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Davash222:
Attention doesn’t pay bills, woman.

I think we need to hear 4rm d guy because d op narration no compelete nno man born of a woman go continue to give u 10k 4 2 weeks unless u b his wife or baby mama

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

is like u need emotional attention .am a man Nd no man will give u 10k in two weeks Nd there no attention there.or less on love portion.nd by d way wetin d guy dey do sef.because u look like d bae DT doesn't care about wer a final yr student have enuf money to b giving u 10k in two weeks.or na yahoo boy.anyway talk to him Nd knw where d relatnship going.nd lastly no vex o wat have u invested or done in d relationship because Ur boo don invest o.it look one sided love here.

Starboytwo:
thanks for your input, I reason that side too, at least we dey wash yoruba film, we dey see as things dey go....

But I strongly doubt things would go messy.. my siblings are all decent folks, I'd like to presume... I'm not gonna say No to any money but same time I'm not gonna sell my home cuz I'm strapped for cash...

jux b wise because is polygamous family.their mama fit posion their mind bro.u need God directions in d mata.na moni Mata Nd u knw hw pple behave Wen it comes to property Nd moni.

GeniusWannabe:
That guy is arrogant.
I have much dislike for arrogant people. Can't have those around me. There are better ways to get it through to her that he didn't like the watch, instead of talking about his personality and crap!

I dey vex d guy need slap.hw many of us gal don buy us something for us

milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

maybe she from a rich home.wat u said about 26yrs true sha but one thing wer dey fear me d sey some were dey online DT age Nd above na retired olosho were dey pretend to get married.dt my fear about dem because they are desperate.sleeping with them can be risky Nd make e no b sey after u marry am e born e go change behaviour

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

wat is saying is true.most ladies who are 23yrs Nd below eh on social media for 9ja are players u knw hw many don do me

daddytime:
You couldn't have lost a mind you never had bro, na your mind lost you.

Now to answer your question of " if this is love or foolishness"..

The answer is " Foolishness", and you are the lead actor..." Person siddon wear jersey wey dem write "Foolish 001" on top as striker come still dey ask yeye question.

It's my birthday today fam....pray for me guys...

it sad but d truth is girls of nowadays are players like we guys.maybe like 10yrs later they will admit being players like they doing about loving money.end d relatnship.is beta to make friends with ladies nowadays Dan dating them.love them wit Ur head Dan hrt.na prayers to find beta girl.but if u b type DT is a fool in love den try double dating Nd have female friends to work on DT weakness if any.also Wen u looking to love a girl look at hw maturity level.as for online girl they are all olosho or players have had my own share of disappointment.

ubunja:
No Choosing Signals, No Approach.

THE COLD APPROACH.
We all have that mental image of an Alpha. That man who's able to go up and seduce any woman he desires without waiting for permission. He's supposed to be able to approach any female of any class, at any place, anytime, without fear. He has balls. After all he is Alpha.

Randomly approaching women on the street is called the COLD APPROACH.
The term is taken from something called Cold Calling, ".. A sales practice in which individuals are contacted who have not previously expressed interest in a product or service. Cold calling is commonly used in telemarketing, and only produces maybe a 2% success rate for the most skilled professional.
Consumers tend to dislike cold calling... " (Source: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/c/coldcalling.asp)

If contacting random people who haven't expressed any interest in something you are selling seems like a mountain of work without any guarantee of success, IT IS a mountain of work without any guarantee of success. The same mountain of work without any guarantee of success that you take upon yourself when you randomly hit on girls on the street who haven't expressed any interest in you.

It's a numbers game.

Approach many women and a few of them will respond positively. There is even a theory: Ask 100 girls for sex and 1 will say yes. While the other 99 will reject you.

People who love the Cold Approach say it "toughens" you up and gets you used to female rejection. Admittedly, Approaching many girls and getting 1 to accept you may make you seem and appear brave and bring you pussy here and there.
But the real question is: Why approach many girls to get 1 girl who'll accept you when you can watch and study the body language of many girls THEN SIMPLY APPROACH THAT 1 GIRL LIKELY TO SAY YES?

Isn't it more sensible? More pleasant?

This writeup will defend and promote such an approach.

THE HOT APPROACH.
Let women show interest in you first before you approach them. That's the Hot Approach.

Don't approach 100 women to get only 1 to say Yes. Study 100 women and identify that 1 woman most likely to say Yes then approach only her.

That way there's less stress, less pain and less guesswork.

WOMEN CHOOSE, YOU APPROACH.
To be happy in life, a woman must love you more than you love her. Just as women themselves know, for them to be happy a man must love them more than they love the man.

Because in any relationship the one who loves LESS is the happiest, the most important and the Prize.

If you want to be happy as a man let women show they like you FIRST before approaching them. Why? Because every woman has a Sexual Imprint which determines what type of men turns her on, which is shaped primarily by her parents (in Virgins) and by her first sexual experience (in non Virgins). You can't guess a woman's Sexual Imprint and you risk going against it when you randomly approach women without checking for signs of interest also known as Green Lights, which are known internationally as Choosing Signals.

A woman who shows interest in you first is telling you that you are what turns her on. In one go she has solved the Sexual Imprint dilemma for you.

IN SUPPORT OF LETTING WOMEN CHOOSE.
Here are 3 radically different sources vouching for the Hot Approach. For letting women show interest in you first before you approach them.

Source 1: Robert Briffault & Briffault's law.

Robert Briffault, (French, 1874 – 1948) is known for what is called Briffault's law whose first sentence is:

"The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family... "

In every species, humans included, all relationships happen with the approval, permission and go-ahead from, the female. Not the male. Even the male peacock, colorful as he is, only displays his feathers and the female CHOOSES him or rejects him.

Why did our forefathers fight with sticks infront of girls? To impress the girls so the girls would CHOOSE them. Being chosen has always been the name of the game for the males. Wait to be chosen before seducing any woman.

Source 2. Anton LaVey.
Jesus said be "Wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16)
By this Christ reveals to us that, generally, evil tends to be more worldly-wise than goodness. Evil men have "streetsmarts" that good men don't have.
And when He says, "For the children of this World are in their generation wiser than the children of Light" (Luke 16:8 ) He's stressing the same point. Evil is smarter than Goodness when it comes to the ways of this world.

Now let's talk about the wisdom of serpents and The cleverness of the Children of the World.

One of the foremost evil figures of our generation was Anton LaVey (American, 1930 - 1997).

You may have heard of a church called The Church of Satan, LaVey started it. You may have heard of something called the Satanic Bible, LaVey wrote it. You may have seen the symbol of a pentagram with a goat's head that has become synonymous with Satanism and Goth culture, although LaVey didn't design it, he's the one who made it trend. To top his service to Satan, LaVey wrote a book that has become the modus operandi for witches in their work of sexually manipulating men called The Satanic Witch.

But LaVey's most interesting work, in so far as this writeup is concerned, is a list of 11 commandments he created in the 1960s called The 11 Satanic Rules Of The Earth that Satanists live by: (https://www.learnreligions.com/satanic-rules-of-the-earth-95969) (or see picture below).

Now among those rules is a very curious rule set at the heart of the list at number 5 that solidifies and crystallizes the theme of this writeup: Satanic Rule number 5: "DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES UNLESS YOU ARE GIVEN THE MATING SIGNAL".

Here is a man whose work and ideas have started international movements and groups and inspired even pòrn stàrs to name themselves after him (adult actresses Scarlet LaVey, Lylith LaVey and Audrey LaVey), yet even he acknowledges and respects how the world of sex works. Namely that WOMEN HAVE TO CHOOSE YOU BEFORE YOU CAN APPROACH.

And women choose you by giving you Mating Signals also known as Choosing Signals also known as Green Lights. Without a Green Light given, even Satanists are commanded NOT to approach a woman sexually.

Source 3: How prostitutes choose Pîmps

In the hierarchy of the Mating Game, Nice Guys sit at the bottom of the pyramid. They are the bottom feeders eating everyone's left overs. Next up, are The Bad Boys. Above them are The Players. And right on top of the pyramid, on top of the food chain, above everyone else, sit The Pîmps. The Kings of the Game. The equivalent of the Lion king of the Jungle.

While at the bottom Nice Guys work to make money that they hand over to their women; at the top sit Pîmps who do the exact opposite: Women work to make the money that they handover to their Pîmp! Just like the Lion the King of the Jungle that lets the Lioness hunt but is himself first to eat.

The Pîmp and the Lion are one. They are kings.

Pîmps understand female nature like no other man on the face of the earth. They know what makes women tick at the most basic level. Even Players don't come close. It takes uncommon cunning and an unprecedented insight into female nature to convince a woman to sell her body and hand over all the money to you. When it's Gospel truth that women love money more than life itself.

What Pîmps do is a marvel.

Yet even Pîmps respect and acknowledge the truth presented in this writeup. Do you know how a Pîmp gets a Prostitute? You imagine it's like what those ignorant Social Workers and the Police say on TV? That prostitutes are forced to work under a Pîmp? That is not true.

Here is an excerpt from a Pîmp interview about how a pîmp really gets a prostitute:

"... a woman gets to choose any pîmp she wants. It's called choosing or re-choosing. If the woman finds a better pîmp than the one she has, she presents him with a wad of cash she's managed to withhold from the first pîmp, sort of like a dowry."

Source: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/127/transcript


"... a girl interested in finding a pîmp meets a pîmp interested in recruiting a girl. The process has a name -- "choosing" -- which indicates its volitional character. The pîmp places himself in a position to be discovered. His success comes from looking and acting like what he is."

Source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/opinions/1981/09/13/myths-about-the-hooker-love-vendor-relationshiop/d96bd862-2426-46eb-a090-d0edfd92054d/?utm_term=.d09720967dd0


You read that right. A prostitute sees a Pîmp that she likes and chooses him by giving him MONEY!!!! How about that for a Green Light! The man who has the utmost control over women, women Choose him and bring themselves to him, bringing him money. He doesn't chase them. He waits to be chosen.

History has only one Pîmp who attained legendary status; American pîmp Iceberg Slim (1918 –1992) whose moniker inspired those of Ice Cube and Ice T, and Nigeria's own Iceberg Slim.

Slim was considered the most cold hearted of all of the pîmps (hence the "Iceberg" moniker). He owned more than 400 prostitutes in his career. Here in his 1967 autobiography "Pîmp: Story of my Life", he narrates how he got his first proper prostitute just after leaving prison where he had learned the art of pîmping from the best of the best:

In chapter 4: "A degree in Pîmping" he narrates:

.....The sissy barkeep sat a fresh bottle of coke on the log before me. I yanked my eyebrows
into a question mark.
He lisped, “The runty black bitch in the middle of the bar sent you a taste.”
Without taking my eyes off his thin yellow face, I said, “Sugar, run her down to me. Is the bitch qualified? Is she a whôré? Does she have a man?”
The corners of his mouth see-sawed. He slugged his soggy, dirty bar rag against my reflection on the bat top. He almost whispered, “The bitch ain’t nothing but a young skunk from Saint Louis. She ain’t nothing but a jazzy jive Whôré. I’m more Whôré than
she is. She ain’t got no man. She’s a come freak She’s Georgied three bullshit pi.mps since she got here a month ago. If your game is strong you could play a hog outta her ass. She ain’t but eighteen.”
I eased a bone from my pocket, put it on the bar for the fresh coke. I frantically remembered those love-vendor rundowns in the joint. I said, “Tell the bitch no dice. I’ll take care of the little things, and if she is
qualified maybe I’ll let her take care of the big things. Give the bitch a drink on me.... "

Fresh from jail, Slim is dressed like a Pîmp in a club when a young prostitute sends him a drink. He hadn't even SEEN the whôré when he started questioning the bartender about her. The girl saw him FIRST and made showed interest first. That's the game. Wait for the women to show interest first. Even Pîmps do it. Who are you not to??

THE TRUTH IN SUMMARY.
Women always choose. The Animal Kingdom knows it. Satanists know it. Pîmps know it. It's about time you knew it too. Don't let your Ego tell you otherwise.

women choose. That's how the Game goes. No matter how powerful you are. No matter how good you're with women. The rule applies to all men: Women have to choose you. Being Powerful and being Good with women makes it easier to be chosen. But still, you've to be chosen.

The reason why getting girls has been torturous for you is because you've been doing it all wrong. You've been forcing yourself on women. Women who had zero interest in you. That's why rejection has been a bîtch.

The few women you randomly approached with success emboldened you on the wrong path. A path that has ended with you now afraid to approach women on the street. That's why you sweat and tremble at the idea of talking to a pretty girl on the street.

signals. SIGNALS. SIGNALS
Women are very PICKY. 9 times out of 10 you're not what she's looking for. But even though picky not all women like the same thing and even the same woman doesn't like the same thing everytime. One day a rich woman will want to taste a broke dick. One day a white woman will wanna taste a black dick. One day a teenage girl will wanna taste a grown man's dick. One day a grown woman will wanna taste a teenage boy's dick. You cannot read the mind of women, even the Devil cannot read minds, but the women whose mind is on you will give you SIGNALS.

Your job is to look for these signals in the women you meet. Your eye must be ever be on alert. Be it in Church or Club. At the grocery shop or hospital. At a Wedding or Funeral. On the street or in the bus. Among beautiful women or among ugly women. Among young women among older women. You are to be in perpetual search mode.

WHAT DO YOU SEARCH FOR?
What exactly are Green Lights? Let's talk about that in another Miseducation.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

all dis ur theory na zero it doesn't knw like DT in Nigeria unless u cute like j cole.for a Nigeria lady to shw green light b4 u approach u got to be either a bread soft guy.or tall fair soft cute Nd young.or u get mulla (no thank to yahoo Bois).

dre11:
https://thenationonlineng.net/nigeria-may-lose-niger-republics-665m-yearly-energy-cash/

this op jux exposed d real reason why u have nt stable electricity.d law of Nigeria put national grid which den sell most of d light 2 outside countries DT d real issue by generator importers rili.to look am na simple matter why not senate amend d law by allowing state grid Nd national grid.why national grid generate nd export light.d flamboyant state like lag,delta rivers etc will generate nd export to other states within Nigeria simple Nd no sand go b put on any bdy garri

Blazebond:
As far as I am concerned,the day u start talking all this "I am a marlian" nonsense,Na that day your mumu start,believe me,all of Una when dey claim marlian no get sense,adults go dey misbehave that claim say na "marlian" Dem be.

leave dem most of them are undergraduate.nd e dey swt at DT stage until they graduate Nd face real life challenges 2 b independent.by d time u already addicted to d lifestyle.nd u be feeling young inside while ur fellow marlians wer get sense go trowaway d lifestyles dey hustle to make money.no wan follow person wer dey weed Nd shayo.is worst if u carry marlian mentality enta late 20.

lalasticlala:
More photos

hotel looks ordinary.make hotel owner try design their hotel building beta so DT if they tell u d price I knw e worth am.like eko hotel Nd one I saw in abj.for instance for use minimalist design.like timaya island house.dt one use am do hotel u lodge u knw money is good.nt like dis one person go dey bored.na jux lodge sleep Nd go hotel.

portune:
What should I do about this? I am gainfully employed. Gives her 60k for house upkeep. I buy bulk thinks like yam , rice, oil tomato etc. She locks shop on me always. I need your thoughts on this pls.

Always giving excuses. At night, "I am tired". In the morning, "go work abeg others have left and making money and you are here looking for who to ram."

Even few moments I press her to it she will insult me sotee my prick falls down.

from ur write-up d question is has she being denying sex like this since u guys married if not.then go see a deliverance pastor on this.because money dey but she denying sex.see a deliverance pastor on d matter first.dnt conclude she cheating.it could be spiritual.but c a genuine deliverance pastor

MrTrend:
Below is the list of the top 10 earners in 2019;

Source: https://www.brainnewsradio.com/see-top-10-best-youtube-earners-in-2019-as-8-year-old-made-26m/

this shows DT children economy is very lucrative.rite now any bdy DT become an naija/Africa cartoon YouTubers don hit gold.so far he or she knows DT cartoon is a comedy movie or series for childre.meaning a comedian have to be d script writer Nd voice actor/actress with a non comic actor/actress if needed.cartoon storytelling is beta done using animals,living things or non living things.human beings comes Wen u beta undastand d concept well.for instance I go save write a script about rats in warri or basket mouth write a script about rats in lag Nd hw d govt effort 2 clean lag is affecting them.note remember DT as at now our African kids don't have African made cartoon DT they can watch.remember d 100millions of African kids.viwership nd sales of toys pencil eraser even chewing gum pygamas etcDT can be created 4rm d cartoons popular character

emmyid:
Follow guys like Ubunja, ilegend or wetclef(same person) and some others. You go de game.

i go check ubunja but dt ilegend no too trust e write up but if u get e e-book fit give me o. if there others guys let me know bcoz as I dey here na hw 2 improve my dating chat up game na concern me no get time 2 dey call guy Mumu lover wer me Neva wise up still a learner

emmyid:
Dear Kemen(finger master),

It might interest you to know that Big Brother is also ashame to tell the world that he once had you in his house.

You shouldn't be ashamed of once being a disqualified Housemate. Rather, you should be ashame of disgracing your whole family, household, and entire clan, while in the house.

is easy 2 judge kemen which guys easy do but wen I ask u 2 teach me or any dude in here hw 2 improve their love life.hw 2 chat up a lady.u can't wetin I go dey hear na packaging go make money. woman go follow.dt y we have pple like Tasha.as 4 me I stop judging guys yrs back.instead I learn 4rm guy foolish mistakes.it has help me find some if my weakness.but wen u trying 2 find out solution 2 ur weakness 4rm guys it was den I knew guys no dey try at all.we are very good 2 condemn a guy but dnt know hw 2 teach a boy have 2 be a real man.let me thank guys like xxxtedyxxx Charles nneji we need more Guys like them who take their times 2 teach or coach guys love life hw 2 spend money wisely on a lady dt Nigerian way hw 2 chat up with a Nigerian lady.u see hw it will do positive Impact on guys life.am sure kemen has money ND didn't know this stuff on a lady.dt y e fall hand in d house.because wen u sabi woman u make fiends with pretty ladies ND u wise with them bcoz u be mentored on it. u can't induce in such

Enyimbamercedes:
Forget the in mini mani mo bull crap! He did not have to do in mini mani mo!!! Hope you know i can rig the in mini mani mo to stop on whoever i want it to. Point is there was no need to make it random. He wanted an excuse to stop on Seyi and he picked Seyi. I cannot remember Ike doing any in mini mani mo bullcrap. He saved Omashola simple.

Lastly, he was called back in from his shouting drama and asked to confirm his selection...He still said Seyi! He actually could have changed his mind.

Simple

wat omashola did was wise abet.even seyi undastand d tension in veto power which he said in his dairy room section

Jaynom:
What were you expecting when you had sex without condom? A Ferrari?

but e fit say d condom bust.unwanted pregnancy dey fear me.

gift2xl:
She's pregnant and so fucking what. Let the duo's be and mind ur business.

is it d pregnancy dt make them have 2 marry.it doesn't matter anyway. but on a personal I dey fear unwanted pregnancy.it has made me lose dates/gfs

inoki247:
oga which kid neva sleep around 12am... Do you know what ur kids are doing with dere pairs at school or even at home... if u like protect ur kid from now till tomorrow pikin wey go become Brand Ambassador of PornHub will surely b.. av seen kids watching Porn with school WiFi so look for another excuse nd train ur kids...

if is around 12am.he no get case America cops go only caution am.nt to do such wen kids are awake.because Madonna did such in d morning wen kids were going to school plus other controversial stuff d thing affected her career eh.dt she had 2 clean her image

NJobs:
This is a good development, we cannot condone immorality in our open space. Imagine the number of kids that would seen that gross show of shame

tho such isn't good bcoz of kids.but 4 immorality let allow it be bcoz immorality is heavy in Nigeria.

Davash222:
The way you appear determines the type of guys you attract. You keep attracting “I’ve you eaten” (not even ‘Have you eaten’) type of guys shows you need to up your game.

she has pride dt y I didn't reply wen I tried 2 explain y guys ask question.even highlight a chat up dt wen u c Wat I wrote u say is a cool chat but she saying is boring. it shws she has issue ND can't accept fault.

phintohlar:
Na by force to reply, you chooses to tell me how your days went, so wetin make we do. The most annoying question you guys asked is " i've you eaten"

i meet ur type in fb saying such 2 me after I schooled her hw 2 chat she no fit talk.she changed afta dt. u girls are d problem in chatting.like nw I say c u dey enjoy c hw ur skin dey fresh like 2day agege bread.wat ur reply should be lol I pray o but na u soft pass. u na chairman. my reply 4 where na packing o. Buhari recession hit me. 2 do coup 4 e govt dey hungry. ur reply ah na die sentence.jux give me money for ur coffin. u c hw d chat dey go. but sum gal Wat u get as reply is hmm or OK dt kill d vibe dt place u in tight corner dt leads us 2 start asking question.

Martinez39:
Are girls supposed to be your headache now? Focus on your studies ,self-improvement and hustle. If you leave relationship for now, do these things and start looking for a wife much later in the future, have you missed anything? Focus on yourself my friend.

Beside, stop killing yourself over girls. They cannot love you except you have money. Even if you spend $2m on that girl and donate one of kidneys to save her life, she will still loath and leave you the day you don't have money anymore. Love doesn't exist, stop fooling yourself.

Life after university is hard and challenging and you don't need gold diggers and other distractions and wastage. Start preparing for life after school and leave girl matter alone.

but he needs d experience.all Wat u advising him is Wat I did it sound good but inexperience in woman is very bad bro. am regretting I didn't reason woman wen I dey school.because wen u start having serious relationship u be so naive in some area in relatnship. ND even u dt talking u telling me u Neva had a lover wen u were in school. pls stop d hypocrisy.

LillyVal:
sIf u want to woo a waffi lady on social media, don’t start with "hi" I repeat don't start with "hi" She won't reply u. Start with, "Do u use First bank, Access or GTB?

lol.na acct number ND phone number straight.but hw u na waffi boys dey take catch babe 4rm outside delta.

na only warri boys fit catch bae with little money or no money. ND make her happy.i dnt knw they do it. trying 2 get one delta guy were dey wrk 4 gas shop 2 teach me. any waffi guy 4 nairaland abeg make u na teach me hw u na take dey do am.

laudate:
No sir, the only irrational being here, is you. Were you there when she got married and the pastor gave them a car as wedding gift? Did Busola or Timi mention anything like that? You are basing your argument on what a 3rd party said, that does not hold water.

Oga, the pastor had sex with the lady when she was underaged at 16 years. That in itself, is an offence. And sex with a minor is classified as rape.
#SayNoToRape.

my brother wen it comes 2 mata of man ND woman u have 2 vet 2 situation.u Neva handle issue BTW man ND woman b4.ok c pst sulaiman issue me first believe d rape allegation but later we started 2 hear 4rm her friend about d gal being a hustler or and gov fayose na Emily pulse a little we all know hw d mata end.dis issue me believe am well bcoz d pastor no b like genuine pastor 2 me. but wen I c Steph Nora I have 2 pulse.nw d nxt thing ND out Wat she saying about d wedding is true. u know why there being false rape accusation b4 online.so nw d lady dt accuse prophet jb Joshua of rape u jux believe her. ND support her ND start attacking jb Joshua without vetting d mata.my dear be careful with jumping side wit such allegation to a man of God. be neutral is wise. dt hw I heard of a pastor dt was accused of rape by a lady in his compound he rents.d said lady sista supported their sista has usual.nt knowing d pastor was innocent d pastor den place curse d lady.yrs lata God reveal d pastor dshould forgive wich is d cause d pastor couldn't speak in tongue.which he did. meanwhile d lady in question. ND her sista couldn't born sum had difficulty getting pregnant it was afta forgiveness things change 4 them. dt y sum of us I being careful here.

laudate:
Oga, there have been previous accusations like the one raised by Ese Walters in 2013. After that there were more allegations, that were swept under the carpet, before they gained traction in the media. That lady had alleged that she had sexual relationship with him, due to sexual manipulation by this same married pastor.

Even after Busola's story broke, a few women have shared their stories on social media, about how the pastor made passes at them.

If this case ever goes to court, too many skeletons will be dug up from the pastor's cupboard.

Oga, Busola was under-aged at 16 years, when the whole thing occured. Having sex with a minor is a felony in many countries, and is classified as rape.

#SayNoToRape.

go sit dwn wich kind manipulation.so let say u be guy if ur wife tell u say her pastor rape her ND dt she had sexual relatnship dt she was manipulated yrs ago b4 u meet her awhile na d same church u na Marry ND d said pastor na d G. O. ur mama hear d story hw u think ur mama go react no b Mumu e go call u

laudate:
Thank you for educating the clueless ones, my brother.

yes he has a point but dt nt d issue Steph Nora is raising here. Steph is a woman too.wat she raising is hw can a rape victim Wed in d rape offender church which his a G.O.nd receive a wedding gift e no make sense na.which manipulation or threat go make ur sister or anuty stay 4 pastor wer rape her church cum Wed 4 d church receive car gift.reason e no carry na. na dt area of d wedding dey make Steph doubt d mata.c u Neva handle married pple mata wen u do u know dt u dnt take side too quick(nt b sentimental)

SageMK:
The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

na u dey irrational do u know Wat is wedding 2 a lady. ask any lady no lady will allow a rapist pastor who rape her 2 Wed her and her hussy.even if d man manipulate her like u said she go remain 4 d church but wed outside ND Neva receive a wedding gift. 4rm d rapist think am. ask ur mama or sista wet in I talk ND c their reply. my guy u Neva c any.until u b in a scenario wer u date a lady dt I ex dey treat anyhow but Lara in d relatnship u b like no wonder her ex maltreat her.

iboboyswag:
Exactly... As much as I don't like Fatoyinbo, but this is beginning to look like a script being played out. But to what end?

Time will tell

if is true dt his church agent is giving 2million 2 social media influneners 2 support d pastors.dem our female celeb are fake pple bcoz big brother 9ja go start 2day ND might divert attention of our ladiez(which are hypocrites in real life) so my take is can't our female celeb were dey write "I standwithbusola"raise 4million sef 2 give social media influencers 2 keep it trendy despite big brother.as 4 our online sistaz wer dey vex dey I stand with bisola jux watch Bbn Don start dem go blow moni on voting 4get their sista Busola.