₦airaland Forum

Ataegbiti:
Stop and reason like a sensible 21st century human being. People, human beings, not cattle, have the right to move any where. And even with People, barging into my house/property uninvited is trespass.
You allow cattle to graze untamed, eat up farmer's crops, compact the soil, chase out wild game that we hunt, and you put that a par with the Fulani's freedom of movement?
Not to talk of the danger Fulani herdsmen pose to safety of lives and property in their host communities. The gun/machete -wielding, trigger-happy Fulanis deliberately violate people knowing they are above the law.
Do you just like/love violence, hate peace or do you claim to be ignorant of all these atrocities? If you are not afflicted by any of these, suggest a way forward toward peace.
You want Arewa Republic. Restructure! You won't restructure. Let the Igbos go! You won't. Embrace civilized/modern ways of life! You won't. I mean, is there a way to coexist peacefully with people of other culture/tribe that you can think of?

Nice question.

can someone tell me what this N-POWER is all about?

justwant2bhappy:
Hmmmmm. I realized I made the worst and gravest mistake of my life by marrying a man who neither care or value me. To him am just one of his acquired property. He doesn't share opinions with me. I am just married but living a lonely and miserable life, honestly I have been good to this man but I discovered recently that he's after other women(not one but plenty) I wouldn't mind if he's showing my own affection and respect but he don't just care if I exist. I already have a son for him so I can't leave my son and walk away. That's the only thing holding me back. My son is my world, he's the only thing I have on Earth. But am dying slowly each day, thinking to finish off the life. What is life without affection, what is life without who you can share your thought with, what is life with living with the wrong man, what is life if all I do everyday is cry myself to sleep, what is life with a serial cheating husband who don't care about me? What is life with a man who only come to me any time he need sex and will just raise my gown and dip his like he's fvcking a prostitute? Does the life really worth it? No it doesn't. I will end it soon

nobody can give you happiness and joy except yourself, it has to come from within. Since you are not getting the love and attention from your husband and the needed happiness and joy that you deserve, i believe its time for you to channel your energy into activities that you love doing..deposition your mind into other outdoor activities ..think about things that you have always wanted to do..like writing a book, engaging in volunteering activities, join book clubs and reviewing books if you are the type or other things that will give you fulfillment after doing it..you will discover that somehow you will be busy and working for a course which will to some extent deposition your mind from you husband insensitivity towards you...when he see that you are distracted he might just come around.But at least you have something to look forward to every time you wake up.

As bad as they paint zimbambwe it still looks cleaner and organizes than Nigeria.

Marshalxv:
Men be ranting more than women these days .

How long do you think you can keep your child a secret ? that truth must surely come to light someday Mr man ,so deal with it .

From all your rants here its cristal clear the kind of husband you are .

you've publicly passed judgment on yourself as the bad egg by your post .

your wife is hereby cleared of all accusations u leveled against her

hahahaha!oga you be lawyer?

dominique:
You yourself are you a saint?

You got a girl pregnant, abandoned her and went on to marry someone else. As if that's not bad enough, you have not set eyes on your own child, your flesh and blood for a whopping five years! You totally deserve what you're facing in your marriage right now.

I know the kind of trauma that comes with miscarriage, having nine miscarriages in five years can definitely take it's toll on the body and mind. How supportive were you all through her ordeal? Do you think she's not also tired of all the miscarriages that you have to tell it to her face? Your insensitivity is second to none.

As for your in-laws meddling in your marriage, you opened the doors for them to meddle by being dependent on them. You'll just have to deal with it by manning up and politely telling them that their interference is affecting your marriage.

If you take your time, analyse where you went wrong, get some counselling and bare your mind to her. If it doesn't work, them you can try a temporary separation, sometimes absence does make the heart grow fonder. If all doesn't work, wish yourselves well and go your separate ways.

Best comment ever. well written.

IYANGBALI:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew



"HOW TO STEAL A CHICKEN"
1. Survey the area for about 1 week.
2. On the day of operation , wear an oversized shirt.
3. Be at the place between 11am to 2:30pm.at this time of the day the owners will be gone to work or be indoor. The chicken will be playing outside happily.
4. Walk at the edge of the street and let chicken walk freely at the centre(its more easy if you are in the village).
5. This is where you make the grand move.
6. Dive like a goalkeeper and grab the chicken by the head. Qiuckly fOld the head into the feathers and put it inside Your oversized shirt.
7. Move as if nothing happened. . . . . . .
No
Looking back. . . .
Thank me later. . . .
How to steal a cow is next

# Dnt_hold_me

Jesus christ...are you for real ..hahahaha!haba Nigerians..

Election is here again now Buhari remembers the road to the south East...Buhari know nothing better than to ride on people's back to get what he wants then after which he dumps them..the problem this time is not with Buhari but with any one from these region that would think Buhari is doing this because he has an atom of love for the people of the south East..Fool me ones, shame on you but fool me twice, shame me.Guys shine your eyes.When he comes show him all the courtesy that a president deserve but do not take any thing to heart . Everything is about politics and election and nothings else.Buhari can never change.

Funnicator:
Lol. I'm negative shah. Just wanted sexual benefits. Adventures.

una nor go kill me for this Nairaland sha.

Samcent:
I don't understand why some people find it difficult to accord the Aniomas their due respect in the Delta project. I know colleagues who vowed that not in their lifetime will an Anioma man rule Delta State. Today, they are still alive and nursing the pain of their unguided hatred. I think what we should be concern about is good governance and how to move Delta State forward.

its not about which tribe rules Delta state any more but about good leadership.. I voted for Okowa because I believed it is fair for all ethnic group to be given an opportunity to govern but I am highly disappointed in Okowa leadership .. They are all the same looters.. And nothing more. I don't know why Deltans are cursed with bad leaders.Pls Deltans ensure you all try and avoid anything PDP.. Because nothing good will come out of anybody that will represent that party..

FreeTraining:
if banky is a truck pusher' will she love him? foget about women with their wayo love'

everybody get their category..even the truck pusher self go get ee own for body with his insecurity..stop thinking like a poor man.there must always be the rich, middle and poor class in the society..everyone to his own..which do you belong to..that is how life is and that is how it will always be.

Deuteronomy 14:22-27New International Version (NIV)

Tithes
22 Be sure to set aside a tenth of all that your fields produce each year. 23 Eat the tithe of your grain, new wine and olive oil, and the firstborn of your herds and flocks in the presence of the Lord your God at the place he will choose as a dwelling for his Name, so that you may learn to revere the Lord your God always. 24 But if that place is too distant and you have been blessed by the Lord your God and cannot carry your tithe (because the place where the Lord will choose to put his Name is so far away), 25 then exchange your tithe for silver, and take the silver with you and go to the place the Lord your God will choose. 26 Use the silver to buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine or other fermented drink, or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in the presence of the Lord your God and rejoice. 27 And do not neglect the Levites living in your towns, for they have no allotment or inheritance of their own.

Nigerian Men and cheating..eeh!! . I like the fact that women can pay them back in their own coin..two can now play the game. How can you cheat on your woman who has been faith to you and still expect her to remain the loving wife as usual.. Some men even go as far as giving them STDs.. Really? And this women should just remain the loving wives as usual.. Nigerian Men are bunch of big babies that are living in fools paradise.

OZAOEKPE:
Remi no born

Really? I think she did.

AutoReportNG:
Such a young and handsome guy.

The guy in blue suit is not Jide Tinubu, that is Jide Tokan, please take note!!!

The guy nor fine abeg...but may his soul rest in peace.

Well I hope when its time to vote in a new president..we would do so base on the liberality and efficiency of the person and not be influence by religion and Tribalism. this is a an eye opener to all blind followers of all political parties..do not be swayed by the wonderful propaganda of political parties ( because that is their main tool of marketing) without looking deeply into what this parties stand for and the profile of the person they are presenting to us to vote for. we should all read and try and discern information properly before aligning ourselves with them .

We should stop blind follower-ship. This is because at the end of the day..you and I will be the once to suffer the consequences.The only people that will benefit will be their immediate families and friends. I told you guys ( the sei babas) back in 2015..that Buhari is a sectional leader and a religious bigot but trust sai baba sei baba soldiers..they were throwing stones left, right and center at any one that dared to question the character of their Demi-god Buhari. Now we are all suffering it. APC could have presented someone better than that old man that is clueless about leadership..Tinubu gambled and he got his hand burnt.

ramzythecoder:
Thanks for the advice .
The thing is Deeper Life is a good Church, but some of our women don't dress well and they are dirty. So the point is that picking a woman from that church is NO.

so you want a non deeper life woman that dress well , then turn her into those less attractive sisters in your church after marriage,..abi you go commot from deeper life after marriage?.you cannot eat your cake and have.

Guys, i had to move to the first page in this thread to know that there are serious mind at work here.Nice one
Now my contribution.

From my own observation.The problem of Nigerian is cause by the faulty foundation upon which this country stands on .The country is standing on the wrong structure..it is standding on suppress aggrieves various ethnic group who are still bitter and
and suppressed by the faulty Nigerian system. For us to make progress and to remove all sense of bitterness and mistrust among Nigerians ..We must first of all heal the land.Yes,,we might want to sweep all the massive injustice done by one tribe against other tribes in past which is the reason why there is this unfinished flow of hatred, mistrust and bitterness in the land.in your new Nigeria..there must be room for healing and restitution..
There should be an avenue for offenders to to reconcile with aggrieves ethnic group for conciliation....if not this hidden atrocities will always raise their urgly head no matter how we try to rebrand Nigerians. After this healing process..any substituent atrocities committed by a group of people against another group where there is lose of lives must face a persecution for justice for the aggrieve group.
Thirdly, competence ; efficiency and upright moral code should stand tall as one of the party's first requirement in selecting Nigerian leaders .This must be considered first before other factors such as tribal and religion.

Last and not the least..Religion should be made silent in the affairs of government. let the everyone practice their religion which ever way deem fit privately and should not be made to interfere with government activities..religion has brought more death,confusion and division in Nigeria than any other factor. Nigerian Lives should be made supreme and every Nigerian should be treated with fairness and justice at all time. I think this will do for now.my one coin

daclemx:
dear this one is different. I can assure you. I have never been into any group in my life that failed. My comrades an friends know me for that. That is why I know we will succeed. Ourchoice and other comrades are also great people. It will only take time. Let's try. If we don't, we will blame ourselves for not doing anything...

ok..what does it take to join?..is the party registered already under INEC? is there a website or its just a party only here on nairaland in preparation for the outside world.

Southerners..when will you guys ever learn..the northerners discovered that the south is already beginning to unite against them for a change in Nigeria which they don't want and their only tactics is their divide and rule..which we are stupidly falling for..when are we going to put aside our differences and think a progressive south..when are when going to stop pointing fingers at one another for crimes committed even before we were born and allow such to hold us back from making progress when its time to share money we do not here all this divide and rule tactics but when it is time for issues that are suppose to change the present status quo then you begin to hear all the crimes committed by out for fathers in other to create enmity amount the south...together we stand and divided we fall under this northern tactics.

hisgrace090:
Her hair made me remember one old Nigerian Willie Willie horror movie.

WHY YOU WICKED LIKE THIS..

NgcoboP:
Well cabalocracy may not please you.. But we don't care about you southern miscreants

A party that will later be divided by greed,pride ,ego, religion and tribalism..that was how YDP started and later disappointed us..not wasting my time for this again

NgcoboP:
.... No other candidate is competent... except Buhari

are you not surprise you are only active person on your own thread..how can you open a thread and comment on almost all the spaces...na wa for ooo!!..Vote Buhari Ko! vote Buhari ni.!...the vote wey dem give am, wetin ee don use am do..other than to divide the country even more and appoint only his kinsmen in political position..na so dem curse the black race reach...rubbish thread.

No hand gloves..? poor way of handly first aid.

winnerz:
Space booked.

You need Panadol?

Come and take

hmmmmmmm! you are right.he seriously need a dose of it.

see how beautiful she looked in death..if na Nigeria she die..her face and body for don be like manikin..fear nor go let the boyfriend even kiss am. Everything about this country always has coma.

clueless governor. I am so ashamed to be sharing the same nationality with this governor Okorocha..how can he erect a statue of Zacob Zuma who is known as a very corrupt man in his country..this is the same president that looked the othe way when Nigerians in south Africa were being killed..stupid and shameless governor.

stev120:
what of tunibu who single handedly hand over yoruba to is Muslim brother buhari. ...?

And President Buhari and his northern cabals dealt with him very well..now we do not hear much from Tinubu anymore.

It is easier to campaign on an issue than to see it through when presented with the opportunity to do so, ask the All Progressives Congress (APC), the party with a 101 failed promises. Even they promised to restructure, but Nigerians still await the fulfilment of that promise more than two years into their tenure at the centre.

Somehow the road to 2019 is not going to be different from 2015, candidates are beginning to gear themselves up, promises are beginning to surface, and issues are springing up. One issue that keeps coming up, is the call for ‘restructuring’. Even those that do not agree with it now are likely to when elections draw nearer. Hence, if restructuring is going to be a major key issue that would form the subject of campaign for 2019, it is better the citizenry is prepared to interrogate it in all ramifications.

Intending political gladiators keep using restructuring to appeal themselves to the people, explaining why the present structure cannot enhance development; some have even said that the present structure is responsible for the various secessionist agitations, especially in the south.

It is gaining traction daily as regional socio-cultural groups like the Ohanaeze Ndigbo, and the Afenifere are also lending their voice to the call. Recently a meeting of traditional rulers in the Southwest also expressed that the only way forward for Nigeria is to restructure. It is thus obvious that any candidate who wants to gain the South as a whole must put restructuring on the negotiation table. Even the ruling party with a dissenting voice through its leader, President Buhari is likely to yield when 2019 draws nearer.

Hence there is more to this call for restructuring than meets the eye. Yet so as not to end up like every other campaign promises; these are some of the questions we should begin to ask, if we have not been asking. What do these various intending political gladiators mean by restructuring? We should not assume that we understand them, but give them the opportunity to clearly explain their concept of restructuring, is it fiscal federalism, could it be devolution of powers, is it about creating more states or reducing the 36 state structures to six administrative regions, or three economic zones?

The second question should be, how will they go about restructuring? This is particularly important because it pertains to implementation. Here in Nigeria, it is possible to ask the first question without asking the second, the reason why it is difficult to hold politicians responsible to their promises. This question is also the reason why politicians feign ignorance by the time they get to power, telling electorates that they are confronted with different realities and thus cannot fulfill their promises. If they are promising to restructure, then they must provide a systematic step by step process of how they intend to go about it, including a time frame.

It will take more than the answering of the above questions to, however, restructure Nigeria, the individuals advocating for this have a lot of convincing to do, hence when they come to you with restructuring, you must be sure that they answer the questions above, after which you will also have to determine whether the individual has the political capital and dexterity to carry it out.

Even after all these, do try not be disappointed if you realise that it is all a political stage play.