₦airaland Forum

Pretend as if you didn't notice of find anything special.

She will be expecting you to be happy and running after her everywhere like every other men does when they see free kpekus, but pretend like you don't send and like you are used to it already and no big deal and watch her go even crazier.

I think the world need to allow Russia do their worst and lets see.

Russia is overrated.

Sometimes, the way you behave gives the clue.

If I am in your shoes, I'll pretend as if nothing is happening and wont talk about it.

The ladies will be the ones to bring the topic up and will jokingly play it off.

If they decide to break up with me, so be it.

People need to stop overworking themselves when it comes to love and relationship.

In every situation, staying calm and confident will solve most of the problem.

How do you withdraw cash?

How do you withdraw the USD?

People usually don't value good people, they use them

You are very lucky that you have a personal relationship with your MD if not you will have been a gunner.

Also, you don't allow the behaviour of the other person dictates your emotions, I know for a fact that, people will push you to the wall but in that kind of a professional environment, you don't yell or shout.

How much?

You're a pervert oga

Kobojunkie:
The only valid reason for a judge to deny divorce is in the case were child custody has yet to be properly sorted out. Other than that, even if you claim you hate your partner's breath, a judge forcing marriage on a couple is seen as potential abuse of power and so the ruling can be contested. .

No, child custody is not an issue, a child who's less than 6 or 8 will be handed over to the mother, no caps.

Also, they are not forcing marriage on anyone but what the law says.

Sometimes a divorce case might be in court for several years.

Go and check Toyin Abraham and Adeniyi Johnson, Mercy Aigbe and Lanre Gentry are popular cases that you can easily relate to.

In the case of Mercy Aigbe, the judge told them to go and settle it at home.

I have seen a couple who have stopped living together and have gone ahead to have kids for other people but court didn't dissolve the marriage because they do not have a reasonable ground.

The best way to get divorce is when there's assault that can put the other person's life in danger, or there's a case of infidelity, especially from the woman side, maybe she had a child while married outside wedlock.

The only place divorce is easy is Nollywood.

Kobojunkie:
Who told you all of this? You actually believe the court can stop a couple from getting a divorce if that is what they want?,

YES!

There are grounds that couples must be convincingly proven before a judge dissolves a marriage.

Even when couples has lived apart for years, the court still tell them to go and settle.

Go ask!

Well, court wont just divorce a couple like that nau.

Divorce is very difficult here in Nigeria and you see many couples breakup and even go ahead to cohabit with new partners and court wont still divorce them.

If she's not open to telling you what's wrong then let her go.

You cant force someone to love or care for you.

When your woman is complaining to you or telling you something getting her worked up, she expects you to also get angry at the situation and not just listen.

Something like, why would she have behaved like that? who does that? that is bad nau? You mean he did that? i hope you gave it to her hot? You see this reactions alone is enough, even though you don't have any solution in mind.

Men and Women are not wired the same and you have to understand that.

Relationships are like that.

You cant have the same tempo 24/7 as you'll get tired at a point.

However, it depends largely on the kind of partner you have. If they are fun loving, can blend easily and also looking for ways o make the relationship better, then you wont have too much of issues.

To keep the spark alive, try and learn new things to do with your partner. Go for walks, visit parks, zoos, cinemas etc.

Also learn something together, exercise together etc.

So what should PDP now do?

I think i look god too and its very annoying.

I am also very friendly and hardworking.

I got to my organization and got promoted in less than 2 years ahead of those i met there have been on the same level for 4 and more years.

They think i get this stuffs by my good looks, but does not know i take all my time to read, study the organization and come up with solutions that end up working for the organization. I have also spent a tone of money on the right certifications and all.

Even in the society, there are mixed feelings, some just hate you for looking good even though you didn't create yourself, while others also show love and compliment and expect you to respond in a certain way and they call you rude if you don't meet their expectations.

The only one solution is I DO NOT CARE! If you like and compliment me, i thank you and move on, if you say bad things to me, i smile and move on!

You have sold yourself.

Guys, never ever send money to a woman. You cant buy love and attention with money.

At best, she'll eat your money and run away.

Driving her emotions and building connection is the best way to get a woman and money is just about 20% of this.

Now that she has blocked you, move on with your life, get something doing, improve yourself, your income, your physique and she'll probably come begging.

When she does, show her small attention, pretend you are busy, hit her kongo and do small shakara.

Sometimes, this things can be hard, but its worth it.

SHALLOM

I do not see how Ameachi will win APC ticket talkless of General election

ArewaNorth:
They don't do child marriage but their children engage in adultery and prostitutions at tenage age

Sadly, child marriage is worse than rape.

Also there are more rape in societies that practices child marriage.

Honestly, this kind of stories make me sad.
Women and female children are really going through a lot in this country and as someone who has a daughter, I am always afraid of what the future holds.

You see irresponsible men everywhere demonizing and defiling this girls, especially people they trust.

One of the lessons i have been able to instill in women i know around me is never to loose guard, always be at alert and watch out for unfortunate people in the society who are always on the look to ruin lives, especially the so-called men of God who tell different ridiculous lies, when it is obvious GOD does not even exist.

What people don't also realize is that you do not need God or prayers or anyone to lay hands on you to become successful in life, what you need is smart work and perseverance.

A girl having the effrontery to type this when she clearly knows you are in that space is total disrespect.

I can assure you that the other guy could have bleeped or if he hasn't, its because he doesn't want to.

She's able to do all this because she knows you don't have the balls to leave, currently she controls the relationship and it looks like you are hopelessly in love.

I tell you, look for a way to give her the bleeping of her life and start using her to do shakara.

Stop calling and when she calls, form busy or when you answer, jokingly tell her to talk to her sweet friend that you are very busy.

Also, start giving attention to other babes too and hyping them, dress well and hangout, meet people and take beautiful pictures.

Her head go reset.

I'll tell you, sometimes you need violence to stop violence, and if you don't take that risk, it will be very difficult for you to stop it.

Most times, you can't talk bad people out of their bad behaviors, the best way to they learn is through a bitter experience and they'll never do that thing again

Next time she breaks anything, bring out some of her belongings and burn it. Then send her out to the house.

Let her beg at least 2 weeks before letting her return, if she Dosent turn a new leaf, send me a message I'll credit you 20k.

You also have to respect yourself and your union. I won't tell you not to cheat but please, try and be discreet and have some dignity.

Respect her, draw the line between your side babes and your family, caution yourself not to go above board.

Your side babe is a side babe and will remain a side babe, respect your wife!

The worst thing that can happen to a human being is not to know where they are not going.

You have to set principles and whoever breaks them should be adequately dealt with, which could be total withdrawal from the culprit.

Shalom!

Honestly, you no get work

I am interested in this.

Do this have limitations?

And how do I get this funds to my dorm account in Naija.

I have a fully functional e commerce store denominated in USD already.

I have heard first hand experience from my friend.

He bought a second hand one in Abuja, the thing almost killed his finances. He put it on sale after just 3 months at a giveaway price.

uniquetechng:
Thats another angle my brother, no one is above the order of the supreme court not even the president let alone a sitting governor.

I agree with you 100%

When anybody dies, they are dead and gone for good.

Nobody rises up to anywhere to inherit anything.

If human beings dies and go to heaven, where does the lives of Goats, lion and elephant goes to when they dies?

People have to understand that, only people who threats them well are the ones they owe loyalty.
The fact that someone gave birth to you does not mean they have automatic likeness and respect.

My late mum was somehow like that but not this worse. In her case, She can put you down, embarrass you and even curse you when you do what she don't like or she's angry.

I had to cut her off and stop all communications with her when all efforts to talk to her proofed abortive and heaven did not fall.

Put your mum is her place, reject all things that she brings to you that is not in tune with your personality and lifestyle.

Say your truth, tell your uncle how much she gave you and be free. Imagine your uncle comes back and see you in that sorry state and ask of the money he sent to you, what will be your defense? wont he think you cant manage resources?

uniquetechng:
In the US they have state police which is controlled by the Chief executive officer of the state (governor) which make them answerable to the governor unlike in Nigeria where we have federal police controlled by the president .

In the Nigeria the Inspector General of police is actually more powerful than a state governor as he takes orders from the president alone , even the state commissioner of police in Lagos state will wait for IG's directive before carryong out the order of the governor.

A sitting governor dont have the power to override order of the highest court of the land, The IG and the AGF in a case he is party to.

Sanwo-Olu goofed big time

Assuming the Governor even controls the Police, should will allow the supreme court judgement be disobeyed?

Even if the governor controls the police, an officer have the right to reject an order he thinks contradicts the dictates of the law.

LadyExcellency:
Which Governor has been arrested by US police amid all Executive rascalism?

Except on corruption, no State Executive can be arrested anywhere in the word for trying alternative dispute resolution.

According to Nigerian Constitution, the Governor has a final say on land in the State with good reasons and payments of compensation. Moreover, this issue was done by past military regime.

Seems you are ignorant of the law.
Alternative dispute resolution is when there is no pronouncement.

After a judgement has been pronounced, all alternative resolution id dead and buried, infact a court judgement is a law and can be quoted in other case as precedents.

Also, as an interested party in the a case who have lost, standing in the way of implementation is contempt of court that attracts jail term.

This is a case of a judgment that have been delivered years ago, the governor woke up from slumber to constitute nuisance.

NoSentiment:
Mr Reno, opposition is not madness. If you are so patriotic why don't you come back home and do the opposition politics here? Which economic prosperity was there in Nigeria when u people held sway?

Why should he come home? and you that is at home and intelligent, why not do it the proper way? abi you get leprosy?