₦airaland Forum

slimanyd:
Lol. Communal clash simple. Uno talk say them go dey collect there friend's wife and seeing each other as enemy of progress.

I dey tell you

Fedrick100:
Is he not the one that cheated on his wife then?

Yes ooo.
Evil minded people will always remember 1 bad thing you did out of the 99 other good things you did of your 100 acts

ufotunang:
...but why is it that Nigerians do not like to buy innoson motors cars... what is the reason

Even if Nigerians are not buying let our government buy.
Especially Nigerian Customs. Those guys should not be allowed to use any vehicle that is not assembled or made in Nigeria.

Those customs guys should not be responsible for taxing us on foreign vehicles and still be enjoying tax free foreign vehicles as official cars, it is pure crime

immortalcrown:
He is making a progress. This is so good.

But for now, his brands of vehicles are not durable. He should work on this.

Durable in comparison to which brand please?

Let me go and pay my own N1k.
I am coming back.
Na party wey we believe in we go support.
I am back. I don pay ooo.
Me I no be Obidient for mouth only.
I just hope they won't use hatred and freez our account because we donated

slimanyd:
Chai. I remember those years when I dey work for yale biscuit, Where we go dey pack buscuit on our toes for hours ,dey carry packet , Lpl. This ones no taste any Sufferings B4 them japa. AJE,

That's why abroad is not for the rich and comfortable ones. Atleast stay nigeria where una don make millions without sweating or working under duress. Nah. You won't.

An average ajepacko wey don work for sumal or yale or BAT as casual worker ,wey don stand for 6 hours packing cartons for factory doing morning, afternoon and night shift join body to make ends meet no go ever complain say he is suffering abroad.

But guess what ,Nature doesn't favor those kind of people to travel abroad cos of financial strength which is needed as POF for travel.

May God bless all real hustlers out there jare

Wow, I have never taken a look at this abroad thing from your point of view.

You are 100% spot on. You are one of the few people I have learnt something new from on this nairaland, not the many people that will just type things wey you go wonder if they are catching cruise?
Most people I have met here in Canada are people that have never worked in places you have just mentioned.
As a former Ibadan resident myself, I have only heard tales of places like SUMAL, YALE, etc I never even enter see.

Persephone1:
The truth is people go overseas especially UK with high hopes. They think life is easy there and money flows on the streets. Aside social amenities the difference in UK and Nigeria is at the end of your "hustle" hours you get something to show for it. But you will definitively HUSTLE . Heaven help you if you go as a single.

You see that single you mentioned is the real issue. Single/alone, I add alone to it because single in this case does not refer to couples only.
But life gets more easier and less difficult when you have got somebody you guys can relate together, hustle together and most especially share most bills together.
I guess that is why those Asian guys (especially Pakistanis) are thriving abroad (UK/Canada), even in malls you will always see like 5, 6, or 7 of them walking, talking, or working together.
They also rent 3, 4, or 5 bedroom apartment together which is way more cheaper than each of them renting a 1 bedroom apartment separately.

But in our own case, when 3 or more black people come together; na communal clash go start

rickpat:
firstly,your guy is insecure

secondly,if you have nothing to hide,then this is not an issue

thirdly,if you love him,stop using finger print,use password for your phone,make the BIG BABY you are dating rest and you too get peace....imagine the effort a grown man will be putting to check mate a girl

goodluck to you two...but my sister if the thing no let you do,BACK OUT NOWWWW OOO... insecurity can lead a man to so many things including violence

Was informed that one uncle like that in my area use to sniff his wife pant everytime she comes back from a long outing e.g market runs etc
Some men are just crazy. Why kill yourself over a woman, when you can channel that effort to something more productive [sub][/sub]

Aareona:
Ok I'm on it

Please just let it slid.
I was of the same thinking like most Nigerians too till I got to Canada.
May sincere prayer is that God will bring everyone that desire to come. When una come Una go know the real meaning of not all that glitter that is gold.
Canadians are nice ooo, they will smile and laught with you, but every of their thing is by the rule/book.
Na USA I wan go now make I confirm something.
The think I enjoy most about Canadian is the security, you may not see police much, but the crime rate is almost zero.
Social life is almost zero too, clubs/bars open 7pm or 9pm and close 2am (2am ooo )
Church is almost none existence, so your best place of socialising is the office, if you office is not that big with many staffs oyo is your case.

And please if you are not very, very emotionally strong, please and please don't come to Canada alone, come with your family or a very close friend, otherwise loneliness will just kill you.

[quote author=Mrkumareze post=118660962][/quote]Haba!!!
And you did not do market survey for survey sake? Nawa for you ooo.

I went to Lagos for Christmas one time, me and my friend with his wife and my wife where driving pass one area in V.I the kind solid ladies we saw hen, we had to stop and price just to catch cruise
They ladies of the night were surprised and confused to see 2 men with 2 ladies in the car already stopping to price olosho, but we follow like 2 or 3 of them gist before we moved.

Flamemignon1:
LoL, it's like you don't know what a lavender marriage or marriage of convenience is right? Queer people have been getting married to themselves for ages I.e if they want children. Moreover,what stupid extinction are you referring to? If you so much care about the bloody human race,go over to the orphanage and go adopt the kids that your fellow strykes chose to shoot out without planning a future for them. Nah,we aren't finished with y'all yet,by the time we are done,you strykes will experience every damn thing you put us through since the advent of your bigotry,watch and see,this is just the beginning

I know you are just catching cruise.
So all you mean to say is that the whole essence of LGBTQ and all what not is to destroy the society right?
Because I am not getting your line of reasoning
You can screew you fellowmen ass all you want, all I ask is that you should not rob it in my face, because if your own father was screwing his fellow man ass "only" as much as you claim to be gay, you won't be here in the 1st place.

Hussein035:
The west inability to control their uncultured children led to the useless LGBT but instead of them to see it as the consequences of their being irresponsible parents they decided to name it LGBTQ. Useless people

If this useless behavior emanated from Africa did you think they will not wipe such country out of the map with their oppressive weapons

We must begin to reason PROPERLY because I am afraid very soon they will tell us that stealing is not a crime and give it another useless name

Very good line of thought.
Same thing the black community in America are saying about drugs.
When drugs was destroying the black community in the 80s/90s it was outright crime, get caught with drugs even canabis you go to jain, many black people where sent to jail.
Now that drugs got into the white communities they called it recreational use, addiction management, etc
Now in some white communities they have clinics where they give pure drugs out to addicts under the guise of addiction management system.

Truly if this gay and lesbian issue has eminated from the Black or Hispanic they would have killed it since.
But I can assure the world that this rubbish will never have a hold on the pure black African specie.
Any gay black man is not a pure blood African in the first instance.

Flamemignon1:
So since time immemorial when you strykes have been forcing your shit down our throats,you didn't think of karma then,did we ever complain that your straight shit us too much? Now the tables have turned,you are getting your wings in a bunch,go wallow in your straight privilege

Just know that if not for the socalled straights you keeping mentioning, you squares, crooked and confused won't even be born in the first place.
Just come to think of it for once.
The human race as it is will gradually go into extinction if your twisted sexual orientations are not totally checked.
After gay and lesbian came LGBT, then LGBTQ, what next? LGBTQRSTVWXYZ?
We will then go into beastility and giving pedophile rights too?

Someone said having a shop and saying "gays are not allowed" is not discrimination.
It is just like having a shop and saying "ex-convics are not allowed"
No one was born a criminal, neither was anyone born gay. An ex-convic is said to have chosen a life of crime no matter his excuse, so why should the West make an exception for gay people?

I wonder why you will know that you are a minority and still want to superimpose yourself on everyone.

There is no movie you watch now, ecpecially series that they won't find a way to include someone that is gay into it.

Imagine spending billions of dollars propagating gay rights while some children in this same world are dieing of common hunger.
We have really missed it.

SmartyPants:
1. What on earth are you talking about? We are not going completely cashless. We are going cashless for LARGE TRANSACTIONS. In that sense, life for the common man remains exactly the same. You won't face ang reatrictions with withdrawing petty cash. The restrictions are for those withddawjng large sums.

2. So the government set about reducing the cost of printing money...by printing a huge quantity of money? Please explain how this makes sense to you.

I agree with you.
Considering the fact that only a very small percentage of Nigerians do transactions beyond N20k at a go, that was why the threshold for the electronic charge of N50.00 was pegged at N10k and you will notice that most ATMs don't also pay beyond N10k again at a go.
There should be no reasonable reason why someone should withdraw N20m, or even N50m cash from abank at this times, if not for fraudulent transaction purposes. Basically because beneficiaries of such funds don't want it traced to them. E.g contract kickbacks.

BluntCrazeMan:
THAT MEANS, THEY WILL STOP CHARGING US FOR MAKING WIRELESS TRANSFERS??


They made cashless policy useless when they started deducting money whenever we make transfers.
It became a beautiful nonsense to us.
It's no more attractive again.

God bless you.
I wonder why Nigerians are not talking about all these useless and baseless charges that are detrimental to cashless system.
Remember how Nigerians where getting use to paying for things with their debit cards in resent past only for the clueless guys in CBN to allow the cluelessness of our politicians to allow them introduce N50.00 POS charge to merchant accounts; merchants transferred the charges to customers and customers gently stopped using POS for purchases and shifted to using POS for cash transactions (I.e cash withdrawal).
POS that where initially used mainly for payments for purchases are generally now being used for cash collection purposes.

Eyinju112:
He didn’t consider suicide as an option.... I love his courage

Just like saying he didn't consider hypertension or heart attack as an option.
I wonder when people will realize that most suicide are an offshoot of a mental illness called depression.
Just like people have come to realize that hypertension is just not just as a result of worry or thinking, it is an ailment.

Fountainofyouth:
It's your stupidity for me

Pls test her by being on bed with another woman, it is just unfortunate you won't come here to tell us her reaction.

Wanted to reply you appropriately.
But I now realize that you may be an unmarried mannerless small girl, so let me just let it slide.
Let me allow the respect I have for my wife spill to you small

Your lack of respect for men in your upbringing is clearly evident. Sorry for your loss.

You are suffering from vivid imagination

Merch:
I just have this automatic hate for anybody that commit suicide. I detest cowards. wtf!

Hmmm, may you never know depression.
Fighting depression is not like fighting someone or something you can see or touch.
It is a feeling deep down within you. Most people facibg depression cannot even explain it. Don't equate depression with feeling low or disappointed ooo.
I mean, they themselves know that they have things working out for them way more than others, but they cannot explain the viod within themselves.
It is very foolish of anybody to thinks that weakness is all it takes to commit suicide, it is a very stupid, inhumane, and senseless assertion from a primitive mind.

Like I started with: may you never experience depression.

Chris2863:
La click, La bend

Risingblue008:
But frankly speaking
75% of men are always jealous whenever their wives are more prosperous than them,
Why


But,
What a sad story

Maybe it is because when an average man makes money he takes good care of his wife, but when an average woman makes money, she feels she no longer needs her husband (and she isolates, frustrate, and Lord over him)

I wonder how some men foolishly allow a woman to suspect them.
Some men are just too disrespectful to their wives.
The kind of respect and honour I give my wife, even if she catches me in bed with another lady she will be looking round the room to see if it is a prank or I am being held at gunpoint

Alusiizizi:
40k to do what exactly? Was she going to bear you a son? Whenever I deal with these sort of girls I never pay more than 2K, even for overnight.

If you are a babe, will you allow a guy do what you will do to her for N2k

Must you add wikedness/heartlessness to your sinful act?

Haba!!! N2k for over-night. Your heartlessness has a touch of witchcraft.

Will there be "cane" involved?

All I know is that it is way cheaper to date a girl from a rich home than to date a girl from a poor home.
I blame all my saniors for not telling me this truth when I was younger.

To the younger guys here, please learn from an elder that is telling you the truth now

If you are a hustling guy with big dreams to succeed, please avoid ladies from poor background, they are an unnecessary burden.
A journey that is supposed to take you 1yr will take you 10yrs just by marrying them.
Marry a girl from a background that will help you, please don't let anyone gilt-trip you.

Prostitution they say is one of the oldest occupation.
No be today hookup start.
The stock in trade; which is sex in exchange for other things of value has always been with us since time immemorial.
Just like Jesus said the poor will always be amongst us, permit me to say; olosho, runs babes, and hookups will always be with us

Savedday:
The earlier you realize that all 9ja girls are Oloshio the better for you.

Staying married to them restrict their steady Oloshio biz hence, their attitude to frustrate u.

Divorce her B4 she stab you to death while u are asleep.

9ja girls, very useless and evil!

Divorce her and marry a Cameroonian?
Because OP is planning to marry another Nigerian I guess, and you are here typing all these...

cobby14:
My dad married 4 wives and few years back but now he seems happy without any.

This is deep.
I wonder what OP wants to achieve by marrying another woman.
One is trouble already for him and he wants to make it 2.
OP please look for other things to engage yourself with, you already have 3 kids.
Build good relationship with your children, take them out, spend time with them outside the house away from your wife more, make her feel vividly and outrightly that you value her fruits more than her.
And please don't let anybody guilt-trip you; have one or two side-chics to relief stress with no strings attached.

You went and married a girl from the village and now you want to complain, what exactly are you trying to gain by this post.
Did you not do any courtship before marriage?