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RomanceRe: The Truth. by Omar09(op): 9:11pm On Mar 01, 2020
Ekejoestar:
Love have lost its value in this generation and i think thats why everyone comes up with a relationship survival tactics.. If u truly love someone and they love u in return then u dont need all this gospel! A lady will respect u wilfully and u will love her wholeheartedly, u wouldnt nid to command her respect by applyin the 48 laws of power... Commitment and love is the first requirment
A lady can never respect a man willfully, the man has to command respect. The generation you thought love was what it was, men commanded respect naturally without doing much whilst the women loved naturally. These generations has nothing but wimps as men. You can imagine a man of over 60yrs let his wife and kids insult his own sister, Ada for that matter in his very presence and he couldn't do anything, now tell me how that respect will flow naturally?
RomanceRe: The Truth. by Omar09(op): 5:06pm On Mar 01, 2020
BestAccessories:
For a relationship to work, it requires work from both parties.

You can't be rigid and expect a working relationship with others.

You need to be flexible, even in interpersonal relationships, friendship or sexual relationship.

You cannot always win, you have to make some amendment here and there if you want to make it work.

Guys want to be respected, ladies want to be loved and cherished.

From the get go, both parties need to show their true colours, don't pretend to like what you don't because you want him or her to like you.

If you wouldn't condole a shit, let him/her know that he/she wouldn't take this shit. You can't reject a shit you tolerate now later in the relationship.

If you respect your guy, you wouldn't be late giving flimsy excuses for your lateness. Yes, some situations can be outside your control that make you late and he also need to give you benefits of doubt to listen to your explanation for your lateness.

If there was an unusual traffic delay, an accident, your ride default mechanical fault (if you drive), your cab (Uber, bolt or regular taxi) cause the delay etc. Situation outside your control, things you can't influence or do something to rectify. That's understandable.

But you can't keep giving excuses every time, it show that you shouldn't been taken serious.

In all, communication and understanding is key in building a working relationship.

Also don't expect too much in every relationship.
Excellent Best, but I am talking about commanding respect. And I did state that for a relationship to function properly both parties have to realize their work and do it properly. Most men have failed in this generation by looking for love from women when they should have gone for their respect.
RomanceRe: Yeiiii....finally I Met My Prince Charming!!!!! by Omar09(m): 4:58pm On Mar 01, 2020
Ladylite:
And end up like you.

Oloshi
I don't remember calling you names dumb dumb.
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Predicted Coronavirus 15 Years Ago by Omar09(m): 1:35pm On Mar 01, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I SHOULD THROW A PARTY WHERE HE WILL PUBLICLY CONFER THE TITLE ON ME.
Put invitations everywhere! I mean it's gotta be a big one! I've got friends!
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Predicted Coronavirus 15 Years Ago by Omar09(m): 1:23pm On Mar 01, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I NEVER KNEW. JUST FOUND OUT FROM THAT USER'S MENTION. LOL. WHAT CAN I DO?
Be happy for your new found sexual orientation.
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Predicted Coronavirus 15 Years Ago by Omar09(m): 1:12pm On Mar 01, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
ALL THIS FOR ME? cheesy
You didn't tell me you was gay. Hmm.
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah Witness Predicted Coronavirus 15 Years Ago by Omar09(m): 1:11pm On Mar 01, 2020
Mshad662:
YOU ARE A GAY. YOU ARE BEING FUC*ED THROUGH YOUR ANUS YOU IDIOT.
YOU ARE NOT WORTHY OF MENTIONING THE NAME OF JEHOVAH YOU DISGUSTING THING.

MAY GOD KILL YOU FOR YOUR WRONGING DOING. FOOL
This is why they keep playing with the name of Jesus. Because we play with it knowingly and unknowingly. Ever seen them mention Mohammed anyhow? Get a grip of yourself you disgust me for being the one who detects who is worthy to call the name of Jehovah.
RomanceThe Truth. by Omar09(op): 1:07pm On Mar 01, 2020
Everyone these days have turned into relationship experts dishing out advice which sometimes works whilst other times makes whoever put it to work a f00l. But I have come to share the truth with whoever that cares to listen and reason with me.

Most times to make a relationship work it always depends on the party involved. I mean a heterosexual relationship and not a homosexual relationship (Ps I don't have anything against homosexuals, I have put the TRUTH to work in a heterosexual relationship and I am not homo to see if it work in a homosexual relationship). When two parties are involved in a sexual relationship, that relationship works of both parties understand their role. If a man understands that his role is gain the respect of his partner and a woman is to gain the love of her partner, you see that the relationship flourishes. What are the roles?

MEN LOVE and WOMEN RESPECTS
As a man, you should learn to earn the respect of your woman cause you can't just walk up to a woman say to her you must respect me. It's not done. You have to make them understand that you need to be respected by your behavior towards them. Remember you can not control the nature of others, but you can control your behavior towards them and how they behave towards you.

Lets talk about how to gain that respect.
There's this saying that goes Respect is reciprocal. Well I think those who use these phrase don't have any respect to give hence can't receive any. The right phrase should have been first respect yourself then others will respect you because how you treat yourself determines how others treat you.

To make your woman respect you isn't that hard if you are a principled man and is not willing to drop your principles for whatever reason that may come up.

For instance, you see something you do not like in your lady, like the fact your lady doesn't answer your call immediately or she keeps you waiting at the venue of your date. There three types of reactions to this default or rather sh!t test.

A) some guys will pretend they are cool with this rather than say how they feel (these are the weak men)
B) some will talk about how bad they feel but will do nothing about it and will keep talking as long as it keeps repeating itself
C) some will go straight to taking actions without even saying how bad they feel.

The 'A' guys who will rather not say anything even tho they are hurt are the weak guys and women will never respect such men. They can never be taken seriously by women which is very bad.
The 'B' guys, I call them dogs. A toothless bull dog. That's what they are. They can go on and on rambling how bad they feel about that default without doing anything.. More like nagging. And tbh it will piss me off if I was a woman. The 'C' guys almost got it but missed it.

How do one handle such situations and similar? Don't just stop at being angry at that default and talking about it. Always attach a punishment to it repeating itself again and stand by it no matter what. Also don't say what you can't do. If you call her and she doesn't answer on time and you are pissed off, warn her about it, don't stop there, tell her if she does it again, you'd stop calling and maintain it. It's not enough to warn someone about something, always attach a punishment to defaulting it again!


Martinez39s. Ubunja. Hazard7
RomanceRe: Yeiiii....finally I Met My Prince Charming!!!!! by Omar09(m): 11:36am On Mar 01, 2020
AshiraWealthy:
Guys, sorey this is coming late.
Yeah so we finally met and it was awesome.
We had fun and a very good time we didn't want to part ways (I guess that's a good sign).
He's just perfect grin
He's intelligent and caring. I mean very caring.


Please ma ladies, shine your eyes well oo. There are good guys here who due to tight schedule may not have the time to meet a girl offline or out there in the public but the little time they dash in here is a golden opportunity you have to make use of.

If someone told me I'll ever meet such a caring soul here I may never have believed but with faith I did the unthinkable and here I am today feeling lucky.

It went well. We took lovely couples pics but like I said earlier, my kanye west doesn't like publicity stunts. So not uploading it. Sowiii guys.

Thanks for all your good wishes. It highly appreciated.
Stay frost baby..
RomanceRe: Yeiiii....finally I Met My Prince Charming!!!!! by Omar09(m): 11:34am On Mar 01, 2020
Ladylite:
This is amazing.

You have broken the record and will keep breaking it. Congrats. Now apply all the relationship principles and wisdom you have learned and get the ring on your finger and become a full fledged Mrs.

I celebrate with you dear.
Relationship principles and wisdom learned from you or others? Hell nah! She should be herself and do herself and not listen to y'all.
RomanceRe: I Love Him But Just Dont Want Sex Now by Omar09(m): 9:35am On Mar 01, 2020
blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?
You can't say you don't like beans and still go ahead to buy bean pudding (moi moi). It is not done. You don't want beans therefore you should also avoid the bean cake (akara), bean pudding and anything that has beans in it.

Ciao
RomanceRe: by Omar09(m): 9:01am On Mar 01, 2020
ZikZikZik:
Thats the funny thing, all of a sudden nobody is coming to Nigeria according to him. For over two months now
Bro stick to DHL.
RomanceRe: The Illusion Of Beauty (dont Go Head Over Heels) by Omar09(m): 10:42pm On Feb 29, 2020
rlauncher:
Those women in the pix are not ugly. It is their lack of confidence without make-ups that makes them appear so. Beauty flows from the heart.
Money also flows from the heart. How lovely!
RomanceRe: The Illusion Of Beauty (dont Go Head Over Heels) by Omar09(m): 10:37pm On Feb 29, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
post your pics nigga! its not rocket science.

you are about as elegant as an olosho!

now you are being asked to put your money where your mouth is, and your balls are shrinking.

what else was i expecting? can anything good come from you?


you know what i just realized, your threads are a desperate cry for help. you feed off validation from others. unfortunately, therapy is not free.


you need to face yourself and ask God why he made you so unattractive to the opposite sex.
So much energy!
FamilyRe: Advice For Single Guys About Marriage by Omar09(m): 10:34pm On Feb 29, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT DO YOU NEED BOOKS FOR WHEN THERE ARE REAL LIFE REASONS EVERYDAY?
Some are blind enough not to see the real life reasons. They gotta read it and I've got some money to make.
RomanceRe: What Would Make Ladies 30 & Above Yet To Get Married? by Omar09(m): 7:53pm On Feb 29, 2020
yanabasee:
At the bolded....Every man can distinctively tell a woman that's homely and that can only be used for sexual urge...
you make this sound easy. Not all men can distinctively tell a woman that's homely or not. In fact most men are stupi.d when it comes to that. Just few.

if a woman can easily and seductively turn a man on....then she's going to be a sex-pet...to the men.
it is those who can seductively turn a man on gets the most chance of landing a man as a husband as most men think through their pee pee.

A woman who wants to build a home sees through a man that can actualize such dreams. And they often settle down very quick.
Not all women. As most women get married to deadbeat dads, abusive men and immature ones. It takes a whole lotta skills to determine one who will help actualize your dreams and vision.
FamilyRe: Advice For Single Guys About Marriage by Omar09(m): 7:45pm On Feb 29, 2020
I've got books on how to not get married.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Couples Who Met On Social Media Share Their Beautiful Love Stories by Omar09(m): 7:18pm On Feb 29, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
EDITOR IN CHIEF IS ISHILOVE. THAT ONE DE CLOCK 56 NEXT MONTH. cheesy
You must be good to decode the message.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Couples Who Met On Social Media Share Their Beautiful Love Stories by Omar09(m): 7:17pm On Feb 29, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
EDITOR IN CHIEF IS ISHILOVE. THAT ONE DE CLOCK 56 NEXT MONTH. cheesy
Ah!

**Jaw drops**
RomanceRe: She Denies Me Sex But Sleeps With Everyone Else by Omar09(m): 7:13pm On Feb 29, 2020
jamesxay:
Hello everyone, I'm kinda puzzled and feel I could pour my heart on this thread concerning what I've been facing.
Tbh I couldn't get much information from your write up. It looked like you were in war against yourself. I mean you don't want to date her, you don't want to di.ck her, yet you go into romance with her... I mean who does that?

This is a story of a jobless man. Read this keenly and take it to heart, it will help in you life.

1. If you have a principle and or standard, uphold it. What do I mean, you said you didn't like dating or sexing anyone whom you live in close proximity with or will always have to see to avoid familiarity and all what not as in your neighbors, office mate and or school colleagues. That is a principle. You should never break it no matter what.

2. You don't start what you can't finish. You don't say you are romancing a girl with no intention of fvcking her afterwards. It shows how a weak man you are.

3. It is better you apologize for trying to bang her and she refused than to apologize for being a gentlemen. And it best not to even apologize for trying to bang her and she refuses.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Couples Who Met On Social Media Share Their Beautiful Love Stories by Omar09(m): 6:41pm On Feb 29, 2020
pocohantas:
The more they realize I am not what they wish I am, the angrier they get.

I will still be that girl you wish I wasn’t.

I will go to another beach and I will create more threads, I will put my sexy self and you will be in PAINS! Yes youuuu!

grin
Good evening darling... Saw you in the news today. You made the paper
FamilyRe: What Would You Do If You Get To Know The Child Is Not Yours by Omar09(m): 6:35pm On Feb 29, 2020
crackkhaus:
8years is too long to be this foolish.

Every man is supposed to do DNA tests within the first two years, and if he don't match...then he ought to tell his whorë of a wife to take the child to the father or better still, move in with the man responsible.

There's no sensible reason for any woman to remain married to a man whom she gave the product of her infidelity to raise as his own, none at all.

It's an abomination.
Immediately the child is born before signing on that child's birth certificate. Nothing like within the first two years... In the western world, once pended signature on the birth certificate before checking DNA and it turns out its not your child, you will pay alimony once divorced.
RomanceRe: 10 Reasons Y Ladies Must Marry Between Late 20s And Early 30s by Omar09(m): 5:49pm On Feb 29, 2020
Skepticus:
grin grin

And also, Hugh Hefner and Leonardo DiCaprio.

Leonardo DiCaprio has a rule: "As a high-value man either in wealth or potential, never date or marry above 25.

Hugh Hefner (high value PÎMP) in his 50's dated a girl that was 22. The girl told him that " I have never dated a man above 24". Hefner replied "Me too" grin grin

Only a man at the top cadre of the sexual market know the deal.
They don't know nothing.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Confronts Husband's Side Chick For Having Anal Sex With Him (video by Omar09(m): 4:20pm On Feb 29, 2020
Blu03:
I learnt the word from Omar09. And you...
tongue
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Chilling 40-year-old Book PREDICTED 'wuhan Biological Weapon' by Omar09(m): 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
WE WATCH XVIDS INSTEAD BRO.
Step mom and step sis doing it.
RomanceRe: 10 Reasons Y Ladies Must Marry Between Late 20s And Early 30s by Omar09(m): 4:08pm On Feb 28, 2020
ubunja:
Give us the facts then. Why did Ned marry Regina? For her intelligence? Her financial maturity? Her education?
Ned specifically told me he's a thigh and leg guy. It's Regis leg that caught Ned off guard!
RomanceRe: I’m Not Controversial I Am Just Too Pretty by Omar09(m): 2:32pm On Feb 28, 2020
Nmezor:
No u know so
Are you sure?

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