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3seriez:
Only when I visit my ancestral village, when as a kid. I don't think I have the liver to try that now as pure & bottled water are readily available now. No doubt it was always cool though.

time has really changed, I can't share from a bottle of water now but, I could remember it was one cup that was usually placed on the cover of this pot for everyone usage

Kemadealadire:
It's not a woman's job to be responsible for a man and still carry out her 'expected roles' as the woman.

@OP, let him be, you didn't do wrong. But, I am curious where does he get money to drink and smoke

He isn't providing, not helping out with caring for his children and around the house, still destroying stuffs and beating you and his fellow men here are saying you should have overlooked, like they would if they were in your shoes, anyway, the easiest thing to give is advice, talk is cheap. I hope they give their sisters the same advice.

hello sis, as at the time I made the comment, op only posted the heading, I didn't even know she has posted the main thing if not that I saw your mention now

@ samfigo1, don't let them put pressure on you. Tell them you have no money for such, maybe they should postpone and see their reaction including Ur woman.

This is not the erra of elaborate weddings unless the people involved are highly blessed with wealth.

Some ladies doesn't help matter, does she not know ur pocket?
During my time when they requested for list, one of my over Sabi aunty was busy writing gold, I quickly told her to remove it that he doesn't have money for such, they should only write what the culture demands and forget about me.
She abused me and say "why don't you just dash urself to him" me I no send o, on the d day, one of my maternal aunt gave me her gold to use and I returned after everything.

Like seriously?

ojun50:
No vex, na native doctors dey view am now, the medical doctors dey on duty. Wait make them come out from break them go see am

lol, u no serious, Na me b native doctor?

Pharaoh4rin:
Unfortunately spit disgust me than sh1t. I knew someone like that in a place I was supposed to work. I had to quit. It's terrible.

I never knew I'm not alone.

lol, quit Ke? If I were in your shoes I will create boundaries between us and also let him know why I can't socialise with him.

One of my colleague behaves like that, very disgusting, and he will be claiming that he is very neat

I attended a birthday party with my kids and I saw how a particular girl was dancing, honestly I was ashamed dat day, I wish I wasn't there.

Parents please even if u are a fashionista, allow your children to be children, stop forcing them into adulthood, their own time will come, please dress them appropriately always especially the baby girls.

TemplarLandry:
He had compassion for the less privileged.

May his soul continue to rest in peace

Yes like twice a month.
Uncle Richy4 where have you been o?

Funny and quite weird

fyzaila:
Waste of time and energy. Just pack your load and leave the promiscuous husband alone. This bulala won't solve anything.

it's not that easy.

RIP to the deceased and quick recovery to the guy

Ur story is inspiring bro, congratulations.

Nice2023:
Just like that?

yes now or you want to start taking loan here and there.

Everybody needs to readjust, if a monthly income can't pay for school fees then look for a cheaper one, no one should develop BP in the name of competition. This school of a thing is Grace.
Most olodos in school then re politicians today, while the brilliant ones re busy singing solidarity songs with ASUU.

Congratulations baby girl

Mhizzard:
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How can people be so mannerless when it comes to using of toilet...most of them can't try that nonsense with their own toilet at home...

they are dirty irrespective of where they might be.

Acekidc4:
I don't even Understand this your Story 🤔🤔

I thought I was the only one

IconicR:
To each their own, you can't marry my brothers and still keep your father's name.

big sister-in-law, u go harsh o.

IconicR:
When do you now use your husband's name?

since hubby doesn't care much about it, I won't stress myself

IconicR:
Number one is a lie, female don't retain father's name in Nigeria. The rest are very true.

I retained mine o.

Newborn27:
You're sighted bro!

What's the vision for today?


I see you drinking water before dusk today....this have I seen...lol

oh! No wonder, so u are the one who saw vision for him? no wonder he was vision-less today

FalseProphet1:
I've received seeds, donations, tithes.. etc. From Nairaland.

Thank you Nairaland cos you've been of so much help to me.

no vision? I always look forward to those words o

DarkandHandsome:
To aviod something like this

Abeg i cant laugh

My son of six years old told me to "learn how to respect my children". I asked him to teach me, he said don't be shouting on us and don't be flogging us.

The other one was 4 years then when his father asked him why he didn't eat the food I prepared? His response was that my food was tasteless and just spicy.

ahnie:
Where have you bn.u went MIA

I still dey sis.

ahnie:
And mine took the 1st position
Infact both our kids in their respective classes

congrats to them.

@OP, well-done for recognising and appreciating ur wife's effort, but is only your daughter that deserve all the praises. There was a time I had 3 kids in same school same time but only one was always given that kind of award, because he is a gentle guy and doesn't play rough others wasn't like him.

I have a great friend who is very neat but, when u see her son in school, hmmmm let me just say wonderful wonder.
When your daughter gets to secondary sch, she will be the one taking care of herself so, if she is still taking it that's when u should have written this kind of epistle to praise Ur wife and for other women to learn from her.

wunmi590:


Nawa for you ooo,

I wonder how you guys maintained your relationship, what of if the money haven't dropped in her account? Or what of if someone has also promised her 30k too and she feels that the money...

Anytime you want people to send money to your wife account, let her know before hand, so that when she receive it, she will notify you..

Not everything is for public consuming validation, don't use something small to spoil your marriage...

I always do small small hussle that my wife account is the relieving account, anytime the people want to send money, I will call her and let her know the amount, and once she received it, she will call me immediately that she has received it....

Just ask her if she has helped you to received the money, don't confront her as if you want to fight her..

Ire o

thank u sir, I thought I was the only one that felt d money didn't drop