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JONNYSPUTE:
.. Hahahaha. Why is she complaining? The man is a real man nah.

Idk oh... Woman no look before e jump, na when trouser don tear na im we no go hear word. No be wetin person see na im e go pursue?

Jeweltz:
This is the gist

My friend's mum is a single mother who was lucky to remarry and hook a business man, rich enough to send her on expensive vacation abroad and give my friend q better life, up till Masters degree. Everytimey friend tells me she misses her biological father, even till the point she started giving him money which he spend on women and beer ( this is the level of his irresponsible). My friend's elder brother brought was dating q single moms, but their mother objected him vowing to place curse on him if he decided to go forth with his plan of Marrying his single girlfriend.

[/b]My question was if marrying q single mom is a thing of pride, why did the mother objected having married as a single mom herself[b]

She knows what's up. She didn't marry that man because she loves him. She married that man because he can take care of her. And her son marrying a SM, she knew that single mom came for the cash and not love!

ubunja:
my own sister lived with a man for years, got a kid by him and got dumped. But she was smart enough to trace some old exBF who never really got over her. As we speak the lame guy has paid Bride price. I commend her for being smart. But then again should my young brother bring home a single mother I'll slap him so hard he would forget his name.

Jeweltz:
I like the fact that you're intelligent. I'm a woman and I understand the pain single moms go through whole raising their kids. That's why most single moms hook themselves with a man, at least rich enough, to help he raise the kid. I will not comment and side on terms that only complies and agree to women's manipulative whims. That's why I can't allow my brother to marry nor date q single moms. These single moms operate on manipulation and even the smartest man will find difficult to decode.

I like the fact you admitted something here which other females are finding it hard to admit to on a public forum like this... “... That's why I can't allow my brother to marry nor date q single moms...” once asked this question, they play smart to dodge it. They don't want their sons or brothers marry a single mom, yet they cajole other men into doing it. Yet they say “I'm neutral and don't belong to any side” and believe in “live and let's live”. I'm talking about you Michellekabod2.

ubunja:
they should all learn from Regina Daniels
The younger and prettier you are, The higher the quality of man you will get.

Regina Daniels conquered the second heart and used her real head. She didn't let her pussy rule her. She used her head to make herself comfortable for life!

Before eh I used to hate her. I hated her for what she did to Sorom... But after pleasures of the cash, I saw that her ex boyfriend shot himself in the leg. And I started loving her. She's the ideal woman I want my daughter to emulate.

Okmei3119:
Hello nlander

I had to open a new account because I am getting irritated by my husband not been able to make a decision or do anything without seeing me.He lacks self confidence
If he wants to open an account with a bank,I have to be seated with him right dere,if his boss rebuked him,I have to be dere to beg his boss,if he makes a mistake,I have to be dere to clean up this mess over and over and over again.

What got me really irritated was when we were about paying for our new apartment and I was at engrossed with work at the office,I told him to pay the landlord since he was off duty,he insisted he didn’t know what to say and I should be seated beside him,I was so disappointed.I had to do all the talking that day when we got to the landlords.He doesn’t invest his money,he spends lavishly and when he is broke,he gets so angry at me if I tell I invested mine.

How would I build him to be a man who can be confident in himself and make decisions without I always seated to boost his ego,I love him but I don’t like weak men

Whoops, you married a man baby... And boy with mommy issues! You are gonna have to be his mother for the rest of the marriage. The way you will want your son to do something, you will do the same to him. And if your son refuses you punish him. Do the same to your husband.

Ciao

BethRichie:
Here we go again, learning the correct spelling of what we all thought to be right!

At some point in our life, we have misspelt or rather still misspell most English words!

It's true that institutions mustn't teach us everything but we continue to learn on daily basis!

So the correct spelling is Fez Cap not Face Cap.


What English words do you normally misspell or pronounce wrongly?


Source
http:///s43e53f34200222en_ng

And people like me are calling it fes cap.

ubunja:
women's greatest enemy is TIME. They must make maximum use of it. Every year after 25 they lose value. A man a woman can get at 21 won't even look her at 31.

They fail to acknowledge this. Once they do, women will be landing commissioners, senators, men of higher status than locking up with small boys who won't improve their life. If I was a woman, I will be the best gold digger there is.

At age 19 I'm scanning for those rich dudes. @21 I'm either married to a senator's son or the senator himself.

MadeINchenzen2:
Ladies: Mid/late 20's & U're Still Dating A Guy For 5 Yrs, U Are On Your Own!
On a more serious note. It dosent make any sense!

Why will I date a nigga longer than 12 months. I mean I don't have all the time durrh!

Hook him up. Make him spend on you... I think ubunja said it all.

Fasindo:















I would have agreed with the man but I won't.

My experience with Aisha from Jigawa and Ruqawatu made me to disbelieve him. Northern girls can be incompetent in everybody but not in Kerewa.
They can handle man in other room more than how Shekau handles Boko haram.

It was how Safinatou my Kanuri girlfriend that made me start doing Buhari style with her, I will just be on top her doing nothing

You must be trained by the great NwaAmaikpe

Why blast her or support her? Nothing says “you are more foolish” more than silence. Both those blasting her and her are stupid.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHY SHOULD THE WORLD NOT TAKE US FOR GRANTED?

And he complicated his gender again.

Somzee:
So because she's 33 years that means OP is settling for less?
Your reasoning is really laughable. I guess it's the average Nigerian men mentality.

@Op getting married to a younger woman doesn't guarantee happiness, you wear the shoe and knows how it fits. Think through it and know exactly what you want and go for it.

Marriage is like a wrapped gift, only after you've opened up would you know what's in the package, just pray to get married to a good and understanding woman while being a great man.

Yes because she's 33 and older than him, op is settling for less. And it is not the average Nigerian man mentality.

Yes getting married to a younger woman will not guarantee happiness and neither is getting married to an older woman. How can op get married to someone 2yrs older than him? How can she be submissive to him? There things that will happen, the woman will want to prove to him that she was 2yrs before he arrived into this world. You don't things like this and later blame devil or the woman if later she doesn't submit to him. Most times when you think you've picked the perfect shoe, you find out you will out grow it quickly. I agree with the next line and last paragraph.

Way too long. And boring.

doggedfighter:
And he's not been able to tell us why he opened the thread. You caught him off guard

Leave the ode. No be today we start work.

truthsayer009:
Let's be realistic, if she had found a Man who is wealthy enough since 25, Shouldn't she be married by now? You women are always funny with your thought process. Reality is, not every Woman will be lucky to marry a Rich man, some will be stuck with Broke men

WOMEN! All about wealth wealth wealth.

It is not my business she couldn't get a husband in her 20s. This guy, shouldn't waste his time too. He can hustle and get married by 35 it's not late. BTW hustle no be only government work. He can do better than that woman he's with rn. He shouldn't settle for less.

doggedfighter:
Omar ooooooop. You will kill someone with laugh. PMs to collect sure odds to become millionaires

It was hidden in the story. You could pass that off as a romantic story. Gullible people will see the 5.6m won through betting. Then relationship experts will be busy giving out advice to something that didn't exist. It was a state of the art marketing techniques.

Godoverevery:
Hmmm.......we are adults and I don't think I could have done anything beyond just telling her I don't like it

Did you think of telling her that any time she brings up her ex again, she will go back to them and you are leaving her? Is it just enough to show you are angry?

Women behave like four year olds. When they disobey or misbehaves, they need to be punished. You don't just tell a four year old you are angry... The child wouldn't understand. You have to put up punishment for every time she disobeys.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon guys.
my fiancée really got me really angry over the weekend and I don't know if I over reacted.
A Normal me isn't d jealous thing but I don't know why ds got on my nerves.
The issh is she talks about her ex on several occasions.....I have told her once I don't like we talking about our ex's
so after a good time we were relaxing den she started talking about D's guy again (mentioning is name) saying how he could have sex all day long ....how he does hard sex and didn't like it ....how she is very sure one of d guy ex want him really back cos of d sex...I was really mad hearing all D's
I told her point blank she have only left d guy physically but emotionally she is still attached to him.....I also told her am sure she doesn't love me D same way she loved him
she denied all D's .... arguement broke out and we have spoken since den.
so am rite here thinking did I over reacted??

How dare you be lazy with your words?

You overreacted bro. You should have warned her sternly of this particular behavior the first time she exhibited it. Note it is one thing to warn, it's also another to state the consequences that follows if warning is not hid to. Unfortunately, most guys only end at just warning. The few who state the consequences don't actually stand by it because, most times they say what they can't do.

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

A wise man knows the best business to invest in. How can you tell a 33yo lady to wait for you so you can have something doing? It's not fair. You have to let this lady go. In fact you should encourage her to go out there and date other people who are wealthy enough to carter for her. You are not ready. Let her go!

Na wa oh. I know a lot of guys who do these. They call it being romantic. I call it being stupid.

[quote author= post=86922950][s]Just for today alone,
You have quoted our posts 27 times.
You see us in your nightmare aight?
Get well soon o. [/s][/quote]Just getting the hang of this tool.

[quote author= post=86922366][s]Brb.....

Before then,
Again,
We are not him, his, he.
We are simply WE.
Kindly take note ma![/s][/quote]Just for the fun of it.

Michellekabod2:
If minors get to see her she and her client(s) should be punished as sex offenders

Tomorrow now person will hear... Accept me the way I am. And let's not talk about the past.


Filthy woman! (not you Michellekabod2)

Honestly I am against deadbeat fathers. It is very difficult to a raise a child alone. Every woman should be sure whom they wanna get it with.

Came4amod:
If u find it hard to differentiate men and women when writing I don't sorry

That is not the issue here

praiseneo:
i de shame for u o I swear

Tor

Michellekabod2:
Buttresses my point that a child that age is innocent but the parents are to be blamed for any behavior they put up.
Its obvious the mom is the one that encourages his stubbornness by refusing to discipline him. She will pay dearly for it-losing a potential spouse.

It has nothing to do with whether he is the Op biological kid,she will still have refrained him from disciplining the child if it were his own kid.

She will do it more subtly than how she's doing now.

Martinez39s:
Correct guy. I now see the wile. Very soon, gullible people will start calling and paying him to help them predict scores.

Which other way to get them customers to patronise you if not working on their emotions by putting up a love story.

CAPSLOCKED:
THERE ARE SOME CRAZY KIDS. WE CAN ALL AGREE WITH THIS?
YOU'LL OFTEN HEAR MOTHERS SAY "IF TO SAY NO BE ME BORN THIS PIKIN EH... "
EVEN MOMS GET TIRED OF THEIR OWN ROUGH KIDS . I DON'T BLAME THIS MAN.

My mama deh even talk for my side sef. Sometimes she go be like... I no sure say na me born you! Tueh!

Martinez39s:
Now, why did the op feel the need to open this thread?

To advertise his correct score. You no understand? Aboli na sense! Weedsdom no go kee me.