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SuperOnyi:




No, it can't... It's more of a diary or journaling than an article.

I read the epistle and what I picked is your desire to focus your anger on improving yourself,which is the genesis of your problem but to achieve that you must withdraw yourself from toxic people, cousins or uncle I don't care,just aviod those people,with their negativity you are not moving an inch in life

Psady:
Child of doom, my advise for you is still hanging ,I can't advise u anymore .
Only u can make that change at this point , only u 3 puna on a night ,no go kill yourself.

Haahaaahaaa !! You are still giving the Op advice who will nack the olosho?who will bet with somebody's money? definitely not you or me,so leave my dear Op he is following his calling

Ikaeniyan0:
What a shameful comment by shittu

most of our leaders are so myopic and stupid that the comments they make will leave a sane person bewildered ,,it is the work of the average northern parent to send their children to school,raise them with positive values and moral codes that will guide them in life,you cannot dump a kid on the streets with a plastic plate in his hands and expect him to be a good law abiding citizen,if you look at the current statistics of law students admissions you will see that the whole northern nigeria of roughly 120 million people has just half of the students the southeast of 30 million people have studying law,is that government failure?NO,it is a massive failure by their society not to invest in the best asset which is human capital development.

cutecommend:
Go and do DNA testing if you have money...

I will not go and do it even if my money is overflowing,what if I do it and the children I watched and nurtured to grow into adults must be rejected by me? because I will have no connection to them anymore,why will I bring grief and unhappiness to this very short life just to validate my ego ,any child I held as a baby and rised to adulthood is my child,ii am not dumping the love I have for any child because of his mother's weakness,that doesn't make me an alpha male,

Anobella:
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD

first you must realize that masturbation is killing i your sexual drive,a stage will reach were you will UnCloth a girl and your dick will refuse to work,infact it will not work again with women or less you masturbate,so have that in mind.
Secondly you must get a girlfriend that is sexy and can easily match your libido,masturbation does not give that satisfaction or drains the body physically and mentally than real sex,hot sex with a Hot girl will leave you drained for some days but I know people that masturbate 3 times daily but try to knack a woman 3 times daily for one week and you will know how far,just get a hot gir or hot girlsl and you will forget about masturbation

Absuchat:
O
People ehn.
Ondo
Osun
Ogun

They no dey joke with "O"

What does Yoruba calls head again?

the silence of good people in the face of such evil is worrisome but they forgot that if a taboo is practiced for long it becomes tradition

Jennyclay:
Oh no!! These wild animals again .

The court should kindly sentence these wild animal to death ASAP

Bunch of rapist and murderers!
Honestly, men irritates me!!

what the man did was wrong and how he will suffer if he is unfortunate to be brought in front of a female judge,he will say goodbye to freedom,but your outburst against men is too generalized that you forget women also defiles young boys,infact my virginity was taken by auntie and I was thought how to suck pussy by my matured cousins and was just barely 10 yrs,so you see there are defilers and rapists in both genders

writetopoker:
This is just a stunt/ to promote that particular buka

if he is smart which I think he is,he will stop going to that buka,kidnappers will definitely stake that place out,he is a fat juicy target

odenkirk:
i am tired of wallowing in abject poverty, life seems meaningless for me i am depressed and suicidal.
i have been trying to get something to do with my life but i couldnt find any. all i do is sit down at home 24/7 and listen to females jibber-jabber which make me more depressed and feel like a loser. staying at home is emasculating me i am tired.
i graduated 4 years ago, i never get any job. who needs a graduate job? all i want is to be active and be doing something.
i look for construction site job, labourer job or a factory job but i couldnt find any, like i am cursed.
whenever i log into my whatsapp and check the pictures of my friends i feel more depressed because i am clearly depreciating while they are appreciating, i think i am under a strong spell because nothing seems to work for me.
they say an idle mind is a devil's workshop, the devil has been planting different kind of bad ideas into my head and i have been ignoring but lately i begin to take it serious. i dont wanna end up a criminal but it keeps appearing to me that crime is the only solution for my wretched life.
this coming april i will be 30 years old with nothing to my name, i have nothing in this life except my old broken phone and my 2 old shirts and one trouser.
i am more depressed lately, because im clocking 30 without nothing, if i have not start life when shall i start? the average life expectancy of Nigerians is 54 years and i lived 30years poor and wretched how many do i have left if i dont start life now?
honestly i dont wanna end up a criminal or a chronic online beggar. i want something of my own but this country keeps failing me. the regret the years i wasted going to school, if i had not wasted time going to school nd used the time i wasted learning skills i would have a professional welder, carpenter or a mechanic by now but here i am with nothing but a useless paper called a DEGREE
My life is a mess but i thank God for it.

the only thing to thank God for is your good health,with that you don't need to complain because just trust me,you have not tried your best,infact you are still thinking how to start trying your best

mrvitalis:
South East has caught up South West byin law? ... There is an educational crisis in South West

Igbos generally don't care for law that much

this statistics is really sad and disheartening,if you look at the population of northern Nigeria at 100+ million and southeast Nigeria at roughly 35 million and you see that the total number of law students in the whole north is just 50% compared to the southeast states,it is then not difficult to realize were nigerias problems lie

Theopneustos:
Good day
I have this colleague of mine in my place of work that is in his mid forties yet unmarried. Some times in staff prayer they would make prayer points in direction of 'those not married' some times also they would make jokes of him going to get married.
Oneday I sat with him and asked him why he is yet unmarried, I wanted to know the reason for that,he bluntly told me that it's money issues, he now told me how our boss called him and told him to settle down by getting a wife,that he would sponsor everything.
My colleague refused the offer according to him,because to him it would look like he's unable to sponsor his wedding or marriage and hurt his ego.
Looking at him,time is not on his side,please what is your advice to this young man,should he accept the offer of my boss,or should he continue working until he gets his own money or what?

What do you advice him?

the guy doesn't want to get married,he is just using hubris is an excuse,if a man really wants to marry a girl only few things can stop that,infact when I wanted to marry and the list was somehow I got the girl pregnant and the list was reducing by 10% every month the pregnancy develops,he can even marry by hire purchase, Abuja marriage,court marriage or guy man marriage,anything is possible ,what is needed is the man's interest

jeromestarks:
Someone asked me this question yesterday and honestly, I didn't know what to tell him.

Say you met a girl that caught your eyes. You approached her. You made her laugh and you got her number. What's next?

Usually, I just call her whenever I feel Hot and asked her for a date which usually ends in a fvcking spree.
However, if I really liked the girl and I saw us together in future, I wait for about 4 -5 days before texting her. I keep the text short and casual. Next, I call her and set up a date. After that, I tell her my intention. I never let it pass the second date before telling her I want her to be my girlfriend. Never!
If she agreed to be mine, we go on the third date and fvck. If she declined, the game is over! No more contact. No more text. No more calls.
But this my guy seemed to be new at the dating game.

So, my dear Nairalanders, what do you do after she gave you her number?


nlfpmod

I don't even care about going on dates,if are not coming to my house forget it,I don't care

Kloenboi:
which kind man allowed the wife to embark on something like this ?

I wonder how people think these days,with the rate of terrorism, kidnapping,robbery,police wahalla,road safety,VIO,agbero,cultist ,ritualists and the menace of dangote trucks,I will enter my car to drive from London to lagos,this is just a death wish.

madridguy:
I see no reason why he will be running around if he has no skeleton in his cupboard.

I will run and leave my lawyers to settle the case,america is a funny country were can be jailed for fucking your girlfriend 15yrs ago,who will she call as witness?the white judge just wants to put this guy in jail,why searching his house because he fvcked somebody,this is a celebrity that women throw themselves on,and how is it even possible for someone to rape his girlfriend,this is crazy shit

Kusheer:
Those thief no get Mercy Burn them all

For the VG to take such action that theif must have been a terror to that community,some serial criminals are so heartless and cruel that killing them off seems to be the best option

NairaOcean:
A video circulating on social media has sparked a swirl of mixed reactions after it captured a woman stepping into a stranger's car following an impromptu invitation. The incident, which unfolded on a busy street, has left viewers both intrigued and concerned.

In the video, the woman, who remains unidentified, is seen traveling on a motorcycle when a man in a sleek car pulls up beside her at a traffic stop. He strikes up a conversation and extends an invitation, which the woman promptly accepts. Without hesitation, she signals the motorcycle rider to stop, exits the bike, and enters the waiting car.

The footage has since triggered a debate online, with many expressing concern over the potential risks associated with such spontaneous actions.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2D_uH0pIDE

there is nothing strange here,women are naturally programmed to be attracted to sucessfull men and men with potentials,that man pulling up in a #4m naira car with AC dropping water has just proven he is such man and the woman has no option but to follow,70% of women in Nigeria ns such situation will follow the man

budaatum:
Her husband is insecure and immature, and she's well rid of him if this is why he wants a divorce.

nothing immature about this that guy is knacking that woman,this is improper and boundaries has been crossed,,he is even squeezing the buttocks

ayjay45:
As a male youth from 19 to 35 ...............
Life is daunting. Unless you have a rich or wealthy family that can save you.

Why does it have to be so. Is that how God prefer things. For people to suffer ruthlessly.
What is the way out.

This comment is made for the poster to justify his position and take heart,in igboland many self made men came from very poor families and made it,'70-80% of Igbo business persons came from poor families and passed through the apprenticeship program because their family is poor,almost all of the Igbo traders in markets all around Nigeria came from humble background,most times what inherited wealth creates in the children is indifference and lack of respect for money,that is why such wealth easily fizzles away,in my community in imo state the previously poor families are now producing millionaires,WHY?because nothing creates opportunity more than the zealous need to break out of poverty,it gives that extra inner strength and the belief that failure is not even an option.

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?


What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

mind your business joy killer , don't you know that the kid may resemble his grandfather ,great grand father or even the father inlaw

Emmanuel900:
Who said Igbo girls are the prettiest ?

For my side Yoruba girls are the prettiest

I have been to all yourba states but I will forgive you this comment because there is a 60-70% probability you have not been to imo state

advanceDNA:
Oh no........this people again

I am not surprised,the human mind and body trives in want and adversity,when a set of people don't have any normal human want and worries in Life this is usually the result,I doubt if she is thinking how to feed her children the next day she will not look at a tree as a partner but firewood

Omooba77:
What do you Love about Sunday?

Sunday rice and stew

Trevor125:
I'm pouring out my heart now before I take this poison, I have tried My best in this life, mentally, emotionally nd otherwise to stop this addiction but to no avail... I'm i they cause what's wrong with I'm i cursed?? Only the universe knows...

I'm beginning to think this world is being rule or run by humans not God!!!
I have sworn an oath not to bet again but I still go back..😡😡😡😡💔💔💔

Favour nd timothy may brime of sulphur locate you, let your ways be like under the bed ... betting sucks!!!!
I want to stop please help me out..
I'm addicted but can't stop...

If you have been through this predicament before l.. just outline ways to counter the urge for gambling please... before I die..😡😡😡😡😡💔💔😭😭😭😭

I lost myself today nd My Last 500 out 3.5m ...i got from selling of properties...
I just need help... please...

I'm chronic virtual,sport live, slot etc... Player
Help me to stop..!!!
Betting is evil
Betting is bad
Betting is a curse

Bla bla bla

All this story won't stop an addicted gambler to stop gambling

Once you are addicted, asin ADDICTED eh

E don finish

this is serious but I cannot help laughing when I read you asking child of doom for help,the guy has already planned to sleep the whole weekend in ashawo house and you want his help,the only help you will get from him is how to stake the remaining money on bet and ashawo cunt,guy take control of your mind and redirect it somewhere else,if you cannot control yourself, nobody can help you,your destiny is in your hands

ChildOfDoom:
I have never tried daybreak before. Scared something might go missing in my house. I want to try daybreak instead at a brothel

Due to my high libido, I am never satisfied. Not even four cum at different intervals from four girls can keep me calm.

So I want to try fucking all night long at a brothel. Intermittently though. I just negotiated 8k. Wish me luck in the arms of Olosho, in her room all night long.

Something must kill a man

Hahahaha haaaa!!!child of doom indeed,pls knack Dem well , no retreat no surrender,,,all of us will not be saints and many has long decided to live forever in hell,so pls of you have a good advice for C of D keep the advice for your junior brothers and sisters

AyobamiOluwole:
Please tell me. I need to see this from a different perspective. Pls. I regret it and I wouldn't like this to happen another time.

Perhaps my mindset. Pls tell me.

what you must understand is that women has too much physical and emotional baggage to carry,that girl maybe suffering silently from mensural cramps and you are talking of cuddling,just the fact that she came to your house and is ready sleep is a pass mark,you failed in your haste and anger not to know what baggage she is carrying at that time,next time take it easy and talk gently to a woman with a caring tone,you will be surprised the things you will learn

enemyofprogress:
When it is your first time to lick plate

my first experience was when I was barely 10 yrs and the pussy was my aunties,she taught me how to effectively clean a pussy with my tounge laying emphasis on the most critical areas,she and other matured Ladies those days

robosky02:
How Relationship use to be, before phone spoiled everything...

If you can relate please share your experience

it takes a strong heart to get a fair lady those days,not now girl's advertise themselves on social media

Caspry5:
For now just take in and have peace for atleast 9 months

and after 9 months some women don't see their periods until they stop breastfeeding,after child birth those issues may simply go away,

Truths9ja:
She’s 42 this year and she’s not yet married. Hmm 🤔🤔

Shade Ladipo Reveals Why She Doesn't Want To Have Children

Popular media personality, Shade Ladipo has revealed why she doesn’t want to have children.

Giving her reasons, the media personality who will be 42 soon said she has never liked the idea of having or bearing kids.

Speaking in an interview with Daddy Freeze, she further opened up that she loves children but she does not want to be a mother.

She also noted that her lack of interest in having children was not part of the reason for her divorce from her estranged husband.

She, however, said she is open to remarriage, but no children.

Speaking, she said,
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“I am open to remarry. But I don’t want kids. I’m going to be 42 in November. I’ve never had the incline to have a child. I will be honest.

“I love children. Children love me. Children are actually attracted to me. I will go to a children’s party and they will start to sit around me. Children love me but I don’t have any feeling to have a child of my own.

“I can adapt. Maybe, adopt a whole orphanage and give them my last name. But I don’t want to.

“My decision not to have kids wasn’t an issue with my ex-husband. He was indifferent. He will have kids. But with me, it wasn’t an issue.”


https://www..com/talk/topic,588376.0.html

I am thinking and wondering what reason else will I marry a woman apart from to have children,even if you are the richest woman in the world

ayjay45:
Please share .

there is no deal illegally you can do to get $30.million dollars without dieing in the process and I doubt if you have the courage and bravery to even do anything illegally to make millions in naira because if you do you will not be asking such a stupid question

Trevor125:
This companies re thriving on our sweat..oh father of heaven...cast your curses upon those who legalize gambling/betting in thi planet

even if you ban betting this set of weak minded individuals will find another more destructive type of gambling that the government cannot control,it is their fundamental human right to waste their money

Looter100:
you're stupid because someone wrote the book and you read that shit in class

he is not stupid but practical and basing facts on evidence seen,when I say that such advanced civilization been talked about must leave a foot print that will be a practical evidence of their past activities, for example for every 50,000 tons of uranium ore mined,only 50tons of metal ore is extracted and from that only 1% is uranium 235 which is roughly 50kg,such huge mining operation will leave a massive foot print,we are not talking about the electricity needed for the separators,scrubbers,fission,etc,it is massive,saying that an advanced people built nuclear bombs before 1935 is not only ridiculous but stupid as well