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Ufobabe,

Love is indeed stronger than everything. That is why it dominates our thought and influence our action. Everything you said was right. In theory, this is the way life should be. But in practice, that is not the way it were.

There exist a wide chasm between theory and the reality. It is not that love isn't stronger or that it isn't working. Rather, we find that every human emotion of love, fear, anger, hate, envy, etc are subject to individual freewill. We exercise our power of accord and discord according to our individual character, faith, and wisdom.

The variation in the aforementioned traits make it possible for human emotions to be biased and misrepresented and even misinterpreted. That is why greater percent of people may not know real love in their lifetime. That is why love cannot be everything. Men respond more to their selfish desire than to the need of their fellow men. Few men, less than 10%, can put other people interest before theirs! Love, in it purest form require you to make unconditional sacrifice to those you claimed to love without anticipating reward. Why would Jesus lay down his life for sinners? Why would Mother Theresa dovoted her life to the underpriviledge? Why would a mother carry foetus in her womb for nine months? etc Real love is rare in modern world! What we see are "lndian givers". People who give you food and collect your germent even though the weather may be chilly! Therefore love can no more be everything!

Let me tell you that every action of man is either motivated by LOVE or by FEAR. The underlying motive are only reflected in their outcome,

Lovemajek,

could you shed more light on this project? Are you willing to answer some questions regarding the plan? If yes, then let me know and ensure you read this thread as l would love to put some questions to you.

I don't believe you! If it were true you didn't intend having it, how could her refusal lead to the crash of the relationship?

You are mature at 20, but sex is NEVER the way to measure love. There is obviously more to what you revealed. You should look at character and other things. Perhaps what you are feeling now is lust. Why not be somebody and focus your energy on productive works.

Anybody dating an 18 year old lady and quiting because of sex is either in the same age group or slightly above. It is only an immature guy that would ask for sex after month of dating then quit when he could not have his way. Anybody outside this is having character problem.

Iice, siena, don't be. What he was trying to say is that AT WHAT AGE IS IT PROPER TO FALL IN LOVE AND THAT SHOULD HE FALL IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT(NIGHT) AND HE KEEP MEETING THE LADY BEYOND THAT DAY, IS IT LOVE?

Obviously, the poster is an underage. You better tell him something positive before he follow his instinct.

@poster, pls how old are you and what level of education? Don't be shy, tell us if you want sensible reply.

You can never, must never use sex to measure any lady's love for you. To me, it is stupid of any man to immediately as a lady for sex after few weeks of dating.

Relationship is not all about sex. That girl was right to refused your sex request.

Try relate to them as friend and discover the beauty of friendship. Don't double date. Don't propose sex to either of them. If you want long term relationship, patience is the key.

Anyone who tell you to choose A or B, may make you regret your action unless he know the two girls in advance.

So to your question. If what you seek is pure friendship, befriend the two. If your intention is just sex, then choose none. Instead visit the nearest redlight district for that. AIDS is real. If your have intention for lasting relationship, then be patience and first know thb girls before jumping at them.

You may eventually finds that none of them is your dream girl. Be slow to act, it help prolong your day of joy.

Guess. I gave a mirror use it.

By the way ufobabe and Tawa_Temi left a message waiting for action. Would you be kind to let let look at it?

Guess. I gave a mirror use it.

And you want a collab? Please show me love and not that blazing supernova you are hoarding about.

That is impossible! You would burn yourself.

Volcano eruption?

$ammy,
it is challenging. After all the madam is not complaining. I think at the rate women of 21st century are going, it would no more be a bizzare as you thought.

Rachi,
l told you l don't steal money! By the way, it would be criminal for you to put everyone in the same room. After they finish hitting one another, the winner would turn his attention to you! God forbid.

Which bank? They don't get any compassion at all! Nothing to rob there.

Check it out a decent housewife leave home at 6am and returns at 10am leaving kids at the mercy of maids. She must not conceived, she must not bring kid to work etc. Where is love there?

Worst still, the babies would not be breastfed. I won't go to that place at any cost.

How would u do it? I would freeze you! I have been re-invented, re-made, re-created! I am now a saint among the saints. Don't touch it, it's hot!

I am here! Why the hurry? Shebi Babale is still there?

I am fine. I no sell today. Business is bad!

I am here! Why the hurry? Shebi Babale is still there?

I am fine. I no sell today. Business is bad!

That is a sign of disinterest. It mean something is wrong, Find out before it is too late.

Ufobabe,

love is not everything. We choose to love but sometimes we misinterprete fear as love. Did you know that most times when people says they love, they actually meant to say they fears?

It is for that reason love can mean something to some and nothing to others. It is for that reason love heals just as it hurts.

Tawa_Temi, adversity may make or mar a man. During the trial, only men with strong conviction survives. We found ourselves asking "why me"? We lose heart, faith and lost our composure. Life is at that time meaningless.

But we must not falter. We must keep struggling until we overcome.

Unfortunately, men would always buckle up under intensed trial.

Ariblaze, how would you know when you are busy battling somze the thread killer? You just work and no concern about grannie.

Don't mind him, iice, he is still on Night shift, probably sleeping as he hit the keyboard.

I misses his wit sha.

Just be prepared.

Shebi you wan change the world? Go ahead! When I enter, somebody would flee!

Shebi you wan change the world? Go ahead! When I enter, somebody would flee!

**grumbling**

how do you mean? Hope you don't forget my job is important too? Robbery is a decent job. Better than Bank job. You dare not send me to market! I would steal your money and send you to prison.

By the way, polyandry don't mean men are slaves. Once a man, always a man. Don't count on me to do your shopping for you. I would buy ashes instead of salt. I only know books. Yeah, send me to bookshop not market!

U really want to change the world, lady. Well, I hope my "Babale" is as skinny as broom. He would do the cooking and wash your undies. As for me, I am the last, so I should be pampered. I would only serve food maybe drive madam to work. I hope you are working in bank? That would be really nice! I would be your domestic Banker.

When do we fix the wedding?

Yes oooo! Yes !

This is 21st century. Women are going places. Leading even from the pulpit. They are now everywhere, Presidency, Army. Leading every willing guys. Yes, I would give it a try. Maybe Naija would appreciate it.

Beijing Miracle is taking a new dimention. Women want to lead at home. Hahaha! It is fair especially for guys lazing away and lording it over their wives.

Start saving for the dowry! You are paying! As for my rival, he is in soul.

Ever heard of Ija Orogun? I am going to return to gym. I had to shape up. I need to add kunfu to my Boxing skill. I mustn't take chance at all!

Yes, I am in! It gonna be fun all the way.

So you have already thought it out with him?

Say? What? Number two? Hahaha. Ever heard of polyandry?

No money! Just wisdom, trust and maybe your heart!

You may be my next victim! I hope your hubby won't mind?

No money! Just wisdom, trust and maybe your heart!

You may be my next victim! I hope your hubby won't mind?

Something fishy somewhere! Who knows he had been having underground romance while the wife die silently of cancer!

Surely, God is not blind to his heart content.