₦airaland Forum

GanagiBitrus:
Not surprised with Nigeria ranking.

Fact is, You can never be miserable when you have become accustomed to Suffering & Smiling. 😂

we devout all our time and energy to survive that there is simply no time again to be miserable

Malroux:
Marriage is the biggest achievement for women in this life.

suppose to be check the world population you will see equal number of male and female but if remove the men in prison custody,mad men,gay men,priests, imbeciles,you will see that the population of marriable grade is now down to 25% a woman that got married now is the lucky ones,many women will never marry

MrProlific95:
Stop celebrating mediocre villages

if owerri is a village I wonder what lokoja and adoekiti will be called

benuejosh:
Anything done as long as it is to the betterment of Nigerians and the 'painment' of the Obidients and Peter Obi, i support it.

your brothers are been slaughtered like Christmas goat by herdsmen and yet Mr Peter obi is your problem,for your information Mr Peter obi is the only governor in the history of nigeria that lead a state for 8 yrs,didn't owe salary,pension, gratuity or contractor and yet saved #75 billion naira for the incoming government,it is only tribal hatred and sentiments thst will make people like you not to see that PO is the type of frugal statesman Nigeria needs now,everybody is buying from the same market and feeling the heat

mariahAngel:
He could no longer endure it.
Tinubu why

he must definitely voted for tinubu and cannot stand the hunger again,what a cowardly way to go,he could have stayed alive to see the consequences of voting the wrong person because he is your brother

Tap0lane:
Do you know till this 2024 Anambra does not pay WAEC fee of it student ? This are the legacy of the Pandora criminal Peter Obi but Any Igbo that open his or her mouth to talk about it will be killed by Ipob.

the igbos does not depend on government to pay their child's expenses,it has never been done and will never be done,there are some kind gestures that degrades the pride and respect of a man and every Igbo family no matter how poor can still afford to pay waec for their child

Franzinni:
If you investigate source of wealth... You will be shocked even more than Jonathan as president.

250billionaires... If to say Nigeria dey do rico..

this is just broke man poverty mentality,what is stopping you from making a billion?and others that will say vanity upon vanity,that is the national anthem of lazy broke people with zero imagination on how to improve their life

Zxcvbnmghtr:
The only thing men demand in a relationship is sex, sex, sex, sex. Nothing but sex.

what else can I demand from you apart from sex,you cannot bring proactive ideas,you cannot take my business to the next level or get prosperous clienst,even an intelligent discussion with some ladies is difficult,so the only asset I see is breast,pussy and soft body,if you have what it takes to bring ideas how to improve our finances and life you will see men have more things to do with you apart from sex

Dammycouch:
I am 25 years old and I had sex with a 19 years old girl (neighbour) for 2k.

She did not bring condom and as I thrust in naturally, my penis peel with blood and injury as her vagina hold my penis tight.

This is my first time having sex with a lady. I did not even spend 1 minutes as I close up and ran away.

Is this normal?

it is not her pussy that caused the damage,if you look closely you will see that her kpekus is covered with hair resembling Congo rain forest,thick pubic hair abrides a dick like filling machine.

prospernoah:
Good evening fellow Guys

I'm very new to this dating thing and need some advice.

I don order friend with benefits online before from Bigo where we knack and stuff.
But this time around I'm looking to get a girl, normal hunting levels. She seems highly interested and I got her number, we text and talk on call as well so I invited her to my house.

First time, she didn't respond clearly.

So I though maybe she was scared since she no too know me well like that so I gave her another chance; this time I asked to meet up for somewhere (table for two) for kilimanjaro since she is afraid of coming to my side.

Then she asked for my location and the transport fare to get there (500 naira).

I told her to come on Sunday and she agreed.
This Sunday she no come.

I no kuku bother to call and ask her why...

so I'm thinking maybe she didn't come because I didn't send her transport.

Niggas, my question now is; Was I supposed to have sent her transport fare? When no be say I order hookup??
Since she's highly interested in me.

Is she not suppose to come with her own money?

I want to know if that's the way Naija girls usually do.

I'm already thinking about moving on to other options, but thinking maybe I need to give her last chance.

What do you think?

500 naira is not much to risk on a girl that want to come to a strange location,even supposed to round it off to #1k,just for the fun of the hunt,as I always say to spend what you can afford to lose on a woman

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice

I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood, three rented apartments. I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home. They always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs.

One of them, her husband is not always around. He goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me in conversation any little chance she finds me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too.

I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution.

The other lady is here with her husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally. It happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor's house to ask her if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives.

On our way going the husband was coming back home, he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she dares disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it.

A this point, I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s mwife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this)? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action?

Matured advice please.

know how you move with people's wife's,it is not even proper to eat her food, be wise,cwomen are mastets in emotional games,if they like you that is how they behave,pls aviod her,the food che hello and hi

DorianD:
There's this pretty lady I have been crushing on. We are both students of a Nursing college, although she's my junior (first year). Shes got the Mercedes Bends, a likeable personality, and seemed like someone I would really want something serious with for the long haul.

Just about the day I planned on getting her number to let her know my intentions, to my greatest shock she asked for mine, and questioned why I wasn't in school the previous day. This thicked all the boxes for me and felt like "the green light" was on, for a lady who wasn't in my cohort to notice my absence from school. Note that we have been acquaintances before this time, because I do engage her class in after school tutorial sessions.

To my greatest shock, she told me she's in a serious relationship, which got me confused. I have a feeling she's trying to play the "I am not unemployed card". I could press on, but dont want to be seen as a creep or stalker, so then I told her if we could just be friends as I already exposed my vulnerabilities, which she agreed.

Well it's not in my thing to be friend zoned so i discontinued my chats with her, but each time she notices my silence was becoming long, she would initiate a conversation on WhatsApp. I really can't wrap my head around this.

Do I just cut her off as fish plenty for water, or keep up with her games?

don't cut her off,there is no better joy than getting a pussy that is difficult,girls of nowadays had made the task easy that the thrill of the hunt is not there anymore,the challenge of taming a stubborn pussy is very sweet itself

jmoore:
You are paying for sex, you are one of the SIMPs

excatly my thoughts,I don't even see the purpose of making money without women touching some of it,that is one of the motivations to make money,to be a high value man and knack the best babes as you want

IFuckWell:
I feel the second date ought be enough for y'all to start flirting around. Anymore, and you're just relegating your life to the friendzone. So, no more than 1 - 2 weeks.

Whats your thoughts?

depends on type of wan or man,you can meet a girl in the morning and knack her the next hour,you can even knack without even knowing her name,some ladies are ready to knack always,it is the naughty mishevious boys that vam exploit such opportunity,cthat is why you hear stories of knacking In
bank,church toiletss,abandoned building, cars,bush,etc

donestk:
When she suddenly say "they're coming to pay my dowry" how do you handle the news?

the one that tell you she is getting married is quite decent,I didn't even know my babe is getting married until I went to her house one day and saw canopies and chairs,I was informed by her obviously delighted junior sister that my baby is now happily married yesterday,no big deal,the sister is still available,pretty and willing,so I continued from there

sexylogan:
In Yenagoa? I reserve my comment

I will not reserve my comment,my anger is to that busy body that prevented the stupid simp from wasting his wretched life

malali:
THE WORLD DESERVES TO BE A SAFER PLACE.
PALESTINE DESERVES TO BE A FREE STATE.
YOU ARE NOT FIGHTING A WAR WHEN YOUR OPPONENT IS ALSO YOUR SLAVE.
STOP THE GENOCIDE IN GAZA.

I think you and the minister is grossly misinformed or simply ignorant of the truth, Palestine has been offered an option of their own state on five different times from 1937 to 1990 but they rejected it, insisting that there is nothing like isreal,that they will not neigotiate with isreal and they must destroy the country of isreal,now tell me do this people really want peace?why can't they have their own country side by side with isreal but instead insist on destroying isreal,which is proving to be mission impossible.

We4all:
I see absolutely no reason why garri should be so expensive since it isn't even a healthy snack or food. You guys should please reduce how you consume it and watch how the price will crash.

reduce what?when a plate of two swallow is #1500 naira in my area,I just got half painter of garri for #1300 for drinking to support life ,one cup of garri is #200+#100 sugar ,#100 groundnut and #100 soya,now a bowl of good drinkable garri is #500 naira without milk,common garri?

Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

you are seeing the issue from a shallow and naive perspective,that the man refused such visit means there is an underlying factor behind it,a normal man in a happy home cannot refuse such visit if asked respectfully but a distressed man in a toxic and combative marriage will refuse such visit to maintain his honor and dignity as the head of the house,that the woman called all those people to intervene shows the type of woman she is a normal woman will back down and switch on feminine mode and the consent to travel will be given in a week,as a wife never challenge the authority of your husband,before heaven and man he is ordained by God to be the head of the family

AntiZikist:
Pure evil.

Most of these farmers have no other skill other than to farm.

It is not just a job to them but also where they get their own food.

These bandits are not ideological neither are they fighting a cause.

That is why I know very well that it's very powerful external forces that are backing them towards expelling rural farmers off their land so as to get Nigeria to give large swaths of land to western corporations to grow GMO crops.

do you think the so called external forced are too smart to come up with such tedious plan while 60% of arable land in Nigeria remains uncultivated,the problem started many years ago when northern parents refused to educated their children but prefer to tose them out to the streets to beg as almajiris,now those kids are grown up and wanted good things of life and without proper parental guidance amd code of moral values to follow this is the result,I am even predicting in the near future that this armed groups that are left to fester and grow will be the end of the entity called Nigeria, what they need is just a charismatic leader that will unite the various bandit factions with unlimited supply of cannon fodder of young men and unending supply of arms from the Sahara the Nigerian army will be in trouble if they decide to launch am offensive

Mopolchi:
All this change in prices of food stuffs caused by a drug lord who does not chop statistics but loots money statistically.

that statement,na statistics we go chop made by BAT will forever haunt him,he will right now be in his office peering on latest consumer price reports, statistics will cut her pound of flesh

Raj10:
A man who marry a wrong woman is become a story teller

from the rabid rantings of this guy do you not think the woman married the wrong man,for a matured man there are times to let go and move on,this guy is behaving like a child

Jostoman:
Good one from Obaseki

how does hotel improves the productivity of a state?I think our governor's don't even need to look far for inspiration,dr Alex otti in abia state is proving beyond any reasonable doubt that there is still hope in Nigeria if given the good leadership

Islandboi:
My friend asked me to check this codedruns site that I’ll amazed the amount girls on that site charges for sex

. And lo and behold I saw 25k and 30k for a night and I was shocked.

I chatted one up tonight to catch cruise and she was like 30 to 35k for night. I was just laughing.

So my question is do guys really pay that kind of money to girls on coded runs just for sex?

I remember that time my chair man was paying #100k per night that's In 2006,big men are baddest men

JobZoneNews:
I believe some people's reaction will be - divorce him or her.

I have also seen some other reactions like - Abandon her and keep side chicks outside. After all do me I do you God no go vex.

Are these reactions completely right? Let us see your comment.

I know a man who did the unthinkable (inside film in my bio) . What did he do?

Let us read why you think.

I don't give a rat ass if she cheats without getting caught, getting caught is the real crime

Weretuntun:
women are rushing me with sex, these days,
both young girls, and married women in my community are rushing and fighting themselves over me for sex.many people are saying that i am using love charm.

don't waste your youthful age on women affairs,from experience I know that nothing brings bad luck than having affairs with multiple women,these people are destiny changers neware

Kobicove:
All this with just 1 million?!

he maybe importing rice from kebbi state,it still counts

AkporsMechanical:
I promise to be very brief.
My wife and I live in a three bedroom flat without paying rent, although we only occupy one room since we don't have much property yet. The owner of the house abandoned the house before now and when we had accomodation issue asked us to stay there. We have been here since last year. However, there is no Geepee tank to supply water into the house. We could only pump water into our little drum when there is light. So I always go fetch water from the neighbouring compounds whenever there is no light which have resulted into several insults. My wife has been dragging me that I must buy a Geepee tank.

My salary as a private school teacher is barely enough to feed us talk more of saving to buy a Geepee tank especially in this economic crisis. In the midst of all these, my wife's phone went bad and needed a new one Just this afternoon, my wife started raining insults on me that I am not behaving like a man at all, that I should have settled down fully before thinking of marriage, that I want to make her go hungry. This was because I told her I would cut off some part of my salary to be saving so I can buy curtain for our room, television and save for Geepee tank. She even went ahead to say I am poor and wretched just because I can't afford her a new phone for now.

Since afternoon, I have refused to eat. My problem here is that my parents love my wife and my parents are far from where I reside. And I don't want to report my wife to my parents so it won't bring disrespect later to her in the future. Secondly, as the first born of my parent,I don't know how my parents will take it if I tell them I don't want to marry her again so they don't have b.p. I am really really confused. The little extra money I get from extra tutorial is what I do send to my two siblings in school even though is very little compare to their needs but at least it is something.

I feel like running away but to where? I truly love my wife but she is regretting marrying me. Please what can I do?

my brother let me tell you the hard truth,I am now married for 24 years and going to be a grandfather soon,so I know what I am talking about.
Your wife is not your problem,your problem is your finance and lack of proactive thinking out of the box,no matter how much a woman loves you,if you don't provide ,at least make extra effort or have the potentials of creative ideas to improve your finance that woman's love will fade away,and pls don't say you have tried your best because you are even yet to start trying

Kennyswag:
Bitter obi rest.
You will never be president.
The only country you will be allowed to rule is biafra nothing for you in Nigeria

this man is a far more better person than you are , tribalism and bigotry has closed your eyes to the irony of the Ukrainian food donation,it is not only a veiled disgrace but an insult to our collective pysche,Nigeria supposed to be the food basket of West Africa but sadly we cannot feed ourselves,nobody should critize Mr obi he is not the president but just expressing his thoughts as a sane human being

[quote author=NLCreator post=128772748][/quote]this is small thing in Nigeria,they tell you that state house aso rock and ministry of power is oweing nepa billions of naira,maybe nepa Don cut their light

FreeStuffsNG:
Thank you Tolu. May God bless you for setting the records straight.
I particularly love your reference to his mediocre record of public service as Anambra state Governor. That's a recurring lesson to anyone who is today a political office holder that once you have a plan in the future for a higher office, serve the people excellently today so that you will not be labouring in vain on the social media in the future.

May God bless Nigeria for ever!,Check my signature for free stuffs!

this man you referred as having a mediocre record of public service as anambra state governor challenged all Nigerians and security agents on national television that if anyone can provide evidence of #1 naira he took from government treasury he will stop campaign and step down,this statement coming from a governor that managed billions in allocations,did not owe salary,pension , gratitude or contractors and still managed to save #75 billion naira for the incoming government is not mediocre,it is a miracle that has not happened in the history of nigeria.it further proves that with the right leadership Nigeria is salvageable,the strange case of abia state comes to mind how the right leadership has done in less than one year what 16 years of bad leadership did not accomplish,it has left the abia people stunned on what is possible

RepoMan007:
A drop in an ocean. What next after this?

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