₦airaland Forum

Goodlady:
You mean a wife that's depending on her husband abi?
My advise, dear females, empower yourself.
Don't be a second class citizen in the house of any man. They all v tendencies to cheat. It's just that some are hiding cos of their financial ability. The first thing that enter a hustling man's head after getting rich is how to sleep with all.the girls that do him yanga before. That's the begining of badluck!
Men are scum!

Your father is the scum.

mbahdi:
There claim to be one Nigeria but theilre never travelled out their region to another region.and those who leave their region to theirs and help Dem develop it there call tribalist.who among Dem are tribalist.my Yoruba people grow up

Learn English ode. The time you spend on being a tribal idiota can be used to learn good English.

handsomeyitayo:
i was searching through my mail and i found out that i saw someone i don't know send me $550 and i don't have account with world remit ,
but i don't know how the person got my account first bank number and email. i have mailed world remit but they are telling me different thing entirely . do they charge for receiving money from abroad. Any one use World Remit Before please .. i have friends that sent money from USA to me Twice but none of them have told me they sent me money. and that have my first bank account number ....

i don't understand this message i got .

they even said i should confirm my account details and others things..i have not click the link coz i dont know maybe they want to hack my bank account...

this is the email from the scammers:WorldRemit <mail@xmz-productions.org>
reply-to: mail@xmz-productions.org


this is the email from worldremit original site that they reply my mail : Data Privacy <dataprivacy@worldremit.com>

I am sure in the last 10 years I have used worldremit about 200 times ( could well be more as I work online and receive payments from clients through it ) this is 100% a scam.

Dafresh:
Plus Kenneth Eze making it 3 but all was rigged but I love Ken but he was rigged in

It is always rigging when you people lose.

I guess Lagos was also rigged for LP?

gaby:
That Midget wry no get political relevance or clout go hear whiiin.

Foolish thing.

You people just make comments with emotions. El Rufai will win his own election hands down.

Kudos to Buhari for organising a relatively fair elections. The losers who want it all won't agree but Buhari has done well on this front.

The incumbent in various states are losing their polling units which is something unheard of in this country.

[quote author=Xpol post=121289367][/quote]I wonder why you are arguing with a semi illiterate who thinks I doesn't is a correct English anywhere in the world.

[quote author=Xpol post=121289367][/quote]I wonder why you are arguing with a semi illiterate who thinks I doesn't is a correct English anywhere in the world.

Xfactoria:
Taye Taiwo in the list and Chidi Nwanu is not there, this must be a joke!!!!

How many years has Mikel played to be named among the greats

There is no how on earth Nwanu will be on a list of great Nigeria players, he won't even make top 100. He was a mere bit part player.

I am happy I found this thread again.

Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you 🙏

Wow. This is interesting. I must say you are a real man and GOD bless you real good. I am super impressed especially as I have spent 7 years going through the same thing. So much that I had to spend 1 month in a mental home last year.

It is a difficult situation and I statue your courage. I wish I can give you a big hug.

You have handled this well so far and behaved like a good son and husband but tell you what? It is time you spelt things in ABC to your mom.

I will sit her down and tell her she has two choices.

1. Accept my happiness by accepting my wife and gain a daughter.

2. Continue to stick to her guns and lose a son.

Until you do this and stick to your guns by ceasing contact altogether she won't stop.

My own issue is worst. My parents didn't really accept my wife because of my wife's fault but when they know where I stand they had no choice than to accept only for bad manners from my wife's side to ruin it.

Show your mom your happiness first if she falls in line and your wife then misbehaves show her too that you know your mom before her. The two of them will eventually behave.

princeade86:
like ur father abi. Od e.. u can't bring out point if u don't insult

There is no point to bring out for a foool like you that you will understand.

A 2 year old kid and you are talking shiit. You have no sense. None whatsoever.

princeade86:
madam, or sir, they have d right. That's what we call discipline. When I was in school, the discipline they gave us is more than this. Even many of these so call parents received same discipline, but always form due to social media influence. Yet, u want sane society without discipline. Na now u go see elder man or woman that small kid will be dragging chair with and even their parents will still dey support them

Are you intentionally being daft or this is the normal you? This is a 2 year 3 months old kid for f*ck sake.

Jesus!!! You are boiling my piss.

habsydiamond:
even if u blame the parents.. does that now give the teacher the right to disfigure her hair like that What is wrong is wrong mehn!

And we are talking about prenursery. Stop replying the guy he is a foool. I have just finished talking to the girl's father as I have my three daughters in the same school ( another branch of it not far away from the one in question ) and the girl's teacher used to be my daughter's teacher till last year. The school are definitely not saying the truth. There is a cover up.

Meandmycrew:
I dont understand some people must you bring everything to social media. What happens to you going to the school to resolve this.

Some of you are just outright stupid. I had to comment because you are a woman.

I have three of my kids in the oluyole branch of the same school and just spoke to the father of the girl in question, dumb asses like you will not find out the issue before opening their mouth.

I pray such doesn't happen to your kids. Oponu.

FalseProphet1:
Kudos to the Nigerian police. I see peace and sanity retiring back to Nigeria when Peter Obi wins.

This I have seen.

This is why he will not win, we don't want peace to retire from Nigeria.

Everything is one sided. Wedding anniversary o, birthday o, everything.

shinero128:
Thanks for the heads up. Was talking to him about a job.

I hope you didn't take the job from him. He will pay you for the first few jobs and then ask things to accumulate and then block you.

He did the same exact thing to me.

Hi everyone,

I am having issues with constant nausea and can't seem to figure out what is the cause.

I have petic and gastric ulcer but I haven't been having the symptoms lately as I took my medications serious.

I check my liver, kidneys and other organs every 6 months, they are all fine but this nausea won't go away.

I will appreciate your advice.

I am beginning to get worried.

spiralwedge:
They are too tribe-conscious.

It applies not only to politics, but in everything.
Even the way other people eat their swallow, they feel theirs is superior. So you can imagine how primitive their brains are.

It is why so many people are paranoid of them. You can't constantly tell me you are better than me and expect me to vote to put you in a position that puts my affairs at your mercy.

There are very good igbos, I am in business today because of some of them, but the constantly chest beating by a miscreant few will make people to continually be paranoid of the igbos.

It is sad but fact.

hisexcellency34:
Politically motivated trial. Maybe it's law of karma sha

I don't know why many of you people ( not all ) from that side enjoy supporting evil all in the name of supporting your bloda.

abescom:
I know this guy from Cult of job board on facebook. He is a scammer. I am surprised it is not only me he did it to.

This makes it 4 people now then.

Webmasters please beware. If you are on freelance writing job boards you are likely to come across Troy Shanks. He is a scammer.

I did articles of $2300 for him but he refused to pay.

Be careful. His image is attached.

Two people have confirmed to me that he did the same thing to them. Be careful.

I have seen more than 10 people on different facebook job boards now who are complaining about the same Troy shanks guy. He is a scammer and is very notorious.

I lost my ex to the same luth. Their negligence and carelessness killed my ex. They forgot to use a tube they made me buy with my last cash and were blaming each other.

Same brain tumour. Till date I haven't fully recovered.

How many years was this used for? Is the quoted price negotiable? Where is the location?

Where in Ibadan? How many years was it used for? I will like to make a deal.

If this is available for one more week I will be interesting in making a deal.

I need a neatly used big daddy or muscle. Can you send me your WhatsApp number?

Blessedmercy8:
I don't see anything wrong in what the girl did or said. She already appreciated the 5k and asked for money for shopping, and the guy is busy talking like a chatter box because he sent 5k.

The guy is the one at fault here. Shey because you sent someone a meager 5k that can not even buy a decent sandal, make the girl no talk again or make every body be on standstill? Abeg!

See how he's even talking anyhow because of 5k. No be men dey send ordinary girlfriend 200k commot eyes? How much more someone you want to marry. It's this kid of men that will give their wife 500 naira for pot of soup and be expecting it to last one week with chicken and orisirisi inside soup. Baby girl, leave him. You go see better man.

No matter the pressure, don't marry a stingy or poor man. Abeg I'm out of here.

I bloody hope you are not married and do not intend to. I pity whoever marries you.

Where is your location?

godofuck231:
who be this one, aneg leave that thing, na today you know say wall geko de poisonous, go step on dead camelion bones and make e piece your foot and see death too , they are poison, leave evil spirits alone, them don tire , Nigerians are careless

Wokeness will not kill you people. Even the bible confirmed there are principalities and there are powers.

I am from Benin Republic, grew up there though born in Nigeria and I see shit every day. It is f*cking real don't let western education fool you.

The good thing is HIV can't survive in zobo. Almost zero chance of she having had success. I however hope they find and jail the said woman.

onlyson16:
This people have come to deceived us again without pictures... Don't be surprise ..them no buy anything.... Just trying so hard to deceived us

If it was negative news you would believe it.