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praiseneo:

All we need now is the artists to put this into play. I like the storyline.

Modified

Nice way to advertise your correct score. I didn't see this at first. Hope you are enjoying the PMs.

CAPSLOCKED:
THE HIGHEST OF IT WAS WHEN THE GIRL, 3 AT THAT TIME CREATED THE STORY OF ME RUBBING HER WITH MY GENITALS. .

I have finally discovered his gender! I have finally discovered CAPSLOCKED gender! He's a dude, guys! He's a dude!


Yeah at least you get my point being that op couldn't tolerate that kid cause it's not his biological kid and this is the problem most men face when married to SM.

internationalman:
My brother just live and enjoy your life the way it pleases you.

Some of us, if we can turn back the hands of time, we would make the same mistake again..

The mistakes we make when young are what shaped us into what we are today.

I would definitely go back in time just to watch myself do those mistakes again. I'll pause, rewind and slow it down just to make sure I learned another thing from that mistake.

Mood11:
*I believe you are a guy, if you find a woman who wants to be with you, keep her.

@20, like how do y'all get them women who wants to stay with y'all?

CAPSLOCK I'm lost here.

Came4amod:
U should be blocked on this platform .. u r just derailing a simple issue .. no lady will talk like this .. its obviously a young immature guy

And for this post na you be the mumu

So ladies have a pattern of how the write?
I mean have you seen husband.snatcha and MissGhosted write on this forum? Or you seen poca.hontas write? These three don't write like how you envisioned ladies write.

On derailing a simple issue.... Y'all too scared to admit to yourselves that op couldn't tolerate that little boy because he is not his kid.

I think you should be intimate with yourself. It releases pressure.

Michellekabod2:
Its hilarious indeed,is there anything like a good or bad little child? How can a normal person have problem with a four year old kid....??

To be honest the Op needs to seek mental help(this ain't normal). A four year old kid??
That means he can't live with a wife,he isn't fit for marriage because after a month he will have issues with her.

He should let this lady go,its not by force to marry her.

But be rest assured that whoever he gets married to subsequently with will have issues with him . if you can't stand a four year old kid can you stand a nagging wife?

This is abnormal. A four year old kid?chai

I don't know if y'all failed to see the problem here or chose to ignore it.

That kid isn't his! That is why he is finding it difficult to tolerate him. Putting the kid at more risk of traumatized childhood and resentment for fathers (step father).

This is why I do not support men marrying SM. It doesn't end well for either of the three. On rare occasions does it end well, and check very well, the man na mumu for that marriage if it ends well.

crackkhaus:
You understood him I see.

Are the soldiers real or in his head?
What has the church got to do with it?

Took the question right out of my mouth.

Martinez39s:
Don't mind her. She and other obnoxious trolls should be paid no attention. On my thread below, you needed to see how she and diğmygold (aka lilwetdićk) were insulting and cursing me (from pg 10-12) because of the memes I posted on my thread. I wonder what she will achieve with her information on Ubunja. Will it affect the validity of Ubunja's messages? NO! Do we redpill men care about her information? NO! Just leave her to waste her time.


https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get

I just hope you guys are getting the picture here. These lots are not after bringing down ubunja. It's bad for their business. Why did I say so? Their biggest aim is ATTENTION and they will do everything to get it. Taking ubu.nja down will dry the well up. That's why they feel comfortable bringing up fallacy claiming it's the truth and they know fully well that ubu.nja will not fret or fidget about the whole issue. They need their opium(attention) and Ub.unja is their supplier. They love him more than any other guys ub.unja have helped. They know this.

Frankly ubunja knows this. Hence his silence.

ityP:
You were the one blaming her husband, even she didn't do that. Follow the advice so you don't go blaming your husband when the marriage don tire you

I'm a dude. If you read right, I said I will go out of the way and do what others didn't do. Besides I knowingly blamed the husband so that men will learn not to force themselves on women. It's not proper. That's the end result. These days a typical marriage/relationship is “a man forcing himself on a woman (cause of her beauty) and the woman reciprocating with forcing herself to love the same man (maybe he's rich)”. It doesn't end well. I passed a message, only those who needed it will see it before opening this thread.

Escabado:
I wonder how an able body girl with two working hands , a graduate will be idel, broke,Lazy and be happy when a man pays her Bills and she is comfortable with it, she will tell the man to be taking care of her and be giving her money. Does it mean you as a woman is useless to yourself and your Generation. Does it mean you can't work to feed yourself and pay your Bills ? You girls needs serious orientation, I wonder what una mother teach una say man be ooo.
If you Dash me any Nigerian girl free I will reject it,I don't answer there greetings anymore because the next thing is Billing will start

Guys what do you have to say

If you understand the female psyche, you won't be complaining. The problem is not them, problem is how you react to their behavior.

You can't control their flaws, but you can control how you behave towards them and how they behave towards you.

ubunja:
let's head over to the desert.

I'm bringing Mo' et and a chair. You bring the umbrellas.

ubunja:
let's exchange noods and see.

I wanna see dunes.

husbandsnatcha:
...Do you see y me and my ladies forever sisters kill these men in so many ways , curse be on the calm girls who talk and no action,
.... Just last month a dick was chopped off in Siberia Soviet region,isn't it great? Hahahah ahaha

Have you seen MissGhosted?

ubunja:
and even the whole group of friends will get screwed by the same guy. Rotating them. Smh.

And a bunch of hos come here on nairaland to cuck shame males into marrying one. That's very low. Before I went red pill, I never liked dating a single mom or even marrying one. Never nursed that idea.

ubunja:
question is why do women have babies with unproductive men who end up absconding? Aren't we all told women are good judges of character etc plus they have intuition yada yada?

I will not advise any man to take the chance and raise another man's kid. Myself I was raised by a step father as well but it's cause my father died when I was about 4. Even then taking on the duties of fathering another man's offspring is not something I will let my brother or son do.

They will tell you it's love. Some will add "at first sight". And others will tell you they don't know the future whereas they were dumb enough to ignore the signs which they could have used to pass a better judgment on the future.

XhosaNostra:
Go fùck yourself.

With pleasure

Dande55:
No, he's unfit. He's only good in the eyes of his fellow villagers and rabbid dogs online followers who guzzle on his sperm and breathe through his anùs.
I believe I've given you the attention you've wanted. Now, buzz off my mention.
Thank you.

If you are feeling special for replying me, just remember the word "special" is used for people with autism.

Dande55:
I know right.
Well, I'm not a misandrist, I'm just giving these 1diot$ what they deserve.
Thank God you realised yourself on time.
I don't have any problem with red pill whatsoever, I have a perfect gentleman in my life.
I used to believe that red pill is meant to encourage men to be emotionally strong and financially independent which every human ought to seek for. But that simpleton here and his goons, have shamelessly, turn the meaning of red pill into bitterness, misogyny, manipulating teenagers, encouraging raping of young women, encouraging laziness just like their jobless leader Ubuntu who's a known jobless old man on this forum and also, telling young boys of 12-18 years on how to fully depend on women and coogars, supporting violence against women et al.

That's not what redpill stands for and I wonder why the mods keep letting these hate grow on this forum.

After saying the bolded, do you feel good about yourself? Cause you just bloated out a lie.

Dande55:
What other purpose do you have in life apart from producing smelly and regurgitating litres of sperm?

What, so you've gulped it before, in litres to know? You da MVP

Martinez39s:
Bow your head and let's pray for the beta cucks.

Lord! May they continue to be beta cucks so that us alpha will have the realest of all women amen.

XhosaNostra:
Wena you like talking kak. Had a man with balls stepped up & raised YOU right, I'm sure you'd have turned out differently. Not this embittered, wretched soul you are now, who obviously wasn't nurtured as a child. No amount of impregnating women & seeing them as conquests is going to fix what's fùcked up with you. While you fancy yourself a coach, what you actually need is a couch to sit on with a good therapist...& a condom. Very important. No jizzing off, spreading your faulty seed around

You really should take your own advice.

Arthur21:
I know what influence female bullying can have. Its definitely not to be seen called pick mesha by those hags

Why can't they stand out of the crowd?

Dande55:
Anyone who knows you on this forum knows that you ain't shìt. The figment of your imaginations is on the high level. A love Lorn, lonely broke lazy shabby thing like You, that has nothing working in his life other than day dreaming and jacking off with plenty omo will always worship the both the beta and simp men when you all come across offline. Keep making yourself feel better online, cos we know what you are offline.

You didn't have to write an epistle only to end it with you know him offline.

Arthur21:
since her fellow ladies bullied her into being strictly pro-woman ,I noticed her tone of conversation was more like compensating for the ladies to feel among and be respected by the sisterhood.

You know how it works,if you aren't ass licking your fellow female anus they will accuse you of seeking male validation.

It all happened after her encounter with the witch Funmi,she had to add "F" to her moniker just like Omar09 noticed.

She said she do things because she wants to and not because others are... So she keeps trying to believe.

Martinez39s:
I'm in my house, come and beat me.

Martinez39s:
No kee yourself on top football matter. Ronaldo is an exceptional player, no doubt, but Messi is the best. I didn't disrespect Ronaldo. We can agree to disagree.

Choose the time and place you want to die!

eni4real:
People just like this Dubai d'or winner!!

Martinez39s:
I am Man Utd fan and naturally a Ronaldo fan. However, if we must say the truth, Messi is better than Ronaldo and he is the best player on planet Earth. Shikena

Bro, talk that thing again and two of us will fight.


How dare you disrespect Cr7?

You want to die?

MissGodOwn:
It's not only women who manipulate men, men manipulate woman too, stop making men always look like the victims here.

I couldn't agree more. A lot of men engage in manipulation but they don't know about it. But remember manipulation is a two way street. You can't be manipulated if you don't have the intention and or wants to manipulate anyone.

Starz825:
Pls nairalanders, let's hear your view.... what are the reasons why a lady wouldn't want Commitment even if she claims to love you??

The reason a lady wouldn't want commitment even though she loves you is because, she doesn't see you as a man rather her female best friend.

If you are a man that isn't certain or is very emotional, a woman will love you, but she will love you like she loves her female friends and not like how she will love a man whom she deems fit for commitment. What do I mean?
As a man you lost your job, and you came home and started whining to your girlfriend of how mean your boss was and how you lost the job. And then you ended it with “.. Now I don't know what to do”. How do you think your girl friend will see you, as her fellow girl. Because it's girls who whine and end each whine with I don't know what to do. And they say that to a man whom they deem fit will give an idea or better still help her figure out an idea to solve the solution. And now instead of being the solution, you became the whiner... Do you think she will be turned on by you? Hell no!

She expects you to after blabbing of how you lost the job say and do “.. tomorrow I'd go look for another job”. That will make her want to be committed with you because you are steadfast. You understand your role as a man, and you don't and can't switch roles with a woman.


Cc. Martinez39s, Ubunja, emmaodet, pansophist

ityP:
Marriage is a two man race. If one party isn't interested, let the other know. Don't start blaming him or her that she or he pushed you into it. No one can truly sense who loves him or her, we cant read hearts. So yes, it's all on her. If she had said no initially and he still pushed for the union, na different thing. Let's learn to hold people accountable please and stop throwing blames. I only blame the man for still staying put in that hell hole. I for don run 6 months after I noticed she was distant. Again, like I said, marriage is not a thing of attraction or love. It's a binding contract that two people have signed. If she wants to make the marriage work, she can. Unfortunately, she isn't interested in this union or any union for that matter.

This should be directed to the OP not me. I am not the one with the problem.

ityP:
The moment you realize that love plays only a very minute fraction in marriage, the better for you. Even if she married that ex she claims to love, this same woman would not be satisfied. Las las, marriage is not for everybody and clearly, it isn't for this lady

Attraction is different from love. And I never made love my major point. Read and understand ubunja, you guys will not. Ubunja said something on chosen. And that chosen is based on attraction. It was obvious that the man chose the OP and the OP did not make it clear to him that it won't work. Read my first comment on this issue with understanding, then come back.

Everyone was blaming the girl, but no one blamed the man. If the man knew better, will he further his quest on landing a heart that isn't there? I blame the man for not seeing things that boldly said HE SHOULD HAVE REMAINED FRIENDS WITH HER and not marry her. He chose her and this is where it took him. It took him to a place where he has to fight constantly to validate her love for him and also validate his love for her. A tough battle if you asked me. Assuming the OP chose him, she wouldn't be here and that family will be a happy union.