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All I know is that it is way cheaper to date a girl from a rich home than to date a girl from a poor home.
I blame all my saniors for not telling me this truth when I was younger.

To the younger guys here, please learn from an elder that is telling you the truth now

If you are a hustling guy with big dreams to succeed, please avoid ladies from poor background, they are an unnecessary burden.
A journey that is supposed to take you 1yr will take you 10yrs just by marrying them.
Marry a girl from a background that will help you, please don't let anyone gilt-trip you.

Prostitution they say is one of the oldest occupation.
No be today hookup start.
The stock in trade; which is sex in exchange for other things of value has always been with us since time immemorial.
Just like Jesus said the poor will always be amongst us, permit me to say; olosho, runs babes, and hookups will always be with us

Savedday:
The earlier you realize that all 9ja girls are Oloshio the better for you.

Staying married to them restrict their steady Oloshio biz hence, their attitude to frustrate u.

Divorce her B4 she stab you to death while u are asleep.

9ja girls, very useless and evil!

Divorce her and marry a Cameroonian?
Because OP is planning to marry another Nigerian I guess, and you are here typing all these...

cobby14:
My dad married 4 wives and few years back but now he seems happy without any.

This is deep.
I wonder what OP wants to achieve by marrying another woman.
One is trouble already for him and he wants to make it 2.
OP please look for other things to engage yourself with, you already have 3 kids.
Build good relationship with your children, take them out, spend time with them outside the house away from your wife more, make her feel vividly and outrightly that you value her fruits more than her.
And please don't let anybody guilt-trip you; have one or two side-chics to relief stress with no strings attached.

You went and married a girl from the village and now you want to complain, what exactly are you trying to gain by this post.
Did you not do any courtship before marriage?

Ireportlive:
It's not about them having anything to do with it, it's about them not allowing Banks and Fintech use Citizens deposit on such volatile asset that was bound to crashes without anyone being held accountable

E.g L U N O and F X T

Please what happened to LUNO?

Only God knows the profit police would have made from this case now
1. They will collect money from owner of dog for reporting case
2. They will collect money from the person that stole the dog (luckily for them na house owner pickin )
3. They will collect money from Akpan the restaurant owner/dog pepersoup mongul

In every case that is reported to the police, they are the ones that make pure/net profit.

Richy4:
I do not mean to quote you..I just have to clarify something...The age an individual is considered a young adult is 18yrs in Nigeria...which means he/ she is no longer considered as minor..

And these are the thing that an 18yrs can do;
<<Get a credit card
<<Sue someone
<<Get a job
<<Buy stock
<<Buy or rent a house without his/her parent consent
<<Buy a car
<<Get married
<<Be tried as an adult for a crime..

The fact that many families were not asking their children to leave the house @ that age in the country due to some circumstances best known to them does not mean that it's a total taboo for those families that decides to do it..

Dj Cuppy is above 30yrs and she is yet to be chased out, infact she got a house as a birthday gift.
We should not allow poverty and poverty mentality to make us start misquoting norms.
It is wrong to chase out a young man of 20yrs old in this times, considering all things being equal.

But we need to hear from the Mom too. She may have her valid reasons.

Jovialjune1:
What kind of mother is that pushing you out of her house at age 20? Even mature adults are finding things hard in this present naija, not to talk of kids your age, except you are stubborn or not contributing for upkeep, I suggest you go to a relative close by for your peace of mind.

Modified:
I keep saying it that most nl peeps didn't come from a healthy family background, they always see their upbringing as the basis and right, see how most of them are supporting the mother, this is not the western world for goodness sake, their standard of living and way of life is not same as ours, Op's mother is suppose to look for how to secure admission to a University for him at that age 20, that is what concerned and caring parents would do

Op where is your dad?

On point.
Me I started working after graduations/NYSC @24yrs, and even got married in my father's compound @29yrs , dad was late, compound had 4 flats.

Few years after my wedding I was transferred to a faraway state so I had to leave the family house/compound.

Now I live in my own personally built house/compound

Op should tell us the whole story. No body should use a dysfunctional family setting as a standard/norm.
It is not normal for a Mom to chase out her 20yr old male child.
Note: I am not condemning her ooo, because Op has not told us the whole story.

So it is no longer a crime for people to donate to their candidate of choice again?
I am not understanding ooo. I thought a particular presidential candidate was being victimized because his lovers/supporters abroard where making moves to support him financially

geedot:
My own craziest was when a wedding was supposed to hold in a hall at Ring-road Ibadan, and food was being cooked at Apata, Ibadan[quite some distance].
Only for the vehicle that was supposed to bring the major soups and foods broke down at Apata. People wey no chow for house before coming that day suffer no be small. Party sha finish without the food reaching the location.

Ahhh!!!

But come ooo, how far is ring road to apata sef, that guest cannot go and eat where the car brokedown?

Conner44:
You are a very lucky human being. Your case is very easy to diagnose and treat

You simply have a very potent spiritual wife and she’s hell bent on paying you back for not acknowledging her existence and carrying mere mortal women into your home to insult your spiritually ordained wife

Oya carry your phone, open google map and search for the directions to MFM Prayer City, Lagos Ibadan Expressway. Make your way there. Don’t forget to carry a bag with extra clothes and many boxers too because during ‘spiritual wife’ deliverance sessions it’s very common to see fully grown men shitting their pants and pissing their trousers.

Hold some extra cash too because you’d need to make a beeline to the nearest ‘olosho’ quarters at Mowe to test the goodness of your new found freedom

I sure hope this is suppose to be a joke?

MelesZanawi:
He married one and impregnated the other

Na promo. Like MTN Sim swap

No comment

Righthussle:
Oga Peter Obi, please do your best to win this election please. Forget this prayer oo, e no dey work.

If to say prayer dey work Osinbajo for win APC presidential primary.

As a pastor this your post pain me ooo.
But who am I to defend God?
Let the God that answers prayers (even by fire) defend himself.

While the former male housemates may go back to treking.

Hassanmaye:
You don't know anything about women

You are right.
I have only been privileged to know only real women

jeromestarks:
I don't know why Dj Cuppy turns me off sexually. I lose the urge to have sex when I see her. Worst case when I see her skin.

No comment.

Love and attention! The only thing real women need.

GREATIGBOMAN:
So due to how Naira misbehaving.

I went and withdrew 70% of my savings from the bank and bought $19,000 worth of USDT at N863 per dollar on binance p2p

Guess what.


I just check and they're currently selling usdt there at 722 naira.



My hard earned money just lost like that


I just deleted the app... If they like let them make it drop to N400


Crypto have really delt with me



Last year it was one merchant token that ripped me off $2000
Then Shiba Inu ripped me $1200


Anytime I do anything crypto related I lose money


Will anyone advice me to sell my USDT now at 722 and accept my loss or wait untill December if Naira will lose value further to say N900 to a dollar


Will dollar be scarce in December?


Honest opinions

Buying USDT is actually not investing in cryptocurrency. You would still have been facing same predicament if you had bought USD from the black market.
Your problem is actually not cryptocurrency, your problem is fear of missing out (FOMO), procrastination and greed.
Solution to your problem:
1. Stop chasing profits (your head no like windfall)
2. Start chasing value
a. Go into projects e.g buildings (not single massive ones ooo, but small, small building projects of N1m to N2m (shops or mini flats)
b. Other things that you can build up small small and complete in short time and with not much money.

Come back here after few years and give thanks.
It is well.

Zonefree:
Women and their manipulative nature. See how they appear without make-up, looking sober and pitiful, hoping the judge will apply ad misericordiam on them. Kolework.

I remembered how Tiwa dressed like a homeless woman during her interview where she alleged her ex husband was into drugs. Years later, same Tiwa started acting porn.

My late dad taught me that, if you're accusing a Nigerian girl of something and she started crying, she's guilty. No Nigerian girl will ever cry for something she didn't do.

The bolded got me laughing like a jackass

temitope27:
I think she's right, we celebrate the dead more than the living

Maybe it's because we expect people to celebrate many birthdays and we know that they are only entitled to one death day.

If I no wish you happy birthday this year, na just because I feel say I fit wish you happy birthday next year, upper year, even uptil 2075.

The lady should just take a chill pill.

TechW:
After Obidient successfully mounted labour party flag, God that answereth by fire has heard our voices, I hope APC or PDP weren't on their way to the mountain when the prayer was been answered.

my thoughts exactly

HomeTutorsPro:
No rich man will use even #100k to drink at once let alone #3m.
I'm sure you wanted to say stupid boys with money.

God bless you ooo.
True rich people don't buy expensive things to make themselves look rich.
It is actually poor people with money that buy expensive things just to convince/reassure themselves that they are rich

It pains me that many people did not notice that the tweet of the police spokesman was quite wrong.
It is very rude and unprofessional, and a police officer that can tweet this online can actually "waste" a Nigerian youth on the street.
I can feel the impunity in his tweet.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Must he also fall like those other artistes ?
Let’s wish the best for someone abeg. We must not think negative always.
Nobody will reign for forever no doubt. Many artistes that made fortunes during their prime in the game also maintained their wealth even after stardom. Nobe all of them end up broke. Besides Wizkid is a big time investor and he doesn’t spend lavishly like some of his colleagues.

That is why you should never use that phrase "made for life" in the same sentence when referring to and artist.
It is the glamour that makes them who they are, and if you don't know, please know now; it is not cheap to maintain/sustain the glamorous lifestyle of someone like WizKid. Therefore he himself won't agree with you if you said he is made for life.

Citizens result to this kind of disorderly conduct simply because they know they won't get justice.
That was how one stupid-idiot policeman arrested me for driving with incomplete vehicle document in 2003, after impounding my car, making me to go home to bring all customs/purchase documents, it was discovered that the document he was asking me for applies to cars imported via Cotonou as at then, while my car was imported via Tincan port Lagos.
To make matters worse, policemen at the counter insisted that I pay money to bail my car since it has entered the police station premises.
I sure know Ogun must have killed all of them by now

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Wizkid is living the dreams of many youngsters. The dude is made for life.

I don't even know where to start answering you from�����.
May God allow you experience windfall of like ordinary N20m and you will understand that WizKid is not made for life.
When you come across artist that were dollar multi-millionaires that are now broke, you will understand better.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/Tinubu-Bishops-at-Shettimas-unveiling-not-fake-MURIC-replies-CAN

Wonder why this man does not realize that as far as the Muslim North is concerned; a Yoruba Muslim is not a real Muslim.
The North insisted that Tinubu pick a northern Muslim because simply because they do not see him as a real Muslim in the first place.

Even this Akintola fellow will not be allowed to lead prayers in any of the major mosques in the north.

Zonefree:
One of the hazards of the job. Na so dey shoot one bouncer that year for Orange room.

Yes ooo.
Na so my school do show back in the days, I was one of the bouncers.
Some area boys (native none students) around the campus came for the show and where forming that they knew me and should allow them in, I carry face
Two weeks after the show, I was seeing off a babe that came to see me in my crib off campus. About 7 guys just show, asking if I recognize them now, come see humility
Come see English and explanations from me to them.

People will just be using religion to promote their own personal demonic agenda.
What has Muslim/Muslim or even Sharia done for Muslims in the Northern part of Nigeria?
Are any of the Sharia states in the north better than any state in Nigeria economically, security, or even corruption wise?