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robosky02:
Omo Henry Nwosu that year

He scored the best goal in AFCON finals history which was unfortunately disallowed in Marco’88 finals against Joseph Antoine Bell of the Indomitable Lions of Cameroun - That goal sha na helele… but Referee Idrissa Sarr had other things in his mind and there was no goal line technology then - great midfielder -

How come no one mentioned Friday Ekpo 😁

EEIA:


Lord knows there are about 10 people I know that wouldn’t have been alive right now is everyone could have a gun in Nigeria .


Even my being alive would
Be on probability.


I trust Nigeria and stray bullets too.

when everyone who is qualified (pass violent crime background check, psychiatric test and firearms training test) in NIGERIA own guns:

(1) The government official flaunting stolen wealth at your face will behave and be respectful, leading to a better society
(2) The person who can not control his temper and shoots you out of jealousy or hatred will have to deal with your relatives with guns too
(3) It makes every criminal think twice before engaging in robbery or abductions as justice can be served swiftly by armed citizens
(4) It gives confidence to farmers to return back to the farm as they wont be scared of armed herdsmen which makes food cheap
(5) It makes the return of night life possible again as people will feel safer knowing random criminal gangs will not rob or kidnap them
(6) Night travelling will resume in Nigeria as highway robbers will meet their match. This is why highway robbery rarely happen in the U.S.
(7) The impunity of security agents against law abiding citizens will stop instanta, it's why policemen do not slap citizens randomly in the U.S.
( 8 ) Election day will be so safe as hoodlums will not deploy violence to cause mayhem - citizens will have the means to defend their votes!
(9) This means Nigerians will be able to elect credible leaders who are accountable to the people- this will develop the country immensely
(10) Last but no the least, there will be orderliness, mutual respect and peace in Nigeria, and Nigerians will be safer for it.

And for all those against gun ownership, know that knife stabbing, acid pouring, lynching, jungle justice, food poisoning and even machete attacks are equally dangerous realities in Nigeria of today - so whoever will mean to harm you can deploy any of these too to achieve the aim of taking someone's life- so why being against guns? is it because it is swift and precise? who is afraid of the liberated and protected Nigerian?

Concman:
This one don lose him job

that is the purpose of the video- guy man want make dem sack am so he can leave quietly - he knows he can go to jail for desertion so he wants the video to propel his sack - guess what ? him don miscalculate - dem no go sack am - dey go just flog and some strokes of horse whip - who him won leave the battle for in North East 😂 ?

Kenmatt:
I didn't go through.

Do I even need to go through?

Why is Peter Obi delivering a new year messages to Nigerians?

Is he a Nigerian President?

Or was it because President Tinubu delivered a new year messages he too wants to do the same.

Maybe, they say he is the Nigerian President of X (Twitter).

IT IS CALLED OPPOSITION - shadow cabinet - so Nigerians can see the difference which is CLEAR - 7up

jaksmillioniar:
I sha know dat my children will be citizen one day if is to sell all my property cos d fact is u cant compare.wat we lack as black d white got a lot.i know wat am saying. My friend dat japa in June is enjoying him self snapping pix. His now a citizens

in 6 months a citizen > ? which part of your brain is paining you?

Princewill1:
This is a rebuttal of this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7936687/11-reasons-why-must-japa#:~:text=11.,life%20expectancy%20is%20very%20high.

DISCLAIMER:
There is a notion that once you present an anti-japa argument, you're automatically an agent working for the govt. I want to state here that I have never supported this Apc govt since their coming to power in 2015. My contrary opinion on japa stems from my detest of youths mass-migration for economic reasons. I see it as an act of cowardice and stupidity.

This is not just for Nigerians japaing alone. I'm also disgusted whenever I see pictures of thousands of able bodied Latino youths who are at the US-Mexico border begging to be allowed entry into the US. These youths coming to together to mass-migrate can also link-up to take back their country via any possible means. Because if their home countries were better, they won't be moving out enmass. One of the reasons why the citizens of the country you're japaing to often discriminate against you is because you have proven to be a weakling seeking an easy excape or an inferior who are incapable of fixing their problems.
The only mass-migration i support is if it's due to serious natural disaster or large scale political persecution like that of Israel-Palestinian conflict. Below are the 11 reasons why you shouldn't Japa from Nigeria.

1.) It's More Easier To Be A Dollar Millionaire/Billionaire In Nigeria:

There are millions of Nigerians in the diaspora who are supposedly living in the first world economy and are working in various fields of human endeavor. But it may interest you to know that non have ever made it into Forbes billionaires list. But those at home keep making the list back to back.
This is important to point out because wealth building is a crucial topic to every real man and majority of Nigerian men moving are doing so mainly due to financial reasons.
Truth is, Nigeria is the largest market in Africa and a developing economy. There are plenty of wealth to be created in a "developing economy" than in a "develop economy", that's why as you are trooping out, Chinese, Lebanese and Indians are trooping in. Nigerians are raising $20k-30k in this economy to Japa while average Americans can't boast of $10k in their bank accounts, they live check to check.

2.) African Communal Living:

Nigeria offers the African social support system that you won't find in the Western countries. You fit run into financial emergency, your family will gather to raise funds for you, if you child misbehaves outside elders go assist you to discipline the child before you return home, if your house is on fire the whole neighborhood will join hands in puting out the fire, if you're cooking late night and ran out of maggi, if you knock on your neighbor door, him go deliver you, if your co-tenant never see you for 2 to 3 days, he go knock for your door to check up on you. All these don't happen in your Japa destination. In the West, you fit dey sick and later kpai inside your room and stay there for over a month nobody go know until your body begins to the smell.

3.) There Is More Insecurity Abroad:

You are 7times more likely to be shot in any city in America than in Lagos. Almost every Western country has violent "Far-Right Groups" who are frustrated and bitter with their Govts for allowing influx of migrants to erode their society and culture. These groups are like a time bomb waiting to go off because they can easily turn violent by attacking migrants especially black people. The big truth is, insecurity especially in southern Nigeria is over-reported and amplified on social media. There are violent crimes in every country. The crime news you read on social media especially in South of the country is commiserate with our population. No one can pull out any data anywhere to show that crime rate in the South has reached an epidemic proportions as believed on social media. In fact if you ban social media for 1year in Nigeria and conduct an opinion poll on insecurity. You will be surprised that Nigerians will tell you that insecurity has reduced. Just recently, a govt minister was robbed on the highway in South Africa. If that were to happens in Nigeria, Japa will be trending in Nigeria for more than a week. Most Nigerians haven't seen a bokoharam militant before but bokoharam will attack a village in Borno State close to the border with Chad, someone living in Lekki will read the news online and tweet that he wants to Japa due to insecurity.

4.) Easy Access To Natural Foods:

Nigeria has abundant healthy cheap natural foods and it's even taken for granted here. The people in the abroad you wants to go are jealous of your menu. Unhealthy and disease-causing canned and processed foods are what you will end up to when you finally japa because you will pay through your nose to place your hands on any organic food there.

5.) Favourable Weather Condition Throughout The Year:

Nigeria has one of the best climate conditions you can find. We have no extreme weather here. No severe temperature, Tornado or Harricane. Weather conditions in your Japa destination can cause sudden emergency situations. It can sometimes cause a whole city to be evacuated.

6.) No Racism:

Truth remains that after you Japa, you and your family will at one point experience both subtle and harsh discrimination based on your skin color or accent and you will never integrate into the Western society not even in a million years. Black Americans that japaed 400yrs ahead of you are yet to be fully integrated and accepted, I don't know who is motivating you that you will be accepted fully or that your own case will be different.

7.) Nigeria Better On Raising Cultured Kids:

If as a Nigerian, you are cautious of how your kids will be raised, you better stay back home, because in the West, your kids doesn't belong to you. They belongs to the government and authorities there are free to teach and instill any idealogy they deem necessary. So don't be shocked if your 7yrs old son are taught how to switch gender or pronoun at school and given free lgtv literature with erotic images.

8.) Nigeria Better On Entertainment And Fun Activities:

You can fall into depression abroad due to loneliness and stress from doing multiple jobs but not in Nigeria. With little money in Nigeria, you can go partying and balling till dawn day in day out. You fit die onto enjoyment.

9.) No Weird Or Crazy New Culture:

Abroad will humble a deeply religious person who is against homosexuality to work as a caregiver for gay couples. You will be forced to embrace trans and gay people, feminism and made to reject polygamy. I doubt if men have rights in the West. You risk losing everything to a woman, this don't only apply to your wife. Even your long-term girlfriend who you are cohabiting with, can be given a share of assets after a breakup by the court. If a random woman accuses you of rape, the system will already treat you as a convict. I recently observed that premier league captain band is now decorated with pride colors (lgtv flag) to support the community. And you know what awaits any player that openly criticizes it or refuses to wear the band. He risk getting cancelled and he should kiss his footballing career a goodbye. They will use his punishment as deterrent to others. All these new crazy woke policies and behaviors are not practiced in Nigeria.

10.) Cost Of Living Is Cheaper:

Thousands of Americans and EU citizens are retiring like kings in South East Asia and South America ie Thailand, Indonesia, Mexico, Chile etc. You can look it up. Not that they don't love their home countries but because they are excaping the high cost of living in the West. Accommodation, transportation, education, local foods etc are still cheaper in Nigeria. The amount you will paid on a match-box apartment in London or New York can fetch you a year rent of 2bedrooms flat in a good location in any major Nigerian city.

11.) No Rat Race Or Extreme Taxation In Nigeria:

You will labour abroad for a month and the rigged system will use "high taxation, high cost of living and the scam credit system" to return everything back to the system in order for you to repeat the circle again. In a bid not to go homeless on the cold streets, and also to put food on your table, you have no other option than to keep repeating the circle until the time you will finish your term of slavery due to old age, then your children will start where you stopped and the circle continues.
Truth is, the entire world is controlled by the globalists in the West, the further away you're from the West and it's entanglements the freer you will become. If the 1% elite in the West removes the rigging in the system you will be able to secure enough bags and retire early. But they stands to lose if people starts excaping the system early, they need your manpower for longer period of time to maintain their industries and establishments. This explains why the more income you earn there, the more rediculous taxes you pays because the system is continously gauging you and the tax system (one of it's tools of control) is strictly and heavily guided, defaulters risks jail term. The system was programmed in a way that you will never get enough in order not for you to start thinking of excaping the slave camp early until you finish your term of slavery.
This is one of reasons why rich and exposed Nigerians don't fancy living abroad. Even most African ex-footballers returns home immediately after the end of their career in Europe. An average Nigerian coming from lack, hunger and extreme poverty and who is daydreaming of Japa won't be able to see this anomaly. Living in Nigeria will provide you the opportunity to excape Matrix.

I wish I can give you 1,000 likes at once - the bold parts, i have told them more than 100 times here BUT they will soon insult the living day light s out of you --- our people say "A DOG THAT IS DETERMINED TO GET LOST, WILL NEVER LISTEN TO HIS OWNERS WHISTLE - please do nor be frustrated by the negative responses you receive here - you have done God's work telling them the truth - they are from those who are already lost overseas and wish more to destroy their future with that same move of japa - the same AMERICA - Femi Gbajabiamila stole $25k from his client and became a felon and ended his law practice in disgrace to come live in Nigeria? that is an American lawyer ooo - trained in the US - no worry make ona japa, after 40 years in the west, ona go remember this post - enuff said!!!!

LeoDeKing:
We Nigerians never said Peter Obi cannot attend burials or be taking selfies with Davido and Charlie Boy. That is his right duly guaranteed by law.

What we Nigerians are saying is that Peter Obi can never be president of Nigeria 🇳🇬

No, you wont be around to witness the Obi Presidency.. thx

talk2hb1:
I knew he is gonna be black

japa crew over to you

blamingthedevil:
President Tinubu departs for Lagos for Christmas-New year break.

best time to ova t troooo

blamingthedevil:
Dangote Refinery working✓
Portharcourt Refinery working ✓
Subsidy Gone✓
Foreign Exchange Defending gone✓
Investors Confidence all time high✓
Capital Market at the highest index peak✓
Security improved ✓
Infrastructures projects continuity ✓
Lagos Ibadan Expressway completed✓
Apapa Oshodi Expressway completed
Enugu Onitsha expressway almost completed✓
Grants to Nano Businesses✓
Loans to Businesses ✓
CNG conversion ongoing ✓
Europe Gas Deal signed ✓
Rivers Crisis Resolved ✓

Etc
Etc
Etc

best time to ova t troooo

mastermaestro:
Go and find out what happened to Oshiomhole's lawmakers when Obaseki shut them out. They completed their tenure in Oshiomhole's parlour in Abuja.

These lawmakers have no idea what has hit them. Fubara is following Obaseki's footsteps.

All those who say education na scam - maKe dem come see wetin lack of proper "legal and political" education don cause these law makers

its ok to forge certificate, lie, bully, snatch, grab it, run away with it, but if these lawmakers were not olodo, they would have seen what

happened in Edo with Oshomole lawmakers who did exactly the same thing and they retired themselves abruptly from power.


Well what do i know? maybe Wike told them he owns the Supreme Court- with the terrible judgement the apex court gave on Oct 26,

who can fault the lawmakers for refusing to use their brain? especially with what Wike told them in secret before Oct 26. They must have

concluded "WHAT WIKE CAN NOT DO IN NIGERIA DOES NOT EXIST" - lets keep our fingers crossed - IF Supreme Court do anyhow for

this matter- it will mark the end of that court in Nigeria - as it will become too obvious they are an arm of the APC - the backlash will be

terrible - na small thing like this go spark that revolution - The Ijaws are spartan in nature - 90% of Nigeria's crude oil exploration,

production and /or pipelines pass through their land and waterways - IF they decide to sabotage it, na BAMBIALLA Nigeria government

go turn to within one month - we will even be begging the likes of Cameroon and Equatorial Guinea money to feed eat.. hmmm!

MajorB009:
So in all the nonsense you wrote up there is physical assault the solution to this "indiscipline"?

You just type like who no get sense.

your fada!!!!

Massiveglory:
All these resignation shows that Nyesome wike was practically the governor of 2 states, abuja and rivers state.

Greedy, evil, selfish, self centred desperate wayo man. Your crimes in rivers state in the last election cannot be forgiven. Even your shadow will hunt you for the evil and wicked deeds you did.

Let them keep resigning - OBASEKI saw this happen in EDO STATE just 2 months to his re-election, when he left APC for PDP since they wont give him the ticket for re-election. They thought he will fail because of Federal might of APC - we all know the story. All those who resigned are today jobless and relegated to political oblivion. IF I am Fubara, I will fly straight to BENIN CITY and take lectures from OBASEKI on how to deal with crazy god father's like WIKE. - if OSHIOMOLE can be defeated in EDO STATE despite being the APC National chairman, I think FUBARA must ensure WIKE is expelled from the PDP at his Ward Level - He has the money now (power of the purse), Dude should use it FAST

Forward all Wike's dirty financial dealings while he was Governor of Rivers State- send it to EFCC and other corruption Agencies- let him have something to worry about- dirty him up badly so that it becomes a burden for Tinubu to even keep him as a Minister - He has no immunity as a Minister, so he can be arrested, when the cries from Nigerians become deafening. Since Wike is mad, Fubara must bring down the roof!!!

Once Wike is fired, he will be arrested and made to account for all he stole as Governor of Rivers State - USE THE STATE MONEY to recruit your own killer squad, CUT WIKE THE MONSTER TO SIZE FAST - Fubara is IJAW - he knows what to do- except he wants to end up like AMBODE-

FUBARA, a mad - greedy man like Wike can not be tamed, or made to see reasons you extinguish him like a ROACH with RAID!!!!!

MajorB009:
So in all the nonsense you wrote up there is physical assault the solution to this "indiscipline"?

You just type like who no get sense.

shorrop there Mr SABI SABI, there are 2 sides to every story, that is why in the law of natural justice, we have the maxim, "audi alteram patem" - which is hear the other side. Have you heard the other side? have you listened to the account of the so called "erring" officer? - You come here ranting?

HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF THIS SCENATIO?: what if the Officer politely asked the guy to leave, and in order not to feel small before the girl (food seller, he probably was toasting, since they were there gisting) and he talked disrespectfully to the officer; using belittling adjectives on him and the officer retaliated ? I am not excusing whatever the officer did, but have you heard his own account?

Just like the world accused Zinedine Zidane of head butting Gatusso in the Finals of the 2006 World Cup - who many believed contributed to France's failure to lift the World Cup after he was shown the red card - I blamed Zidane, I was supporting France BUT when I heard his own account that Gatusso called his mom a prostitute to his face, then I knew 9 out of 10 men will react without thinking. We all have blood flowing in our veins. That is why in law - we have MURDER and MANSLAUGHTER. IF that NYSC boy was in the lecture room, where his colleagues are, will this assault happen?

You come to nairaland, laced up in primitive emotions to judge someone based on woke sentiments and you have the nerve to rant ? Have you seen NDA (Nigerian Defense Academy) training video? do you see what cadets go through in their first year (not 21 days like in NYSC camp, but 365 day?) That is not assault, that is humiliation and I cant go through that - I thought it was a Nigerian thing until I watched the US Seals and US Marines cadet drill and there I realized that any MILITARY or PARAMILITARY camp comes with tough rules and crazy expectations. It is not a tea party - NYSC CAMP is not only for taking pictures and collecting allawee, IT IS WHERE SOME LEVEL OF DISCIPLINE, which your parents failed to give to you at home are enforced!

You are just an eediotttt@

Fujiyama:
^^^
You have defeated your own argument. The fault lies where it lies: with the military, full stop. This generalization about 'no one wanting to put in the work' is simply not relevant here. That strike was carried out by soldiers.



^^^
This is presumptuous. You don't know this to be true because you weren't there. That fellow could very well turn up and prove all you have said to be incorrect. You simply don't know.

lawyer general ndooo Mr sabi sabi nairaland attorney general

Opportuneke:
This is my take on this issue…

The military is military any day anytime 👌🏻
Military works based on instructions and order 💯

Why will you be in mammy when you were supposed to be receiving lectures, 💁🏽‍♂️ That’s arrant nonsense, it’s indiscipline.

You don’t flout orders and think there won’t be consequences.

I served as far back as 2012 in Enugu state, Udi local government precisely during the days of Sullivan Chime as the governor.

Don’t come online to tell us bullshit 🤷🏻‍♂️

This so called woke generation are so indiscipline and leverage on social media as a tool of defense while playing the victim card.

I pity for this generation.

Nobody will harass you if you are discipline and adhere strictly to instructions.👍

After five years of postgraduate experience, I got to know how the military operates because I eventually became a member,💁🏽‍♂️ then you would realize that most of the things done out there are totally unacceptable because everyone tends to claim rights and freedom 👌🏻
Visit any military formation and see for yourself, they are always organized just because there’s law and order.
However, I detest harassment as the case may be. But the media didn’t really propagate the real cause of the chaos.🤦🏻‍♂️

We have all seen the kind of society we live in,🤷🏻‍♂️ moral decadence has taken over the climes.

The children of this generation 🤔have no regards and respect for their elders all in the name of woke generation

Let’s always have it at the back of our mind that without an action, there can’t be reactions 👌🏻

In as much as the camp commandant maybe redeployed for going to far, I also foresee that the corp members in question may as well face dismissal or withdrawal from camp based on indiscipline 🤷🏻‍♂️

I rest my case.



You are free to speak bro.

I have spoken 🙌🏻

God bless you for this, I wish I can give you a million likes - it is because no one wants to put in the work, obey orders, follow military precision norms and discipline THAT probably led to some incapable hands manning the drone that almost killed 100 people in Kaduna recently

Even here in the USA, MILITARY or PARAMILITARY camp (boot camp) is not a tea party - it is meant to instill discipline with drill Sergeants barking orders at cadets all day long - I never heard anyone in such camps record themselves and post it on social media - even in the USA --- if YOU CANT STAND THE HEAT, GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN - nysc is not meant for everyone - if you can not obey orders in just 21 days of your miserable life, please stay at home- the government is paying you that small allowee for your inconveniences --SO THAT you can obey orders - yet you cant- sitting at Mami Market probably toasting the food seller while everyone else was in lecture - THAT IS GROSS INDISCIPLINE !!!!!

IF that behavior is allowed to slide - others will copy cat it and the camp will be uncontrollable in just a few hours - that is why Referees give red cards - to make others realize there are rules in the game --- I remember a US naval officer was imprisoned for so many years for just taking photos when he was in a sensitive military facility - he was court martialed and jailed - BECAUSE RULES ARE THERE TO BE FOLLOWED

AS one who served NYSC, I can tell you for free - that this particular corp member must have been warned personally at least once, AND he must have been told during initial orientation on DAY 1 that Mami Market is not 24 hours - there are times set aside for food - (some of us who can not bear hunger went to camp with corn flakes, powdered milk, cabin biscuit, satchet margarine, sugar, even some brought small garri sef to supplement in our bed corners when we are supposed to be in the room and hunger strikes) time to sleep- time for parades- time for every activity (REGIMENTAL LIFE) which is life military barrack life BUT decided to be mischievous by breaking the rules - yeye cry baby

kokoA:
You can go, japa is not for me..

God bless you, please ooooo who won japa - please japa stop disturbing our ears with japa this japa that ---- the noise is too much

please make ona go and save us the stress of explaining your moves - ona too talk just japa abeg

see house wey cost $1.2 million (N1.2 Billion) - INCLUDING the Land, Design, Permits, Labor Cost, Materials for building and Profit for seller.

but Shettima wants to renovate him VP lodge - with N15 Billion ($15 million) EXCLUDING the Land and Permits


you see how we dey deceive awa self 4 naija

that’s her name - gold digger 😂

I have read with great enthusiasm the case for JAPA by most NIGERIANS especially those on nairaland - and as one who has been in the USA for almost 30 years and still counting, let me simply give this advise. I am not saying there are no genuine reasons for wanting to leave- BUT IF I have known these truths almost 30 years ago, MOST PROBABLY - I would have stayed back on NIGERIA- please read these 10 points with an OPEN MIND:

[I] -- 90% PROBABILITY - you will never marry for LOVE

I know this may sound stupid because you will say who marry help, but FOREVER is too long to marry for anything EXCEPT true love. Those of you willing to JAPA from naija, know that once you get overseas, you are no longer in control of what you want regarding LOVE and MARRIAGE, it becomes whatever LIFE throws at you because of circumstances. Most people will not admit publicly but MOST that japa end up marrying someone over there that they may never have said hello to IF they had the luxury of choice like they do in naija

[II] --- 90% PROBABILITY - the one you love back in Nigeria will end up with someone else

I know this may sound funny, like forget love, I do not care - I just want to leave. But if half of the reasons you japa is to find the resources to make life more comfortable for you and your loved ones when you japa, where will that "loved one" be when you finally capture that financial freedom you so desperately seek ? Do not forget, Nature abhors vacuum, by the time you spend 4 to 7 years on average looking for your permits, you think other people and interests will not creep into HIS or HER life in Nigeria? where will that relationship be in the final analysis? EVERY JAPA enthusiast will say, "abeg - leave matter, I will use my resources to find love again" - Then you will become the mugu who will end up marrying someone who just needs you to travel abroad and most likely dump you when HE or SHE gets there

[III] Most Nigerians who are still single overseas are most times severely damaged emotionally and psychologically due to the trauma of living under pressure which comes with life in the western world - so IF you intend to marry the "Nigerian" you meet overseas, most likely -you are in some trouble already.

[IV] You may never raise your child the way you deem fit. The state puts a lot of strangles on your ability to correct your child. You may say- oh as long as I do not beat my child, it is ok, but that restraint is not limited to physical abuse. If the child says you yell at them always just to correct them, that is "EMOTIONAL ABUSE" and your child can be taken away from you by the CPS for that - [Child Protection Service] - This is why many naija kids overseas end up being what their parents will never imagine them to be IF they were brought up in naija

[V] In LIFE, it takes 2 to agree to marry, BUT it takes the decision of just 1 of the 2 to end it. This means you can be the best husband and father to your kids as you rate yourself. HOWEVER, if your wife thinks otherwise, because she has been influenced by her friends and seduced by another man or simply compelled by nature to seek other interest outside the home you built with her, it is game over for you, your peace of mind, your financial health, your physical well being and probably your ability to have custody over your kids- they may end up being raised by your wife with another man (her new lover) supervising the kids in the way he deems fit UNTIL your visitation day. And most likely your ex-wife will have up to 3 to 5 relationships before the kids turn 18, Think of the effect that will have on them - over time - seeing different men come in to sleep with their mom and leave in the morning.

[VI] LET ME go to LARGER or EXTENDED FAMILY and CURRENT FRIENDS - There is a 90% PROBABILITY that most of your current friends - with whom you grew up with and have enjoyed the UP's and DOWN's of life together - and your treasured family members who give you that happiness and joy of life will be lost. This comes because as you "stay apart, you grow apart" - and then there will be demands coming from them because they do not know any better that the streets of the western world may be paved with gold but no one picks money on the floor. So when their needs are not met, they start thinking it is your greed that has taken over - not knowing you are struggling to pay your bills and there are no extras for them - this will sour up the friendship and even relatives over time will start avoiding you - Even those who did not ask you for a favor will conclude you failed to use "YOUR CHURCH MIND" to help them - soon you will find yourself alone with new friends and probably family overseas who have no bearing to your roots.

[VII] REGARDLESS of the fuel subsidy issue, NIGERIA is still a country where you can earn high and spend less- especially IF you have tech skills that are globally in demand - You can make that dollars and spend naira - meaning you can KEEP up to 80% of what you earn - those living overseas are too luck to keep enough -IN FACT 90% of those who japa may not be able to keep more than 15% of what they earn NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY TRY - when you consider paying for TAXES (federal/ state/ county) RENT/MORTGAGE, CAR NOTE, UTILITIES, INSURANCE, FOOD (yes groceries aint cheap because whatever you buy is taxed at POS) CHILD CARE/ CREDIT CARD BILLS, GAS, CLOTHING, MEDICALS/ all that - you are left with almost nothing - you can not escape bills overseas and IT WILL NOT WAIT... (to be continued soon in a few hours --- 3 more points to go )

MuslimIgbo:
Yes, and probably the men.
SECRETLY.

that i do not know but people do not prioritize sex in the USA like mostly done in Nigeria- maybe it is the bills stress or what i cant place it - people care much about their careers, financial life (retirement plan), physical health, kids, mortgage, car, pets and food in that order b4 sex

so they (most likely) will not ruin the most for the least!!!

MuslimIgbo:
Believe me, they will all MOST LIKELY be having extramarital affairs secretly.

you mean the women ba?

Onyiiobi7735:
She's yet to see anything.Let her continue prostituting herself and still expecting a decent man to come and marry herself.

this lady destroyed my cousin's relationship - when him and his girlfriend broke up - he said she had blessing ceo videos littered all over her facebook when she calls men scum bla bla bla - telling her followers not to take nonsense from any man

today nko? how far

people should be careful about who they take advise from - another person's reality is not you own future! be wise - especially women!!!

Dailymice:
My mum who is 50+ years japa from Nigeria to the USA in 2022 as a nurse after she got a job with my dad who is in his late 50s and my siblings below 21 (as per USA immigration laws)....
About to leave soon myself...
They earn 10x more in 2 weeks than they earned in a year here


You better start making plans for the sake of your kids.
Rich APC urchins have second passports o

The same AMERICA FEMI GBAJABIAMILA ran away from as a LAWYER stealing his client $25,000 to come play politics in Nigeria?

IF Gbaja - a lawyer in AMERICA could run away to naija with a client's $25k and became a felon for it, why do you think its all roses in the USA?

no worry make ona dey play when bills chop all the money u labor for and nothing to show for 30 years in America ona eyes go clear

MuslimIgbo:
Make I japa so that all these poliTHIEFcian will continue to steal our common wealth
Mba nuuu!

We die here!
We continue to dey drag am. It's the survival of the fittest and NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED.


Not everyone is interested.

Me personally is not interested.

I'LL RATHER REMAIN A KING IN THIS ZOO THAN TO BE A STRAY DOG FOR THIS OYINBO WEREY PEOPLE.

I'LL NEVER SUFFER THE SAME FATE AS SOME OF MY ANCESTORS.
On top of that, the abroad society is too corrupt.
It's not a sane clime for marriage and to raise children....

EVERYTHING IS RIGGED AGAINST MEN!

God bless you, your ancestors - may wisdom will never depart from you!!!!

The grass is always greener on the other side- 3 of my naija friends - 2 married to American women and 1 to naija - all 3 told they have not had sex for an average of 1 year - in fact the last one have not had sex in 3 years - they are in a sexless marriage and their wives are very ok with that - sexless marriage happens when a couple do not have sex more than 10 times a year - ALL 3 are scared stiff of engaging in extra marital affairs because that could lead to divorce meaning they will have to part with more than 70% of their assets and even up to retirement entitlements because they have been married more than 10 years - AND YOU CANT MARRY MORE THAN 1 WIFE in western world

Just think about what you just read!!!! - for you trying to japa, you have sex like rabbit in naija - when and wherever you want it- even if you are married, your wife most likely wont leave you for that and their are no financial consequences - No Child support wahala - family absolves everyone and the child is raised somehow - no be so for abroad oooo - you can go to prison if you fail to pay child support - even if you lost your job for 3 months - when you get that job back - they will heap it back on you, it is called BACK CHILD SUPPORT

BreakingNews21:
[b]Very weak conjecture with no proof or facts. You could be sued for that [/b]if you had significant assets.
The parallel market is about bank managers continuing to sell naira notes to entrenched traders that offer nothing to the economy or nation but inflated currency. I can't wait to see a cash free society in Naija and these middle men put of business.

with all the proof that was sent to the supreme court and PEPT what did your demon justices do with it? the simply turned a blind eye. btw, is there still court in Nigeria ? 😂

Guy I don’t know how old you are, but I will tell you for sure that government officials buying dollars in bulk from BDC operators did not start today - just that it has gotten worse and uncontrollable now. At least in the days of old, they do it carefully - now it is done with impunity.

For example, in the Abacha era, there was a Military Governor of Kano State called Col. Mohammed Wase who died in 1996 and almost a truckload of dollars was found in his house when his father, an Emir then called the Head of State, Gen. Sani Abacha to take the money his son was keeping in the house - The son, while he was alive - told his father that the money was Abacha’s money so when he died, the father didn’t want Abacha’s wrath so he volunteered the information.

Bro, no be today - forget suing - where do politicians get dollars to spray in parties and buy delegates at party convention ? the CBN? if you believe it’s the CBN that provides dollars for senate candidates- governorship candidates and even local government chairmanship candidates- then i have a bridge to sell you!

they get their dollars from mallams! aboki selling and buying dollar. aka black market

BreakingNews21:
The Parallel Market is a evil construction of Satan! 🤨 😈

when Wike is building VP Shettima house with N15 Billion which he collected and is using that money to buy all available dollar to hide for himself - why wont dollar rise against the naira ? na basic economics - when DEMAND (for dollar) rises, PRICE (exchange rate against naira) rises

Dem don come from Dubai- they have all priced the properties they want to buy - so its time to loot the billions of naira, convert it to dollars and go buy properties in Dubai --- so black market is aware of this move - na him make naira fall because too much naira is chasing fewer dollars!

astonished:
Don't worry yourself, all because your Agulu messaih lost election.
The spirit of Yorubas is behind Tinubu & nothing can shake him.

You can constantly have a nightmare, that's your problem.

The country Nigeria is now sitting on the fence, it's definitely not like before, so forget your military bahaha, military can't keep Nigeria as one, of anything happens to Tinubu, it's automatic ended for Nigeria as one.

And the Igbo trybes that's been wishing him death will fully collect the consequences which would be term "Igbo must go" in all southwest.

Make na dey play

shorrop there tribal bigot - ABIOLA die, Kudirat die - better yoruba people with pedigree, Nigeria no end- na when a slurring bala blu blu blu blu bulaba career criminal of a drug addict die na him rain go fall ? - boastful bas tad - how much has TINUBU given you as a ronu pesin? zero - at least when Goodluck was President of Nigeria- go and ask - he sponsored hundreds of Ijaws to the USA, UK, Australia, New Zealand and even Romania to pursue first degree and up to Masters degree - he payed ahead for them so that even if he dies in office or he is impeached, he has settled his kinsmen - I am from the Niger Delta and I can authoritatively tell you by December 2010, about 7 months after GEJ assumed power as President after the unfortunate demise of Yar'Adua, at least 1,000 Ijaw youths (male and female) were on their way overseas, not to pick apples or sweep streets BUT to pursue their education and become responsible individuals for life-

so kindly answer me - WHAT HAS YOUR CO CA INE SNIFFING, BED WETTER OF A CERTIFICATE FORGER - ELECTION RIGGER EXTRA ORDINAIRE done for you in the last 7 months in this your "emilokan" turn to justify the serial orgasm you experience each time your hopeless Onijaguda Onijibiti Oniwere's name is being mentioned on nairaland for the wrong reason? na agbado him promise you and even that agbado, u no see chop, na rice u go dey thief for back of trailer, hopeless eeeed iootu

what else is Tinubu forging right now using the seal of the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria which will bring shame and dishonor to Nigeria and her citizens in many years to come ?

what criminal act is he committing with the office of President of Nigeria ? Is he using the Presidential plane to ferry drugs for his cartel ?

What blackmail is Tinubu under right now making him a puppet of someone who knows too much about his past with rock solid evidence ?

Who is he using Nigeria’s wealth to buy their silence right now ?

hmmmm - these are the things I think about more than the circus our media and National Assembly is creating with press men and legislators being active clowns in service

Whatever is going on with Tinubu- I know for sure it’s not for the good of the common man in Nigeria 🇳🇬 Kaduna Nzeogwu spirit, please possess a few in the military right now 😡

One thing is sure in life--- after all the lies and praises heaped on evil leaders - when anyone dies, people will say the truth about how they lived their lives, either well or bad- no one here has said Kokori stole from anyone, failed his people, lied to his country men or committed any act of dishonesty... this is the memory and name he has left behind, one of a fighter and crusader for the welfare and development of his people

when the end comes, no one will remember and respect us for how much we stole - or how much propaganda we propagated, but how we touched the lives of others and where we stood when it was inconvenient to speak the truth!

..... Tinubu knows that BUT his evil nature will not allow him to do the right thing, like Abacha, like Buhari, like Tinubu!

Phantom233:
Last week it was 15Bn for building a house for the VP who already has an official residence and has been a governor for 8yts. Meanwhile That's x2 0f the total amount set aside for students loan nationwide.
Like I said, the difference between Buhari and Tinubu is in the spelling of the name. infact expect more Of Buhari's evil from Tinubu.

this is FEMI GBAJABIAMILA that ran away from Georgia USA forever, and abandoned his law practice because he was sentenced in absentia for stealing $25,000 of his client money- now having his house renovated with $10 million? J-I-S-O-S