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misreal:
the truth is, when your parents kick against your spouse.dont be quick to say they do not know what they are saying..
Except they are just being tribalistic, greedy or just bossy and picky.your parents advice shoudnt be ignored oh..

At least you get my point. I stated it there that I won't listen to them if they are being tribal about it.

sEGXY2:
I swear its not. I love too hard. That's my problem.

One thing is to identify the problem, another is to get the solution.

tomdon:
Wow five whopping kids and she still looked young and without kids. Are you kidding me??
How did having 5 kids wreck him. Your point is not valid

The five kids didn't wreck him. In fact the woman only came with one to live with him. The woman wrecked him. She had three kids for my uncle of which one was boy whom got shot to dead by cultist. He was a cultist tho. Her waywardness which got her kicked out of that first husband's house, wrecked my uncle.

Viicfuntop:
Mama’s boy is all I see here, justifying it by this post.

You say that like it's a disgusting.

CAPSLOCKED:
THE ONLY THING THEY'RE INTERESTED IN IS THE FAILURE OF THIS RELATIONSHIP, AND PEOPLE'S DOWNFALL IN GENERAL.
UNFORTUNATELY, THIS IS MORE THAN TROLLING. IT'S A TRUE REFLECTION OF THE MINDS OF THE AVERAGE NIGERIAN PEOPLE.

Tell me, who would be happy to see a girl bash men anyhow and still finds her heartrub amongst the men she bashed?

I'm happy a sister now have a man who will try to prove to her that men are different and thereby investing more and will never leave her. This is all psychological. I'm also glad I'm not that guy.

sotherefore:
how do I mention him.

You just did.

sotherefore:
Since i start reading ubunja miseducation it's always helpful to deal with my girlfriend and make me understand women psychology better...i just love reading his post but there are certain topic that when I open i saw ''POST REMOVE'' and nothing there to be found.... ..what could be the reason and is there anyway I can read the deleted post of ubunja ? where can I find them..kindly help with your suggestions.

Cutehector:
u afraid ur melons will fall off? and drop to ur knees?

I did not see this coming! And so did she.

funmisticqueen2:
men were never scum. I just never tolerated their crap

And for the last time!!

I was never a feminist

Who's next, Michellekabod2?

Fooking Feminist!

CosmicJames:
No amount of effort can save this situation. The reason is because women is a thing of the heart. It is not a thing of the head. The information you get goes to your head. But feelings is in your heart.
So no matter the level of information, there are people who can't handle women matter. For such people, they feel or see women as a big issue. And they act accordingly. Trying to help them is a waste of time.

Sometimes I wonder why people keep saying words like " Fear Women, You can't understand Women".

Usually, I'm like WTF!
The way to control external forces is to first control the once within yourself

Don't try to understand women. Understand yourself instead. That way, you will understand women. Another way is to let women try to understand you.

This is reverse psychology in action and it works every single time

Everyday we learn! Some don't.

Pls let this be a story.... Let it be a story

Pls let this be a story... Pls let it be a story..

Ashirawealthy2:
You miss road?

Do you have GPS?

Ashirawealthy2:
I'm not a lesbo.

Damn! I was looking for some rock paper and scissors.

MrBrownJay1:
its called LIFE, and just as much people listen to their parent's choices and FAIL MISERABLY...

True.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT ABOUT THOSE WHO ARE WRECKED AFTER FOLLOWING THEIR PARENTS ADVICE?

Not my problem! We were not talking about those one.

Ashirawealthy2:
Hi.

I need a sincere and mature guy with the follwing qualification for a serious relationship.

A working class or tycoon
A genuine born again Christian
Must be celibate
God fearing
Between 33 to 39.
Based in Lagos.. Island preferably
Clean and well groomed
Caramel or dark caramel in complexion
Must be tall or at least average and well built. .please if you're short don't pm me and then start begging me to accept you that way. I don't do short guys please.

Pm me if you're interested and please know that I have a loud online personality before sending me PMs.

Pm me.

I will listen to my parents especially my mom if she has a valid reason that has nothing to do with Tribalism.


My uncle when he wanted to get married brought home a woman who was very beautiful, but his mom refused saying she's a single mom with kids tho his mom was just seeing the woman for the first time. Long story short, my uncle went ahead with the marriage and today....! He is wrecked! By the same woman his mom warned him about. He's mom's late (rest her soul). Now my uncle just found out this year that his wife had five kids for the first husband.

Now tell me why I shouldn't listen to my parents?

Edyice:
Enjoy mate...

Apparently.

xendra:
I know some men would have learnt the hard way that all these are BS ...... you people claim all these work yet don't realise that's why cheating and divorce is rampant.

there is nnnnnooooooooo formula, if you are a nice guy keep being a nice guy so that all the ingrates can get out of your life till you find the one who appreciates niceness. this is how people end up with the wrong people

Actually you can convince a woman to feel different about you. either from disliking you to falling head over heels for you, or from loving you to totally hating the sound of your voice. It has happened and it is still happening

You are right in few places... One has to be him or herself to make things work and that's by being honest.

You can never make a woman who never had interest in you to ever consider you. No matter how much you later make or how you improve yourself, it never works in the long run. Now dating coaches who say this say it because they don't want you to get into trouble for trying to make a girl like you because at that point a man becomes vulnerable — he either gets reported for sexual harassment or worse gets manipulated and looted off his time money and energy. So to save yourself such you don't even try... But still you can tho. I still think one can change one's thoughts about himself... But in the end its not worth it so it's good not to even try in the first place.

That of being a nice guy, I will suggest they keep being nice and keep getting taken for granted whilst we who are not nice get to have enough younger females to go round... I heard there's scarcity of younger females amongst the nice guys.

Aydigital123:
I've spent the last several years figuring out how to be more successful with women and dating... and helping other guys do the same.

After reading all kinds of books, listening to tapes, I found that nothing that was "commercially available" seemed to actually WORK on a consistent basis.

This led me down a several-year-long path of learning, getting to know guys who were EXPERTS with women... and finally testing and refining what I learned to come up with a system that WORKS.

This is EXACTLY why I'm going to share WITH just has i do with my friends every couple of days, sharing MANY of the secrets I've learned about approaching women, starting conversations, getting dates, and taking things to a physical level easily and without rejection...



But for now, let's get to them...

Here come the top ten reasons why men fail with women - and how to make sure YOU avoid every one of these deadly common mistakes.


Now, I recommend that you really study these, because most men are making them RIGHT NOW and don't even realize it.



Here we go...



MISTAKE #1: BEING TOO MUCH OF A NICE GUY


Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here? It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.

And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.



MISTAKE #2: TRYING TO "CONVINCE" HER TO LIKE YOU

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you...

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, ever!

You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.

Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?

But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.


We Continue Tomorrow

You just had to arouse my interest and decided to continue tomorrow!

If guys don't know this trick which has been hidden in the open, they won't be interesting...

Nice trick there.

Michellekabod2:
You all claim ladies biological clocks are ticking and they don't have much time ,aren't we the ones to be worked up about marriage and dating since we are limited by nature? All this wailing threads,intensive studying of men/women psychology,learning how to be successful in relationships,swallowing capsules of red pill et Al ought to be done by ladies and not men.

I applaud all ladies for being strong and putting the men to shame even when they claim society and nature favors them and they yet wail profusely.

Suprising how one who claims to be going his own way and eschewing romantic relationships get aroused by any thread created for ladies.

Cancer researchers always meddle with cancer looking for it's cure. And there's no way a researcher can get the cure without meddling with that which he seeks it's cure.

CAPSLOCKED:
OH, DEAR!

So you see...! Op has got a point.

Edyice:
A dude and his profile happens to be a lady

What do you think?

Fountainofyouth:
Begun? What am I beginning? English and sense is far from you.

I'm not the thot here.

CAPSLOCKED:
ORDINARY PECK?
I'D PREFER A BOOBĮE SQUEEZE EVERY NOW AND THEN THO.

I do squeeze her boobs but it's when she does something deserving of it. Also I do go intimate with her too that's cause she deserves it for rubbing my back every now n then.

JONNYSPUTE:
..
I don't know when some of them will have sense.

They will never learn.

JONNYSPUTE:
...I ve to do that because I'm lost of words. Smh again

Stupid boys and their stupid theories for love. Always making thots feel fly.

Fountainofyouth:
Ayam not understanding, did I quote you? Perhaps you are on heat shémale, right? Or why the insults?You will be fine.

Begun thot

JONNYSPUTE:
..Smh.

No.. No.. He's got a point... I peck my girl for being loyal. It ain't much but it's enough.

Fountainofyouth:
Should there be a reward for loyalty? It's just like asking for reward for not contacting and spreading STDs.....

You hypocrite! You didn't see this in the op post bah? Ode

SqueezedPant:
What do you think about this?
Not easy dedicating half of their working days to we guys
Sometimes I would be at my working place and call her ,disturbing her with calls to ask about her day
Made me come to the conclusion that them being loyal to us at least deserves some kind of allowance at least?
Even footballers receive loyalty bonus
My opinion please

True, they deserve some allowance. You can pay in cash or kind. I'm for kind. I pay in kind. With pecks. I peck my girl for being loyal. It ain't much but it's enough..