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I remember we both broke down in tears, when she came in with the test results. I'd confess that those tears were not out of joy, but rather shock, as this was just 3 weeks after our wedding. All the fantasies we had on what and what we'd do before kids started coming, were all being thrown aboard, at that moment.

Hi Folks,

Please just out of curiosity, how did you react when you first got the "i'm pregnant news", from your wife of course?

I want two and have already gotten that, though never really cared about the sexes. But wifey never agree sha.

I may not be a lawyer, neither am i learned in law, but i grew up hearing the saying that ' Justice is Blind'. In recent times, the quality of judgement been dished out from the Nigerian judiciary (the latest being the Osun phone theft), had made me to ask for our humble opinions on whether Justice is actually blind especailly in this Nigeria,

Thanks.

I've always said it, if you must steal, steal large. There is always a grave sin for stealing petty.

Why wouldn't this govt. deal with these miscreants once and no more, just like Obasanjo did to NITEL not too long ago.

greatgod2012: Better thank your star that hes not an ungdly man, if not so, the marriage would have become hell for you, all you just have to do is to cooperate with him during the fasting, and after breaking, seduce him, hes your husband, you should be able to know what he can easily fall for, abeg, enjoy your godly marriage jare.

Haba madam, seducing person wey just finish fasting, aren't you sending him back to fast again for forgiveness of sin?

Wale Leemson: government don turn to family affair. God punish all these criminals

Yes o, Personal Republic of Nigeria.

With less than 4,000 MW of electricity as at April 2013?

byvan: Thanks for explaining this to Mr Opera **big hug**.

yellowpawpaw: . I will reply u.love making involves d mind,body and soul.u take ur time to do all d likilicious(ignore)and whispericious,by d time u start d bleeping,d woman must hv climaxed over and over again.u two get fulfillment from within.sex is just instant few minutes bumping,anywhere and anytime.gat it?

Una do well, knowledge updated.

jennykadry: @Kulyie

Aha, as you are sucking on the sacs remind him that he refused to give you xxxxxx and watch what happens, the dude will just tell you "ok I will give it to you just bring your head and mouth closer"...........

Madam, i duff my hat for you, you say it as it is. But e don reach say we go dey pay for 'kini' even inside our own house?

byvan: .It must not be love making all the time as women would want it,sometimes it has to be just SEX.

Hmmm my sister, abeg wetin be the difference?

Yes, i do go home immediately from work. My job takes me out of town most often, so i can't afford to still stay away from the house when i'm working in my base. It has even become an issue for me, that immediately it's 6pm a particular call will come into mine, and the next question will be 'is it not yet time to come home'?

I'm happy to go home, those in the home are happy to see me.

cibilola: 3 months for both my kids. The second is 9 months and sleeps in her cot in her room. I bring her to my room if she is unwell or just have a bad night when she can't sleep.

Na wa o, 3 months get as e bi.

THERE were reports on Thursday that one of the 12 policemen said to have been killed in the creeks in Bayelsa State, Corporal Lucky Ebebi, is alive and has been freed by his captors after police authorities paid a N1m ransom.

Ebebi and 11 other policemen were on Saturday ambushed and reportedly killed by gunmen in Azuzuama Southern Ijaw Local Government Area of Bayelsa.

The Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta also on Sunday claimed responsibility for the attack and confirmed that its fighters killed 12 policemen.

Our correspondent however learnt that the gunmen freed Ebebi, 31, on Wednesday after collecting N1m ransom from the police.

The corporal, said to have been in the service for seven years, was admitted at the emergency ward of the Federal Medical Centre, Yenagoa, where he was treated for minor gunshot injuries but was discharged on Thursday morning and reported at the state police headquarters, Yenagoa, for debriefing.

When our correspondent visited the ward on Thursday afternoon, one of the doctors, who craved anonymity, said Ebebi had been treated and discharged.

“He only spent a night with us here. His gunshot wound was not serious because the bullet only brushed him off. He has lived up to his name, Lucky,” he said.

A security source told our correspondent that the gunmen kidnapped Ebebi after killing others and took him to a militant camp in the creeks........


http://www.punchng.com/bayelsa-killing-police-pay-n1m-for-kidnapped-corporal

Is this not the same Police telling people not to pay ransom for their kidnapped relatives?

Peter Obi once asked this question, 'Ndi Anambra ibe m (fellow Anambrarians), are we cursed or are we the cause'? If this thread then is a reflection of the fact that Anambra people are now interested in what becomes of/happens to their state, then the state is in for interesting times.

greatgod2012: Hope this thread helps.......



https://www.nairaland.com/992047/what-age-should-children-left

Your's was even 5 years old. My 3 year old daughter woke up from sleep on Sunday afternoon, and the next thing i heard was 'daddy common cover your bum bum osiiso (quickly in English)'. Yet the mother is saying she's too young to sleep alone.

Hello,

With the generation of children we give birth to these days, i was wondering at what age a child should stop sharing same bed/room with the parents?

dayokanu: WHats wrong with backdoor? Ask greatgod she enjoys it wella


https://www.nairaland.com/1239417/married-folks-oral-se.x-neccessary#14974758

Bros na wa to you o. Didn't you read the part where she say na from behind style she dey do, no be behind based o. May God help us all.

browncool: They should also discover stair ways to Heaven

Abi o, and then they'd tell us what is served as lunch over there.

Darlene babe: women tend to b sexually active during pregancy. u can sleep wit her witout fear n stop during her 3rd trimester

Stop at 3rd trimester, I no sure say that one na true.

dayokanu: ^^ Especially male infants, If you see the way they attack bo00bies you would think there is cocaine in it

My son grabs it, as if he's In a love making session with his mom.

This better be a joke o, or else I'd recommend Sowore or Okey Ndibe to replace Abati.

dBard: :oMexican chilli pepper? Raining domination??
Don't even know Wat those are

Jenny, abeg break am down na.

Seems these people are taking a cue of illegality from the former Anambra legislators. I'm aware that a judicial panel was set up to investigate the allegations against Agbaso just last week. When did they (panel) sit , when did they submit the report of their findings? This will surely be an interesting legal battle no doubt.

jidegirl12: In that case let's wait then.

In opera's case, the guy sounded defensive ( bashing single gal's slacked vjj, he lost his credibility right there for me )
I mean realistically @cc what'd you expect a caring man to say?
add salt to his already low self esteemed wife's injury on a public forum at that ?

Sorry dear, no offence meant, just that some of us bring up some useless reasons to mess up. Wish men could speak up on this like CC asked.

So used to mine, that I feel so incomplete when am not wearing it.

byvan: Is that facility by any chance called 1st concept??

No dear.

chaircover: Opera – where did your wife have her C/S? From the look of things, it seems that where it’s done does make a difference in terms of scarring etc. Just Like your wife Its like the op never happened for me.

Also like your wife, I have had both. I know that doctors are not too keen on women attempting a VB after a C/S because the worry that the uterus can rupture but I did my research and spoke up and so, my medical team agreed that I attempted a VG but they had the theatre on standby just in case. I was lucky and it wasn’t needed and it was all over in minutes.

But I will honestly tell you that I would pick the VB over a CS. You will be in pain a few days or even weeks after a CS and if you had general anaesthesia then you are tired, but you can’t sleep because you have a helpless baby to look after.

You cant pick things up, cant drive for a few weeks, you find it harder to find comfortable positions and if you were like me who had a cough after delivery (maybe from the gases they gave me to put me to sleep) you will be in serious pain, plus not forgetting that you have to make sure that your inscion doesn’t get infected. I bounced back much quicker after my VB and my hormones levelled off much better after the VB . . . . . Lets also not forget that a CS is a major op and as with all op’s there is a risk of death.

At a private facility in Owerri. Thanks shall for your incisive opinion.

@ poster, kindly define addiction in this issue?

Mine was the washing of bitter leaf.

debosky: It depends on the level of anger/offence - if you've done something really serious to upset your spouse, I think it's highly insensitive to request for sex under such circumstances since you know she is quite angry at the time. She isn't a prostitu.te that should provide sex on tap regardless of the situation.

While anger shouldn't simply be used as an excuse to deny sex, your 'church mind' should tell you when you've done something that will require some time for her to get over.

Bros, don't forget that this anger could be both ways o. Can you rightly oblige your wife with sex when you're angry with her?

biolabee: @Opera Mini

I feel your pain brah
Ladies cannot generally be unemotional about s.ex when you mess up

They can't divorce punny from punny-shment

LOL

Gbam.

chaircover: In response to the tummy bulging with scar comment . . . . . .

For those who have already had breakfast, caesarean section Scarring et al depends on the location of the cut and the surgeon. I had mine going on 17 years ago and if a surgeon then knew to cut only a thin line over a few inches along the bikini line and it can’t be seen, then I know that the surgeons these days are light years ahead. Mine was an emergency C/S but even with that, the surgeon did not just butcher just to get to the baby. Fair enough I remember when my stitches were being taken out, the nurse said I was lucky to have had the hospitals best surgeon, but 2 of my family members had caesareans a few years ago and you cannot see the scar and NO they don’t have bulging tummies either!.

Surgeons are not butchers and they have wives, daughters, sisters etc of their own too and wouldn’t cut a woman like they are cutting meat in an abattoir. Many take pride in their job and I am sure that they will want their work to be acclaimed as the neatest.

Yes once upon a time in the days of my grandmother, surgeons cut from top to bottom but I doubt anyone cuts that way.

Tears/episiotomies etc also depend on the experience of the midwife/doctor and how well the labour is being managed. Scarring & healing also depends on how well or badly the lady was stitched up.

My advice to pregnant women is to do your homework very well and select a hospital/surgeon/obs specialist that comes with the best recommendation from previous patients. You don’t have to go with your company hospital or the nearest to home hospital.

Madam, I don't know whether am alone in this thought , which is that I prefer a CS than the trauma of labour. My wife had a CS 3 yrs ago, and I even advocated she goes through it again in her last birth in Dec 2012, though she refused. It maybe cos the doctor that did it was so good that you'd hardly find the scar today.