Andrew87: I got married to my wife. I love her both with the kids but the biological father of the kids is a bit wealthy and left the whole responsibilities to my wife since last year.
This is not funny because I am part of her although we hustle hard but it's not easy. He insists the kids must be with him if he must take care of them but a member of his family informed my wife that he plans to take them away and she will not see them.
Please friends what's ur take on this? Times are really hard.
ekineme: OP do a careful analysis of your strength and weakness, what motivates you. You need to do what makes you happy and also gives you your daily bread, that way you can be able to withstand the difficult days. Having said I will drop my little ideas here, Hope you will find it useful: Start a mini Factory: 1. Chalk production and refill ink production, both will cost you less than 100k for the local machine and less than 200k if you are going for the foreign ones. 2. Nylon( Santana) production, the machine is BTW 35-70k for manual and 150 -350k for automatic. 3. Sub distributor of toiletries ( you can buy d material n since the machines are above your budget for now) It will b produced n packaged with your branded coy name ( this will cost you from 200k-300k depending on volume n target market n your choice of toiletries ur going into. 4. Start a Telecom Business. Recharge card printing and sell to dealers( Ensure you buy Pin from genuine and registered dealers alone,The dealer must send the IT staff to install n configure d necessary softwares before you make payment.) (*A registered network dealer must b able to login into d network portal*) This will cost you from 25k - to any amt you can afford 5.Set up a Vehicle Tracking and solar Energy consultancy Firm( you don't need to have the technical know-how, u just enter into contract with as many firm as you can, then once you secure a contract you sub contract it out.
This is a public forum I can't drop my contact for further assistance but should you need any further clarification you can Email me on emetechintegratedservice@gmail.com
Be your Brothers keeper, and Together we shall make Nigeria a better place.
NwekeUG: Man Slumps And Die After DNA Test Showed He's Not His Son's Biological Father (Photos, Video)
A man slumped and die after reading the result of a DNA test conducted on his son, IgbereTV reports.
According to supposed friends of the deceased who gave their opinions online, the abroad-based man chanced upon his wife with another man on Snapchat, so he returned to Nigeria and conducted a paternity test on his son, and the results stated that he is not the boy's biological father.
BEFORE U GO FOR DNA TEST, MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO TAKE THE OUTCOME
HAVE THE DIEING CHANGED ANYTHING NAAA
THE UNFAITHFUL WOMAN WILL BE HAPPIER AND RUN TO HER LOVER!!!
PAINFULL STUFF
BIUT VERY GOOD FOR MEN, COS THEY NEVER CHERISH A REAL AND FAITHFUL WOMEN
THEM GO MARRY VIRGIN, USELESS HER LIFE, AND DIVORCE HER, SOME GO EVEN QUESTION HER , IF SHE IS THE FIRST VIRGIN
MAY GOD VEAGENCE FALL ON ANY MAN, THAT MALTREAT ANY WIFE HE MARRIES AS VIRGIN, AND MAY GREATER REPROACH FALL ON THOSE THAT EVER THINK OF DIVORCING A WOMAN THAT HAVE BEEN FAITHFULL TO THEM!!!!!!
Tie your manhood with rope if you are not ready to take care of a child - Nigerian chef slams fathers as he dedicates pot of turkey sauce to his mother on Father's Day.
While millions of people across the world were celebrating Father's Day on Sunday, June 20, by paying glowing tributes to their fathers, a Nigerian chef, Effizy Code dedicated the special day to his mother, Reports.
From The Information Gathered By , The young man also took the opportunity to call out African fathers who have shunned their responsibilities and left the task of catering for their families on the women.
"Even if today is fathers day I still dedicate this pot of turkey sauce to my mom a million times over, and I don't regret saying that cuz she's the most amazing thing in my life, And I just wish my unborn children won't say such about me," he wrote.
"The thing is African fathers should learn to make their kids and children proud of them, cuz u can only give credit to someone who truly deserves it. if u ask 90% of the same thing I just said they will agree with me that most African fathers are not even worthy to be called fathers, with the way they treat our mothers, leaving them to care for the children alone as if the women brought the children into the world themselves,"
"If u are not ready to take full responsibility of a child don't bother bringing one to the world, in fact tie ur manhood with rope, plz no body should come into my inbox to ask me why I speak in such harsh tones about fathers, whoever want to be called a good father should work on himself n learn to be responsible for his actions."
The term “Next Of Kin” simpliciter, does not confer the right of inheritance on the person so named. If so, of what use is the term?"
*INTRODUCTION*
The meaning and the legal implication of the term “next of kin” have been constantly misunderstood by the ordinary public. It appears, though erroneously, that many people think that once you are appointed the next of kin of a person, it automatically gives you the right to inherit the person’s estate upon his demise. In fact, many people think that, a next of kin gives an exclusive right over a person’s property.
The above erroneous belief and understanding of the term next of Kin has made many people to shy away from the need to make a Will. This is because, they think appointing a Next of Kin, is a way of naming your beneficiary. However, the above assumption is not in conformity with the law. It must be noted that, ignorance of the law is not an excuse.
*WHAT THEN IS THE MEANING OF THE TERM “NEXT OF KIN”?*
The term, next of Kin has been described as the nearest blood relative of a person. See JOSEPH v FAJEMILEHIN O.O & Anor (2012) LPELR-9849(CA). The term can also refer to a person who can be contacted or notified in cases of emergencies or eventualities. For instance, one of the forms that is usually filled while on transit, requires the information of next of kin. This is needed in case of any accident. In other words, where there is an accident involving that person, his next of kin shall be notified or informed.
Also, the term is constantly put into use by hospitals. In this case, next of kin means a person who can make medical decisions for a person who is incapacitated or unable to do so, during emergencies.
The term is also frequently used in financial documents by banks and other financial institutions. In this instance, next of kin means a person who can ensure that the proper steps are taken towards the recovery of the money held at the bank, at the demise of the owner. In other words, being a next of kin of a person, as regards his money in the bank, does not give a right to inherit such money, either partly or as a whole.
*WHAT IS THE LEGAL IMPLICATION OF THE TERM NEXT OF KIN AS IT RELATES TO THE LAW OF SUCCESSION?*
It must be noted that appointment of a next of Kin is not a substitute to the making of a valid WILL. The reason is because, when a person dies testate (that is, the person made a valid Will), the matter of next of kin is of no relevance. The estate of a deceased person who dies testate is distributed strictly according to the Will. Thus, his next of kin will only be entiled to his estate, if the WILL says so.
On the other hand, in a situation where the deceased died intestate (that is, without making a valid Will), the question of the distribution of his estate is governed by the law. The customary law/Islamic law or the Administration of Estate Law will apply depending on the kind of marriage contracted by the deceased. In other words, if the deceased contracted a statutory marriage (popularly known as court marriage), the distribution of his estate shall be governed by either the English Law or the Administration of Estate Law. See OBUZEZ V OBUZEZ (2007) 10 NWLR (Pt.1043) 430. It must be noted that the Administration of Estate Law provides for the order of inheritance which must be complied with strictly and a next of kin, is not among the categories of those entitled to inheritance in this instance.
In other words, Succession is regulated by law. It is only those entitled by law to inherit a deceased person’s estate that can do so. A next of Kin is not one of such persons. However, this is without prejudice to his right to inherit on a personal ground. Thus, if the person so named as a next of kin is the son of the deceased, he is entitled to inherit, not as a next of kin, but because he is the legitimate son of the deceased. Also, if the person so named as a next of kin, is also named in a valid Will made by the deceased, he is entitled to an inheritance not because he is a next of kin, rather, because, he is named in the WILL.
*CONCLUSION*
A next of kin, who is usually a blood relative, though not always, has no legal right of inheritance by virtue of his status as a next of kin simpliciter. However, it must be noted that the appointment of a next of kin is not a means or method of naming an heir. A next of Kin is not recognised as an heir under the Nigerian law of succession.
Therefore, next of kin, _stricto sensu,_ does not by any stretch of imagination, entitle the person so named an automatic right of inheritance. If the person so named as a next of kin is not entitled either by the WILL or by other laws of inheritance, to inherit, he cannot be conferred with the right of inheritance by the mere fact that he is named as a next of kin.
It is hereby submitted that when it comes to the law of succession, the term next of kin has no legal implication. It therefore does not confer the right of inheritance. Thus, it is erroneous and unlawful for anyone to claim any inheritance on the singularly reason that he is named as a next of kin. Such claims have no legal bases and are unfounded.
VERY INTERESTING POST
BUT, PLEASE DONT DECIEVE PEOPLE
YOUR CLAIM THAT 100% MEN USE THEIR WIVES AS NEXT OF KIN IS FALSE, THOUG IT IS ABSOLUTELY THE RIGHT THING TO DO,,BECUSE NO WOMAN CAN LEAVE HER SEED UN ATTENDED TO EVEN IF SHE REMRRIES AFTER THE SPOUSE DEMISE,
BUT MEN , MEN 95% MEN REMARRIES AND FORHGET THEIR CHILDEN IN THE HANDS OF THE NEW WIFE WHO DEFINITELY WILL NEVER TREAT THEM AS THEIR OWN BLOOD SEED!!!!
NOTE TODAY THAT MOST FOOLISH MEN NEVER CHANGES NEXT OF KIN TO THEIR WIVES AFTER MARRIAGE< THE REASON A LOT OF SUFFERS IN THE HANDS OF THE MANS SIBLING AFTER DEMISE....
I HAVE A STORY OF HOW A FOOLISH MAN DRAG HIS HISBAND WIFE TO COURT JUST COS HE WAS THE NEXT OF KIN OF THE MAN UNTIL DEMISE< HE WENT BWHIND TO PROCESS TH EBENEFIT OF THE MAN WITHOUT THE WIVES CONSENT OR KNOWLEGDE, BUT UNFORTUNATLEY THE BANK REQUESTED FOR THE WIDOW,s SIGNATURE,, WHEN THE WIDOW REFUSED TO SIGN HE DRAGS HER RO COURT, WHERE FAILED WOEFULLY, ANH HE HAS BECAME BITTERED ABOUT IT TILL DATE AND HIS MENTAL HEALTH IS QUESTIONABLE!!!!!
MEN STRUGGLE FOR YOURSELF AND STOP FIGHTING FOR THINGS THAT IS NOT YOURS!!!!!!
Chukwute: Teens Coach and Mentor, Ossai Ogaga Darlington has shared the plight of six children that were abandoned by their parents.
Focus Naija can report that the teen mentor had stepped out to get bean cakes from a seller at Ovwian, Delta State when he ran into the children and the landlady that brought them to the police station to report the case.
According to their narration, the father of the kids was the first to abscond before their mother who hails from Calabar left them and disappeared into thin air.
The landlady who has been feeding them after the disappearance of their parents disclosed that she was able to trace the father of the kids but he said he has given them to their mother as gifts.
She also said that the children’s grandmother supported her son’s decision to abandon them citing freedom to marry many wives as an excuse.
IF THERE IS ONE THING I ENJOY IN LAGOS LATELY IS THIS,
well organized very efficient comfortable nice staffs Preference giving to the pregnant , nursing mothers, disable and old people ( this git me shading tears that Nigeria is good but bad leaders are the problems)
EARLY last year, i was pregnant and avoid driving due to hold up and also the need to stroll and exercise.
i decided to use this bus for the first time, so when i got to oshodi, i was on Queue, the lady at my back told me that pregnant women dont, Qeue, at first i didnt understand her, i didnt move, THEN the staff guiding people to enter the bus saw me from afar and called me, 'iya ibeji' abi 'mama ejima' come.
As if that wasnt enough, when i got there, they opened back door for me to enter the bus,( when i entered i realized that 1. there is a control door inside that i might not be able to pass with my condition, and again, the priority seats is just right there close to the back door) Then there was no space except at the extreme end where i needed to climb, then the officer inside had to tell one woman to stand up, i never understood, the woman argued, until the officer showed him the tag, that where she sat is for priority passengers... WAOOO, WAOOO
THEN SHE STOOD AND I SAT, THE WOMAN HAD TO GO TO THE BACK!
i couldn't believe it
GOD BLESS NIGERIA, GOD BLESS LAGOS STATE, GOD BLESS AMBODE, GOD BLESS SONWORE
spinna: Just casually mention it in conversation..tell her you just came from seeing the landlord.Dont confront her
best advise
I dont know why she will be behaving like that,
IF YOUR BROTHER CHOOSE TO BEAR UR BURDEN , provided he is baering HIS IMMEDIATE FAMILY BURDEN, WHAT BUSINESS of hers is it.........
this life is too short for all these meaningless frivolities
BUT THAT NOT WITHSTANDING, U YOU SHOULD PAY A VISIT AND JUST TRY TO THROW IT AT YOR BROTHER IN A CONVERSATION, BRO NAWAOOO, SINCE U MARRY , U NO JUST WAN ADD LITTLE THING TO SUPPORT MY RENT, U KNOW SAY MY HAND NEVER STRONG.....,THEN GREET THE WIFE AS USUAL.......
BUT ALL THESE WOMEN PREVENTING THEIR HUSBANDS FROM HELPING THEIR SIBBLINGS, WHAT IS THEIR OBJECTIVE IF NOT JUST BITTERNESS AND JEALOUSY
TOMMORROW NOW, IF THEIR HUSBAND TURN AGAINST THEM, THEY WILL BE ASKING WHAT THEY DID WRONG........... ""PEACE ONLY"""
CSoul: (Created this new account to post for a sister)
Please help advice a sister in confusion.....
Background:
"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love. Got serious in 5 months. I've met a lot of people from his end within this period. He shows me off. Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."
Issues: Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:
1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.
2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married. He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.
3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.
She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.
Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it. (Admin kindly push to front page)
I WISH THE WRITER CAN READ THIS
I WISH THE WRITER CAN READ THIS
COURT MARRIAGE WITHOUT TRADITIONAL MARIAGE IS JUST JOKE
PLEASE SAVE YOUR SISTER, GOD HELPED HER TO DISCOVER THIS, IF U ENTER U DON ENTER, THAT MAN GO BEAT YOUR SISTER TO STUPPOR
PLEASE SAVE HER, CANCEL THE MARRIAGE, SPEAK TO UR PARENYTS WHAT YPU FOUND OUT,
PLEASE DONT MAKE SAME MISTAKES A LOT OF LADIES HAVE MADE
YOU WILL LIVE IN TOTAL IMPRISONMENT WHILE ENDURING THE DISREGARD AND MALTREATMENT!!!
I WONT TALK MORE.................
DONT CONDER IT AT ALKL
ITS BETTER UR SUSTER IS SINGLE THAN FSLL INT O THIS TRAP!!!!
post=101106111: I decided to visit the ongoing city today being Sunday to ascertain level of work I was amazed how far they have gone from my last visit
The ongoing city have two major entrance roads through TCN road which has been renamed to Dr Chief Willie Obiano Boulevard, second entrance is through British adorable school, the two major entrance has been completed
ANY AVAILABLE LAND FOR PURCHASE?
Below is second entrance to AMC Dr Chief Willie Obiano Boulevar recently completed
Grace456: Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls
I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.
Fast forward I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.
The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.
Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.
No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.
PLEASE LIVE UR LIFE MY DEAR, HE IS A GOLD DIGGING LIAR, DONT MAKE SAME MISTAKE HARD WORKING WOMEN ALWAYS MAKE, COS OF INSECURITY OF SOME MEN.
LIVE HAPPILY WITH UR DUAGHTER, WHEN A CAROING MAN COMES, YOU WILL KNOW......... U SEE HOW FUNKE AKINDELE IS ENJOYING HER LIFE WITH AND UNDERSTNADING RESPONSIBLE MAN.. ( NOTE. BEIGN RESPONSIBLE IS NOT ALL ABOUT FINANCE, NOOOO.... THERE IS MORE TO IT, AND MATURITY IS VERY KEY) WE ALL KNOW FUNKE IS RICHER THAN THE GUY , BUT U SEE HOW HARDWORKING AND LOVING THE GUY IS TO HER, THAT IS MATURITY AND RESPONSIBLE!!!!, SO PLEASE INFACT BE THE ONE TO BULLSHITY BOT THE FATHER OF UR KID AND THE LIAR OF A US GOLD DIGGER..
Charisec: A pastor known as Rev Emeka Evans of Goodnews City Church, Abuja was brutally murdered in his church while having a lone vigil on Tuesday.
The attack wasn't discovered until morning when the assailants had disappeared. He was barely alive when help came but gave up the ghost on the way to the hospital.
This has thrown the entire environment into mourning as he was a popular pastor in the Nyanya Jikwoyi axis of Abuja.
The matter has been reported to the police but no clue yet.
Atrocity in the church of GOd
A lot of people will deliberately commit atrocity with mind to repent and ask for forgiveness afterward
You are just deceiving yourself
God is not mocked!
of course some of his church members already knows he always have lone vigil in the church....
Celebrities / Re: Prince Kpokpogri Plays Father Figure At Tonto Dikeh's Son's Graduation by OILOFGLADNESS: 12:00pm On Jul 19, 2021 
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