ojikeebere12: The National Judicial Council (NJC) yesterday gave the suspended Chief Justice of Nigeria (CJN), Walter Onnoghen and the one acting, Ibrahim Tanko Mohammed, a-week ultimatum to respond to the allegations of corruption and professional misconduct levelled against them.
Due to the gravity of the allegations, the NJC abridged the time and gave the accused persons one week instead of the usual 14 working days to respond to the allegations, an indication that they may be sacrificed to restore sanctity in the highly revered arm of government.
The council asked Onnoghen to explain why he did not declare all his assets and Mohammed why he submitted himself for appointment without the involvement of the NJC.The body, with the powers to discipline erring judicial officers, held the emergency meeting principally to consider petitions written against the two most senior judicial officers in the country. Since the two are incidentally involved in the crisis, they expectedly recused themselves from the meeting.
As a result, former president of the Court of Appeal, Justice Umaru Abdullahi, was elected interim chairman to preside over the meeting.The next in rank at the Supreme Court, who incidentally is not a member of the NJC, Justice Olabode Rhodes-Vivour, could not be drafted into the meeting, since he may be the obvious beneficiary of the crisis.
If the council sanctions Onnoghen and Mohammed with dismissal, Rhodes-Vivour would automatically step in as the most senior justice of the Supreme Court and the NJC would recommend him to the president for appointment.
Perhaps the NJC had to abridge the time also because Justice Mohammed is occupying the office based on an interim order. Interim orders have short life spans. If the order expires, there will be the need for a fresh order to continue to keep him in office, as vacancy must be forestalled. Constitutionally, anyone occupying the office of the CJN in acting capacity cannot be reappointed by the president if he fails to get the Senate confirmation at the expiration of three months and it is not likely the current Senate would confirm anyone not nominated by the NJC. Section 231 (1) of the 1999 Constitution states: “The appointment of a person to the office of Chief Justice of Nigeria shall be made by the President on the recommendation of the National Judicial Council subject to confirmation of such appointment by the Senate.”
Subsection 4 provides that: “If the office of Chief Justice of Nigeria is vacant or if the person holding the office is for any reason unable to perform the functions of the office, then until a person has been appointed to and has assumed the functions of that office, or until the person holding has resumed those functions, the President shall appoint the most senior Justice of the Supreme Court to perform those functions.” Subsection 5, however, provides that “Except on the recommendation of the National Judicial Council, an appointment pursuant to the provisions of subsection (4) of this section shall cease to have effect after the expiration of three months from the date of such appointment, and the President shall not re-appoint a person whose appointment has lapsed.”
Mohammed’s appointment by the president happened when there was no vacancy for the office.In the petition against Onnogen, a civil society group, Resource Centre for Human Rights & Civil Education had accused him of non-declaration of his assets as required by law for public officers. He was charged with the offence at the Code of Conduct Tribunal (CCT). This resulted in President Muhammadu Buhari suspending him and swearing in Mohammed in his place.
Consequently, another civil society group, Centre for Justice and Peace Initiative, and a former president of the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA), Dr. Olisa Agbakoba (SAN) petitioned against Mohammed for accepting the invitation to be sworn in as the acting CJN.
In the petition dated January 28, Agbakoba said Mohammed should be sanctioned for assuming office “despite knowing of his unconstitutional appointment.”“Hon. Justice Tanko is fully aware of the state of law, yet presented himself to be sworn in by the President.
“Incidentally, Justice Tanko was a member of the NJC panel that removed Justice Obisike Orji of the Abia State High Court for accepting to be sworn in as chief judge by the governor of Abia State without the recommendation of the NJC.“It is a matter of regret that Justice Tanko who participated in this process will lend himself to this constitutional infraction.
“We pray the NJC to determine this petition in line with the decision in Justice Obisike Orji by immediately removing Tanko as Justice of the Supreme Court on grounds of gross misconduct which has generated perhaps the most controversial crisis in Nigeria’s judicial history.”
Not being a judicial officer, the NJC referred the petition written against the CCT Chairman, Danladi Umar, to the Federal Judicial Service Commission (FJSC), saying it is the appropriate constitutional body empowered to deal with it.The body adjourned to February 11.
Pounded yam is one of the most loved fufu meals in Nigeria, it can be paired with any kind of soup especially vegetable and egusi soup.
I made this soft and pliable pounded yam with fresh yam today. In this method, you don’t need to cook or pound the yam. I found out it is very easy to make this and even if you don’t have a mortar at home, you can still enjoy your pounded yam swallow. You should also watch the video above on how to prepare this yam poundo practically.
You Need:
Pure White yam for this yam swallow.
Steps on How to Make Pounded Yam with Raw Yam
1. Cut yam into rings and peel off the brown skin, cut the yam into smaller sizes and rinse with water to get rid of sand. 2. Bring the yam into a blender and add a little water to help the blender spin appropriately. 3. Pulse the blender for few minutes or until the yam is completely blended and appears smooth and almost runny. 4. Bring the blended yam into a stainless steel pot and place it on medium heat to get heated. 5. Use a wooden spatula to stir the yam paste for 1 minute, you will begin to notice the yam starting to come together. 6. Keep stirring until the yam starts to cook, when this has come together, reduce the heat and scrape the sides and bring the paste to the middle. Sprinkle a little water and steam cook this on low flame for 5 minutes and stir intermittently. 7. Once the yam has cooked, it will look soft and pliable; take it off it and scoop into nylon bags to stay warm until you are ready to serve. 8. Pounded yam is ready, you can serve with egusi soup or any soup of your choice.
VERY GOOD ONE BUT FINALLY, THIS IS BLENDED YAM SWALLOW AND NOT POUNDED YAM..
Pounded yam is one of the most loved fufu meals in Nigeria, it can be paired with any kind of soup especially vegetable and egusi soup.
I made this soft and pliable pounded yam with fresh yam today. In this method, you don’t need to cook or pound the yam. I found out it is very easy to make this and even if you don’t have a mortar at home, you can still enjoy your pounded yam swallow. You should also watch the video above on how to prepare this yam poundo practically.
You Need:
Pure White yam for this yam swallow.
VERY GOOD ONE BUT FINALLY, THIS IS BLENDED YAM SWALLOW AND NOT POUNDED YAM..
BOTH OF THEM DON'T LOOK ALIKE! Steps on How to Make Pounded Yam with Raw Yam
1. Cut yam into rings and peel off the brown skin, cut the yam into smaller sizes and rinse with water to get rid of sand. 2. Bring the yam into a blender and add a little water to help the blender spin appropriately. 3. Pulse the blender for few minutes or until the yam is completely blended and appears smooth and almost runny. 4. Bring the blended yam into a stainless steel pot and place it on medium heat to get heated. 5. Use a wooden spatula to stir the yam paste for 1 minute, you will begin to notice the yam starting to come together. 6. Keep stirring until the yam starts to cook, when this has come together, reduce the heat and scrape the sides and bring the paste to the middle. Sprinkle a little water and steam cook this on low flame for 5 minutes and stir intermittently. 7. Once the yam has cooked, it will look soft and pliable; take it off it and scoop into nylon bags to stay warm until you are ready to serve. 8. Pounded yam is ready, you can serve with egusi soup or any soup of your choice.
okomogo: About a year ago I read a post about a guy that complained to NERC about his outrageous bill and after consistent follow up he was even given a Prepaid meter and his bills wiped out completely.
Few days later I scanned all my estimated bills and forwarded it to the NERC but copied BEDC.
In two days I got a message to fromto contact the Asaba unit of the NERC, when I did , a young man called me and was asking for a proof that I have complained to BEDC before contacting them. I told him most of my complaints were verbal and I don't have any written proof. He rubbished me and told me to go get my facts right.
I didn't give up, I contacted Benin again, this time I got a better response. NERC gave BEDC a ten days ultimatum to resolve my issue. Two days later I got a call that someone from BEDC is coming to my apparent to do a load check. I agreed and in three days the man arrived and did his check. My load calculation were not done right there but I was just made to sign the no of electric consuming properties found in my house.
Weeks passed, months and I didn't hear anything from BEDC. I resumed my email service, this time straight to Abuja and I didn't even get a response. I was patient and I continued sending Mail as reminder.
After almost one year I just got my bill wiped off. Bill arrears of over 98k wiped off, infact we have a negative bill as I'm talking to you.
okomogo: About a year ago I read a post about a guy that complained to NERC about his outrageous bill and after consistent follow up he was even given a Prepaid meter and his bills wiped out completely.
Few days later I scanned all my estimated bills and forwarded it to the NERC but copied BEDC.
In two days I got a message to fromto contact the Asaba unit of the NERC, when I did , a young man called me and was asking for a proof that I have complained to BEDC before contacting them. I told him most of my complaints were verbal and I don't have any written proof. He rubbished me and told me to go get my facts right.
I didn't give up, I contacted Benin again, this time I got a better response. NERC gave BEDC a ten days ultimatum to resolve my issue. Two days later I got a call that someone from BEDC is coming to my apparent to do a load check. I agreed and in three days the man arrived and did his check. My load calculation were not done right there but I was just made to sign the no of electric consuming properties found in my house.
Weeks passed, months and I didn't hear anything from BEDC. I resumed my email service, this time straight to Abuja and I didn't even get a response. I was patient and I continued sending Mail as reminder.
After almost one year I just got my bill wiped off. Bill arrears of over 98k wiped off, infact we have a negative bill as I'm talking to you.
Thank you nairaland for the information.
PLEASE HELP ME ON HOW TO RESCUE MYSELF
MINE IS WORST!
I rented a new house, 3 months no light was connected to the apartment, later the Landlord said the former occupant in the house was owning almost 180k and that NEPA wont connect light until this is paid. HE PAID 100k and ASKED us to pay 80k , if not we wont have light, i restricted, but other tenants had to pay and connected the light and finally termed me a debtor because i refuse to pay. Then My greatest surprise was that there was no meter both analog and digital, NO meter at all. I went to the district my self and inquired, they said that is what was approved, i requested for a prepaid meter for myself, He said that i should pay 70k. i left with all disappointment.
MY Greatest surprise was that the first bill was above 30k , i wondered why and how they read the bill, and there wasnt anyone that came in to shake the units .
Uptill now we pay nepa bill of what we did not consume, no meter, plus almost 10k each flat paid on the alleged claimed debt by the former occupant of the demolished house.
Please help me
I WILL FOLLOW UP, UNTILL I SEE A GUIDANCE TO OPEN A CASE.
THANKS
I NEED EMAIL ADDRESSES, PHONE NUMBERS ETC. THE AREA IS EKEDP( EKO ELECTRICITY DISTRIBUTION )
I earned 15k as a secondary school teacher, i was the highest paid in the school. i thought maths from Jss1 to ss3, then Biology, physics and chemistry for Sii to SS3
It was worth it because my 3 months experience , keeping busy with basics of science , made me successful in the first written est interview that got me the job that i earned 50k, in 2011.
and i really bless God for where i m today, and hoping earnestly to gradually reach that level that i have craved for.
Please you can always start small, but as a graduate, its strange that you remain in job where u earn basic salary of less than 80k for 3 years! especially engineers that spent 5 years in school. yet you work both saturday and sunday, work almost 9 hours a day. its spiritual and musr be dealt with bth prayer and hard work.
i am very surprised that i met some friends earning less than 60k in a company they joined as experienced and with masters and they are still comfortable for 3 years, meaning at the point of employment they earned less than 50k... and they relaxed since then without making moves to getting another job!!!!
Even drivers and stewards dont earn less than 50k these days.
dably: Nigerian lady has taken to Twitter to narrate how how fire was coming out from a commercial flight she boarded yesterday.
The lady identified as Korie Tochi took to the popular social media platform to narrate how a local flight she boarded from Lagos to Portharcourt yesterday, had fire coming out of its engine. See what she wrote below;
the boss is very mean, and a saddist. Is he the owner of the company? or Is the boss going to remain in the company forever without making moves to leave. 99% of employees in Nigeria are Employed Applicant. Since the Boss allowed him on health ground, even if he realised he went for an interview, he could have just warned him never to do that again. Except the guy have not been a committed and hardworking fellow. except the boss have been looking foe a way to get him out.
EVERY AVERAGE NIGERIAN DOES THAT! No 2 On the Guy side: He could have known that FRSC job is federal and there is every tendency that the boss might suspect, or one of his colleagues. He could have been more careful especially knowing the level of his rship with his boss. HE SHOULD ALOS KNOW THAT THE BOSS WANT TO SCORE A POINT AND TO GAIN MANAGEMENT FAVOUR. He could have taken casual leave signed by the boss, on the ground of personal reasons, except the company dont allow it
In summary, the guy wasnt careful enough AND THE BOSS IS MEAN AND A SADDIST < HE DIDNT TRY AT ALL>
He should wait for his own karma! I PRAY THE GUY GETS THE JOB......
vanbonattel: Am very very angry right now, how can people open their mouths and start insulting our president? Buharri is not lifeless! He is just BRAIN DEAD.
A FRIEND IS IN SERIOUS DILEMA AND DEBT AFTER HE INVESTED HIS MONEY WITH FEMAZ MFB TO GET IT BACK IN DECEMEBR 2016.
SINCE THEN IT HAS BEEN A WAR TO GET HIS MONEY BACK, HE HAS REALLY SUFFERED,, REPORTED TO CBN, SINCE MARCH 2017, CBN UP TILL SILL INVESTIGATING ONLY ASK FOR A REMINDER LETTER FEW MONTHS BACK.
HE HAD ALSO WRITTEN TO EFCC WHAT IS EVEN HAPPENING IN THIS COUNTRY? IS IT NOW A CRIME TO SAVE MONEY IN A BANK.
THIS IS EXACTLY THE DIFFERENT BETWEEN GIRLS AND LADIES MEN GO FOR LADIES THAT WONT STAND THEIR GROUND
WHY DO MEN ALWAYS LIE ABOUT THEIR GENOTYPE,
I HAVE HAD TO FORCE 3 MEN , I MEAN 3 OF THEM TO DO GENOTYPE TEST FOR ME TO SEE, AFTER THEY CLAIMED THEY HAVE DONE AND THEY ARE SURE.
THE WORST AND ANNOYING OF THEM ALL IS THAT AT THE AGE OF 35, A GRADUATE WORKING, WITH MASTERS DEGREE NEVER KNEW HIS REAL GENOTYPE, PARABLATING ABOUT WITH MY PAPA SAY, MY RESULT DURING ADMISSION SAY..
FOR CRYING OUT LOUD GENOTYPE TEST IS JUST 1K
THE QUESTION THEY WILL ALWAYS ASK, AH BABY DOES THIS CHANGE? I THOUGHT, I THINK, THEY SAY, MTCHEEEWW.....
MY DEAR THERE IS NOTHING GOD CANT DO, IF THERE IS LOVE, ESPECIALLY IF THE GUY LOVES YOU, DONT WORRY. YOU HAVE 2 SAFE CHANCES, LETS BELIEVE THIS IS ONE OF THEM. PRAYER CAN DO IT, NO PANICK DEAR.
THIS IS PURE LIE I AM A PROUD INDEPENDENT LADY RESPONSIBLE FOR MY BROTHERS SCHOOL SUPPORTING MY BROTHERS IN BIZ SUPPORTING OTHER SIBLINGS , BOTH , COUSINS, UNCLES AND AUNTIE, PROUD TO HAVE PAID SOMEONE HOSPITSL BILL PROUD TO HAVE BAILED 2 FRIENDS FROM POLICE STATION PROUD OF MANY THINGS, PROUD TO STAND IN MIDST OF PROFESSIONAL COLLEAGUES AND SAY MY MIND THAT DOESNT MEAN I HAVE LOST MY HOME VALUES, IT DOESNT ALSO MEAN I WILL KEEP CALM AT EVIL AND WRONG ACT JUST TO BE A LADY
MOST MEN ARE SIMPLY INTIMIDATED BY SUCCESSFUL SINGLE LADIES, THAT WHY IT FEEL AS IF THEY DONT GET MARRIED
BUT WHEN THE RIGHT MAN APPEARS, HE BRINGS OUT THE BABY IN THE LADY
WE SHOULDN'T GENERALIZE OUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE STOP SPOILING OTHERS MIND
ANY UNSUCCESSFUL LADY AT 30 AND NOT MARRIED IS SIMPLE NOT HELPING HERSELF
MY BROTHERS HAS ADVISED ME AGAINST BUYING A CAR COS OF THIS SAME SHIT.
THIS YEAR I AM GONNA LUNCH MY 4MATIC. WRONG PERCEPTION AMD IMPRESSION IS A KILLER
WHAT A DEPENDENT LADY DO OR SAY IF A SUCCESSFUL LADY DO SAME OR SAY LESS, IT WILL BE MISUNDERSTOOD, WHY? COS OF WRONG IMPRESSION AND ORIENTATION
IF A MAN CAN BE BOLD TO TELL ME THAT I AM TOO INTELLIGENT FOR HIS LIKING AND THAT I USE MY INTELLIGENT AGAINST HIM, WHAT CAN I DO?
START BLAMING GOD WHY HE MADE ME THAT WAY
PEOPLE SHOULD WORK ON THEIR ORIENTATION SO AS TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE
iI AM A VICTIM OF THIS BANKOOOOOOOOO, THEY ARE STILL HOLDING MY MONEY, I HAVE TRIED ALL I COULD CBN, EFCC, BUT STILL HOPING ON GOD
PLEASE ANYONE WITH NEWS,
I WAS SKEPTICAL INVESTING BUT COS MY FRIEND WIFE WORKS THERE, I WAS EXPECTING THAT SHE CAN MONITOR, SINCE SHE WAS THE ONE YTHAT FINALLY PERSUADED ME TO INVESTING AFTER LIKE 3 MONTHS OF BEING RELUCTANT.
phpfx: Please, I'm dating this girl since about January. she loves me and I like her too. but the problem is she seem to be giving much attention to my 'not too close friend' whom I feel they've developed feelings for each other. it makes me feel im standing in the chance of something great. I recently stumbled upon his inbox and was wowed with the kind of chat history they had. but I know they aren't dating yet.
im thinking of a break up now cus I'm not sure my emotions can stand their friendship and plus I get so jealous at every slight thing. but the other me seems to say I might lose something great.
pls drop your candid opinion.
MY DEAR FACE YOUR LIFE, DONT EVEN CONFRONT ANYONE OF THEM,
I HAVE THE SAME CHALLENGE
I INTRODUCED MY WELL TRUSTED FRIEND TO A SUITOR, IREALISED LATER THAT BOTH OF THEM IS CLOSED THE GUY CAN CHAT OR COMMENT WITHOUT REFERING TO HER SURE THEY TALK AND CHAT, SHE NEVR TOLD ME ANYTHING UNLIKE BEFORE WHEN ANY OF MY FRIENDS CONNECTS HER SHE IS OPEN ABOUT IT
I BECAME SUSPICIOUS AND LATER DECIDED TO FORGET ABOUT IT,
MY WELL TRUSTED FRIEND DONT PICK MY CALLS SINCE I TOLD HER THAT I AM SUPRISE THAT SHE IS ACTUALLY COMMUNICATING WITH THIS GUY WITHOUT TELLING ME, NO RESPONSE TO MY CHAT
IF YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HAVE NO RIVAL.
NOW I DONT EVEN CARE, I LEAVE ALL AND I EXPECT THE WORST EVERYDAY IN R/SHIP THAT WHATEVER HAPPENS I CAN HANDLE IT.
MANY NIGERIANS HAD LOST THEIR APPOINTMENTA, OPPORTUNITIES, MISS SEMINARS, TRAININGS ETC DUE TO SCARCITY OF BOOKLET, WHICH HAD LINGERED SINCE LAST YEAR
WRITING WITH TEARS IN MY EYES MUST EVERY UNIMAGINABLE SIMPLE THING BE EFFECTED BY THIS REGIME OF LEADERSHIP?
THINGS AS IMPORTANT AS THIS, A SCARCE COMMODITY, I KNOW HOW MUCH I PAID, YET SAME STORY OF NO BOOKLET
A MEMO WAS PASSED AND OUR HOPE WAS ALL RAISED FOR MARCH ENDING. NOW ONE WEEK INTO APRIL, YET NO GOOD NEWS THEY SAID IT WOULD ARRIVE LAGOS YESTERDAY NIGHT, NOW NO ONE IS SAYING ANYTHING AS NOTHING ARRIVED HOW LONG WOULD NIS POST US, L*ES UPON L*ES
OH GOD HELP,
WE CAN PAY ANY AMOUNT, IF WE CAN AFFORD A CUP OF GARRI AT 100NAIRA JUST LET US HAVE INTL PASSPORT PLEASE THE WORST PART IS THAT ,IT IS BEING ESCALTED BY MEDIA
SOMEONE SHOULD HELP. I CANT AFFORD TO MISS THIS AGAIN, PLEASE NIGERIANS
I know how much i paid, for over 3 weeks now, yet the same story lies by NIS now they said passport has arrived Lagos on media i made a call they said no passport what can we do must everything be an issue in this country people had missed their appointments, seminars, bussines, trainnig beacuse of this.
What is going on My God Help us I cant afford to miss this trainnig for the second time
SageTravels: [size=18]PRAY FOR OUR LEADERS. There is no state in Nigeria that does not bad roads. Mr. OP stop acting as if your just coming back from the moon. No be Naija we dey[/size]
grossintel: While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life What did I do to deserve this? How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me? Is their really a God? Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man. Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.
I know the thought i have for you , the thought of good and not of evill to give you an expected end says the Lord Cast your burden upon Jesus for He cares for you Ask it shall be given Far be it from me says the Lord if I dont honour those that honours me WHY WORRY WHEN YOU CAN PRAY HE HAS PROMISED HE WILL NEVER FAIL.
THE QUESTION IS DID YOU KNOW JESUS DID YOU HAVE PERSONAL RSHIP WITH HIM MY DEAR THE ONLY PERSON THAT KNOWS THE PROBLEM AND HAVE THE SOLUTION IS JESUS. RUN TO HIM. THERE IS NO PROBLEM WITH OUT A CAUSE HE KNOWS ABOUT IT YES LIFE IS NOT FAIR BUT JESUS IS THE ANSWER THANKS
BiafranNigerian: Well, I think attitude is everything, I had expected you to ask me for the solution to your Erectile Dysfunction, which I took time to pen down, then what I got was you asking me to re-read your post slowly. Sorry bro, carry your cross until you get humble enough or be humbled by nature. It took me many decades to figure it out what I wanted to share for free.
I think you are the one arrogant here, some one have explained his challenge and asked for solution. all you need is to tell him the solution you have not waiting for him to prostrate or to me you haven't said any thing by your first statement, that was why he requested you re-read .
humble yourself guy and give your advise if you have any.
sure God have the final say, he will definitely get cured. mtcheeew
Don't goan hurt the poor girl in future. Don't let her suffer for your ignorance about love.
The reason why you can't have everything in one package is because you aren't a complete package yourself. You can only be a few girls' dream not every girl
i love you for this. factous and to the point. just to add that the guy is yet to be matured. Rub*sh
my dear do not be decieved. that man didint love you. yes people might have standard for marriage. but love will cover all. i repeat!!! he didnt love you. Normally we ladies never want to get fight. we try on our own to slim and maintain nice shape if he loves you, all he can do is to help you slim down. did he register you with a gym center? have he ever taken you to gym? did he buy any of the gym facilities for you? how many times have he taken you on early money road walk? Only complain and complain, yes there are women that naturally remains the way they are after birth and there are those that works hard to shade weight but ANY MAN THAT MAKES IT A LAW OR USE IT AS A THREAT FOR MARRIAGE> BABY RUN BEFORE YOU ARE RUIN. BUT ANY MAN THAT COMPARES YOU WITH ANOTHER AND USE IT AS A YARDSTICK TO MARRY YOU. MY DEAR RUN AWAYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. DONT FALL SO SHEEP EXCEPT IF YOU ARE A HUSBAND BEGGER.