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Cute-ass was right.

I just hope women learn. The same women that are being cheated would have rejected the advance of a honest guy.

No wonder, he came across as a flirt!

Flirtatous men don't focus on a goal. They dribble their ways all around. If you have been acting like that in real life, no one would take you serious. The solution to your problem is you. When you change for the better, the world would never fail to notice.

My Dear Yimiton, you have just won a nobel prize for Dirge composition. Please come for your prize: MY HEART OF GOLD.

Sincerely, you are right.

If the poster is telling the truth, then you can love again. Though the pain of your lost might be hard to bear. I go with Yimiton.

Please take heart. Things like this happens. But yours is too early. Once again, take heart.

Have you forgotten our deal? Yeah I am going with you. Only if kulikuli and Garri are allowed. Plus DSTV.

"T"for short. It all happened years ago. When you are tripping for him. At that time, he believe love is a mere contraption. an aberration. He never know what a lady in love can be.

You fell in love with a coolheaded guy. A real man: you told your friends you can die for him. You did everything to let him notice you. But the more you try the more he avoided you.

One day, you came to his house and deliberately stay long, hoping to pass the night. Your effort failed to yeild fruit as he politely sent you out of his room.

In frustration, you left, vowing never to talk to him again. Somehow, the pain of being rejected overwhelmed you as you found yourself rushing into a relationship with his best friend. He ignored you and didn't warn you of impending danger.

You slept with "J", his best friend, and he impregnated you. Closing a chapter in your promising career, You could not go for your University education as a result of that mistake,

"J" turned out to be a brute and a useless wife-beater. He is a man whose "kalashinikov" controls his brain.

He saw you last year as you struggle to make a living on a road side, selling pepper. His heart bled as he beheld a waste of womanhood. Had he know, he would have agreed to date you and make it platonic. Maybe you would have had your education.

He takes the blame for your plight. For by rejecting you, he drove you to the wolf who messed up your life.

He don't know where you live but he has promised himself to help at least one of your children when he get married. That way, he can give him(your kid) what his action deprieved you.

"T", HE was sorry! As he grew wiser in life, it occured to him that what you had for him at that time was real. But, he was not a slave of love and passion. He was a man of logic. If he had wanted to appease you, he'd have love to marry you as a compensation. But with four children at that tender age, and a crazy husband, he is content at playing humanitarian role.

Once again, HE is sorry.

I am wondering when zignor would return to the moon.

How many of such ugly creatures have you met?

There are ways you can tell a guy off nicely. It depends on what he want. If it is just friendship, it is hard to do. But if he want a sizzling affair, you have to rely on your intuition.

Every man has a turn off button. Find it and you can easily get him out of your life. The trouble is, women expect all men to behave alike. It doesn't work all time. That is why they don't know where their (men) turn off button is.

A mistress copycat meet a master copycat. Then, thing tear apart. While the work is good, the poster had spoilt the good work by claiming she had been researching this for years.

Maybe she wrote it years ago and somebody stole the manuscript and distributed it.

To be frank, the work is not original. I'd had this framed in my room for years until recently.

Silvao2000
is also a good copier. I guess, cuteangel is taking a cue from you.

Meanwhile, the piece is worth reading. Please, I want Indians in da house. As for Siberias, God bless them!

Why? That is unfair. You want the poor girl make the first move.

And some of us are as ugly as vulture. Please add, felis.

Good day!

Good day!

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Efua, why not consider polyandry? Maybe the guy would be pacified.

+osisi,
Nobody asked you to follow anybody's view. I understand you are educated though I am not.

You made contributions and questions were asked. Rather than answer the questions, you descended on a dead man simply because his name was mentioned. When it was pointed out to you that we are not discussing a dead man, you started calling other stupid. Whatever problem you have with him should have been handled with decorum. I don't know him, so what is my business?

I have, over the years, conditioned myself to learn from every individuals I came across. You can learn more from other people's trial than from their triumphs. When a man fall after committing an error, it is not for us to look at his downfall but to see what lesson his downfall is sending to us.

The fact that you pick one bad man out of the five men show that you must have a long standing sentiment against him. Why not be a good finder instead of a fault finder? Why not choose to pick up the positives and learn from the negatives? Why not pick up the good men and ignore the one bad man?

Does it ever occur to you that your last post perfectly fit you? Go through the thread again and see who is imposing idea on who. See who those words of yours applies to.

Since my contributions to the thread remain there for you to revise, l see no reason why l should refresh your memory. I have not really aligned myself with either of the divide, I was only asking questions and making comments. That alone is enough to tell you that I am not trying to let anyone agree with me. You can see.

It is obvious you have low boiling point. By being "big", I meant to say that I have no time replying your insult with insult. Why? Because I know it is useless.

Mukina2,
you don't joke with things like this. I observed iice had been away until now.

Whatever is the truth, please tell her we care for her. We would keep praying for her.

You have just said it. Thanks for being a member of the clan.

Please, if you are wise, try and re-read my posts and yours and find out where stupidity is more amplified. If you can't defend your ideal, why shout so loud on public forum to convince people that you know it all?

Those who are all-knowing, infallible and self-centred in their own minds, will always find their fellow men intellectually inferior. They are so wise that they could not invoke their wisdom to recognize their own stupidity. They are quick to attack others who hold contrary opinion to theirs.



I am too big for you to attack. You would be wasting your energy. Why? Because, you are almost chasing shadow,

+osisi, Omoge, the artful dodger extraordinaire. I want you to open a seperate thread for MKO. I have a policy and both of know l don't argue on things l have no interest. I don't mix sentiment with my words. I also don't, reply stupidity. I does it in real life and l had master the "cotton wool strategy" of dealing with a stubborn intruder. I need not share that with you.

My point is leave personalization out of this and tackle the issue. And if you have nothing to contribute, why go after people jugular?

You have made an important contribution. Questions were asked. Instead of replying, you descended heavily on MKO! Are you a member of his estranged family? Please open another thread. I'am sure it would be hot.

I have already listed many good examples. So answer the questions if you have conviction about what you have been preaching so far. I thought you can defend your ideal? Let educate one another.

Bill Gate is monogamous, Abraham Lincoln is monogamous. Virtually everyone except the Nigerian are monogamous! Please cross check and answer the question instead of going into a seperate topic. Even MKO that you are trying to use was very grateful to his first wife even till death. Please find out why MKO didn't go into politics while his first wife is alive. Also, go and check who benefit the most from MKO's Will. It is on nairaland in the paper. Please don't let go into polygamy. Let discuss issue at hand. There is a seperate thread for that.

Kind go back to the questions l posted for you and answer them sincerely one by one.

Thanks

So Mope is performing dramatic love here? Please be careful o !! I am watching you.

@poster,

You cannot take her back. And you can take her back!

It does no matter whether you love her or not. The fact is she did not love you as much as you love her. She love your pocket more than she love you.

I wish +osisi is here to comment on this. She advocated leaving a guy when he has no job. She can now see why l rejected her hypothesis.

What you should do is to look at the circumstance of her leaving you. Then screen her heart to see if there is genuine penitence. If she is sincerely sorry and was truly misled, forgive her, but not immediately. Should you discover that she is only coming to reap the fruit of your labour, forget her, but tell her immediately. She will send professional beggars to appeal to you. Be prepared.

Whether you are accepting her or not. PLEASE DRAMATISE YOUR DECISION. She would forever remember that lesson where ever she go.

The ball is in your court. Be careful not to humiliate her. She may be your future saviour when you fall in future.

Yes I agreed with you in that regard. I also request men to test their prospective wife (same to women) before marriage. A man/woman after money is just a parasite. We must decide to make gold-diggers useless in the midst of opportunity. That way someone would learn art of endurance. But, it can't happen overnight.

God help those entangled in the web of love created by materialism.

Degubi, you are right and wrong. We have been there, we are still there. The fact that 20 people speak does not mean they represent the 140 milion people.

You are right in your observation. We have alot of hypocrites selling their love to the highest bidder. They don't want to suffer.

They only want to reap!

Please do a little research of self made Millionaires. And leader of substance past and present. The library is never short of book. When you read, take note of their love life and how they met their partners. Please do it.

Naijaking1, I love your presentation educative and informative.


Aladunni, you are right in your observations. That is what we are actually talking about. I hope Naijaking1 take note. He may have further input.

Honestly, some of us reading the thread are benefiting from vital infomations. There appear to be misconception between toilet disease proper and the STD they seems to have some similarities. Please we need further clarification in the interest of public.

Next, I still want to know what a man should do if he suspect his wife but he exhibited no symthon of any type.

That is why we should let him lose his mind.


He proposed marriage to a lady. He later got himself in a mess fucking another lady. The new lady got to his heart and now he say it is love!

Igbawo ni maku o ni ku?

@poster, if you really want people to believe you, why not write the full story of what happened instead of dropping hints on us. Tell us how you met her, what make you date her in the first place. Why you want to date another chic and what her shortcoming etc.

Meanwhile, Stop fucking her l suspect you still do that hence her coming back. If she is not getting something, she would back out naturally.

By the way try the HIV method. It work like magic as long as you are not HIV+ just "confess" to her that a prostitute gave you the virus. She would rush down to the clinic to test herself in fright. Once confirmed negative, she would leave you to your fate! But if she is positive, you are in soup. She would stick to you like lice!

Are you HIV+? If yes, please don't try the method o! Stigmatization of the highest order await you.

Everybody made useful contributions base on perception. +osisi, $$Rhino, Omoge et al could you pause to take a look at this:

MKO Abiola could not afford to buy even an egg when he met Simbiat. Simbi was from a comfortable home and it was in her house that Abiola first tasted egg in his life. The was nothing about him that show he would be rich. He was so poor. Yet, his romance with Simbiat changed everything. Little wonder why Simbiat was honoured even in death. Abiola's will made special reference to Simbiat children.

I have read biographies and short stories of Famous people. I noticed that most Rich successful men don't have anything when they met their wives.

Using this short extract, I want you to take note and comment on these foundamental issue.

1. What you have at the begining doesn't count. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WHAT WAS ON THE INSIDE.

2. There is a saying that behind every successful man is a woman. Are women of today affraid or are they not so money conscious that they forget they have the power to influence any man to success? The story of many great men show the role a particular woman played in their respective life to succeed. If Abraham Lincoln, Napolleon Hills, Henry Ford, Muhamed, Zig Ziglar, John Forpe, Andrew Carnigie etc were to be a Nigerian does it mean the world would have been robbed of such great men? Why then are most Nigerians looking for a Millionaire as spouse?

3. What would you say of a man who is very comfortable during courtship but later lost his fortune after marriage? Should the wife pack her bags or should she stay and suffer with him?

4. Did you ever pause to meditate on the fact that a man can be broke and have nothing to show yet possess ingredients of success? There must therefore be diffence between a hardworking, visionary but jobless man and a useless man. How do you distinguish the two since their conditions look alike?

Please ponders.

Tell her you have tested positive for HIV 1 and 2 strain. Show her a fake result and she would speak with her legs!

Shit or sheet? Ralvy?