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chatinent:
Returned what? Why is Nigeria like this? Always lying.

new method for yahoo boys to get pple financial detail Nd rob pple

Onyemize4:
How many of ur actors and actress pass zubby michael, yul edoechie, pet edochie, mama G, jim iyk, mercy johnson, Reginal daniel ewu

lol u funny is u no even undastand my message mama G,gevenve nnaji, otega ,even nkem iwoh don port go new nollywood.even DT Regina Daniel have nt watch her movies can say much about her go enta new nollywood.pple are leaving asaba nollywood because is nw a shame Nd backward place to act.by d way we have Zainab balogun DT is jux too good of an actress plus bisola bbn housemate

KrazyDave16:
Or they can't afford these actors. And yeah I've seen some of them movies you mentioned and I truly enjoyed them, especially bling lagosians and merry men. But all the same, the existence of these movies still give nollywood a bad name

na jux time asaba nollywood will be face out Nd become Ibo lang.movies.with pple like baby w entering new nollywood even have a movie called sugar rush.saw d trailer e make sense.other like d banj,DT their music career is dwn go enter smallsmall DT new nollywood go b someelse na so music take start.

KrazyDave16:
I stopped watching Nigerian movies when I noticed that movies that'll end at season 5 (insert confused meme) were reshot but with different name, same villain, same storyline same hero(es) and difference might be just addition of 1 actor (anyone remember shina Rambo?).

those ones are asaba nollywood they almost killed nollywood existence.they are a joke.d new nollywood base in Lagos is d bomb.try watch king of boys,merry men,bling lagosians,up north, mehn wat I saw in those movies thrill me.esp king of boys.dt y u notice u don't c them geneive nnaji,dakore,otega RMB in asaba nollywood if u notice.asaba nollywood u c new faces Nd actor/actress DT were acting minor roles Wen dem mercy Johnson was in their prime.because all d beta actors Nd actress don run leave them.

kollysnut:
lol.......stopped watching a long time ago...

no na pls start watching d new nollywood movies base in Lagos u love their movies.all those yeye ones are asaba nollywood.i recommend king of boys,wedding party 1 &2 Nd up north,merry men,bling lagosian for a start.mehn new nollywood don improve I respect mo abudu ebonylife and inkblot product.

chatinent:
The poo they act is meaningless and a replica of what they've been doing before.
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- No good graphic.
- Copied film tricks.
- Greedy producer who is also director, asst., manager, drummer, script writer etc.
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An effing story.

wat u said is true but don't agree with u on nollywood of today.wat u saying is asaba Nd enugu nollywood tho is like east nollywood is nw Ibo Lang. movies .d new nollywood which is base in Lagos Nd have no tribalism is dope.i was like u until I started watching new nollywood movies.wen I watched king of boys mehn even my brother dt only like some comedy nollywood movies but hate nollywood fell in love with nollywood I advise u watch king of boys,wedding party1&2,God calling,bling lagosians,Lionheart ,up north,chief daddy etc ur perspective of nollywood go change

hello nairalanders,jux want to ask hw do these top Nigerian fashion designers make their money,because we all know that most cloth worn by Nigerians are either china or ABA made.i heard 4rm a lady DT they make their money by making their cloth in Nigeria Nd sending it overseas to sell on online platform Nd their boutique overseas.nd also sell to elites,celeb here in nigeria.so I will love to get more info on the industry.

Nigga44:
hmmmmm

Some of you have been completely brainwashed.
I blame you not......it's just what you were told while growing up.

What about some of us that live in villages? I wonder with this your logic, how the hell are we still alive?

My point is that sometimes you need to unlearn somethings you learnt as a kid. Not all you hear are actually true. I stay in my village and I've never had any reason to be afraid of anything. Some of the best and most honest people I know are actually in the rural areas.
All the yahoo boys, fake pastors, corrupt politicians, ritualists and the likes don't reside in the villages. Change your mentality..... Visit just once and I bet you visit once every year atleast

d set of pple u mentioned no be village they get d jazz or JuJu to succeed.u only showing to us Ur kind of personality u get.using those set of pple as example.all of them have one thing in common they have strong babalawo.nd wher strong babalawo dey ?d village

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

DT d problem with sex in Nigeria we too dey Christianized sex Nd it leads to poor sex communicatn in couples.for d op his wife try to compromise sex but his being self centered.is nt easy but if they wan nack bathroom dey there.plus wat she insist to back after d pikin sleep tho DT kind be ruined if d child start crying.

Lucaskid:
This man can't control his anger,he is too aggressive,but some people can be annoying though.

is a big problem have notice in naija.u see arrogant altitude by our biz owners in fact most of them lack customer relationship.very incompetent Nd talk to u with arrogant.dt y oyinbo owed or managed biz makes more money in naija because they undastand customer relationship.

KingAzubuike:
But you Sabi chop him money like say tomorrow no dey. Why are you ladies just so greedy

she deceiving her self na ashawo e go enta last last.shey u c y prostitution is high.we leave in an immoral world Nd most ladies stress guys alot in relatnship alot Nd u knw yahoo boys aren't helping matters so guys nw even b ones doing big boys go Nd change na them b d VIP on high end ashawo girls because relatnship na stress I remember hw my friend spend money on one useless gal only knack am once.nwadays na friendship he does with ladies nowadays even some ladies even Wen u their friend they wan make u flex them give them credit.d way they reason so immature compare to babes Wen I was in school.is nt good make teenagers full campuses.when u around mature reasoning young lady u understand.

sunshine1974:
I haven't even read 3 sentences before knowing you are still in the world, in fact the world is in you. You better go and repent and stop knacking for free

na ashawo u knack na Nd u came back because e sweet but naija lust for money in our youth is rili getting out of hand.esp our ladies many of them are into ashawo wrk.though yahoo boys are 2b blamed

Uyi168:
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Are u saying as we are chasing money ,we shouldn't grab pussyy or what

he has a point unless u nt in naija.naija girls in their 20s are so bad in lust for money is rili DT bad.15yrs back it was nt like dis because there were mature single young ladies nw most of them are very immature in their reason too materialistic Nd very money lustful.wat attract a babe na eh is sweet mouth looks height Nd money.c a scenerio a guy on watch night meet a guy DT had quarrel with her bf swtmouth her start chatup her like he her bf spend moni Nd took her to him crib Nd Bleep her.it happen on new yr.she first no reply am at first.there two things girls if nowadays love in dus country money Nd flexing plus ginger.once ur mouth Sabi quick make girl Ur friend Sabi ginger her with Ur mouth.d nxt to package ursef because they no like broke boys was nt like this yes back Wen we had more mature ladies in campuses.wen u na dey close take her out ginger her with Ur mouth make her fun side elevate days call her come she go come because u b already made man.is DT bad tho na yahoo boys spoil things for we boys DT d reality

Thegeneralqueen:
it's obvious you kept her as a friend just because of sex

though guys can be perverted Nd dey fall hand but girls of nowadays dey misbehave I think d best nowadays is to make friends with them try dem as side friends Nd no reason love Nd lust ie no send dem.jux dey flirt tease play with them for d fun of it

peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

I be lik sey to smile Nd no vex beta.na wetin I for do dt yeye Bella gal instead of getting angry Nd send her an angry text.

Davash222:
So, 200 bridesmaids is what this big mouth, drenched local fowl Laura is boasting of Inconsequential history!!

is like d ikejis is a family DT lust money more Dan anything.such family must times don't help relatns DT have help them they Sabi collect but give na problem.have such as relatn d girls na to marry rich man dey Sabi Nd to collect from Ur hand.their parents cunny.no dey remember those DT help them.dt d way I look dis ikejis.

BeachLife:
Is there a possibility of revisiting the Bakassi case? All lands are valuable,and that land is a valuable piece of Calabar(Akwacross).
In this day and age where countries like Singapore and the likes are doing all they can to reclaim hectares of land from the ocean and rivers, why should Nigeria so easily forfeit that land to Cameroon? And now that peninsular actually falls under the now secessionist Ambazonia . And in fact,I just discovered there's a Bakassi secessionist movement either from Cameroon or Ambazonia (if successful) . All street and town names on the island are Calabarian names ,plus a few other historical artifacts and events . The judgement surrounding the forfeiture of the land to Cameroon remains sketchy .
Do you think there may be a possibility of ever retrieving Bakassi based on factual and reasonable evidence ? I think it can be retrieved, though It remains to be seen.

op I wan ask u one question.does Nigeria no get enough oil DT it doesn't use to enrich her pple.y talk about dis one.na long throat article b dis na.y kill Ur sef on oil DT will not help us but help politician pocket unless u op u b politicians from DT state.leave Mata make Cameron politicians chop small like their Nigeria counterparts

gregyboy:
Her promiscuousness has cost her this life


Even her children won't even help her...

Sleeping with a gateman...e go pain d man ooh nor be small when she was collecting the dick for attention, and as she wss moaning to it she didnt call edo state attention, for the good dick, now she is calling our attention because of karma ,she is Lucky is not oshiomole regime he would have something to say to her if she wont even be arrested,
God saves us from women who loves dicking and hide under the disguise of attention

Fear women.....

hw u take knw it was happen or u jux read a comment here u come dey yarn.

Offpoint:
Are you a virgin, is he a virgin?

Sex is like a good wine, those who have never taste of it would not have the urges to want to drink it. even if they do have the urge to drink, it won't be as strong as those who have tasted and drank the wine before.

Only virgins can keep to 'no sex before marriage' agreement, anything outside that is just 2 adults fooling themselves.

my problem is sex sweet but belle be my fear because I dey hear if u wear condoms girl fit get belle is it true

mcyemite:
that one ehn,na your head you go beg make u no jam them...because even one chance ritualist sef dey enter one chance for lagos...talkless of ordinary person...

The Best tip on that is to not go out on odd hours and always take your bus from park but even at that when u get to Lagos u would understand that ,it practically impossible to always go to park for bus..

na wa o.God is in control.is DT aspect i dey fear

KingEzo:
Hello Nairalander,

please I need your advice. I am 31 years and my fiancee is 29 years and we have been dating for the past four years.

She discovered that she's pregnant on new year's eve. We discussed the issue throughout the new year and we agreed to keep the pregnancy that she's going to write her nursing Council exam later. I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way but she said her mom won't be happy with her that she needs to do big wedding because she's the first child of her mom.

She later told me that she's going to inform her parents before taking any step. To my surprise she called me this evening that she is going to terminate the pregnancy because her family has been raining insults on her since she got home.

She said her grandma is even coming to the city with her so that she can terminate the baby. But I told her that I didn't support it that I can't terminate pregnancy, I told her that she can write the council exam after delivery but she insisted.

Sir-Ma should I support this their action?

DT strange.but Bros no vex o i will love to ask did u wear condoms Wen u guys normally do it am asking because of an argument with my friend months back DT some guys still impregnate their woman even Wen wearing condoms.i will love to hear 4rm u bros.sorry if my question offend u am asking so DT I can be cautious

chinavs9ja:
There is doubt, Lagos is beautiful and it is a place where you can meet successful people. It is a place where everyone will like to site their business. However, easily you can get sold out on some of the negative news about Lagos. But it doesn't mean everything is glooming, there is still some negative side of Lagos. Believe me, it is a place you will love to settle down for business. That is why am taking my time to write out some tips you must know before you travel down to Lagos. Below are the things you must know:

You must have a bearing
Trust me you will be frustrated for the first time visiting Lagos without knowing where you are going. You have to plan what you are going there for and which part of Lagos you are going. This should be the first thing on your agenda before travelling to Lagos.

You must know how to mind your business
Unlike other cities where foreigners and tourists usually look different and odd. But Lagosians hardly give so much attention to foreigners or visitors, this is because they are used to seeing them. Lagos is where people mind their business, don't expect them to start asking you questions about where you are coming from or you are going either. So, mind your business and stay focus on what brings you to Lagos.

Traffic Jam is inevitable
You should know that you are going to Lagos to face traffic jams. It will be stressful if you have a private car. A friend visited me with his car last year, he never knew what came over him to abandon his car for public transport.

Lagos nightlife is always fun
Don't be surprised when you can't even explain how you spent your January salary. You must have the self-discipline to overcome the pleasure that comes around you when you receive your salary.

Written By Chinawapz;

wat d security tips on one chance ritualist posing as commercial drivers.na DT one dey fear me about lag

hisexcellency34:
The first rule is that once you are in Lagos, you will automatically have a new daddy and mummy. See them here

wat about security tips.because I hear stories of one chance ritualist posing as commercial riders.wat d security tips on dt

freezy4me:
I no need switch xiaomi cos Dem never reach oppo level. FYI am not a marketer neither do I use either of them, I've been stuck with OnePlus and ain't looking back.

OnePlus na Baba

SOLMICHAEL:
When you learn to remove sentiments from your mind before you comment, you'd understand things easily. I know you deliberately don't read the part I wrote "we don't learn Christ..." or everybody that point things right to you are atheist?

Ur sentiment comments is wat made me think so.u were saying is mere sentiments to protest Nd rebruke such movies Nd we should ignore it Nd preach d gospel.u don't know d tricks of satan.wen passion of Christ came out it attract attentn e no take time b4 da Vinci code came out 2 biased pple mind.protesting about such is good then u preach d gospel if u don't protest Nd preach d true.u start meeting pple with a stone heart.dt u preach eh to no avail.so to say am sentiments u nt a believer.let look at worldly stuff look at us Africans hw d media have biased pple about we africans.if u say ignore such it will become d true in youth minds.den Lata they put another movie to depopularize d Bible before u knw Ur children go find it hard to go church or reason God.wat I feel d comedy was trying to do was to make gays feel less comfortable Nd less persecuted but there beta well to do it Dan using christ.is talk like urs it mere sentiments to judge youth dressing Christianity is in. d heart is wat degraded d church of today

Ascold:
I pray that the HolySpirit Open Up Ur Eyes To SEE

leave dem all this atheist who only come online to attack Christianity if u notice there some nairaland topics dey avoid.nd one things about them they can't answer real life questions like why do we cry Wen someone dies if there no God,if there no God den anybody can slept with Ur lover,if there no God divide is nuthin kill ursef because things are hard.if there no God there no Satan den no religion but u c dem atheist doing yoga.no b Hindi stuff.have notice they atheist don't attack Hindu Buddhist if u notice they are anti christian.they mission ok is to created doubts,to look life as carnal instead of psychological Nd spiritual.all these have said ask any atheist dis questn they run 4rm u.dey can't defend themselves.some will want to be arrogant Nd rude to defend themselves.as a smoke screen from answering Ur questns

SOLMICHAEL:
Christian with brain?? And your comment is devoid of sense Or how did Jesus fight that battle??
Clearly, that withdrawal was as a result of ceaseless remonstrations from people.

I really don't understand Christians' agitations over this. Netflix is not your Bible. We don't learn Christ from Netflix. The Bible is enough.

where will go oh atheist.if d comedian get mind make e go do gay mohammed.let c whether Netflix go get mind show am

daben1:
The way you girls think self ehn, once you're in a relationship with an average Nigerian girl, it has automatically become your responsibility to be doing the calling while her own responsibility is to be at the receiving end... "He stopped calling as he used to"
Relationship should be a 50-50 stuff.
The relationship failed because of lack of communication: because your responsibility is to wait while he calls while you receive

na undergraduate gal DT y.dt y is good to use Nd dump them.they no go for relationship dey can cheat Nd disappoint because their very immature to love .

freezy4me:
Oppp is the Fourth best mobile phone brand in the world and second in China, so they are well recognized.

still skeptical about them.but I commend their marketing skills.xiaomi na idiot Wen it comes to marketing.but y u switch Xiaomi or u b oppo marketer

Chochovini:
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Which one be OPPO again and how much pls?

dis oppo I no too trust am.neva test d times Xiaomi good.it has popularity in china CNN don talk about them.three times.for anyone interested in oppo try check whether d brand is popular with Chinese customers in china us important.because itel infinix Tecno are unknw to chinese

lebron7:
Don't mind the o.p ohh
Avoid infinix, Tecno and itel

but they have parts unlike xiaomi which is a good fone but parts no dey DT my fear nw because I buy am

jagaban002:
Easiest way to get is attention if you really need one , whenever he send u money send it back , don’t ask for money for hair just tell him nah is call u want and attention he go change since he will realize no be money be ur prob and nah attention u need but my own point of view guys like that are few , 10k every 2 weeks and other things follow even parents don’t do more than this for there kids miss be patient and fight for what u want if u truly love him not all this u wan break up , nah mallians full town no better bf again

forget d op.d babe who send u 10k every 2wks DT 20k weeks.a month DT is complaining of calls wer we have wife's DT are praying for God to give dem hussy as such.imagine he pay Ur rent guys dey fall our hand am sure d guy na yahoo boy.na so one girl wer I b friend to tell me say her bf give am I phone maybe d old one go be 80k Nd d bae go soon enta nysc go nack nysc guy.d thin dey vex me.we guys eh we dey make ladies dey feel money is easy for a man Nd it there right to be in comfort.such reason eh go break many marrriages.for d op with her narrratn DT babe no fit stay Wen things are hard with her boo