beta 2 face a problem with precaution dan 2 bottle it 4 mind.because it go dey worse 4 mind nd e get 2 a point wen u go explode.so brotha let help our self wit info 2 bcum beta dude.dt y ladies are far ahead in d luv game because their are more realistic 2 their problem.while we guys na 2 form holly holly b our own.and dem fall our hand.have u nt notice hw g guys dey use money spoil ladies nd hw d thin dey affect we were no dey do yahoo yahoo.

My problem i have nw afta i don take a lady out.2 control dem cum r crib 2 get laid b my issue.y i say dis is i met a lady we bcime paddies b4 i take her out out afta i take her out 2 control am cum my crib disappoint go step in.wat trick or things should i stop doing in dis stage.

Oyindidi:
Bfn= big for nothing

lol ur mouth no gud.

Oyindidi:
Bfn= big for nothing

lol ur mouth no go

Gegz:
Nigerians can para sha

But for everyone saying he cheated her and all. Do you guys know that the class of men asking Nina out are not small men? Men who probably can afford to carry her outside the country every week on private trips? Men who can afford to take her out every week to change her wardrobe?

The point is, let the sleeping dog lie. How much does the miracle guy have that he can use to manage the Nina babe?

Let everybody just dey jo.

na guys lik u dey mak ladies dey misbehave sote dem go demand their male friend 2 giv dem 4k lik say person dey work 4 dem.ur asslicking comment ah u fall my man.u no dey yearn lik bros at all.dis kind talk dey make ladies dey big headed.nw i knw y our ladies of nwadays dey difficult ( everything na moni moni)jux pray u no marry golddigger

Shey u c y one rely on God heavily.because govt no go do jack doctors too wack nd lik moni eh imagine I cut my leg go private hospital na 5k b their card.na 15k I pay afta I beg d doctor about d card d guy use style add am 2 d total bill.police no gud u c y u cum c reason 2 dey religious.i laugh wen sum nairalanders dey gullible dey follow sum foolish atheist and DT OAP freeze wer get moni 2 jet out 2 treat himsef while u dey nija.so who our police na God our doctor na God.we need God my pple and geiuine pastor(s) imagine dis kind thin happen 2 u during dis buhari tym which moni u wan use pay doctor wen u dey scratch 2 chop.meanwhile u get genuine man of God and ur prayers 2 prevent such accident