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Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

DT d problem with sex in Nigeria we too dey Christianized sex Nd it leads to poor sex communicatn in couples.for d op his wife try to compromise sex but his being self centered.is nt easy but if they wan nack bathroom dey there.plus wat she insist to back after d pikin sleep tho DT kind be ruined if d child start crying.

Lucaskid:
This man can't control his anger,he is too aggressive,but some people can be annoying though.

is a big problem have notice in naija.u see arrogant altitude by our biz owners in fact most of them lack customer relationship.very incompetent Nd talk to u with arrogant.dt y oyinbo owed or managed biz makes more money in naija because they undastand customer relationship.

KingAzubuike:
But you Sabi chop him money like say tomorrow no dey. Why are you ladies just so greedy

she deceiving her self na ashawo e go enta last last.shey u c y prostitution is high.we leave in an immoral world Nd most ladies stress guys alot in relatnship alot Nd u knw yahoo boys aren't helping matters so guys nw even b ones doing big boys go Nd change na them b d VIP on high end ashawo girls because relatnship na stress I remember hw my friend spend money on one useless gal only knack am once.nwadays na friendship he does with ladies nowadays even some ladies even Wen u their friend they wan make u flex them give them credit.d way they reason so immature compare to babes Wen I was in school.is nt good make teenagers full campuses.when u around mature reasoning young lady u understand.

sunshine1974:
I haven't even read 3 sentences before knowing you are still in the world, in fact the world is in you. You better go and repent and stop knacking for free

na ashawo u knack na Nd u came back because e sweet but naija lust for money in our youth is rili getting out of hand.esp our ladies many of them are into ashawo wrk.though yahoo boys are 2b blamed

Uyi168:
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Are u saying as we are chasing money ,we shouldn't grab pussyy or what

he has a point unless u nt in naija.naija girls in their 20s are so bad in lust for money is rili DT bad.15yrs back it was nt like dis because there were mature single young ladies nw most of them are very immature in their reason too materialistic Nd very money lustful.wat attract a babe na eh is sweet mouth looks height Nd money.c a scenerio a guy on watch night meet a guy DT had quarrel with her bf swtmouth her start chatup her like he her bf spend moni Nd took her to him crib Nd Bleep her.it happen on new yr.she first no reply am at first.there two things girls if nowadays love in dus country money Nd flexing plus ginger.once ur mouth Sabi quick make girl Ur friend Sabi ginger her with Ur mouth.d nxt to package ursef because they no like broke boys was nt like this yes back Wen we had more mature ladies in campuses.wen u na dey close take her out ginger her with Ur mouth make her fun side elevate days call her come she go come because u b already made man.is DT bad tho na yahoo boys spoil things for we boys DT d reality

Thegeneralqueen:
it's obvious you kept her as a friend just because of sex

though guys can be perverted Nd dey fall hand but girls of nowadays dey misbehave I think d best nowadays is to make friends with them try dem as side friends Nd no reason love Nd lust ie no send dem.jux dey flirt tease play with them for d fun of it

peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

I be lik sey to smile Nd no vex beta.na wetin I for do dt yeye Bella gal instead of getting angry Nd send her an angry text.

Davash222:
So, 200 bridesmaids is what this big mouth, drenched local fowl Laura is boasting of Inconsequential history!!

is like d ikejis is a family DT lust money more Dan anything.such family must times don't help relatns DT have help them they Sabi collect but give na problem.have such as relatn d girls na to marry rich man dey Sabi Nd to collect from Ur hand.their parents cunny.no dey remember those DT help them.dt d way I look dis ikejis.

BeachLife:
Is there a possibility of revisiting the Bakassi case? All lands are valuable,and that land is a valuable piece of Calabar(Akwacross).
In this day and age where countries like Singapore and the likes are doing all they can to reclaim hectares of land from the ocean and rivers, why should Nigeria so easily forfeit that land to Cameroon? And now that peninsular actually falls under the now secessionist Ambazonia . And in fact,I just discovered there's a Bakassi secessionist movement either from Cameroon or Ambazonia (if successful) . All street and town names on the island are Calabarian names ,plus a few other historical artifacts and events . The judgement surrounding the forfeiture of the land to Cameroon remains sketchy .
Do you think there may be a possibility of ever retrieving Bakassi based on factual and reasonable evidence ? I think it can be retrieved, though It remains to be seen.

op I wan ask u one question.does Nigeria no get enough oil DT it doesn't use to enrich her pple.y talk about dis one.na long throat article b dis na.y kill Ur sef on oil DT will not help us but help politician pocket unless u op u b politicians from DT state.leave Mata make Cameron politicians chop small like their Nigeria counterparts

gregyboy:
Her promiscuousness has cost her this life


Even her children won't even help her...

Sleeping with a gateman...e go pain d man ooh nor be small when she was collecting the dick for attention, and as she wss moaning to it she didnt call edo state attention, for the good dick, now she is calling our attention because of karma ,she is Lucky is not oshiomole regime he would have something to say to her if she wont even be arrested,
God saves us from women who loves dicking and hide under the disguise of attention

Fear women.....

hw u take knw it was happen or u jux read a comment here u come dey yarn.

Offpoint:
Are you a virgin, is he a virgin?

Sex is like a good wine, those who have never taste of it would not have the urges to want to drink it. even if they do have the urge to drink, it won't be as strong as those who have tasted and drank the wine before.

Only virgins can keep to 'no sex before marriage' agreement, anything outside that is just 2 adults fooling themselves.

my problem is sex sweet but belle be my fear because I dey hear if u wear condoms girl fit get belle is it true

mcyemite:
that one ehn,na your head you go beg make u no jam them...because even one chance ritualist sef dey enter one chance for lagos...talkless of ordinary person...

The Best tip on that is to not go out on odd hours and always take your bus from park but even at that when u get to Lagos u would understand that ,it practically impossible to always go to park for bus..

na wa o.God is in control.is DT aspect i dey fear

KingEzo:
Hello Nairalander,

please I need your advice. I am 31 years and my fiancee is 29 years and we have been dating for the past four years.

She discovered that she's pregnant on new year's eve. We discussed the issue throughout the new year and we agreed to keep the pregnancy that she's going to write her nursing Council exam later. I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way but she said her mom won't be happy with her that she needs to do big wedding because she's the first child of her mom.

She later told me that she's going to inform her parents before taking any step. To my surprise she called me this evening that she is going to terminate the pregnancy because her family has been raining insults on her since she got home.

She said her grandma is even coming to the city with her so that she can terminate the baby. But I told her that I didn't support it that I can't terminate pregnancy, I told her that she can write the council exam after delivery but she insisted.

Sir-Ma should I support this their action?

DT strange.but Bros no vex o i will love to ask did u wear condoms Wen u guys normally do it am asking because of an argument with my friend months back DT some guys still impregnate their woman even Wen wearing condoms.i will love to hear 4rm u bros.sorry if my question offend u am asking so DT I can be cautious

chinavs9ja:
There is doubt, Lagos is beautiful and it is a place where you can meet successful people. It is a place where everyone will like to site their business. However, easily you can get sold out on some of the negative news about Lagos. But it doesn't mean everything is glooming, there is still some negative side of Lagos. Believe me, it is a place you will love to settle down for business. That is why am taking my time to write out some tips you must know before you travel down to Lagos. Below are the things you must know:

You must have a bearing
Trust me you will be frustrated for the first time visiting Lagos without knowing where you are going. You have to plan what you are going there for and which part of Lagos you are going. This should be the first thing on your agenda before travelling to Lagos.

You must know how to mind your business
Unlike other cities where foreigners and tourists usually look different and odd. But Lagosians hardly give so much attention to foreigners or visitors, this is because they are used to seeing them. Lagos is where people mind their business, don't expect them to start asking you questions about where you are coming from or you are going either. So, mind your business and stay focus on what brings you to Lagos.

Traffic Jam is inevitable
You should know that you are going to Lagos to face traffic jams. It will be stressful if you have a private car. A friend visited me with his car last year, he never knew what came over him to abandon his car for public transport.

Lagos nightlife is always fun
Don't be surprised when you can't even explain how you spent your January salary. You must have the self-discipline to overcome the pleasure that comes around you when you receive your salary.

Written By Chinawapz;

wat d security tips on one chance ritualist posing as commercial drivers.na DT one dey fear me about lag

hisexcellency34:
The first rule is that once you are in Lagos, you will automatically have a new daddy and mummy. See them here

wat about security tips.because I hear stories of one chance ritualist posing as commercial riders.wat d security tips on dt

freezy4me:
I no need switch xiaomi cos Dem never reach oppo level. FYI am not a marketer neither do I use either of them, I've been stuck with OnePlus and ain't looking back.

OnePlus na Baba

SOLMICHAEL:
When you learn to remove sentiments from your mind before you comment, you'd understand things easily. I know you deliberately don't read the part I wrote "we don't learn Christ..." or everybody that point things right to you are atheist?

Ur sentiment comments is wat made me think so.u were saying is mere sentiments to protest Nd rebruke such movies Nd we should ignore it Nd preach d gospel.u don't know d tricks of satan.wen passion of Christ came out it attract attentn e no take time b4 da Vinci code came out 2 biased pple mind.protesting about such is good then u preach d gospel if u don't protest Nd preach d true.u start meeting pple with a stone heart.dt u preach eh to no avail.so to say am sentiments u nt a believer.let look at worldly stuff look at us Africans hw d media have biased pple about we africans.if u say ignore such it will become d true in youth minds.den Lata they put another movie to depopularize d Bible before u knw Ur children go find it hard to go church or reason God.wat I feel d comedy was trying to do was to make gays feel less comfortable Nd less persecuted but there beta well to do it Dan using christ.is talk like urs it mere sentiments to judge youth dressing Christianity is in. d heart is wat degraded d church of today

Ascold:
I pray that the HolySpirit Open Up Ur Eyes To SEE

leave dem all this atheist who only come online to attack Christianity if u notice there some nairaland topics dey avoid.nd one things about them they can't answer real life questions like why do we cry Wen someone dies if there no God,if there no God den anybody can slept with Ur lover,if there no God divide is nuthin kill ursef because things are hard.if there no God there no Satan den no religion but u c dem atheist doing yoga.no b Hindi stuff.have notice they atheist don't attack Hindu Buddhist if u notice they are anti christian.they mission ok is to created doubts,to look life as carnal instead of psychological Nd spiritual.all these have said ask any atheist dis questn they run 4rm u.dey can't defend themselves.some will want to be arrogant Nd rude to defend themselves.as a smoke screen from answering Ur questns

SOLMICHAEL:
Christian with brain?? And your comment is devoid of sense Or how did Jesus fight that battle??
Clearly, that withdrawal was as a result of ceaseless remonstrations from people.

I really don't understand Christians' agitations over this. Netflix is not your Bible. We don't learn Christ from Netflix. The Bible is enough.

where will go oh atheist.if d comedian get mind make e go do gay mohammed.let c whether Netflix go get mind show am

daben1:
The way you girls think self ehn, once you're in a relationship with an average Nigerian girl, it has automatically become your responsibility to be doing the calling while her own responsibility is to be at the receiving end... "He stopped calling as he used to"
Relationship should be a 50-50 stuff.
The relationship failed because of lack of communication: because your responsibility is to wait while he calls while you receive

na undergraduate gal DT y.dt y is good to use Nd dump them.they no go for relationship dey can cheat Nd disappoint because their very immature to love .

freezy4me:
Oppp is the Fourth best mobile phone brand in the world and second in China, so they are well recognized.

still skeptical about them.but I commend their marketing skills.xiaomi na idiot Wen it comes to marketing.but y u switch Xiaomi or u b oppo marketer

Chochovini:
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Which one be OPPO again and how much pls?

dis oppo I no too trust am.neva test d times Xiaomi good.it has popularity in china CNN don talk about them.three times.for anyone interested in oppo try check whether d brand is popular with Chinese customers in china us important.because itel infinix Tecno are unknw to chinese

lebron7:
Don't mind the o.p ohh
Avoid infinix, Tecno and itel

but they have parts unlike xiaomi which is a good fone but parts no dey DT my fear nw because I buy am

jagaban002:
Easiest way to get is attention if you really need one , whenever he send u money send it back , don’t ask for money for hair just tell him nah is call u want and attention he go change since he will realize no be money be ur prob and nah attention u need but my own point of view guys like that are few , 10k every 2 weeks and other things follow even parents don’t do more than this for there kids miss be patient and fight for what u want if u truly love him not all this u wan break up , nah mallians full town no better bf again

forget d op.d babe who send u 10k every 2wks DT 20k weeks.a month DT is complaining of calls wer we have wife's DT are praying for God to give dem hussy as such.imagine he pay Ur rent guys dey fall our hand am sure d guy na yahoo boy.na so one girl wer I b friend to tell me say her bf give am I phone maybe d old one go be 80k Nd d bae go soon enta nysc go nack nysc guy.d thin dey vex me.we guys eh we dey make ladies dey feel money is easy for a man Nd it there right to be in comfort.such reason eh go break many marrriages.for d op with her narrratn DT babe no fit stay Wen things are hard with her boo

Davash222:
Attention doesn’t pay bills, woman.

I think we need to hear 4rm d guy because d op narration no compelete nno man born of a woman go continue to give u 10k 4 2 weeks unless u b his wife or baby mama

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

is like u need emotional attention .am a man Nd no man will give u 10k in two weeks Nd there no attention there.or less on love portion.nd by d way wetin d guy dey do sef.because u look like d bae DT doesn't care about wer a final yr student have enuf money to b giving u 10k in two weeks.or na yahoo boy.anyway talk to him Nd knw where d relatnship going.nd lastly no vex o wat have u invested or done in d relationship because Ur boo don invest o.it look one sided love here.

Starboytwo:
thanks for your input, I reason that side too, at least we dey wash yoruba film, we dey see as things dey go....

But I strongly doubt things would go messy.. my siblings are all decent folks, I'd like to presume... I'm not gonna say No to any money but same time I'm not gonna sell my home cuz I'm strapped for cash...

jux b wise because is polygamous family.their mama fit posion their mind bro.u need God directions in d mata.na moni Mata Nd u knw hw pple behave Wen it comes to property Nd moni.

GeniusWannabe:
That guy is arrogant.
I have much dislike for arrogant people. Can't have those around me. There are better ways to get it through to her that he didn't like the watch, instead of talking about his personality and crap!

I dey vex d guy need slap.hw many of us gal don buy us something for us

milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

maybe she from a rich home.wat u said about 26yrs true sha but one thing wer dey fear me d sey some were dey online DT age Nd above na retired olosho were dey pretend to get married.dt my fear about dem because they are desperate.sleeping with them can be risky Nd make e no b sey after u marry am e born e go change behaviour

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

wat is saying is true.most ladies who are 23yrs Nd below eh on social media for 9ja are players u knw hw many don do me

daddytime:
You couldn't have lost a mind you never had bro, na your mind lost you.

Now to answer your question of " if this is love or foolishness"..

The answer is " Foolishness", and you are the lead actor..." Person siddon wear jersey wey dem write "Foolish 001" on top as striker come still dey ask yeye question.

It's my birthday today fam....pray for me guys...

it sad but d truth is girls of nowadays are players like we guys.maybe like 10yrs later they will admit being players like they doing about loving money.end d relatnship.is beta to make friends with ladies nowadays Dan dating them.love them wit Ur head Dan hrt.na prayers to find beta girl.but if u b type DT is a fool in love den try double dating Nd have female friends to work on DT weakness if any.also Wen u looking to love a girl look at hw maturity level.as for online girl they are all olosho or players have had my own share of disappointment.

ubunja:
No Choosing Signals, No Approach.

THE COLD APPROACH.
We all have that mental image of an Alpha. That man who's able to go up and seduce any woman he desires without waiting for permission. He's supposed to be able to approach any female of any class, at any place, anytime, without fear. He has balls. After all he is Alpha.

Randomly approaching women on the street is called the COLD APPROACH.
The term is taken from something called Cold Calling, ".. A sales practice in which individuals are contacted who have not previously expressed interest in a product or service. Cold calling is commonly used in telemarketing, and only produces maybe a 2% success rate for the most skilled professional.
Consumers tend to dislike cold calling... " (Source: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/c/coldcalling.asp)

If contacting random people who haven't expressed any interest in something you are selling seems like a mountain of work without any guarantee of success, IT IS a mountain of work without any guarantee of success. The same mountain of work without any guarantee of success that you take upon yourself when you randomly hit on girls on the street who haven't expressed any interest in you.

It's a numbers game.

Approach many women and a few of them will respond positively. There is even a theory: Ask 100 girls for sex and 1 will say yes. While the other 99 will reject you.

People who love the Cold Approach say it "toughens" you up and gets you used to female rejection. Admittedly, Approaching many girls and getting 1 to accept you may make you seem and appear brave and bring you pussy here and there.
But the real question is: Why approach many girls to get 1 girl who'll accept you when you can watch and study the body language of many girls THEN SIMPLY APPROACH THAT 1 GIRL LIKELY TO SAY YES?

Isn't it more sensible? More pleasant?

This writeup will defend and promote such an approach.

THE HOT APPROACH.
Let women show interest in you first before you approach them. That's the Hot Approach.

Don't approach 100 women to get only 1 to say Yes. Study 100 women and identify that 1 woman most likely to say Yes then approach only her.

That way there's less stress, less pain and less guesswork.

WOMEN CHOOSE, YOU APPROACH.
To be happy in life, a woman must love you more than you love her. Just as women themselves know, for them to be happy a man must love them more than they love the man.

Because in any relationship the one who loves LESS is the happiest, the most important and the Prize.

If you want to be happy as a man let women show they like you FIRST before approaching them. Why? Because every woman has a Sexual Imprint which determines what type of men turns her on, which is shaped primarily by her parents (in Virgins) and by her first sexual experience (in non Virgins). You can't guess a woman's Sexual Imprint and you risk going against it when you randomly approach women without checking for signs of interest also known as Green Lights, which are known internationally as Choosing Signals.

A woman who shows interest in you first is telling you that you are what turns her on. In one go she has solved the Sexual Imprint dilemma for you.

IN SUPPORT OF LETTING WOMEN CHOOSE.
Here are 3 radically different sources vouching for the Hot Approach. For letting women show interest in you first before you approach them.

Source 1: Robert Briffault & Briffault's law.

Robert Briffault, (French, 1874 – 1948) is known for what is called Briffault's law whose first sentence is:

"The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family... "

In every species, humans included, all relationships happen with the approval, permission and go-ahead from, the female. Not the male. Even the male peacock, colorful as he is, only displays his feathers and the female CHOOSES him or rejects him.

Why did our forefathers fight with sticks infront of girls? To impress the girls so the girls would CHOOSE them. Being chosen has always been the name of the game for the males. Wait to be chosen before seducing any woman.

Source 2. Anton LaVey.
Jesus said be "Wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16)
By this Christ reveals to us that, generally, evil tends to be more worldly-wise than goodness. Evil men have "streetsmarts" that good men don't have.
And when He says, "For the children of this World are in their generation wiser than the children of Light" (Luke 16:8 ) He's stressing the same point. Evil is smarter than Goodness when it comes to the ways of this world.

Now let's talk about the wisdom of serpents and The cleverness of the Children of the World.

One of the foremost evil figures of our generation was Anton LaVey (American, 1930 - 1997).

You may have heard of a church called The Church of Satan, LaVey started it. You may have heard of something called the Satanic Bible, LaVey wrote it. You may have seen the symbol of a pentagram with a goat's head that has become synonymous with Satanism and Goth culture, although LaVey didn't design it, he's the one who made it trend. To top his service to Satan, LaVey wrote a book that has become the modus operandi for witches in their work of sexually manipulating men called The Satanic Witch.

But LaVey's most interesting work, in so far as this writeup is concerned, is a list of 11 commandments he created in the 1960s called The 11 Satanic Rules Of The Earth that Satanists live by: (https://www.learnreligions.com/satanic-rules-of-the-earth-95969) (or see picture below).

Now among those rules is a very curious rule set at the heart of the list at number 5 that solidifies and crystallizes the theme of this writeup: Satanic Rule number 5: "DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES UNLESS YOU ARE GIVEN THE MATING SIGNAL".

Here is a man whose work and ideas have started international movements and groups and inspired even pòrn stàrs to name themselves after him (adult actresses Scarlet LaVey, Lylith LaVey and Audrey LaVey), yet even he acknowledges and respects how the world of sex works. Namely that WOMEN HAVE TO CHOOSE YOU BEFORE YOU CAN APPROACH.

And women choose you by giving you Mating Signals also known as Choosing Signals also known as Green Lights. Without a Green Light given, even Satanists are commanded NOT to approach a woman sexually.

Source 3: How prostitutes choose Pîmps

In the hierarchy of the Mating Game, Nice Guys sit at the bottom of the pyramid. They are the bottom feeders eating everyone's left overs. Next up, are The Bad Boys. Above them are The Players. And right on top of the pyramid, on top of the food chain, above everyone else, sit The Pîmps. The Kings of the Game. The equivalent of the Lion king of the Jungle.

While at the bottom Nice Guys work to make money that they hand over to their women; at the top sit Pîmps who do the exact opposite: Women work to make the money that they handover to their Pîmp! Just like the Lion the King of the Jungle that lets the Lioness hunt but is himself first to eat.

The Pîmp and the Lion are one. They are kings.

Pîmps understand female nature like no other man on the face of the earth. They know what makes women tick at the most basic level. Even Players don't come close. It takes uncommon cunning and an unprecedented insight into female nature to convince a woman to sell her body and hand over all the money to you. When it's Gospel truth that women love money more than life itself.

What Pîmps do is a marvel.

Yet even Pîmps respect and acknowledge the truth presented in this writeup. Do you know how a Pîmp gets a Prostitute? You imagine it's like what those ignorant Social Workers and the Police say on TV? That prostitutes are forced to work under a Pîmp? That is not true.

Here is an excerpt from a Pîmp interview about how a pîmp really gets a prostitute:

"... a woman gets to choose any pîmp she wants. It's called choosing or re-choosing. If the woman finds a better pîmp than the one she has, she presents him with a wad of cash she's managed to withhold from the first pîmp, sort of like a dowry."

Source: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/127/transcript


"... a girl interested in finding a pîmp meets a pîmp interested in recruiting a girl. The process has a name -- "choosing" -- which indicates its volitional character. The pîmp places himself in a position to be discovered. His success comes from looking and acting like what he is."

Source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/opinions/1981/09/13/myths-about-the-hooker-love-vendor-relationshiop/d96bd862-2426-46eb-a090-d0edfd92054d/?utm_term=.d09720967dd0


You read that right. A prostitute sees a Pîmp that she likes and chooses him by giving him MONEY!!!! How about that for a Green Light! The man who has the utmost control over women, women Choose him and bring themselves to him, bringing him money. He doesn't chase them. He waits to be chosen.

History has only one Pîmp who attained legendary status; American pîmp Iceberg Slim (1918 –1992) whose moniker inspired those of Ice Cube and Ice T, and Nigeria's own Iceberg Slim.

Slim was considered the most cold hearted of all of the pîmps (hence the "Iceberg" moniker). He owned more than 400 prostitutes in his career. Here in his 1967 autobiography "Pîmp: Story of my Life", he narrates how he got his first proper prostitute just after leaving prison where he had learned the art of pîmping from the best of the best:

In chapter 4: "A degree in Pîmping" he narrates:

.....The sissy barkeep sat a fresh bottle of coke on the log before me. I yanked my eyebrows
into a question mark.
He lisped, “The runty black bitch in the middle of the bar sent you a taste.”
Without taking my eyes off his thin yellow face, I said, “Sugar, run her down to me. Is the bitch qualified? Is she a whôré? Does she have a man?”
The corners of his mouth see-sawed. He slugged his soggy, dirty bar rag against my reflection on the bat top. He almost whispered, “The bitch ain’t nothing but a young skunk from Saint Louis. She ain’t nothing but a jazzy jive Whôré. I’m more Whôré than
she is. She ain’t got no man. She’s a come freak She’s Georgied three bullshit pi.mps since she got here a month ago. If your game is strong you could play a hog outta her ass. She ain’t but eighteen.”
I eased a bone from my pocket, put it on the bar for the fresh coke. I frantically remembered those love-vendor rundowns in the joint. I said, “Tell the bitch no dice. I’ll take care of the little things, and if she is
qualified maybe I’ll let her take care of the big things. Give the bitch a drink on me.... "

Fresh from jail, Slim is dressed like a Pîmp in a club when a young prostitute sends him a drink. He hadn't even SEEN the whôré when he started questioning the bartender about her. The girl saw him FIRST and made showed interest first. That's the game. Wait for the women to show interest first. Even Pîmps do it. Who are you not to??

THE TRUTH IN SUMMARY.
Women always choose. The Animal Kingdom knows it. Satanists know it. Pîmps know it. It's about time you knew it too. Don't let your Ego tell you otherwise.

women choose. That's how the Game goes. No matter how powerful you are. No matter how good you're with women. The rule applies to all men: Women have to choose you. Being Powerful and being Good with women makes it easier to be chosen. But still, you've to be chosen.

The reason why getting girls has been torturous for you is because you've been doing it all wrong. You've been forcing yourself on women. Women who had zero interest in you. That's why rejection has been a bîtch.

The few women you randomly approached with success emboldened you on the wrong path. A path that has ended with you now afraid to approach women on the street. That's why you sweat and tremble at the idea of talking to a pretty girl on the street.

signals. SIGNALS. SIGNALS
Women are very PICKY. 9 times out of 10 you're not what she's looking for. But even though picky not all women like the same thing and even the same woman doesn't like the same thing everytime. One day a rich woman will want to taste a broke dick. One day a white woman will wanna taste a black dick. One day a teenage girl will wanna taste a grown man's dick. One day a grown woman will wanna taste a teenage boy's dick. You cannot read the mind of women, even the Devil cannot read minds, but the women whose mind is on you will give you SIGNALS.

Your job is to look for these signals in the women you meet. Your eye must be ever be on alert. Be it in Church or Club. At the grocery shop or hospital. At a Wedding or Funeral. On the street or in the bus. Among beautiful women or among ugly women. Among young women among older women. You are to be in perpetual search mode.

WHAT DO YOU SEARCH FOR?
What exactly are Green Lights? Let's talk about that in another Miseducation.

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all dis ur theory na zero it doesn't knw like DT in Nigeria unless u cute like j cole.for a Nigeria lady to shw green light b4 u approach u got to be either a bread soft guy.or tall fair soft cute Nd young.or u get mulla (no thank to yahoo Bois).