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AxelandRed:
While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.

She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.

I queried her on her sudden change of mood and she told me that she has had unfavorable relationship experiences (twice) in the past with only Sons and has vowed never to try it again. She reasoned that only Sons are too clingy to their families, overpampered, emotionally needy and dependent on their families and hardly have a mind of their own. She also accused the families of always trying to pilot the affairs of the guys even to the extent of making life changing decisions for them.

When i was young, I also had friends who thought I was pampered, showered with extraordinary love and care and that my parents can't turn down any request from me. But the truth is that I never got any special treatment from my parents. The same curtain wire, broom, hanger my mom used to whip my sisters, she also used on me.

My point is that it's unfair to lump people together and label them. If an only son happens to be clingy, it has nothing to do with his status. He would have still been that way if he had 10 brothers.

TRY AND EXPLAIN TO HER AND ASK HER TO GIVE IT A TRIAL

HER SPECULATIONS ARE TRUE BUT SHE SHOULDN'T GENERALISE

A LOT OF ONLY SONS AND LAST BORN HAVE NO SAYINGS OF THEIR OWN, BUT SOME HAVE BROKEN OUT OF IT

U MIGHT BE ONE OF THE FEW!!!!11

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

THIS IS RUBBISH

PURE RUBBISH

HOW ARE U SURE ITSNOT SOMEONE U OFFENDED THAT IS AFTER U

HOW MANY GIRLS HEART DID U BREAK


WHY NOT GET UR ASS TOGETHER AND START AFRESH

IF U BELIEVE ITS SPIRITUAL, WHY NOT SEEK FOR THE SPIRITUAL CAUSE BY PRAYING TOGETHER WITH UR WIFE AND TRYING TO LOVE HER MORE


U JUST CONCLUDED LIKE A MUMU

I PITY THE POOR WOMAN!!!!!1

lordsterlin:
When the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission charged Olisa Metuh the former Publicity Secretary of the People's Democratic Party for laundering funds meant for the war against Boko Haram, Metuh had explained that he could not have known the source of the funds Col Sambo Dasuki (the National Security Adviser) gave him.

He went further to explain that the said 400million Naira his company received was for a stated national assignment approved by the then sitting president Dr Goodluck Jonathan.

To defend himself therefore he requested the Justice Okon Abang led court to subpoena the former President and Col Sambo Dasuki (the giver of the money) to testify reasons why his company was given such funds.

But quite surprisingly, Jonathan the acclaimed hero of Africa's democracy failed to show up in defense of the then National Publicity Secretary of his party despite him been the approving agent.

The former President as it would seem only secured immunity from prosecution for his immediate family while his aides are hounded. We all witnessed how Orubebe and others including Deziani Allison the former Petroleum Minister is been branded as looters.

Jonathan and his wife Patience Faka continues to visit the presidential villa to wine and dine even though he ought to be called to account for the humongous pillage of our nations financial resources under him.

Metuh and Sambo Dasuki should not suffer alone because someone superior to them gave them express permission to assess the funds as such they should not suffer alone while their ex boss walks freely.

LIES

no IOTA OF TRUTH!!!!


GEJ approves money for security and fight against bokoharam but the people under him kept on looting it without his knowledge


WHY EXPECT HIM TO GO DEFEND THE PEOPLE THAT MADE HIM LOOK WEAK, EVEN HIS WIFE HE DIDNT DEFEND TALK OF ALL THESE ADVANTAGE TAKERS

UNA HATRED FOR GEJ NEVER DO

rafhell:
This girl wey my white married boss donn fvck tire.
There r reasons why they will never settle down to marry.

IS THAT THE REASON FOR THE POST

WHO ASKED YOU?

BAD BELLE FOR PERSON WHO DOESNT KNOW U AND WILL NEVER KNOW U!!

98% of response here shows that MOTHERS are the real pillars of the family

they take whole responsibility of a mother, carry financial responsibility of the father

suffer 9 month magic of each child bearing

do the mental mathematics of training the children

suffer unnecessary shouting and nagging from the man

yet remains strong for the children while still respecting the man!!!!

MOTHERS DAY IS AROUND THE CORNER, SURPRISE UR MUM if u still have;;;


As for me mothers day have been a day of praying and shading tears for me cos i have lost both parents at a very tender age, I dont even know both parents except thru picture

people wey their parents still dey alive dont know what the orphans, motherless and fatherless have passed through or are still passing through


HOW I SO WISH

U HAVE NO RIGHT TO IGNORE OR FEEL SUCH WAY ABOUT UR MUM OR DADDY

THE ONLY TIME U CAN STRIKE A LIMIT IS IF UR MUM MEDDLES INTO UR FAMILY AFFAIR AND HAVE BECAME REASON FOR LACK OF PEACE BETWEEN U AND UR WIFE

THEN U CAN APPLY SIMPLE WISDOM WHILE LEAVING AND CLEAVING BUT NOT IGNORING HER!!!!!

daewoorazer:
The screenshots below were shared by a twitter user:

If you have a religious/pious mom, this won’t be news to you. Every religious post that contains prayers will surely be reforwarded to you, it’s usually more painful as these kinds of posts are accompanied with videos (large mb if you ask me)...

Any experience? Share them!

LEARN TO ALWAYS FULFIL ALL RIGHTEOUSNESS.................

SIMPLE RESPONSE; okay mummy, thanks mum, good info,i will be careful mum, i appreciate ur care mum, well noted ma, etc... this wont take upto a sec, even if u dint read whatever she forwarded.

my sincere advise

1.you love this girl before you knew he she had a child and u still love her until the mother decided not to take care of the child again because the child is too stubborn, you agreed to bring the child to ur house for the sake of the love u have for the mother, PERFECT!!!!

2. Now because of the stubbornness of this boy you and ur fiancee are having issues and ur fiancee speculates that you always shout on the child because its not your own child---This is where i have a question .if you are shouting and scolding the child like u would to to ur own , explain to her that the child need to be trained if he must remain under ur roof and if she is not comfortable with it then she has to choose between returning the child to the mother or leaving the rship cos u cant afford having a child u dont have control over

3. but if u have natural hatred for the child cos he is not ur own, here i have a big problem; it simply means u dont love the mother, take the boy as ur own, he is ur child cos the biological father cant take care of him, train him as adopted child, the biological father cant claim the ownership without evident of taking care of him, it is very very simple.


Maturity is key and the earlier you handles this in a real way , put it in black and white, the better for both of you and ur future.



thanks

NevetsIbot:
How Best Do I Handle This Issue With My Cousins August visit?

Hello everyone. I hope I don't get to bore you all too much with this palava I've found myself in.

I understand how sensitive family can be and that's why this is giving me a little bit of headache.

I have this Cousin; My aunts son from my father's side. We're almost age mates. We got to meet last year April. We had seen each other last about 17yrs ago. So it was more or less like Personalities coming in contact. As expected, we differed a lot. He was more of a rough guy, impatient with needless bravado and a penchant for letting people know how though he thinks he is.

He schools in Ogun state and I in Ondo. We met last year when he came to my school to see me. I overlooked his stupid acts as per that was our first time of meeting and he was going to spend just three days.

He told me he wanted to come again this year and I told him it'd have to be after exams ending by march - knowing fully well that by then, I'd drop another excuse. The semester is crazy right now and I have to divide my time between academics, executive duties in school, art and interior decorations I do. I get home earliest 10pm almost every day.

Last night around 1am... I was seated outside my villa enjoying the night breeze and trying to write a few articles when my neighbor asked me if this my cousin had come... I was confused. My cousin had told this girl he was coming and truly he was on his way.. all the way from Ogun state. At 1am. It was when it got a bit crazy in the street that he called me to help him get to my villa. Which I did but didn't speak to him... Wouldn't trash my cousin before a girl.

The issue is this.

1. I need my privacy.. Being alone helps me focus on work and academics. I need nobody around me. My grades need to be revamped.

2. I don't smoke and I laid down rules that he should never try it around me... I got home today to pick an artwork and my charlet was full of smoke. He did that.

3. Talks with the rural rugged guys in my area. I don't want any mix whatsoever with those guys

4. His bravado is next to foolishness. Where's he's supposed to stay low, he'll act up. He sags extra lower than normal, wears earrings and talks like a thug.

5. He seems to attract cultists to himself even in his school. He's more or less like a baby I need to monitor

I'm not an S.U but I try to show myself as responsible in wherever I stay. Ion smoke. I'm fashionable but don't go extra mile like a juvenile.

Please, I need the best way to eject this guy out of my place ASAP. I'm too busy to have someone around. I do not need this. Talking to him in a brotherly manner makes him flare up. I wouldn't want to make this rough as I tend to lose control when I get really angry.

Please advise

HMMMMM, COUSIN OR NO COUSIN, MY DEAR SET UR POINT RIGHT

POLITELY TELL HIM THAT U WANT TO FOCUS ON UR ACADEMICS AND DONT NEED ANY UN AGREED INTERFERENCE.......

ME I LOVE MY SELF, THOUGH ALOT DONT LIKE THE FACT THAT I CAN BE BLUNT A TIMESSSS...................

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

I DONT KNOW WHY MEN HAVE REFUSED TO UNDERSTAND THAT GOD GIVES CHILDREN AND ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS TO PRAY FERVENTLY FOR THE SEX WE WANT

I DONT KNOW WHY MEN REFUSED TO UNDERSTAND THAT BIOLOGICALLY THEIR SPERM CELL IS THE DETERMINANT OF A BABY SEX

I QUITE UNDERSTAND HOW IT FEELS WHEN AN IGBO MAN ESPECIALLY HAVE NO BABY BOY, COS OF THEIR CULTURE THAT NO FEMALE CHILD INHERITS THE PARENTS PROPERTY SO IT WOULD BE AT THE ADVANTAGE OF THE WICKED UNCLES.

BUT MAKING A WOMAN'S LIFE MISERABLE FOR IT IS A NO NO NO.................. CMON IN THIS NEW AGE? WHERE FEMALE CHILDREN ARE MORE SUCCESSFUL?

WHEN HE SUPPOSED TO PRAY ALWAYS WITH THE WIFE FOR GOD TO ASSIST.

I COULD HAVE ADVISED IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS, TAKE BREAK AFTER THE 3RD CHILD, TRAIN THEM WELL AND TAKE TIME TO PRAY TO GOD FOR VISITATION, A TIME WOULD REACH WHEN YOU WILL HAVE CONFIDENCE TO TAKE IN AGAIN.......


HOW EVER, MY SISTER, DONT CRY ANYMORE, U HAVE CRIED ENOUGH, JUST GIVE THANKS TO GOD , HE KNOWS IT ALL

COMMIT UR HUSBAND IN HIS HAND, HE WILL BE FINE LAS LAS

MAY GOD COMFORT YOU............... AND SEE U THRU AT THIS TIME

THE REASON WHY I DONT ADVISE QUEST FOR BABY SEX WHEN U HAVE A PARTICULAR SEX U WANT IN MIND..................

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

YESSSSSILY!!!!!

COS UR LACK THE DEFINITION OF WHAT VALENTINE IS ALL ABOUT

Strongmercy123:
Good evenin everyone. Pls I need a word of wisdom and advice from matured minds here. I’m 28 yrs I will be 29 in 2days.

I feel I’m about to make a life mistake. I have been dating my bf for 10yrs now, yes I was young and independent as at that time, the love was so sweet that we could do anything for each other. My bf left the country 5yrs ago and since then it has been long distance relationships, our communication was good.

He visited Nigeria December last yr and left the first week of January. He Begged me to wait for him again and I agreed. I’m currently pregnant and I’m scared to keep the baby, I spoke to him about it and he was happy.

Recently he is complaining of not having money and all. he has suddenly change with the way he talk to me and he doesn’t even have plans for me. He hardly calls and hardly pick my calls. I have tried to talk to him about his recent attitude and he will always end up calling me nag.

I’m thinking about going for abortion but I don’t know if it’s a great choice. He is 34yrs, pls I need advice.

MY SINCERE ADVISE,

you have made a mistake already cos u think he loves you, but he is just keeping u to pass away time,

1. Dont push him away totally
2. Stop bothering him or calling him, let him do the calling, ask him how he is doing once in a while so that u wont be blamed.
3 Have the baby BUT NEVER LET HIM KNOW ABOUT IT,- i will never advise anyone to go for abortion...
4. Leave ur life as if you are single and without a boy friend
5. Open ur mind to new suitors and make ur choice if u see a good man


MOST MEN ARE TERRIBLE

CANT BE TRUSTED

at least for the very first time, make we see woman dey beat man

meanwhile NO JOKE WITH ABIA PEOPLEOOO, BOTH MEN and WOMEN.

INDEED YOU NAG ALOT!!!!!!

NAGGING IS MEARNT FOR LADIES, BUT A NAGGING MAN IS MOST DISGUSTING
ITS COS OF UR NAGGING THAT SHE CANT OPEN UP TO YOU

SO ARMATURE AND U HAVE THE GOT TO SHARE IT ON NAIRALAND.
YEAST IS A COMMON INFECTION FOR LADIES ESPECIALLY THOSE INVOLVE IN SEX DUE TO THE NATURE OF THE VAGINA, THAT IS WHY THEY ARE ADVUSED TO USE COTTON PANT TO HELP REDUCE DAMPNESS OF THE VAGINA

ITS NOTHING SERIOUS!!

GIVE HER SOME SPACE, ITS NOT UR HOUSE ALONE, ITS ALSO HER OWN HOUSE!!!!!!!1


SO GO GET SOME SENSE CHILD!!!!

The doctor is hurt tempered BUT the nurse should know where to draw the line and allow the doctor

Some of these CHief Nurses tries to show more authority attempt to their Doctors


NO matter your experience, Doctor remains the Boss of nurse,

If he doesn't want your advise keep it to yourself!!!!!!

I DONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE JUST TOO PROMISCUOUS ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY HAVE AN INNOCENT UNDERSTANDING GIRL.

NoW YOU HAVE THE GOT TO BE WORRIED, AS A GRADUATE WHEN YOU WERE FORNICATING WITH A GIRL YOU WONT MARRY, UPTO 3 TIMES A WEEK U DIDNT THINK OF THE OUTCOME?
IF U CANT HOLD UR SELF WHY NOT QUICKLY MARRY UR LOVELY GF.

THE BEST ADVISE IS; TELL UR GF THE TRUTH AND BE READY FOR EITHER LOOSING HER OR BEGGING HER ALL UR LIFE COS EVEN IF SHE FORGIVES YOU, THE TRUST WILL BE SHAKY.

IF I AM THE ONE , I AM GOING TO REQUEST THE GIRLS NUMBER FROM YOU AND LET HER KNOW THAT SHE IS UR FIANCE AND SHE HAVE KNOWLEDGE OF THE MESS, ( THAT IS IF I FORGIVE U).

DONT PUT THE INNOCENT GIRLS LIFE IN PAINS, TELL HER UR DIRTY ACT AND HOW U PLAYED WITH HER TRUST.

UNWORTHY MEN EVERYWHERE!!!

SMELLING STORY....

WHY WILL U TEMPT UR GF WITH SUCH PRANK?
HOW ARE U SURE SHE DIDNT KNOW THAT U WERE THE ONE?
YOU ARE TO BE BLAMED

GROW UP GUY?

I.dont think this post is all about marital or.romantic rship

It cuts across all facet of rship

Brother
Sister
Cousin
Father
Mother
Etc
Choose ur priority right...

Plead:
Everything on the list cost more than 1.2m Just to marry !
I thought people said South east is the only place this fvckery happens ? Is akwa ibom in the south east?

Isn’t this archaic and heartless? After seeing this list will you be angry if the man start treating the wife like property tomorrow?

Imagine after spending more than 1.2m to marry your wife and the rest you’ll still spend on wedding etc then the wife start misbehaving at home

EVEN THOSE MEN THAT PAID NOTHING TO MARRY ARE WORST..

DEMONS AND INGRATE

MEN ARE INSATIABLE!!

GOD FORBID!

blog4all:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/woman-kills-husband-by-squeezing-manhood/amp/

Photos for illustration

YOU CHEAT
SHE RAISED THE CONCERN
YOU ARGUED
YOU SLAPPED HER ON TOP
SHE HAD TO DEFEND HERSELF
YOU DIE

Just the summary!!!!

WASTED YEARS AND RESOURCES

MAY GOD HELP AND GIVE PARENTS GRACE

THIS ONE NO NEED PROPHECY.

EVEN BOBRISKY KNOWS THAT HE IS IN FOR A SHORT LIFE

HE DOESN'T CARE!!!

DEVIL HAVE EQUIPPED HIM WITH REPROBATE MIND.

drlance:
She kept lying about this guy who happened to be a medical doctor, I am unemployed but sell phone accessories and do mini importation on the side but doing my Masters.

It happened that one time she told me she was to travel to Asaba to meet her family members, on hearing this I was happy and looked forward to talking to them.

After spending the night at my place I put her in a bus to Asaba, she didn't pick my calls till the next day.

The next day she posted an outing pic of herself in an eatery I didn't see it as anything but it's the next one that broke me.

A guy took a picture of her with her phone while backing a glass door so I could take that he wore a blue shirt I called that day and when I asked playfully to talk to the family members she asked me "what kind of talk is that ?"

Not long from then I got tagged in a picture on her wall on Facebook, low and behold it was a selfie of her and the Medical doctor in blue shirt and the caption "I love you forever, my personal person" someone she said I shouldn't worry about but he is asking her out, that she knew months before meeting me. She was supposed to be away for 2 days and ended up coming back after a week.

On seeing this I called to demand for an explanation if they were related, she sighed cut the phone on me and didn't pick my calls ever again.

She left me for a Medical Doctor!!

One month later now she calls me out of the blue to ask for 2k to buy foodstuffs. Which I gave without saying a word.

Fast forward to today I got a job with the government and relocated to Abuja.

She called me later shedding crocodile tears and begging for me back.

People of Nairaland, what would you have me do? What will you do if you were in my shoes? It's not my fault she didn't see the bigger picture.

She isn't the first woman that has left me for a better person.

IGNORE HER!!

EXCEPT YOUR LOVE CAN COVER HER CONDITIONAL LOVE.............


SOME WOMEN SHA........

Wisdomkosi:
Biafra : "Airpeace Boss, Allen Onyema Lied Against Me" - Nnamdi Kanu Reveals

By Wisdom Nwedene

The leader of the Indigenous People Of Biafra, IPOB, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu has accused the CEO of Airpeace, Allen Onyema of lying against him.

Speaking during a live broadcast monitored by Igbere TV, Kanu said Allen Onyema lied against him but he reminded him that he knows the source of his riches.

According to Kanu, after his statement the Fulanis went after him because they know that IPOB will not fight for him for undermining their struggle.

He said : "Allen Onyema lied against me, and I reminded him that I know the source of his riches. After my statement the Fulanis went after him, they know that IPOB will not fight for him for undermining our struggle to restore Biafra’s independence. I will not ask him further questions, I believe he has learnt his lessons."

Recall that the US Attorney General’s office in Georgia had in a press release obtained by Igbere TV alleged that Onyema along with his airline’s Chief of Administration and Finance, Ejiroghene Eghagha, had been charged to court for falsifying documents and money laundering.

Source : http://igberetvnews.com/1160595/biafra-airpeace-boss-allen-onyema-lied-nnamdi-kanu-reveals/

VERY USELESS MAN THAT BUHARI GAVE POPULARITY!!!!!

genq:
Here we go again! Another topic posted for the sole purpose of inviting frustrated NL femcels to come bash your husband.

Just a quick question based off the highlighted statement below. Why is it that a man can feed, house and even clothe a woman and the children all of his life but you will never hear him announce this to the hearing of others - but let a woman pay the bills for just one out of thirty years, the whole world must know and we won't hear the last of it!

YOU LACK UNDERSTANDING AND YOU ARE THE KIND OF THE MAN ON THE POST< SO UNSECURED< ENVY AND EGOCENTRIC.

SHE JUST HIGHLIGHTED IT AS THE REASON WHY SHE NEEDS HOUSE HELP NOT TO TAKE GLORY


ARE U BLIND TO SEE THAT SHE PRAISED HER HUSBAND SO WELL UNTIL THE LOST OF JOB AS THE ROOT CAUSE FOR ALL THE MISBEHAVIOR



some men are just bullshit!!!!!

hmmm, hmmmm

sometimes i wonder if i am still a girl?
sometimes i wonder is its same life , same kind of parents, same kind of Christianity that we practice
sometimes when i see a lot of girls in this kind of mess, i really wonder...
IS IT COS THE VIDEO IS LEAKED? THEY DONT EVEN THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR ACT?, HEALTH, SPIRITUAL AND PHYSICAL?

LOoKing at the girls dressing and appearance...... the Kind of gown, the hair do, her face beat, all are so natural, modest and innocent looking, MEANING SHE CAME OUT FROM A DESCENT HOME, TRAINED TO THE BEST OF THEIR ABILITY,

I wont be surprised if she is even a worker in the school campus fellowship

LETS SAY SHE GOT DECEIVED BY THE GUY and they have been having sex as bF and GF, THE MOMENT THE GUY WAS CONVICTED AS DRUG ADDICT, is it not enough to teach her a lesson?
Visiting the guy is not my concern, BUT AGREEING TO RECORDING THE SEX, I GUESS 200l as at then!!!! Is a pure madness, pure stupidity and insanity.
i have no single feeling for the girl, Cos i am also a girl, NEVER HAVE THE SAME OPPORTUNITY as she, I AM AN ORPHAN FROM 4 years of age and i struggled amidst all the deciet of boys, men and sugar daddies. I WAS TERMED TOUGH AND STUBBORN COS I REFUSED TO BE DECIEVED!!!!! and bring shame to my self and family...


NOW LADIES!!!

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE AT THE RECEIVING END IF YOU DONT USE YOUR GOD GIVEN BRAIN AND HAVE FOCUS IN LIFE

1. THE VIDEO SHOWED THE GIRL FACE 100%,
2.THE VIDEO SHOWED THE GIRL INVOLVING IN SOME PORN SHIT THAT EVEN MOST MARRIED COUPLE CANT DO
3, OBVIOUSLY HER FACIAL EXPRESSION DIDNT SHOW ANY HAPPINESS EVEN AFTER THE ACT, BUT JUST AN ACT TO IMPRESS THE GUY!!! SO DISGUSTING STUFF

4, LEFT A SEX VIDEO SHE HAD WITH A DRUG ADDICT!!!!!!!, INSANITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


AS FOR ALL THESE CHURCH UNIVERSITIES AND WHAT HAPPENS THERE, I COMMENT MY RESERVE

I HAVE A FRIEND THAT SAID THEY JUMP FENCE TO GO FOR CLUB, EVEN WITH THE DECENCY , THEY HAVE SMOKING CORNER IN THE UNIVERSITY AND THEY HAVE SEX ANY HOW IN THE UNIVERSITY!


ITS SO UNFORTUNATE FOR THIS GIRL

Sirvingeo:
Aguiyi Ironsi is a betrayal just like Nnamdi Azikiwe . Our real Hero is Odumegwu Ojukwu .

YOU HAVE NO BRAIN

IS THAT WHAT THE POST IS ABOUT?

Is THAT HOW BEST YOU CAN REASON AND UNDERSTAND

MADNESS!!

TrendingGist:
Naked emaciated lady seen in Ajah is unrecognizable in new photos after being rehabilitated.

Remember the naked emaciated lady found in Ajah with rumours flying around that she was thrown out of a moving car? She has been rehabilitated and now looks healthy.

The woman, whose name has been given as Ene, was seen in October at Jubilee Bridge, Ajah. She had no clothes on and was so skinny, her bones were prominent.

Different people gave differing accounts of how she came to be found at the bridge.

As her story went viral, help came in the form of a kind Nigerian woman who rushed her to the hospital and got her medical treatment.

One month after, Ene is recovering and looks way better than she did only weeks ago.

BY GISTMORE - http://gistmore.com/naked-emaciated-lady-seen-in-ajah-is-unrecognizable-in-new-photos-after-being-rehabilitated

God bless the GOOD SAMARITAN!!!

But what really happened to her...

iaamxavier:
I'm writing this post with a heavy heart

So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...

She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age

Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school
I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them

I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back

I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)

So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!

I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self

lol
lol

my dear you are funny. please allow your mum to express herself jareee. Mothers are like that

Better laugh over it and make them proud!!!

this one no be matter , ochimoooooooooooooooooo

bereanway:
There are guys or ladies we didn't take seriously in time past. The ones we snubbed and are regretting now. Though there are many fishes in the river, but the kind of fishes you may want may not be so available. As a lady or guy, have you ignored someone who loved you in the past and now wish you didn't?

yesoooooooooooo

my child hood friend, infact primary school lover,/crush who reconnected me bck via fcbk,
i relocated and we never see nor talk since after primary school

i never forget him either
it was like a dream when he connected me but then i had many suitors and was confused

my dad was also skeptical about him, but deep in my heart i realy liked him

wanted to even marry me but i was scared cos he has been outside the country for long with no communication.

he even invited me to uk, i was very scared, i mean very very scared...

beejayvince:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2019/10/31/obasanjo-travelled-more-than-buhari-oshiomhole-alleges/amp/

I=

TRAVELLED WITH PURPOSE AND OBJECTIVES

ACHIEVED MOST OF HIS AIM OF TRAVELLING


WHAT HAS OLD BUHARIWA ACHIEVED

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

I NEED TO BE FRANK WITH YOU OGA

1. born again Christians respects white wedding as the real wedding where they receive blessing from God before the marriage proper.

2. you love her to the moon and back and you trust her, why bent on having sex before her wedding, SHE HAS TOLD YOU BEFORE>>>>, fix the wedding!!!
3. if she is that strong christian then she is very correct that she is a virgin,,, NOW she might have sex before she beacme born again, SHE HAVE TO TELL YOU,

4. the reason for no sex before wedding IS NOT COS OF VIRGINITY, BUT COS OF OBEYING CHURCH PRINCIPLE, ESPECIALLY IF SHE IS A WORKER IN THE CHURCH, THEY SO MUCH BELIEVE IN THIS, LIKE ( EFAC-ANGLICAN, RCCG, DEEPER LIFE, SU, MOUNTAIN OF FIRE, LIVING FAITH, ETC)

5. SHE MIGHT HAVE MADE A VOW TO GOD ON THIS, NOT AS IF SHE IS NOT FEELING Hot OR WANTING TO HAVE SEX, BUT THE WOW AND HER COMMITMENT TO GOD
6. marriage is a parcel whatever you open you have to make it work

its so unfortunate that men doesnt appreciate virginity again these days
I KNOW OF A VERY CLOSED FRIEND THAT MARRIED AT THE AGE OF 34 AS A VIRGIN, IT THE PAIN WASOOK THE HUSBANDLIKE 1 WEEK TO BREAK THROUGH COS THE PAIN WAS MUCH FOR HER, THE MAN NEVER APPRECIAED IT, HE KEPT ON TELLING HER THAT SHE WAS PRETENDING, THAT SHE WASNT A VIRGIN , JUST COS THERE WAS NO BLOOD.... AND COS THE MAN HAVE SLEPT WITH MANY GIRLS , NEVER OPENED UP, BUT SOMETIMES HE DROPS SOME STATEMENT UNKNOWINGLY ON HOW HE HAS SLEPT WITH DI FFERENT KIND OF GIRLS, AND NEXT O HE WILL CALL HIS WIFE A LIAR.................AND THE BABE WILL NEVER CEASE TO CRY COS SHE KNOWS ALL SHE PASSED THRU TO RETAIN THE VIRGINITY..

BIKO RESPECT HER AND GO AHEAD WITH THE MARRIAGE, IF U LOVE HER U LOVE HER
SHE HAS TOLD YOU BEFORE , FROM ONSET
IF U NEVER WANTED IT, WHY DID U AGREE TO DATE HER, WHY NOT LOOK FOR UNRESERVED GIRLS FROM ONSET.........