₦airaland Forum

Major7:
I pray for you from the bottom of my heart as the spirit is leading me to, heaven will be open concerning you and God will shower his blessings upon you and your family, Amen. Please try to invest in a. Biz towards the future no matter how little it is,I pray God leads you. Peace

Amen, I appreciate greatly.

Kobojunkie:
I am sorry but what you are doing is cooking up terrible examples of excuses for the situation. There is no reason why a poor man should have more children than He is capable of raising. Absolutely none!

2. You are trying to pull out of poverty in the family and so you end up breeding more kids to add to the load? I don't follow at all.

3. What has "blessed with wealth" to do with this situation here? We are speaking here of those living in poverty abeg! Let's not distract from the topic abeg!

I'm not even making reference to the present married folks, I'm talking about the victims(children's) of old folks.
For instance I know a guy who is a chronic hustler but, his father keeps bringing the younger ones for him to train, so how can he make headway? Someone even suggested to him that he should get married maybe the father might finally leave him alone when he sees that he is struggling with his own family. The Dad is married to multiple wives.

This your analysis is kind of unfair but I still agreed with some point to an extent, go out and look at some hard conditions some of them go through just for their daily survival.

There are lazy poor people I agreed but, I want you to know that poor people ain't poor bcuz they're lazy, opportunity is not there for many to succeed easily.

It's more disastrous if you are the only one struggling to pull out of poverty in the family, because the rest will keep pulling u back, in the end, same family same conditions and people wl be wondering if there's no generational curse on them.

If many of them are blessed with wealth, u will hardly notice the poor among them, at least others will support the poor one no matter how many times he/she fails in business.

When I got my first salary 9 years ago as a civil servant, I told myself that i was going to save so much in order to invest, I was even seeing myself having my own house in 5 yrs time, here I am trying to apply for a loan since morning on quick bucks and I just received salary 2 days ago.

I'm grateful to God Almighty, if you want to enjoy tomorrow even though it is not assured u just have to sacrifice so many things, like ur choice of clothes, foods and so many others.
U just have to be contempted and have great plans for the little u earn and forget competing with anyone in the society, everyone carries different grace.

Family didn't help matter too bcuz of their constant demand monthly, to them u are working.
Business owner can easily lie that market is not moving, but a civil servant case is different.
I have seen some well paid staff that still complains about their salary not bn enough for them. To me I believe everything is just the grace of God.

bizhop01:
Criminal comments everywhere, what's about thief that sold out public space illegally and collect dollars?

the owner of the property lost and not Ganduje

Menclothing:
This one won’t last why can’t government take over why destroy billions

Pure illiterates

honestly they are just wicked, a state with so many homeless children roaming around the streets.

Cindebella:
I visited my niece’s school sometime ago and i noticed something quite disturbing…
This particular teacher was literally abusing a little girl verbally,calling her names like dullard,blockhead,etc.
Saying stuffs like she may never have a bright future…
I felt bad for that little girl that day
Which got me thinking,does this teacher know the damage she’s instilling in this child?
Does she know it may cost her her self esteem which may result to depression?
Please as a guardian,always check on your wards…not just their homework or lifestyle,their mental health is important too.

u felt bad but did nothing? You didn't try at all, who knows maybe her next victim could be your niece. U could even write and drop in their suggestion box

MisterBanny:
My one and only friend gone like that. Someone who told his parents to pay my fees at the polytechnic given that I am without parents

oh my God! May God grant him total peace, good people hardly ever last, once again my condolences

MisterBanny:
It's not deep bro. Honestly, I'm still sad and devastated right now.
The driver had sachet alcoholic drinks in his pocket and was drinking and over speeding

I'm so sorry for your loss, driving and drinking, pure madness.

Edipet:
you are above 30 , abi??

yes sir

Lol, I was a victim many times, our old folks no get joy at all, if they sent us that kind of msg they would still spit on the ground and tell u to return back before it dries up.

KingKO22:
Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu administration shall favour me, my family as well as all the patriotic Nigerians that want progress for our nation


Congratulations Sir

Amen

RoadMozart:
Lol. You're right, that's when they'll start using their eyes to check where the pedal is

lol, but swear that you didn't act that way before you master the act of driving

Jollos:
I noticed they always forget where brake is. U will tell them to apply brake before u no it zoooom motor we fly.

lol, when I was learning, I almost ended in a ditch, my instructor was busy saying match break match break, I remember telling him that I can't find my leg o.
It was a very frightening experience. I always laugh whenever I remember that particular episode.

Nwamaikpe, pascopele, drfinn, so numerous to mention jor.

Tripleoluwa:
Upholstery business.. After I finished school, I knew that university certificate isn't just enough to survive this country, so I approached my friend who's in the business already to teach me how to make chairs, beds, etc..

He agreed. My plan was to ghost NYSC and spend the one year learning at his workshop. After 3 weeks orientation camp, I returned home. As I was getting down from okada like this, na my uncle I see. His tipper truck driver was drunk and left his truck in the middle of a major roundabout. Because I knew how to drive it, he pleaded that I helped him drive to offload the sand in the truck at the destination and bring the truck back home. That was how I spent the whole one year driving. That was 2014. Now I be uber driver.

Early this year, I accompanied my Upholstery friend to Ikoyi to get a contract that requires reading terms and conditions and signing some papers. The job is 1.4m naira. I com dey look myself

lol, damn hilarious. U sure say no b ur village People invited u home?

Waywardson6:
Is it possible to have a bank account without BVN? Just asking.

yes o, the account I opened for one of my child 8 yrs ago doesn't have, I thought since it was a kid account it wasn't necessary, I will surely go to first bank tomorrow bcuz I no want wahala

HomeTutorsPro:
It's called engineering.
The gradient will be too large with a straight road.
Same reason why ramps on pedestrian bridges and staircase are not built straight from bottom to top.
I hope you can relate now?

God bless you for the explanation, no man knows it all, instead of them to explain to him why it can't be straight, they decided to be foolish, these ones can't handle kindergarten class.

tommy589:
I bet if the girl has her personal money this won't be her choice

at 14 I wasn't thinking of how to get my personal money. All my thought was school, wicked teachers and seniors, my playmates, plays, 20 bucks pocket money from my dad, I didn't know u could get money from somewhere else except from my manipulative elders that wants to be kind by promising to give money if u become their errand girl or visitors.

I believe it's their culture. If this man was from my side, I'm sure the children will be prepared for Baba because he is almost too certain that he wl soon cross over.
Well death is not by age, any one can go irrespective of age.

Still soaking bread inside tea when I'm home

JeffreyJunior:
Dude, you ain't got no partner.

She is just your roommate.😄

no matter what, roommate won't behave this way, when she's scared of u not dying on her.

Both, but mumsi carry first.

Jazakallahu Khairan

redeff06:
BREAKING! BREAKING!! BREAKING!!!

HOW TO HANDLE MONEY TRANSFERRED INTO WRONG ACCOUNT CASE

In case you mistakenly transfered Money to wrong account and the owner blocked you? or you are duped thru your bank account? and then later realized that you have been scammed or a mistake on your part? And the receiving bank is not cooperating?

HOW TO RETRIEVE YOUR MONEY AFTER YOUR WRONG TRANSFER[/i]

Please read careful and learn.

Many people don't always know what to do, so today am sharing with you things you do, when you realize a page you paid for a service or goods is ghosting you:

1. Write out the Full name and account number of the page or person.

2. Go to the last notification your bank sent you after you made the payment (via mobile app or text) copy out the "TRANSACTION ID NUMBER".

3. Go to any branch of the scam artist's bank (the bank you transferred to), ask to see the CUSTOMER SERVICE in charge of FRAUD.

While you are there, send an email to SCAMMER'S BANK or the d bank u wrongly paid to and copy CBN FRAUD DESK (anticorruptionunit@cbn.gov.ng) n also cpd@cbn.gov.ng
& contactcbn@cbn.gov.ng, this will ginger the bank to take it up fast.

What should you expect from this? The culprit/suspects account will be PLACED ON HOLD. His BVN will be blocked permanently. No account will ever be opened neither will he be able to transact banking business in that name until he clears himself with the bank.

Meaning he/she cannot transfer or withdraw until they visit the bank, and when they do, the bank will contact the police and the suspect when proven guilty will sign a waiver allowing the bank to refund your money.

*****Endeavour to Share with Friends and Family because you never can tell who it might help God bless you all.*****[i]

interesting but what if it's opay account? Can it be traced?

Mindlog:
How my older ones used to hide them back then!.....

in our own house, my elderly ones always hide thrills and boom, but they didn't know that we used to find it

I remember it like yesterday, the price was 100bucks. The day my mama found one in my school bag, the beating no be here, "she said u can't buy novels but instead u saved Ur pocket money to purchase what will destroy Ur life" I wonder how lyrics can destroy life sef

Persephone1:
Amen! . Sometimes they shut you out completely and come back lively when they are back on track. Lol. Generally most men can't deal with being broke, and it isn't their fault. They are raised in a society that base the whole existence of a man to his ability to "provide" . To provide you need money, so when a man lacks money it is like he is failing in life and it questions his existence.

Let your husband know he is more than that, and you have his back. You don't expect him to be perfect all the time. It's not easy calming a broke man but with time, he relaxes . Please if you end up gaining his trust to relax, do whatever you can not to break that trust. This way you can enjoy with or without surplus.

noted, thanks so much

Persephone1:
The truth is living with a man with no money can be unbearable. How you lot spin the narrative is stunning. Men don't like it when they are broke, it makes them grumpy. Growing up i watch the mood swing in my Dad when he is out of cash and when he is fully loaded.

It's not easy dealing with a grumpy man and when a woman gets fed up. She gets blamed for reacting and you hear "she's like that since I lost my job".

You all will be alright. 😆

may God bless you for this comment, this is the exact problem in my own house, just temporary brokeness from his side, we won't be able to enjoy the home.

Bankowner:
My father is late.

Sharing formula will be mother 30k.

70k to motherless children's home in memory of my father.

May his generous soul continue to rest in peace.

amen

OP, I'm just like u, they used to call me small witch when I was little, and I am still like that till now and I'm no witch and I'm very normal too

Interesting, all I can pray for is that, may his reign bring peace and harmony.

[quote author= post=121363662]Yessss ooooo.

God bless you so much and God bless all sane, honest and hardworking Nigerians[/quote]congratulations Sir, congratulations to Jagaban and his team, may his reign be successful and peaceful.

My loyalty is with PDP