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crazymommy:
Even ladies that cannot afford good bra unless their boyfriends buy it for them sef dey claim feminist for nairaland.... they do forget feminism when money is involved....hypocrites...

lol

Ramon92:
This made me remember something back then in my uni days when I was dating a girl. Initially she was cool and was normal and things were fine. Love things you know..

All of a sudden, she started acting weird with some behaviors like she wanting to control me. I like confident girls but not one that'll use it to manipulate and turn men into lapdogs and menu. She'll read my texts and won't reply till hours later, won't return my calls and when she comes around she insist I go cook for her.
She started mentioning words like trust and confidence and all those feminist shiit. I didn't grab what's happening at first and I come de wonder what's happened, so I tried to get to her to know what's up.

That's how one day I went to her hostel and I called her when I was by her door. Got in and she was reading a book which she hid as I got inside. I shaa got the book when she went out and pretended not to know anything. The book, WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV..

Cos me I be avid reader sef, I got the pdf myself and wanted to know what the book is about. Geez, that's one of the vilest books I've ever read. It's practically a step by step guide on how to emasculate a man, turn him into a sissy all in the name of feminism and a man proving his worth to a woman.. I never got halfway with the book to realise what was going on with my then relationship..

It was crazy cos I was already falling for the shit and drama. Decided to use the book as a weapon and doing the exact opposite.. I don't need to tell you the result. I really now got to see her as one very insecure girl who hangs on to anything to validate herself. Same with her friends..

And that's how it's been with most girls I've been with later. They're confused, get bitter and aggressive when they can't manipulate a man and will do anything to validate themselves and that's what these fake feminists are all about.

See this Chimamanda now, married with a kid but still getting upset at a fellow woman for no reason, someone who understands what it is to be a real woman. By the way, I checked up on that Sherry ARGOV and discovered that she lives alone, maybe that says it about her..

Guys, please don't fall for their feminist gimmicks. guys that haven't seen what a woman truly is are those that carried away by these bullshitss. A woman will always remain a woman..

Bro All what U said is absolutely spot on!
Wen u date a feminist,the first thing a guy will notice is the plot to dominate or control him to submission....so that what ever she says is right no matter how illogical...

Had to google that book U talked about....
That book is for ladies who have no mind of their own or better still who don't think rationally!
Its really unfortunate!

OnyeJombo:

lol

gidjah:
I joined winners chapel through Uncle Adjemam George way back back.We lived close and few of his family members were in my estate then in Kaduna.He left for Ghana and d next thing na that touching story of rebel.His ministry is no more thriving like before, you can't partake of Oyedepos Grace once you are a Rebel.Most of them who rebelled against him never made it high.I have been a member of this awesome ministry for over 2decades .

No longer the "grace of God" abi?......its now "oyedepo's grace"...

Now i see why its so hard to question his doctrines by members of that assembly who already see him as a mini god....smh

Peterpanny:
what of sanches and lukaku

Error

Mo Salah......A flop at the bridge but a super star at anfield

femimailbox:
Cee-c should check herself in with a psychotherapist for her own good.

These fans she is seeing today will not be there tomorrow but her character will always be glued to her like her skin. And as things stand now she is the worst mannered human being I have seen whether on tv or physically (movies not considered).

I think this will help her.

God please I don't want a woman like Cee-c because that is surely hell on earth!

yeah

hmm

the bride is pretty!

joganut:
Living in Bondage.... Until i hear this man is dead, arsenal can never be free from captivity.

lol

ihitenansa:
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IamD18:
My respect to that lady, she simply is the answer to a proper and matured lady.

Honesty makes everything simple and make everyone appreciate each other, it heals wounds, words, issues, the world and make it a better place always.

Exes are not enemy, they were once part of your life. Some exes are worth bringing back, while some are good for burnt offering.

NwaAmaikpe:



I disagree...
So where are the 60% educated youths?

-The same youths are the ones who collect 500 to chant "Sai Baba".
-The same youths that are hired for counter protests.
-The same youths that defend Buhari on all online platforms.
-The same youths wasting their time campaigning and voting for BigBrother housemates when they have no PVCs to vote out the dullard in 2019.
-The same youths that wear "Buhari till 2023" T-shirts?
-The same youths that gave the Igbos quit notice from the North last year?
-The same youths that kill for rituals to get rich?
-The same youths that put out false stories on blogs to earn traffic
-The same youths that devote endless man-hours to stalking of celebrities and begging them alms.
-The same youths who spend more time waiting for miracles in church rather than carrying out inventive researches in labs.

Please where are these educated youths?

The truth be told;
The hunger and poverty in the land has made even the educated become stupid stomach-serving zombies.

Thumbs up bro....

predatorX:
So the story of Miracle Center Akowonjo goes thus:

In the early nineties the church was birthed and headed a one-armed loving, God-fearing and fatherly pastor, a Yorubaman who knew nothing like tribalism or favoritism. He used to work then, and from work he would close and visit everyones' families and rally them to turn up for Tuesday and Thursday evening services, even before his own family. That was how nice a guy he was. Every offering that was generated for any of the services whether weekly or Sunday, he asked that they share among the needy and widows amongst us. We all felt like a family.
All these happened while we were using a rented hall with rent as steep as 100k.you might think it's small but this was the early 90's and a 3BR apartment went for 45-60k per annum. We were meeting these obligations while still contributing our share of the compulsory levy by the Hqtrs.
There were instances where our IGR(tithes & offerings) could not make up half of the rent. This man would put up his salary to service half or the entire rent in multiple situations, solely, and I mean annually. He eventually came up with the idea of buying a piece of land which we all started planning towards.

Being a father, brother and husband to all had its toll on him, and tragically we lost him suddenly but we wanted to believe his legacy would live on as we planned to get our own site.
But After his death MIRACLE CENTER NEVER TRULY RECOVERED.
Enter TRIBALISM, FAVORITISM, and the formation of Caucuses.
That was when everyone started noticing that Non-yoruba pastors never got past the deaconship. Those who had already scaled through were asked to open another Parish and start from scratch. I remember vividly, out of annoyance a pastor left the entire area abandoning his pastorship to become an ordinary member under a different zone. It was that bad.

Gradually but surely the rentage increased to 200k which was impossible for us to afford. So we wrote to the Hqtrs to assist. We got zero reply. Yet we kept contributions flowing because we thought if we obeyed the directive that our books would be clean. The painful part is that Hqtrs kept telling us that our contributions were dwindling. And I remember a Sunday where we held a meeting and everyone kept holy-holy aside and spoke to the pastor hoha to tell the Hqtrs that we were no longer going to contribute a dime as we were not able to meet up with rent.

While going through these travails as years went by, we still fathered new churches. Who acquired land and built massive edifices 3-storeys tall, fully air-conditioned, whose outer wall was of POP.

Then the unthinkable happened. The building we occupied got sold out to bank PHB. We had been owing rents prior to the sale so a court order was procured for us to vacate in 6months. We vacated before the effective date. The building was demolished and up sprang forth bank PHB now keystone bank.

We roamed about for a while, paying rents and using canopies for Sunday services. We even had to put up with our progeny churches but we started getting attitude. It didn't take a genius to figure out that we had overstayed our visit and were no longer welcome.

At this point I knew it was the end for me and the RCCG. I felt used.

I remembered when the RCCG camp used to be wooden stakes and soil all around. There was a saying then amongst us members that they were gonna transform it to a small London. They have achieved that but they have forgotten the little contributions of parishes like Mine. They have forgotten their humble beginnings.
It is all prosperity and private jets now. The problem has now been excercebated by the newbies,the newcomers are the chaff that have mixed up with the wheat. The G. O who used to be one humble reserved man whom you could never see a poster or pix or billboard of him then, now listens to the advice of yahoo yahoo pastors who want to increase his fame.

THE RCCG IS A GOVERNMENT WITHIN A REPUBLIC. IT IS A JOKE NOW.

I carefully read all what U said about ur plight as a RCCG member and i feel bitter that some "respected" ministers of the gospel have turned the body of christ to a business entity.....Its so unfortunate!
Just imagine what the volume of cash used in the purchase,fueling and maintenance of the private jet would have done for most of these struggling parishes that cant even pay 60k rent per year.....
Its really worrying and disturbing....
Right now am shocked by what am reading.....

3. Lands in camp are not bought but free of charge after paying developmental fees and meeting other requirements; one of which you must be a member of RCCG. If you decide to leave, you can REMOVE YOUR HOUSE, but the land belongs to RCCG.

Please can some one explain this for me?

This one na agbada coat

daben1:
she left her work because she's born again thinking manna will fall or God will come down to feed her...

lol

Betting can be rewarding and at the same time demoralising....
Even the bet companies always insist on people staking with funds that they are willing to lose....

In the case of the deceased,he foolishly staked his "source of livelihood" on a match that was determined by three outcomes: A Loss,A Draw and A Win...

...Nothing is certain....Even Manchester United fans will tell U they never expected a shock loss at "The theatre of dreams" to an already relegated and finished west Bromwich team....

This is not an issue...Since U know the lady who took ur favourite pant,go and collect it from her while warning her not to touch ur stuffs again....
No need bringing trivial issues like this on social media..Do U want Us to warn her for U?....na wa ohhh

lol....ohh men see naija smackdown

concho:
Oboy, u go stingy eh.
Are you from Imo?

unless u don't understand the meaning of the word prudence...
Its called common sense.....
Not everything must be shown on social media....
U don't showcase ur hardwork and sweat in form of physical cash on social media only to be a target for armed bandits....
That's not being stingy,its called wisdom!

chai see suffer...mancity dey vex

usbcable:
The funny part is the few incidences are always third party narratives.

They always know someone that said he saw one "married woman".

Lies everywhere

bro its true....esp bonfire night!

PrettySleek:
I have heard a lot of stories about this. I was told it's a normal thing in camp and everybody just rolls with it but one time, there was a report,unfortunately to the spouse. The married woman was sleeping with a guy she met at camp, and apparently she wasn't discreet. Her husband had a friend in camp, the guy snitched and d man stormed in there, disgraced her and dragged her out of camp. It's sad really, some people can't control themselves for 3 weeks, they are willing to destroy good relationships and their self respect for some moments of enjoyment.

True!

4reala:
Yeah! You are quite good. But have u noot heard of a stray bullet killing someone right inside his bedroom?

Thats where God comes in as an intervener!
but that's also based on crime which we,on our own can contribute our little quota in reducing....

4reala:
Shai! May any of us or our family members, never witness untimely and painful death in Jesus Name.

Rip to the dead

None of us will face untimely death as long as we do the right thing....
Let's stop patronising or joining buses or cars that are either not road worth or has a "questionable" driver!

Let's stop sleeping while going on a destination... the car is not our bedroom!

Let's not remain silent while the driver is over speeding,If No one cautions these reckless and mindless drivers,his carelessness can be fatal!

These and many more are easy steps that passengers can do on their own to avoid road accidents....

Remember that God can not do for us what he has equipped us to do for ourselves!

SoapQueen:
They will not see Polithiefcians and these heartless leaders to rob, abi? Mbok, she just showed proof of what she engaged in.


Great girl!

Please reason with me......
U just called politicians.....
Let me ask U...Do U know how many security operatives that are assigned to these "Polithiefcians" in nigeria?
Does this lady have any security operative attached to her like the politicians?
How many times do U hear our politicians being robbed by armed bandits?

Please....This is naija where only a few well known individuals with "deep pockets" are given adequate security!
A lady who worked so hard to make that huge amount of money but ignorantly shows off such money on the social media is attracting criminals to her location!
We must not while showing off our sweat expose our selves to unwanted criminals!

Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

I admire her and to those saying she is ugly, welldone!

U are clearly mistaken because i never in my earlier post condemn her physical statue...
....Besides beauty is in the eyes of the beholder!!

Very innovative but not that wise!
With the rate of armed robbery incidence going on in the country,she should have been a bit careful with her exhibition of wealth on social media.....
Prudence is a virtue!

Hahahahaha
Security agencies can never get it right as long as fights like these continue....
Wat DSS boss said about Magu is already known to sane minds!
Only a fool or zombie will believe magu is fighting corruption....

Deckline:
So OP, Nobody in this whole wide world is close enough to tell you that You are mad You don fall my hand o. Girls 90% of them don't have brain...and they are all on nairaland. E.g MhizzAJ, so i should just give her my money like that ba? Because we plant money for my backyard. Your brain dey leek.

lol