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Besides "I love U?"

Let me see, I will never cheat on U.

Then of course they weren't lies at the time. They just were premature reassurances.

Girls lies plenty sha. If we start to list dem kasala fit burst!

Hmmm,

HELL NO!!! MTN and the rest still dey do bonanza for N2million. I'll take my chances with the lesser evil.

Kiss this and Ur life myt never be the same again. Will U even live to spend the doe? Ha! Count me out.

Is he comparing U with them or is e just not even aware he brings them up from time to time and that doesnt go down well with U?

Have U talked to him about this?

Na as U take show Urself to woman she go relate with U.

michelin89:
I commit abortion every month when no one fertilizes my egg.

Is this supposed to be humor or are U serious?

thweraja10:
This question is crazy but you will be overwelmed when you try to count the number of times you have done it. I was speaking with a female friend yesterday only for her to tell me that she has done it just four times that is twice in secondary school once in the higher institution and once when she was a grad. This is really crazy

Wetin U wan carry the info do?

Good decision. When her head calm down she go talk and if her threat s anything to go by, U can save Urself the trouble of begging in a hopeless situation.

Wait till she calls U then when she has expressed her negative emotions respectfully, apologize and do a very good work at it. U hear?

Hmmm, Do U have a back up plan like most girls seem to these days? Tell hm expressly how U feel about all this and if he's adamant to Ur feelings get a back -up even before he leaves. Which kain nonsense him dey try do? Very suspicious behavior.

Apart from the first chic, the rest of them were pretty much wasting time.

What's making them clash? I'll stand for the well behaved one among the both of them. If they don't get along i'll create problems for the both of them to distract them from the things that make them clash.

Hmmm, I don't have any babes in my world that make a habit of asking me for transportation when they come visiting me. They come usually cos they want to and therefore make provisions for the trip to my place and back to theirs. If for any reason they don't have to come, they notify me before coming and I tell them if I will be handling the costs of their trip to and fro or if I do not have sufficient funds to cover it.

Wetin una dey use phone for sef ab dem just dey appear for Ur door demand for money?

As naturally rebellious and high minded as most women tend to be and how difficult it is for most to tame those xtics, U can imagine how much harder it is when a woman takes that she lacks nothing and doesn't need a man for more than sex and anything else she wants from him, then add pride to the list and try living with that.

Oh one more thing. Naija babes wey me I know, when dem like boy dem dey vex when him to dey spend and e dey hard make their friends see the guy generosity without her consent.

If na mugu some girls don find say U be then na U know wetin U put Urself inside.

Independent or Dependent. I think U myt have a mix up there.

First of all not all girls are so and what U have described here is not as much dependency as it is just being demanding. I have girls that call me that never ask me for credit. They bring their quota into our relationships as I do mine. I send them credit when i feel like and that's that. Good thing is I have more regard for them than those who I'm not so close to that would imagine that it's my responsibility to send them credit.

If I invite a girl on a date and she brings her friends without getting the nod from me to do so, the date is off. They can go have fun and pay for themselves I dont need to impress anyone when I dont feel like it.

As for being a registra, if U have the power to do and undo, by all means flex those muscles and look good. Superman sef dey shine na im make Lois Lane like am pass Clark Kent.

What I'm sayin gin essence is if girls are making U do things Ur not comfortable with, then U are not in control of Ur emotions and are more likely to get the burn burn of the pot than the meaty stew.

The problem is not from the girls U know but from U. Take charge and do what U choose to do. there's no guarantee after all U put in U will get what u want out.

Chic, with the way Ur responses to comments is charged up and how Ur unleashing negative replies I can see one reason U dont have a relationship yet. Stop antagonizing people cos of Ur perception of their approach to helping U.

She should understand that getting married to him isnt necessarily a favour to her. She should stand her grounds. What sort of nonsence is that?

If ur wife is the one giving U all the trashy STD's then U should wonder where she's getting them from in the first place.

Righteousness

They were cohabiting. What did she expect? It's not like he promised her marriage. The things girls do with the hope of marriage amuse me.

Well MrBrownJay and Africanqueen have neatly summarised it.

Do U feel the net is the best place to find what U are looking for? Are U looking for pointers on how to get back into the dating scene or are u calling on guys to submit their CV's?

Maybe she is, maybe she's not. Trying a lil more to find out for sure won't harm U. Maybe bruise Ur ego if u r wrong but even egos heal.
She myt have just been flirting with U. If U feel that's enough to go by, shoot!

I've got mail? Where?

Lacrissa:
How can a guy know you like him for him and not just the idea of a guy hanging around you? What is the difference?

A guy knows U like him when ur pleasures evidently are with him. Most irls like attention and will indulge ANYONE who gives it just to feel good about themselves, but when a girl is specific in the persons attention she's most interested in, it shows and everyone gets the message at one point or the other.
As long as it doesn't show that u think he's the special one or could become that special one, the guy myt pack up and leave or just gather what he can from U and bail out.

If I like a girl and want her to show interest in me I appreciate the interests she shows as long as it doesnt come off as too sudden, too good to be true or obsessive.

Men are more logical than emotional and I think I speak for most guys when I say we like to know what Ur interest on us is based and that we earned it.

If Ur interested in a guy, let him know why. unless he's only interested in getting in Ur pants a guy wants to know it's him U like not just the idea of "a guy" hanging around U.