Politics › Re: Civil Servants Must Wear Adire In Osun State by Olatara(f): 8:48pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
I like adire, but I shouldn't be forced to wear it. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Dominion City & RCCG: Changing Church As A Married Woman by Olatara(f): 10:36am On Jul 04, 2021 |
debbycreamy: Thanks to the people that gave matured advice, someone said I can go to dominion city during weekdays service and redeem on Sundays, I think I'll discuss this with him and beg him to accept, nairalanders are cool, funny and few are annoying,
Thanks to everyone Ready to compromise  . God bless you |
Business › Re: Mircea Popescu, Bitcoin Billionaire Dies After Drowning In Costa Rica Sea by Olatara(f): 4:53pm On Jul 01, 2021 |
somehow: Another wrong information.
Bitcoin is not gotten from betting or whatever you call it.
There are miners and there are those who get paid in crypto for rendering services average people get paid in traditional paper money with.
I think we need more of financial educational threads on this forum.  |
Celebrities › Re: Isaac Johnson Has World's Widest Mouth Of 10.1cm (Guinness World Record) by Olatara(f): 12:27pm On Jun 30, 2021 |
Bluntguy: See dirty teeth. I don't even fancy this type of record. They're called braces not dirty teeth. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is Being An Introvert A Turnoff To Nigerian Employers? by Olatara(f): 8:29am On Jun 19, 2021 |
socialmediaman: I think people confuse being an introvert with being anti-social or shy or lacking social skills. They are different. Introverts are people who need more time to themselves to get back into play, it doesn't mean they lack great social skills Introverts lack social skills, they don't socialize, they are shy and want their space ( they are never lonely), they give the best results in their field of work. |
Crime › Re: Hakeem Odumosu: Traffic Robberies Will Soon Become History In Lagos by Olatara(f): 12:13pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
HITdemUP: You go stubborn o... just wanted him to think rational . I was not really affected emotionally. it's something I often laugh about . dem enter me well for secondary school. I've to embrace me still So sorry about that, |
Crime › Re: Hakeem Odumosu: Traffic Robberies Will Soon Become History In Lagos by Olatara(f): 8:03am On Jun 18, 2021 |
 HITdemUP: I've exactly this type of eye and I'm disturbed by your comment. |
Travel › Re: Anambra International Airport: Innoson Begins Production Of Jet-Steps by Olatara(f): 11:57am On May 30, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Ahmed Gulak Shot Dead In Owerri by Olatara(f): 11:51am On May 30, 2021 |
meobizy: I don't believe it. What is the aboki looking for in the east? People can choose to be anywhere they want to be, I am from the West, but I visited Kano for six months, my roommate is from Imo, she lived all her life in Kano. |
Politics › Re: Ahmed Gulak Shot Dead In Owerri by Olatara(f): 11:50am On May 30, 2021 |
meobizy: I don't believe it. What is the aboki looking for in the east? People can choose to be anywhere they want to be, I am from the West, but I visited Kano for six months, my roommate is from Imo, she lived all her life in Ka |
Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Ever Been Embarrassed During A Church Service? by Olatara(f): 11:30am On May 30, 2021 |
helinues:

Because a friend of mine's dad got appointed as local government chairman, the choirs, pastors shifted all the attention from other youths and treated my friend so specially... Infact, na on special chair he was sitting on then. I was like mtcheew, so marginalization dey for church?
One of the reasons I stopped going to church.
After years, when the guys dad left power, what do you expect, he became normal church youth... No special recognition or pampering..
Religion, it is either you stay out of it and make use of your free gifted senses
Or
Throw your reasoning faculty into the gutter while waiting for dog of men and one old fairy tale book to tell you what is right from wrong.. And you must have plenty money. The day I realise this, I was at peace with myself and do my stuffs Anonymously (offering) |
Travel › Re: Is Lagos Becoming Nigeria's Answer To Miami, Florida? by Olatara(f): 7:20pm On May 21, 2021 |
MrMaestro: Lagos is an absolutely STUNNING city. Kudos to Lagos and the plan of succession set by Tinubu. I don't love or hate the man. But you can't deny the work he's done for the state. Lagos was planned by PA Jakande (rip). |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NPA Or Efcc, Which Of These Jobs Is The Best With Good Pay, Please Help by Olatara(f): 2:27pm On May 16, 2021 |
michlins: he worked there and ended up starting intels I don't think so, he worked with Custom not NPA. |
Politics › Re: Ortom: Anyone Against Southern Governors' Resolve Has Hidden Agenda by Olatara(f): 12:39pm On May 14, 2021 |
BKayy: Well what do I expect from mentally handicapped NIGERIANS |
Politics › Re: Ortom: Anyone Against Southern Governors' Resolve Has Hidden Agenda by Olatara(f): 8:13am On May 14, 2021 |
BKayy: You people really think I am interested in your North vs South nonsense. Apc vs PDP stupidity. All the politicians and their loyalists are the problem Yes you are, we are not babies. |
Autos › Re: Untold Story Of Hadiza Bala Usman's Reign At Nigerian Ports Authority by Olatara(f): 8:02am On May 14, 2021 |
supportnija: This woman thought she is untouchable, I like her but she is a definition of failure and arrogancy, these girls that are not married should be given any position in Nigeria eg Oruma Ote, Diezane, Hadiza and many of them. Diezani was/is married to Allison Madueke, second wife though. |
TV/Movies › Re: Meet Tychon Carter, The First Black Winner Of Big Brother Canada (Photos) by Olatara(f): 8:10pm On May 08, 2021 |
pocohantas: Same way other races won it, but the first time a BLACK MAN won, they had to sensitize it. It is common sense that a minority win would be sensitized, be it racial, gender or a combination of both.
Is there any redpiller with sense? None at all. |
Family › Re: Have You Called Your Mum Today? (Photo) by Olatara(f): 9:11pm On May 05, 2021 |
She called me early this morning, and she has been calling since last week because I was sick for almost a week.
Normally, we talk every Sunday. |
Family › Re: Am I A Failure? Please Rate Me. by Olatara(f): 8:57pm On May 05, 2021 |
WhiteRuler: First of all, apologies for any errors you may come across as I am not at the right frame of mind now.
Secondly, this post is 100% real about my life. So nothing is fake in it.
I'm a man, precisely 33 years old. I graduated from the University in 2019 at age 31. You may ask why I was still in school till that age. Well, I have realized that family/parental background matters a lot in a child's life no matter how people try to twist the fact. My family/parental background wasn't a good one educationally and financially as my parents were just petty traders and this has contributed negatively in achieving my goals and aspirations in life. With the above, you can deduce that there was no sources of funding for my tertiary education so I had to find a job after my secondary school while very ambitious about my furthering my education because I always believed in acquiring education up to university level. This led me to doing several odd jobs such as construction site labourer, security guard, cleaning, barbing, hawking, even to remove soak away and many others just to feed and see myself through school. Let me also add that @33 now, there are some jobs I can't do again because of some changes in my health system occasioned by some of the odd jobs I exposed myself to. For example, any strenuous job now is not for me as it makes me breath heavily like an asthmatic patient; any job that requires standing for long or bending down not for me due to broken waist (although these might be solvable issues but for now, I can't tell cos I have no money to visit health facility).
Moving on, while I may be thanking God for the academic success (even though the school is yet to issue me certificate) but I'm having strong feelings about myself. I feel like I have failed in life. I feel like I am a failure. My mates who got admission into university immediately after secondary school are gainfully employed today, living in comfortable apartment (built or rented), married with kids, have their own car and generally doing well. Even the ones who didn't further but venture into learning trade are doing well too. On the other hand, at 33, I have virtually nothing to show for it. Still living in one thatch house, poor, hungry and starving, no wife, no kid(s) (not even a serious girlfriend), no job, no car and nothing to show for my 33 years on earth. This is why I'm feeling like I have failed in life and it has made me to always be ashamed of myself and always trying to avoid meeting my mates who are doing well.
Also, looking at the country Nigeria, most employers recruit under 30. @33, what are my chances of landing a good job if I refuse to forge age and go for service but collect exemption letter? What are even the possibility of getting a job as I have no capital for business? Note: between 2019 and now, I've learnt several online money making skills but yet to make a kobo out of it all. Note also: ordinarily, I wouldn't seek employment (private or government) because I'm multi talented e.g in football, entertainment or business but these talents need money to develop which is what I'm lacking.
My questions: Please what do you all think? Do you think I have failed or I'm a failure in life? What is the future holding for me? As at today, the only thing I can boast of is "I am a graduate". Nothing more...like I said, poor, hungry and starving.
Help me with good pieces of advice please before my mind begins to consider evil as fastest way of making money. Thanks. Did you just called yourself a failure? And who said can't be better than this? You're an ingrate, maybe you should sell your life in exchange for death. People go through shits everyday, life isn't easy, you are even privileged to own a thatched house where you can soliloquies on your life. I think you are depressed, please leave that house sef, get busy and have it in mind that living isn't easy for everyone and it will only get better. And be grateful for the little you have, maybe you will get more. You are not a failure |
Travel › Re: Broke Lady Offers Lagos Uber Driver Sex In Exchange For Payment. He Refuses by Olatara(f): 8:40pm On May 01, 2021 |
CSTRR: As the economy becomes even poorer, pussyy will become even more cheaper.
Ladies that normally won't fucckk for money would start considering it. Nah! It won't get to that level. Don't limit your thinking faculty to NL. There are girls out there hustling just like you for money. I mean real hustlers. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Returns $32,000 To Woman Scammed By Yahoo Boys (Photos) by Olatara(f): 7:01pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
slawormiir: Damnnn niggarrrr What da fuckkkkkkkkkk ..... That is like 200,000 yuan And for all those praising the man...you guys should stop it....bunch of pussy asss holier-than-thou every where
it is possible the man is not even that holy...probably the percentage way them settle nor reach am...
There is no holy soul on this gadmnnn planet earth....everybody on planet earth has a price...
That is why as a real niggarrr....I will write a book titled "the criminality in every human" Ode |
Romance › Re: Ladies: 7 Ways To Tell If A Guy No Longer Fancies You by Olatara(f): 3:42pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: I don't need seven ways to know, I have my instinct to tell me, there is no silver bullet in it.
people don't listen to their inner voice anymore
the future is mail. male. I listen to my inner voice, but I just want to enjoy it knowing it won't last. If I taya, I leave |
Romance › Re: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Olatara(f): 5:28pm On Apr 26, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Olatara(f): 5:13pm On Apr 26, 2021 |
luminouz: Nice one.
I hope to be like you one day bro. I'm very brutal about things like your babe did. I would have ended that relationship ASAP. Infact, I ended one because she said I should come to their family house to eat new year food. I was like,can't you bring the food to me? She said nope. Naso I just ignored her till date o Yinmu |
Music/Radio › Re: Meet Nigerian Musicians Who Are Talented But Not Popular by Olatara(f): 6:22pm On Apr 21, 2021 |
brownskilo: Remove Victor ad from the list and add Ajebo Hustlers Cavemen Wurld Ajebutter Tclassic and Zoro Blackmagic (good voice like stormzy). |
Politics › Re: Two Traffickers Excrete 191 Pellets Of Cocaine, Heroin At Lagos Airport by Olatara(f): 5:32pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Anigreat:

They will all come here to write their childish tribal hate filled comments, as if there's any tribe in Nigeria that is devoid of Shortcomings.
I am not justifying drug peddling, but these guys had to do this for survival, as the present government of Jubril only favor the quota system people alone. You just did. |
Politics › Re: Pantami Is My Friend, But He Can’t Be Defended - Farooq A. Kperogi by Olatara(f): 11:04am On Apr 17, 2021 |
@ Helinues, I know you are benefitting from this government, it ok to do so even those criticising you will do worst. But, the way you defend them blindly is not really necessary, you know. |
Politics › Re: Pantami Is My Friend, But He Can’t Be Defended - Farooq A. Kperogi by Olatara(f): 10:04am On Apr 17, 2021 |
Don't bring Yemi Osinbajo into Isa Patanmi's mess, he is not a terrorist and like President Muhammadu Buhari, he chose who he can trust.
From the 20th paragraph to the end, he mentioned Patanmi being changed and he denounced all past whatever with terrorist but that doesn't change the fact that he did and say those things.
Farooq Kperoogi can be biased and sentimental, I read all he wrote concerning Tinubu and others. He should carry is long epistle and shove it in his biased a*s. |
Romance › Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Olatara(f): 9:30am On Apr 17, 2021 |
Rozcol: Being rude and cocky may be a personal trait for her but maybe something might have triggered such,it has affected the way she behave towards people in a negative way. Maybe |
Celebrities › Re: Jennifer Lopez, Alex Rodriguez Call Off Engagement (Photos) by Olatara(f): 8:39am On Apr 17, 2021 |
tutudesz:
 I like Ben Affleck, his calmness. |
Romance › Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Olatara(f): 8:30am On Apr 17, 2021 |
Eauxclaires: On the contrary, Ladies I have seen that people really like (both men and women) weren't extremely beautiful. They were just in between. I would like to tag them as attractive The beautiful ones that from after looked very pretty...when you finally have continuous contact with them you discover they were just 'meh'..They are very beautiful but nothing else to keep your attention The ones I discovered usually had men around them were even average..and these men seem to genuinely like them. Though I discovered these ladies were nice, relatively selfless. There is this lady in my department, beautiful but rude and cocky. Then I discovered she is very lonely, infact her only friend is one married Alhaja. Sometimes, I dey pity her, but I detest rudeness. |
Romance › Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Olatara(f): 8:04am On Apr 17, 2021 |
Daniiel: like last week I was in uba their customer care precisely to rectify some ish ... there was this very pretty gal that was in charge and was attending to customers so customers wer just relating sternly with her I guess because of the much crowd n covid rules ... so as it got to my turn i complimented everything about her and engaged her in a few verbal intercourse she was so excited and happy that nobody has made her happy/special like this today(while this was going on crowd wer behind me .. we relax like sey na beer palour we dey) ... she took care of the so called bills I was to pay . after that i knew we have wrong perception of pretty gals Thank you for doing that. |