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SA Goddess:
I don't want to steal Schweet's shine, let her have her moment  

YES, I would also be able to tell if they were like pancakes!

U would huh?

It's hard to find appeal in a girls parts when she thinks they aren't perfect. I like it when a girl is comfortable in her unique body. The things those people that do so, alter in their bodies could attract the wrong people to them.

Who knows if Ur "perfect" mate like them small and cos u've made them big he just thinks to himself, she can't be the one.

Lacrissa:
I might not see him for some days now. I want to write a note and leave in his place, should I include in it asking how long he wants the break for or I should just text/ask him through the phone?

Chic, wait till U see him. This is not the time to write notes or send messages. Ur emotions myt push U to include more than U need to and if things turn sour, those things will make U feel worse.

28Schweet:
taking a break is as good as breaking up in my opinion,  
i know it's unheard of with some naija girls, but had you already given him the forbidden fruit, resulting in why you cannot accept that he's looking to find someone else (general purpose of a break).

It's more common for a girl to use breaks as an opportunity to go do what she wants than for a guy. Guys ask for breaks sometimes just because they need time to focus on some other thing that is affecting their lives and when a guy does he normally would tell U how long he needs it.

A girl on the other hand, wanting to eat her cake and have it, usually asks for a break when there's another guy she's deeply attracted to and would cross carpet if he just asked her to. She asks for a break, putting one leg in one boat and the other leg in the other waiting to decamp. It's just girlie want to eat Ur cake and have it. Not fair tho but guys grow to know better.

Lacrissa:
So breaks always mean that the other partner is looking for someone else? And what is the forbidden fruit?

No breaks don't always mean that especially if its a guy asking for it.

SA Goddess:
Nothing like perky bobbies, they look ripe  Pamela who??

U can tell that with them right in front of the camera?

U should have asked him immediately he told U. It's not to early. Sometimes the best way to keep something with U is to be a little indifferent about the possibility of loosing it, esp when it's starring U right in the face.

Ask him. Don't look like a looser when u do, if U are meeting hm in person, which is better. Look Ur best but in a subtle way.

When he tells U, keep away from him absolutely. No "Hi, I just want to check if u are doing fine" or any such lines.

Us the free time to add value to Ur life. and like I said, be ready to let go if he decides to break it off with U. it's not like U are married already so anything is possible.

SA Goddess:
Let's assume she wore the outfit to the mall or any other public place, would that be wrong?

Nice mammalias Miss Schweet!

U tell me. U chose the place so maybe U see something wrong with her wearing it there. I don't.

Ask him how long the break is to last. A guy who isn't acting like a girl would tell U how long. If he's not bitter or looking for time to paly around, keeping U on ice, he'll tell U.

I feel he still thinks a big deal of the age difference, and that myt be as a result of Ur misunderstandings. 12 years is no joke. It takes a lot of maturity on the part of both parties to really meet each other half way to make this kind of relationship work. means U have to conduct Urself as though u are at least 6years younger and he conduct himself as though he is six years younger. that's just the starting point.

Maturity is not a function of age. I've recently dated a girl 11years younger than I am and she conducted herself better than girls that were just two years younger than I am.

You should talk with Ur guy and ask him to come clean. Don't act in desperation. Just put it at the back of Ur head that U myt have to let go of him if it comes to that. being needy never had appeal with most people in matters of the heart.

Wrong? I don't see anything wrong with the picture.

If want U meant to ask is if there is something about the outfit that could be offensive, then I'm saying that depends on where U wore/wear it to.

kemisuga:
Well I know Agape Love still exists, about worldly love I dont know.

Worldly and love are two words that just do not go. The contrast in meaning is just to sharp to relate those two.

There is no true love in the world. Darkness covers the earth and the heart of man is self seeking. There is nothing self seeking in love.

if what U mean is sensual love which is erotic love or brotherly love then I must say those are incomplete if they are not born of agape.

We confuse love too much. Mankind wants to get the best out of life without having to relate it to the source of it. No man can truly love with the love that is real and meaningful and satisfying unless that man first understands the love of God for mankind and learns to love like God.

Love is deeper than a feeling and richer and more rewarding when the lover reaches to the painstaking depths of its meaning to express it t the lover. Most people prefer to stop on the surface and when the feelings fade they quit on it.

From the angle that pic was taken, I'd say nella's butt (or whoever's butt it is in the pic) is perfect in proportion to the rest of her body and her boobs compliment the size of it quite nicely.

Catchy lips too.

Absolute devastation. Felt like the earth was removed from under my feet and I was falling fast into a pitch black bottomless pit and had nothing to grab a hold onto. Worst times of my life ever followed and it took a helluva long time to recover.
Why are U asking?

Hmm, I'd have said go to her and fix date but this one she's sending mixed signals that could make a guy wonder if she's more interested in the marriage than she is in him by being disrespectful. Ha! That's a warning flag for me o

The best way to find out sometimes if a person is as into u as u can appreciate is to withdraw Ur presence from them.

That's like asking if God still exists.

andyprez:
well my advice has to do with personality, & I'm giving u my basic 5:
1. Be a woman of virtue (i.e. a woman of substance)
2. Be contempted
3. Be friendly
4. Be real
5. Be respectful

well that's my 5 but If I must add one more:
+1. Be beautifulll

Good advice.

German girl, U need to find out what "The Naijaboy" U love finds attractive in a woman and wants in a relationship then reconcile that with ur love for him and what U want.

What works for one naija boy wont work for the other.

Be careful too so U don't end up falling a victim of ur desires cos the guy ended up been an opportunist.

Forgive my bias,

Some people do want that

SA Goddess:
The opposite of a well-shaped-rounded backside is a droopy one, who wants that?

Nope! Its a flat one with no appreciable curves or protrusions from any lines of sight; but yeah, no one wants that

Isn't it fun to look at?

Forgotten.

Pubic hair? That's very intresting as long as she'l keep it clean. The fuller the better. Lots of fun and games that can be made out of that.

With my African man's mentality I must say, I dey suspect this kain cake o. Una sure say no be wetin dey cause cancer be this? Cake in ten minutes by microwave. Nah! I'll pass.