₦airaland Forum

Tell him if he would rather believe and trust his ex, who is married, than you - to whom he wishes to settle down, then you two should call it a day. The past is in the past except if you have had your womb removed and have no chance of procreating in which case you MUST let him know. Otherwise, it would be a carnage. If this is the case, he may not even bother. Let me exemplify this. I have a family friend. The lady had a medical condition during her undergraduate days which warranted the removal of her womb. She disclosed her condition to her BF who (while younger and in school impregnated a girl and already have twins, and) decided it’s absolutely fine to proceed with the marriage. They’ve been married for 19 years now, madly in love. The lady treats the twins as her own children. They all live in the UK except Mama twins who lives in Naija.

Sit him down and have a frank conversation with him and ask him to end it otherwise you’re willing to move on and he can go back to his ex who is now married. Entertaining lack of trust in a relationship is a disaster. Be warned.

Kogi, Kogi, Kogi. Why have you rejected your Northern brothers and sisters (in Islam). That picture is the consequence of a rejection of western education. See what Islam has turned them into - sub humans. I’m 100% sure there is not a single Christian amongst them.

They probably just finished smoking joints before taking the picture.

STUPIDITY

“May be functional” means won’t ever function. Those benefitting from its dysfunction won’t let it happen. Those people need to bite the dust to make Ajaokuta functional.

Trump is a lunatic. American democracy is twisted. It’s not the individual vote (largely the proletariat) that brings a candidate into the White House but the votes of the 538 Electors (exclusively they bourgeoisie) who make up the Electoral College.

hisgrace090:
It's a continues trend in 9ja.

Bobo, I'm pretty sure you got A1 in English and Literature in English quid pro quo. Truly, you're right: "it's a continues trend in 9ja."

Proceeds of illgoten money. Wind would soon blow and chicken's yansh fully exposed. The world now knows hushpuppy's true source of money - fraud.

Ugaboy:
Any of this Top I.T skills
Graphic design
Digital marketing
Video editing
Programming
Data science
mobile app & web development
(see my signature for details)
this are skill that will never make u go jobless, u can be employed by a firm or be self employed...if you are very smart and fast in learning, this following wont stress u.

Teenagers with acute skills in the above mentioned would disgrace you. Go and learn plumbing, electrician and associated building trades. You’ll for ever thank me for these two lines.

Brandstudio01:
Lives matters no more in this country. But God will see us through

Lazy thinking.

Where are black lives matters protesters who protested against US police brutality. Here is a case on your doorstep. Nigerians lives matter.

If you wished the monster, Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida, who derailed Nigeria from its path to glory and monumentally institutionalised corruption with impunity you’re an absolute idiot.

Someone is seeking attention here. Sadly, the gullible people would fall for it. Why can’t the OP ask God who reveals things to him? Do you really to ask others? Who better to ask than God himself. I’m smelling a dead rat here. Buyers beware; caveat emptor.

What do Nigerians like about Donald Trump, a man passionately disliked globally?

bukatyne:
Does this law also happen both ways?

Can a man sue his wife/ partner for rape?

Yes. Apologies for not being gender neutral in communicating this fact.

Ye, ye, ye. So Jide’s uncle’s wife is a witch. And, Mama put who sells food in UNILAG is also a witch. They even have the odacity and tenacity to meet in broad daylight and take pictures unashamedly.

Arrant nonsense - only idiots believe this nonsense.

Meanwhile, the Chinese are laundering Ghana’s wealth as is the case in other African countries. What happened to ECOWAS? What happened to the West African Monetary Zone (WAMZ)? Citizens of EU member states won’t ever be treated like this anywhere within the EU. You won’t see French being treated like this in Germany, UK, etc., and vice versa. When shall we Africans become united at home an abroad. The envy amongst/between Africans at home and abroad is unbelievable. I used to work with a Cameroonian, he was the most elusive person I’ve ever had to relate with professionally. If I never encountered a Cameroonian before, in my university days, I could have formed a bad impression of Cameroonians. Even if you think this is a revenge attack given the “Ghana must go” events of the early 80s, it only shows how backward we still are as Africans. Germans today are not badly treated for the sins of Adolf Hitler and Nazi Germany. Africa would continue to degenerate if we fail to be educated and united.

Hotfreezer:
Igbos don't have Kings. Don't add them to the list above. Other tribes built empires and civilizations, Igbos didn't build anything.
So, they didn't lose any glory, they never had any glory to begin with.

You deserve a Nobel prize for this truth. As a child, I read Chinua Achebe with passion. He was clear that unlike other Nigerian tribes, Igbos have no royalty. Each family had a family head, Eze. No kingdoms and empires like Benin Kingdom or Oyo Empire. Today, every 1000square meters is an autonomous kingdom with toothless Eze.

bukatyne:
Does this law also happen both ways?

Can a man sue his wife/ partner for rape?

YES.

Anything goes in Nigeria. In sane climes, yes.

With reference to rape within marriage and relationships, the London Metropolitan states, “Rape within marriage and relationships can also occur. Remember, sex is about consent. If your partner or husband has forced you into having sex with them, this is rape. We treat this as seriously as any other rape or sexual assault.”
SOURCE: https://www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/rsa/rape-and-sexual-assault/what-is-rape-and-sexual-assault/

If you live in sane climes and you have non consensual sex with your wife or partner, you’re going to prison. When you finish serving the term, depending on your residency status, you’ll be deported. If you’ve naturalised, your career is pretty much over because criminal record and your presence on sex offender register means you’re utterly and totally roasted. You can just jump into the Thames in London, or Clifton suspension in Bristol, Tyne Bridge in Newcastle. Don’t let 3-5 mins of pleasure ruin your life.

Lack of creativity.

He should, as a last resort, have visited ashawo joint. He’ll be a free man today.

Nigeria and Nigerians always majoring in the minor.

Another’s Avenue for LOOTING. Honestly, Nigeria has no business with space exploration right now.

Growing up, no one of working age group was jobless. People worked as drivers, plumbers,electricians, bricklayers, builders, teachers, nurses, doctors, shop keepers, tradesmen and women, etc. Graduates had jobs to choose from, often settling for the best. First degree was enough to live a fulfilling life. Only those in the academia pursued postgraduate qualifications. Even so, in subjects such as law and fine arts, terminal masters degree was enough to become professors (e.g. Osinbajo hold no PhD in Law, and MFA was considered terminal degree). Today, there are people with chain of degrees, some acquired from top notch, global universities, who in midlife, have no track record within any careers. Many have suddenly become motivational speakers. The priesthood of Anglican, Methodist, Baptist and Catholic Churches have become a washed with jobless university graduates. Pentecostal churches are pastored by erstwhile jobless young men and women. There are teachers and lecturers in our nation’s educational institutions who have no business being there. Teaching is a calling. Lawyers have largely become charge and bail personnels on many court premises. Many law school graduates are jobless. Many medical school graduates are earning peanuts. It’s a grim state. Sadly, the Nigerian government at local, state and national levels are doing absolutely nothing - short or long term - to rectify or ameliorate the problem. This cannot continue. Hence, one day, Nigeria would self-implode. It would be bloody!

Charmingrascal:
Many Northern Muslims who are supporting death penalty for the singer are not in anyway better than Boko Haram.
Many of them will join boko Haram if they have the opportunity to.
If they can be happy with death sentence for that young man because of blasphemy then they are covertly supporting Boko Haram and killer herdsmen that are killing Southern Kaduna people (Christians) because they believe they are fighting Jihad which main aim is elimination of 'non believers' and 'infidels'

As a matter of fact I am sorry to say that many Muslims have given me the impression that Islam supports violence and almost every Muslim has the spirit of fanatism in them including the Muslims who are not Northerners.

Even Shekau get sense pass Bashir Ahmad
who was also supporting death penalty for blasphemy.


Islam is indeed a religion of p....

At its core, Islam is a fundamentally violent religion.

Nigeria and madness. There could only be one person behind the wheels who drove and allegedly accidentally killed the victim. How come two people are charged. You mean occupying a car that accidentally killed a pedestrian is a crime in Nigeria?

majamajic:
In Catholic they have provision for the poor , she supposed go register than to steal all the money for herself
Mind u if she had succeeded , the priest might be the one to answer the queries , she even get luck it was in the church , if he do same in some other religion , they will cut her hand or even hang her to death

Yeah I know the stupid and senseless Muhammedians would chop off her hands. But what would Jesus do. You remember the woman caught in the act of adultery? You remember what Jesus did? That priest is a scammer. He doesn't practice whst he preaches and therefore has no spirit of God in him.

Geypya:
Mine was years ago . I say make I try my luck for FIRS. Woke up that morning, carried my everly arranged and gallant CV , bath, dressed up and headed straight to a FIRS branch at Lagos. Back then person wey dey work for inland revenue service na big boy just like Chevron. As I entered the gate, I saw two angry looking security coming my way . They were like "bros who you dey find". Me that I don't even know who I was looking for I didn't even know what to say. Then one of them shouted "pls get out". As a Nigerian graduate wey naturally get ego , I told them to talk to me politely and stop shouting. They even started pushing me , I felt like the ground should swallow me. One sexy chick was passing by (obviously working there ) approached the scene to know what was going on. She told me to pass a call to whoever invited me , I said okay and pretended to go outside to make the call. I jejely walked back home in shame.

Second was months after that incidence, I got a job as a gateman in a firm. Never had I been so embarassed in my life. Customers talking to you anyhow like you're shìt. Infact they see gatemen as lowlives. Infact I used to wear facecap and dark shades just incase I bump into any of my old classmate. I just dey imagine one of my old time coursemate driving in in a sleek car and me wey be gateman open gate for am lol.. well imagination later turn reality. It happened for real. Thank God for my dark shades and face cap but it wasn't enough. . I hid my face when I noticed he started staring at me like he knew me from somewhere.

Thank God for today, ventured into business. Things aren't rosy but as long as God is on the throne, there is hope.

YOU MAY HAVE MISSED THE SAVIOUR SENT TO REDEEM YOU AS YOU DISGUISED YOURSELF.

What would Jesus do in this situation? Arguably, this woman acted out of desperation and the priest desperately showed his anger. The money in the box is called offertory and the sole purpose, traditionally, is to give it to the poor and the needy. Maybe these days priests line their pockets with the offertory, who knows.