₦airaland Forum

Itohanmiwa:
Good day nairlanders, please I need advice as I am in hot soup right now and it’s beginning to affect my mental health and giving me low self esteem. Late last year I travelled to attend the wedding of my ex brother. I had brought it here and so many naira landers kicked against it then and warned me against going. Well I went there thinking I was a man and will be able to exercise self control when I see my ex girlfriend as I was and still in love with my current girlfriend. One getting there the brother had already arranged my hotel room to stay in since it was impossible for me to return to my state that same day. I was asleep at night when I heard a soft knock on my door. I woke up and opened but was surprised to see my ex holding a red wine saying she it was a gift from her brother. I collected and harmlessly invited her in so we can chat a little, we opened the wine and drank it and then I slept or so I thought but woke up with both of us naked on the bed I felt sad and disappointed in myself knowing I had betrayed my innocent loving girlfriend. My ex consoled and encouraged me and then we had sex again before I left. It was easy but I had to forgive myself and put everything behind me only for me to get a call from her on Monday that she’s few weeks pregnant. Right now I’m about slipping into depression as I love my girl so much and don’t want to jeopardize our relationship cos she always makes it clear to me that the day she finds out I have a child out of wedlock she would take her leave immediately. Please nairalanders help me out on what to do I don’t want to lose my relationship nor go back to my vomit. I’ve been drinking ever since but now I need help.

for someone that could easily seduce a man how sure are you the Belle is yours,just ignore the lady and stop thinking and drinking,this is not even a problem

HellVictorinho6:
Was i born 2 be poor?

I deserve 2 be sure

If i die on the street, then whatever before

Whatever today

Whatever 2moro


Was i born 2 be poor?

if you are born poor that's not your fault but if you die poor that is of your own making,many of today's billionaires rose up from the gutters to be what they are today, think about the impossible and believe it is nothing

Righteousness2:
Cancer is Dangerous but it is a moi moi matter before the GOD of Abramham, Isaac and Israel! The ONLY GOOD GOD OF CHOSEN

There is a GOD in Nigeria that is Shaking the whole Earth with HIS POWER, Greatness, Wonders, Miracles and Glory.

Cancer, kidney , livers , hearts and so on are being changed and rectified by the GOD of CHOSEN on Daily basis.

Women with no wombs carry their babies.

Anyone close to the legend manager should admonish him to connect to the GOD of CHOSEN.
It is a moimoi matter.

so you have a special God made exclusively for you and chosen members and if this your God is so powerful,omnipotent and omnipresence,why is disease,poverty,disasters ravaging Nigeria?cancer is a whitemans disease because of their Gene, lifestyles or environment ,it is common whiteman disease ,and pls remember that cancer is a terminal disease and no amount of prayer,fasting,deliverence and jumping inside gutter will rescue this man,if you like carry him to amuwo odofin and all of you pray and dance for one year nothing will change the sad fact that the man is a dead man walking

Valoromega:
We are currently expecting our first child , she should give birth within a this month.

She has requested money for baby things and I have given her over 400k but she hasn’t both the basic things she needs. She usually go with her mom to the market to get the things but they haven’t even both the things the baby will need in the hospital.
They went and bought baby wardrobe even though we already had baby wardrobe that was given to us on our wedding , she also both baby duvet without buying bed , the clothes she bought was for a month old baby , she didn’t even buy the first wear the baby would use , so far I haven’t even seen anything tangible she has bought with 400k plus I’ve given her, she hasn’t even bought the things she needs after delivery .

I don’t know if it’s her mom that’s telling her to buy those things, the mom doesn’t even care where the money comes from , she just demands that we buy this and that .

I was thinking the money I gave her would be enough to buy the most basic things she and the baby needs , now she’s demanding more

they just need money to solve another problem definitely not for the baby and her mother is the master planner(,anytime they requested for another payment ask for list of things bought and proper account and be ready for war

padi94:
A good one... I hope they will not use it as evil to him

you watch too much Nigerian movie,do you think it is easy to use magic to do something bad to another person,forget about that movie scene that is ingrained in your minds it is almost impossible to remotely do something like that, especially when the target is not guilty of any crimes and has clean hands

justking:
Oh, what is this shit?

scabies and maybe some other nasty stufsf waiting inside

bigpicture001:
..like the topic says, can you marry a ladywho is the success driving force in her family, one who has siblings nd parents depending on her..?

yes gat gat a good job!

this is an interesting question,I think it depends on the type of man,I was having a discussion with some men and they were talking about their kins woman that former president good luck was nacking and made her a minister,many were of the opinion that they cannot be a husband to such woman,my brother in-law told them if the president wants to nack his wife and make her a minister that he will also add his daughter as jara for the president,all fingers are not equal,it is left for us men to tune down our ego and work with whom destiny has blessed

tallfish145:
Is it right for a husband for demand for any money sent to his wife by her ex for the support of a child she got for him,ie the current husband's step child? Worthy to note that the child has been living with them for close to ten years the husband married the mother and has been paying the child school fees and feeding

for a man to raise a child in that circumstances shows a good man with a good heart and for a wife to disclose such sensitive information to her husband shows an equally good woman,this is not a question about money,it is a matter of bruised egos,the best way forward is to divide the money 60% to the man and 40% to the woman

jidestroud:
Amen & thanks

is not the use of tylodox enough for 3 days?these are pullets not broilers,why not switch to ordinary water for some days then multivitamins,those birds are more stronger than broilers the one major cause of heartbreaking mortality in young pullets is gumboro disease,very deadly,pls vaccinate regularly,

Righteousness2:
PRAYER without ceasing will repair you .

My baby use to be like that. The menstrual pains she had was Fearful.
Pain reliever could soothen the pain but it will always reoccur.

I had to consciously table the matter before my Father in prayers.
I can tell you confidently that the Nonsense has stopped.
Today she can have her flow without those abnormal pains.

is prayer a one solution for everything?this lady is having serious health issues and what you recommend is prayers,if your God is so marvelous why allowing his child to suffer in agonising pain and then mandate her to beg on her knees for any sort of redemption,that is sadistic,pls op try a bit of spirit alcohol,my inlaw use to have similar thing while staying with us and she takes Brandy or whiskey and it helps her

love201:
Just thinking, it's common for men to make promises to their wife or girlfriend before or during sex, do women do the same?

yes they do,Infact my Ex was promising never to leave me that I must be the father of all her children if she gets married,this was in the heat of passionate estacy,but the funny thing was when she got married I didn't even know

Jewessgratitud3:
Please correct the grammar in your caption and body of post. It's "will lead" not. " will led"

your major concern is correct English spelling while important critical issues like the post above is simmering

Ayjay44:
Please share if you have connections. I want to go into the drug world. I need connections.

Thanks
MONEY MUST BE MADE💰

if you have the connection then main market onitsha is the place, I got an 8 round auto shot gun at that place in 2013 and they have everything from Glock pistols ,Mac 10 s,scorpion SMG,brand new AKs,hunting rifles,etc,but you must know somebody that knows somebody and they will vouch for you before bringing samples for you in a restaurant in the middle of the market

Sonnobax15:

Once you don notice say two small mangoes don dey vex comot out from her chest,stop am.

those two small mangoes can come out from 8-10 years,will he continue to even bath a 10 year old,NO,she is grown enough to bathe herself

Babangidapikin:
how did you arrive at 200% profit

as a professional farmer I am scratching my head over this figures because the pepper I know especially super habanero will do better than 200% roi,for instance such small turnkey project will not cost no more than #300k to harvest,15 bags weekly for 15 weeks is 78 bags,the remaining weeks will round it off to 100+ bags,which at a price of #15-19k we will have an average of #1.6 m,from this figures it is easy to conclude that 500% ROI was produced by that farm and on professionally managed pepper farm 1000% Roi is easily achieved,if you know what you are doing

Precious452:
This is beautiful. God's name be praised.

this is a testment to our stupidity and misplaced priorities, the billions spent on building that parasitic temple can be better used to setup thousands of hectares of palm oil plantation with the processing plant that will provide jobs of hundreds directly and indirectly,we don't need prayers ,deliverance and miracles again in Nigeria,if we don't have a product or service God will never answer our prayer,what we need is action.

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

stop been childish and face reality,the man loves and worship you which is a bonus advantage to you,just marry the poor bloke you will later develop love for him

abc115:
One day, his wife or girlfriend will ask him to choose between her and his mother😃🤣🤣
Heartless girls. Imagine struggling with ur mom and a girl who comes from nowhere trying to control what your own mother does with your money. They even go as far as stopping your mom from living with you in the same house.

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they never not any woman to even open her mouth and ask me to choose between her and my mother,that is the day she will pack and go because I will choose my mother,it is only simps they will ask such nonsense because they already knows he will kneel down to beg

Solofresh2:
Learn to conquer fear.Even the Bible teaches against fear.

there is fear and stupidity,going into that cave at night will be plain stupidity,one bite from a viper will kill you before daybreak but your ex will not kill you,infact you can even enjoy some good ole pvssy if you know how to play the game

StrongAlphMale:
A broke girl dating a broke guy believes she's doing him a favour.

A broke girl doesn't believe she's broke. she just believes the broke guy is the cause of her misfortune.

A broke girl doesn't see a guy who's rich as a guy above her class, she believes she's on the same level with him.

A broke girl is delusional

the feminine mind is naturally programmed not to think too much on how to make money and their physical stature also limits then to what they can do to make money,the greatest asset they have is their female body which they evploit to great effect,I don't even care whether a girl is broke or not,it is natural for them to be broke

mariahAngel:
Hi foodies!!! 👋🏼
Still in the spirit of the holidays, so let's have some foody fun, shall we?

Which of these Nigerian soups have you ever had?
Which ones do you really enjoy?
Which one is your most favourite?

Kindly hit like on the ones you like.

Let's see which ones majority like.

Pictures' source: Instagram

why are you tormenting and torturing poor hungry folks with such graphic pictures,this is pure wickedness for someone that eat bread and mineral for dinner to be seeing this pics,it is insensitive and callous,I just wish I can unsee that egusi soup but alas I will end up this ñight with dreams of soups and pots.

4KNGOATS:
Yes you read right right, I want sex but I can't fornicate and I don't have a girl am dating currently so what to do?

go to the nearest ashawo joint and select your type,

kestolove95:
The only tin that can make you stop all this bad habits is weed... Try and take one or two wrap a day...

why advising him to add another addiction to the long list he already have,why don't he get married by any means possible even by hire purchase,women has this uncanny ability to restrain a wayward man

tiswell:
Just know that the coper she fvcked during nysc will always have access to her kpekus even after marriage, whenever their parts cross.


Okafor's law nor be ya mate.


Just abort the mission of marriage with her asap.

the curse of okafors law,I think the marriage mission is already aborted because for a man to even ask a woman such sensitive question and insist on a reply shows a man that is very sensitive about such things,can you live with her and thinking about what is happening to her all the times?if he meet another woman will he also ask such questions?or Will a lie suffice for him,that the woman said the truth is a bonus and must be forgiven not to sin no more

YourNextLevel:
After me and my family, this is the second good news out of this state for awhile

good news or not,in this life or the next ,I will not exchange my imo state with its beautiful and intelligent women,for any state in Nigeria,

cenaman:
Life is vanity.

that is the more reason to make the most out of the short time we have on Earth and to realize we have a duty not only for our selfish self but to be our brothers keeper

Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.

Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

you broke the three cardiñal rules,(1)stop trying to Mr good man(2)spend what you can afford to lose on a woman(3)look for your class,all women are not equal.
You are lucky,à woman that consumed #45k on the first date is on a missionto kill you,next time if you are in doubt masturbate,konji has this uncanny ability of pushing people to make poor decisions

ShangTsung000:
Hello Nairalanders!

I did a little survey and discovered that women do ask for gifts and money anytime there's a big celebration. What is really the cause?

Ranging from
1) Easter
2) Christmas
3) Valentine's Day
4) New Year's Day
5) international Women's Day
6) Independence Day
7) Birthday etc.

Pls add yours if you remember any.

because they are women and feminine and we are men and has been created by nature to tackle the most difficult and dangerous tasks to make money and sustenance and if we don't give women something what then is the essence of been created a man,but spend what you can afford to lose

Ourtruth247:
Good to know. Thanks for the encouragement

despite the fact that I like your inquisitive mind but your fertile imaginations always collides with the real facts,there is no advanced civilization 300 years ago that built the ancient monuments like the pyramids of Giza,the pyramids were even ancient structures and have stood for thousands of years before Jesus Christ was born roughly 2000 years ago,300 years back is just in the Renaissance middle ages with explorers like Marco Polo,Vasco da Gama, Diaz, Columbus,also great writers and artists like Shakespeare, Michelangelo,gallileo, Newton,etc, absolutely nothing can escape the attention of this people without them writing or drawing such civilization,what is possible to believe is the fact that there might be an advanced civilization thousands of years before the Egyptians,it is widely believed by scientist that the pyramids and Sphinx are much older than 3500 years because you cannot carbon date stones and they have a theory that the anciente Egyptians even found the pyramids as an already standing structures.
Your theory about the twin cities of Pompeii and Herculeium is also based on futher imaginations because the volcanic eruption of ad79 that destroyed the city was widely documented and chronicled by Roman scribes and eye witness accounts which is still available for any Latin reader to study today at the British museum,the modern city of Napoli still stands today on the direct path of any lava flow,pyroclastic flows ,lahars or Ash storm that will result if mount Vesuvius erupts again, which is not in doubt an active volcano that erupted last during the second world war.
I like you forensic mind but 300 year's ago is just like yesterday in archeological terms focus more on more older civilizations like wno are the people that built the great Wall of Benin,the tunnel city in turkey,the olmecs,the Sumerians , the first people that lived in Damascus more than 10000 years ago and those people that built the temple in belbak Lebanon with each building block weighing 1200 tons how do they do that?those will be the focus of your forensic investigations.

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

let her be,this is nothing to warrant such radical decision,my wife wanted one more kid which I am not interested but after much pressure I relented and she got her wish but it was twins,don't pressure your wife let her be,she will eventually want another child when the time is right

Vinnie2000:
What's your Opinion?
Will God answer her Prayer? 🤔🤔


Mine: He will Likely NOT.😌
Couldn't she have gone home to Change her outfit?😒

are you now saying that God is looking at her breasts and finds it so offensive not to answer her prayers?I think so long God created us in his own image and with his mischievous omnipotence that prayers will be answered even faster than you think