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Once I'm gone, I'm gone. If she leaves there will be no re-admittance. We can be friends and all that but being involved again just will not happen and I will not be diplomatic about that. No need setting either of us up for character tests we most easily will fail.

Makeup would have helped or professional models. this picture looks off

Insults as a habit or just a one time thing?

An ungodly woman. Sounds spiro but it's true. To many things can go wrong.

Legit girls usually think legit guys are boring.

Legit guys usually know what they want and want to marry.

Girls normally don't want to marry till they've been grilled and thrilled (that's deep and sounds untrue but it is)

Razzzz guys don't want to marry either, especially after they've thrilled and grilled

It's complex, My brain is saturated ryt now. Later ok?

Hmmm,

All trousers?

The thrill of the ride.

Perhaps U attract the kind of guys that don't know how to tame their urges or maybe U give off the wrong messages that make the guys u date assume U r coming onto them sexually or want them to come onto U.

There are guys that don't mind leaving sex out of a relationship as long as someone else isnt plowing the fields they are leaving fallow. That's totally uncool.

Most guys these days find it hard to understand it when a girl says no sex and one of the reasons for that is that most girls these days think a guy that doesnt want sex or push for it has some nuts missing in his genetic code, and as it is some girls don't know how to keep quiet with the wrong audience. U make no move and all her questions will be tabled to her friends and enemies alike but hardly ever U.

There are guys that will find U sexually appealing and get turned on by U under the right circumstances but will never push for sex till U make the move or do things that show them it's ok. Sadly they usually aren't the kind of guys that girls find attractive as much.

U need to do some re-evaluation of why the trend is so or U. Check the kind of guys U attract to Urself and the messages u give off e.t.c

Until her doc told me to "be kiaful."

Trust a guy to start this kind of topic. Hmmm,

And with all their short comings the girls can't get enough of them till age comes knocking. Does the earth run short of young girls that want adventure?

I get Ur point about getting a ife and a job and something to do sha, espcially moving out of mama's house (even tho they probably sweet talk mama so much she doesnt want them gone).

Anyway, players concerned, one person dey provoke for una here o.

, and U want us to do what about these events?

If they are in touch more often than I can be comfortable with it (which is like a phone call a year) I'd advice her to go back to him. I don't do that confusion "we're just friends" thing. Bush rat no dey forget him former house.

See why mothers tell girls to hook up with guys that like them more than they like him? It's so she can decide what's best for her that they (the couple) should do.

This rich guy just has too much control or the girls involved seem to think having his baby will make him commit to them.

Make dem dey dey born for am, at the end of the day chic wey strong go marry the boy and none of those kids go see him house.

What's there to do than to work and take care of Ur kids and stop waiting for the guy to marry U.

Una dey worry sometimes o.

Ebonyeyes:
Maybe she is really TRYING to be faithful to her partner in spain but someone needs to tell her that she has cheated on him with you. And you why continue to sodomise her knowing that she has a boo in spain?

Trying to be faithful? Are U for real? The chic has pretty much done everything else and it's just cos this dude isnt smooth enough or smth.

Faithful my foot.

Ur just her boy toy and she doesn't want to get attached to U. Go get another girl cos if she's held back this ong, there are two things involved:

1. U don't have game that's tyt enough, or

2. She's dead serious about not sleeping with U.

Hmmm, Now that's kind of a tough one. I feel it depends on how close my ex was to her and how deep their friendship was in the period we were together; as well as how close me and my ex were and how deep our relationship was. If they were more of "hi-hi" friends than bff's then I myt consider that, otherwise, then I won't.

I'd not like for me very good friend to date my ex let alone marry her but if it's a guy that's more of an acquaintance than a friend, nothing do them.

There are ex's however that tend to know which of their friends or acquaintances u would most likely warm up to if things ever went wrong with u and them. When things they wrong, the 1st person they try to pull close to themselves is that person, not because the love them any more than before but just so they can have access to them to attempt to condition the persons mind to despise and/r reject U should U decide to go after that person.

Anyway, where I find what I want, I will go for it. The worst that could happen is I get a clear rejection.

The complexities of dating Ur ex's friend are however enormous and the relations could have more complexities before it starts. if U haven't gotten over Ur ex, and haven't allowed the relationship arena lie fallow for a reasonable period, U myt tend to put expectations on the person that are unrealistic and want to make Ur ex out of them which is in no way fair on the person nor noble of U.

The ex's friend myt want U to be all the good he/she observed U to be with his/her friend without considering that the ex must have being doing something right for U to have been the person U were with him/her bringing out the best they saw in U.

Anyway, there are cases of hooking up with the ex's friend that turn out good and cases of same that turn out nasty. The plane of suspicion has to be crossed between both parties. Suspicion on the part of the friend that Ur intentions myt not be noble being that U myt have been the one that was hurt and myt just be looking for who to pour venom on, and suspicion on ur part that the friend myt want to just have a fun ride and plunder what's left that his or her friend didnt take.

So make it real or keep what's left of the real parts real.

Ur guy has a lot of female friends on FB and U are freaking out? A shey if Ur guy like some of us that have lots of female friends on FB who we interact with in the real world U'd have done killed urself by now?

Ok let's be reasonable here now. Like how many is "a lot?" and how often is he online interacting with them?

I sat and thot more on Ur situation and i'm wondering now; what do u want?

Who sabi romance pass pastor wey dey fear God and know how him take love us?

Dude, God is like the final calling card o. Free the chic. U messed up now she's politely letting U know there's someone she's with and possibly betrothed to him. Do Urself a huge favour and get another girl ok?