₦airaland Forum

PerfectStranger:
Wow 1993? That’s a long time. How old are you now?

I beg no make me feel old ooo.
I am still young at heart
Just last week a 29yr old lady referred to me as daddy , not uncle ooo.
She said: "please help me thank that daddy that helped me yesterday" e mi daddy

sthecy:
May God help you chacha. You are always not stable tueeh

I don't know when you guys will believe that mental illness is real.

Someone is unstable because of mental illness you will insult the person.
The person with mental illness that you insult will go into depression (another form of mental illness) you will still insult the person again.
The person will decide to end it all and rest (suicide extreme end of mental illness), you will yet insult the person the more

I wonder how we got to be so inhumane.

Doctortest:
Person kill himself u say na mental illness baba u be mugu.soon dem go bang your babe I bet u go consider sniper

Just like someone can be physically weak medically, the same way someone can be emotionally weak medically, just like I strongly suspect you may lack sense medically

Revolution2022:
One way Or the other,you have an underhand dealings.

Some tried it but where not as lucky.
Do you understand his drift now?

PerfectStranger:
Depression is real asf. My secret is weed. Please don’t try to masturbate when depressed coz it worsens’ it.

A good indica will help alter or drift your mind away from your scr*we’d up life, at least for that moment.
Weed is therapeutic to the soul, sadly lots of folks don’t know this.

I have never smoked weed in my life, been afraid of it since a course mate of mine almost ran mad in 1993, the guy was out of his mind for good 2 days
But with the legalization of weed in the West, it medicinal use cannot be overlooked.
I strongly believe that it is better to smoke weed than commit suicide.

Mermaid123:
Thats the peak of carelessness. She nor even fear say yahoo boy fit use am.
Some girls are dirty pigs.

And what makes you feel that she has not been used already?
A lady that will do that may even be up to something. Maybe na Op she don use sef, you can clearly see that he has lost affection for women, maybe all men she comes across now will find affection for her

oneMalik:
Dismissal loading.....

This is not gonna be about political party or whatever .

Strictly code of conduct !

Sentiments apart, you are talking fact.
I be Obidient, but they should not have done this with uniform.
I won't be happy if one of the "Agbado, ewa, garri" guys have done same in uniform.
Because we dey play politics no mean say we too must be crazy like the heartless demons in government that have not allowed Nigeria/Nigerians to evolve.

Thinkam:
Too bad, because Obi will drop out of the race latest December

Atiku is coming

To bet with you just dey hungry me.
But I know you are only trying to catch cruise

Okonandmary:
just because you have the ability to copy anything from the internet does not mean it is legit. a[b]s I have written before Depression is classified as a mood or mental disorder in medical journals[/b]

yea, depression is treatable by drugs that will never treat you but make you an addict just like how they say ADHD is a disease..hahahahaha

there is no medical diagnosis for depression, take it or leave it

Hope you yourself can see that you just want to tow the line of baseless arguments.
It is not everything in life that is like Nigerian politics that even the opinions idiots can most time be very correct

Since your opinion is higher than that of my so-called copied medical journal, what more can I say.
Please just don't express your opinion to people suffering a serious illness like depression.
No be everything person dey take catch cruise.
Depression is real, and it is an illness. Because you not suffering from it, does not mean you should make a joke out of it.

cayorday89:
You sabi the drill boss, I lived the first ten years of my life in a very large compound built on a land that cuts across two streets, and things I witnessed from the single aunties and bodas and married folks just make me laugh when they blame this current generations as been spoilt, social media just made it seem like it's a per second occurrence these days.

You got my drift.
I also grew up in Kaduna south amongst the southern Kaduna people in the late 70s to early 80s, things that happened back then, if to say social media dey by then, South Africa, Kenya, and Zimbabwe for they learn

kettykin:
He should have waited

Whatever he is going to do let him do it.
I am not supporting or opposing his action ooo.
But I like it when people show their true colours on time, not like one Baba that claimed he is not for nobody and everybody, but his kingsmen and their pets are higher than every other person.

Okonandmary:
stop misleading the public

there is no medical diagnosis for depression and depression isn't a mental illness but a disorder caused by personal or environmental issues

stress can cause hypertension( Stress can cause short-term spikes in blood pressure) and stress can be overthinking or pressure

I am just not in the mood for baseless arguments.
What saddens my heart is the confidence in which you displayed your ignorance. I am simply astonished
It is people with you kind of premitive thinking that allow people suffering with depression to commit suicide instead of seeking medical attention.

Depression (major depressive disorder) is a common and serious medical illness that negatively affects how you feel, the way you think and how you act. Fortunately, it is also treatable. Depression causes feelings of sadness and/or a loss of interest in activities you once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems and can decrease your ability to function at work and at home.

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwiipL_nj9H7AhWN7KQKHY1FAhsQFnoECAoQAg&usg=AOvVaw3dtEbg-RxleUYyGvXzI5qq

God1000:
This means she's not just a baby mama or side chick anymore.

She's officially Davido's wife, but I still don't like the idea of this baby mama of a thing, it is ungodly and aberration.

What I've also realized is that the society sees nothing wrong in it, it is gradually becoming a norm, in fact some young girls now brag about having rich baby daddies.

Young girls and boys should stop indulging in the act.

As a young woman, don't get pregnant for a guy before he marries you, that's not what your mum did.

And who told you that's "not what her mom did"
Social media itself is what is blowing things out of proportion.
Just because a 16yr old girl is impregnated in a remote village in Yola today and social media makes the news (video/pictures) viral in less than few minutes will get people talking about how the world has spoilt.
Forgetting that most of our greatgrandmas started bearing children at 13/14yrs old.
There is absolutely nothing new under the earth, King Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines, but if you find out that a man has 30 sidechics now, we would be crying on social media that the world has spoilt.

I am not encouraging nonsense ooo, but it is not today that baby mama started.
Do you know that a whole Queen of Sheba was baby mama for King Solomon?

Na wa ooo. Nigeria has happend to this person.

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

These so called sissy men are product of homes without father figures.
Where do you expect these young guys to get manly training from? When most of them are trained solely by their mothers.
Fathers now prefer to spend their time, energy, knowledge, and experience on sidechics that are age mates with their son's and we wonder why these young boys are sissy's.

Can you compare the maturity most 17yr old girls to 25yr old boys nowadays? And where do you think all these girls get their maturity and boldness from?

I am yet to see any religion that recognises homosexuality.
Even idol worshippers don't want to be associated with homosexuals.
Even original Satanist (not all these online 419 satanist ooo) don't associate with homosexuals.

Even fallen angels prefer women

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are one confused person if God did not create them who did?
So you think humans don't have freewill? If we didn't have freewill why are we not the same or reason the same way

Should I quote or misquote you?
Because if I respond now you will say I misquoted you again.
Please read my comment again and see what I said about freewill Vs what you are saying

Na wa ooo, only you!!!
Lost $10k, had COVID, got cheated upon, got terminated from work, ban from flying, passport almost expired, now facing Fulani kidnappers, if this your story no endup with you joining NSPPD then you need serious beating

Ladyhippolyta88:
When did you see me state or make a notion that God created homosexuality . I never said that stop adding words you didn't see.

As for your second paragraph you didn't lie at least you seem to accept God created this people and gave them free will so why are you wanting to ascribe them to demons?

Don't also misquote me, God created people not "these" people, people with freewill chose to become "these" people you are referring to.

And yes I am re-quoting the original quote that I responded to that you quoted me to

Golan007:
Have you lived in Europe or US ?

If you worked in an office of 30 people in UK, at least 3 would be openly gay.

Don't also forget that out of that 3 none maybe real gay.
1 may be gay simply because of rebellion while the other 2 may be claiming to be gave because of social benefits (e.g asylum)
Do you know how many Nigerians that are claiming to be gay seeking for asylum

Ladyhippolyta88:
Your argument makes no valid sense sha.
Comparing what two consenting adults choose to do when they don't in anyway affect one's rights to serial killing and murder where rights are being infringed is laughable

Just like your notion that God has anything to do with the creation of homosexuals does not make any sense either

Since you feel it's God that created homosexuals, then it must be God that created murderers, simply because God chose to give man freewill, you guys want to ascribed your demonic wicked desires to his creation.

CoronaVirusRelo:
Somethings can’t be changed on Earth!

Homosexuality is as old as Christianity!

God created them in their own special way and no one should be judged on their preferences and choice.


Isn’t it glaring they are divinely wired!

Just like crime (murder) is as old as humanity right. Remember Cain killed Abel. So by your theory since God created Cain it was God that made murderers right?
And since murder and murderers have been around since almost the beginning of man existence murderers should be given rights too
Sebi na only gay people you think say dey mad or need rights abi?
Serial killers will soon start asking for rights, make the whole world kuku mad, rubbish and ingredients

CoronaVirusRelo:
What’s your highest qualification?

See abnormal question coming from a citizen of a country who's president is a school cert holder and the vice a professor of law.

GetMeRight:
When 1 billion naira was raised for Tinubu in 48 hours during the collection of APC primary form. You can't compare sleep to death.

Yes ooo. Just like you cannot campare HussPuppy to boys that make money legitimately. We talk am during HussPuppy time una say na jealousy. There are things that people who make money legitimately just will never do

Domipraiz:
Am giving out 150k tomorrow in support of Peter Obi. The only man that can bring back the lost glory.
My children children must not suffer

Me I don do my own 1k challenge since

VeryWickedGoat:

Even my uncle of 72yrs is still confused on this same matter

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Talk to him point blank. Tell him; Oga I need sex at least 2 times a week please! Give him the liberty to choose his days, it's your right nothing to be shy about.
Number 2, speak to your family doctor as regards the possibility of stimulating him (sexual vitamins). Sometimes the strong desire for a man to give his wife and kids financial comfort can seriously deminish sexual drive
The issues in this country can kill the libido of any man that has a good heart. Unlike all these demonic children of the "evening of the world" that abound everywhere now

Rayban25:
Has anyone ever told you that you're a terrible disguiser?

No!!!
Do you want to be the first to tell me?
So that I can note it for when next I am asked.

Africum:
This is going to be massive......

Going to be
It is already ooo!!!

As much as I am Obidient 100% I am still impressed with the pictures I am seeing.

Obi is still young and he still has many fights/lives ahead of him and time to rule Nigeria even if we make the biggest mistake of not massively voting him in come 2023.

My only advice to the masses is that we should never allow any politician to use our blood/life to settle political scores.

Finally!!!
While wishing him all the best, I sincerely pray he will make a difference.
Because the demons in Nigeria and in the foundation of the Blackman usually manifest whenever a man gets into absolute power.
Not a single Nigerian leader has been able to prove otherwise

MNDY:
There is hardly any man that will happy with that kind of condition.
It is a very big insult that majority of men try very hard to avoid.
Men's main goal in life na to "Blow."
The society sef nor go take am easy on him for being a failure.
I've hardly seen a man in such condition that is not seriously finding ways to make it.

That is where you and the pastor differ.
You may be a hustler/street person, hope you understand what I mean?
While he is a Pastor and he deals with people that rely on God/faith not hustlers that believe in themselves and what they can do or get by their smartness
And the problem with people of faith is that most of them easily resigne themselves to "fate"
I have seen men and even young guys that rely on their wife/girlfriend for their daily living without any shame or remours, I worked in the corporate sector for awhile and I had female bosses and even juniors that were earning serious money, while their husbands gallivants around town doing nothing and forming big boys/men and making life unbearable for their wives.
You will pity most of these highly paid women when you come close to them. I am not talking about all these urgent 2k girls ooo.

MNDY:
But it is also part of the Helper women are called too.
Help him finance the home until he gets back on his feet and respect him while at it.
Contributing to the finance for running the home is also part of the Help.
Help is not restricted to only some things, it's a general term.

In my comment I said the pastor maybe addressing a particular case.
I have seen cases whereby some men have become dependent and being taken care of by their wives perpetually, simply because their wifes have the means.
It is thoes kind of situation I believe the pastor is referring to. It is not by money alone that you take care of a woman.
If your wife is the one financing the home then you have to do other things in that home that will amount to her care.
You don't expect a woman to take care of the house, the children, go to work, pay the bills, while you as a man loaf around and do nothing with the claim that loosing your job and being fed by a woman does not make you less of a man.
Oga, such a man is not only less than a man, but a disgrace to the entire "manhood"