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Family / Re: Never Again Will I Fight For Food In Parties by Opeyemiextra(f): 9:06pm On Jan 02, 2022
KiNg0G:

na party food dey sweet pass


guess you've never heard that saying

I love party jellof cheesy but not over my own meal.

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Family / Re: If You Think Your Kids Are Unbearable, Have A Look At These Photos by Opeyemiextra(f): 9:04pm On Jan 02, 2022
Uyi168:
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what are you waiting for?

For the perfect right man
Family / Re: Never Again Will I Fight For Food In Parties by Opeyemiextra(f): 8:05pm On Jan 02, 2022
WhiteIverson:

Don’t you realize some people go to a party solely because of the food? Some may not even have food at home.

I'm not talking about those people. For those ones, it is understandable but how do you explain that of someone who has more than enough but still fight for food at parties? I'm saying it because I have seen this too many times. People who appreciate outside food more than their homemade food.
Romance / Re: I Have Been Serve Breakfast by Opeyemiextra(f): 6:03pm On Jan 02, 2022
grin grin
Damn, you are funny. Home sweet home kwa!
richmond500:
welcome to the the family of the heartbroken, pls do feel at home. We have been here for a very long time, even if we decide to leave, we still come back.

HOME SWEET HOME
Family / Re: Never Again Will I Fight For Food In Parties by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:13pm On Jan 02, 2022
Skyview01:
I always eat before going to an occassion to avoid stories that touch the heart.
What seems to baffle me is how supposedly mature adults fight over food at parties.
I have better food at home.

This is the right and reasonable thing to do because I don't know why someone would go to a party hungry and then get angry if food doesn't get to them. Maybe there is just something about outside food for people that I don't know.
Family / Re: If You Think Your Kids Are Unbearable, Have A Look At These Photos by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:04pm On Jan 02, 2022
I love kids with so much energy but it should be well chanelled. In our time, do this and see that the Lord is good. But for the child who was being an artist with those note, the parent go become Nigerian parents just for that moment.
Honestly, kids are lovely and I can't wait to have mine. Actually, I'm waiting.

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Romance / Re: Welcome To Ranting Parlor, Pour It All Out Now, It Might Save Your Life-pictures by Opeyemiextra(f): 4:31pm On Jan 02, 2022
Rantingparlor:


The secret it not to care about what anyone says, just be yourself and live your life

We always say this but the truth is it's a bit difficult to do that and I would even say it's not really okay. Whether we like it or not, we need people even if it's a person. Although some people have mastered the art of not giving a f**k but not everyone has that ability to. But in the end, we still have to play the cards we have been dealt.

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Romance / Re: Please Help!! My Girlfriend Is Visiting Me by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:35pm On Jan 02, 2022
TeddyJammy:



WTH..? sad



A Niiiiqqa will be 26 dix year. cool



Tsk-Tsk.. WTH.. ?cry
Okay so telling your people who she is shouldn't be difficult. You are a grown man so act it.
Romance / Re: I Have Been Serve Breakfast by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:11pm On Jan 02, 2022
QuinieR:
Why are guys scum
Why did you guys like peppering our hrt
I was jst served breakfast on the first of January 2022.

My yr is not starting so well, whyyyyyyyyy cry cry cry
Motivational speaker pls coman motivates me,I need to be strong.. bad energy pls stay away frm me, no add to my depression sad
Sister, breakfast is no respecter of anyone but you can be sure that it gets better. Cry if you need to, give yourself a little break. Forgive the man so that you can heal quickly.

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Romance / Re: Please Help!! My Girlfriend Is Visiting Me by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:00pm On Jan 02, 2022
TeddyJammy:
She is planning on how she will visit me.. All the way from jos to east.. Its been 3 years of our relationship. . Only calling and chatting. Now she has decended to visit me and i don't knw which lia i will tell my people.


Pls help a brother. What will i tell my people in case they ask me...


i love her, and she love me too. I have even concluded that i will marry this girl. She has been tellin me that no one has love her the way i did..

PLS HELP ME, WHICH LIA I GO TELL MY PEOPLE

Don't take my question the wrong way but how old are you, please?
Romance / Re: Welcome To Ranting Parlor, Pour It All Out Now, It Might Save Your Life-pictures by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:51am On Jan 02, 2022
Goodlyhrt:
I can't sleep.. Here I am scheming, ploting on how to get the next mill ticket.

I want to be independent this year God knows I can't handle another year.. Something has to give dawn!

The year has started. Let's start the work, stay positive and ask for grace and favour.

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Romance / Re: Welcome To Ranting Parlor, Pour It All Out Now, It Might Save Your Life-pictures by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:50am On Jan 02, 2022
Philosopher1979:



Nigerians believe that
INTROVERTS ARE NOT NORMAL.
which is a very ignorant idea in itself

I experience this attitude almost every. It's like because they don't know or understand how to properly relate with me, I become an enemy, sometimes too much or less for them.





Romance / Re: Welcome To Ranting Parlor, Pour It All Out Now, It Might Save Your Life-pictures by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:47am On Jan 02, 2022
Philosopher1979:
part of the reasons for suicide in NIgeria is that we have what is called Shame theory.
We bring up our children to be ashamed of everything.

If you carry a plate and it falls in your hand, your parents will make you feel ashamed of it.
As time goes on, the child cannot express his or herself properly and it limits his intelligence and communication.
So when a child runs into problems like a girl child been sexualy harassed by someone around her,
she cannot tell anybody because she will be laughed at even by her elderly ones or parents.
A boy having problems with drugs simply cannot share it because of shame.
This shame theory makes everyone to believe any incident is the end of the world.
We need to be open to talk about issues.
Also the shame theory breeds
1. Ignorance
2. Inability to solve problems
In the name of not been laughed at.
Most people commit suicide because they do not have anyone to talk to without judgment and shame
We need a lot of help in this society

This brings back a lot of memories and it's so painful that these things are even getting worse by the day. Most people feel alone even among friends and family because they are constantly being criticized for not doing well or enough. This culture needs to stop but it starts from what you and I do.

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Family / Re: The Origin: History Of Yahoo Boys by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:34pm On Jan 01, 2022
heniford2:
let me shock you, am not in support of fraud but the whites deserves what the are seeing there forefathers looted West Africa Nigeria and Ghana took us as slaves and did so many abnormal stuff to them, look africas is learning to scam chinese and other Asian country are top scammers. Just that black man has loud mouth apart from that we are still a learner to scam undecided

This is so wrong. Remember the past always comes back to haunt. This is backward thinking that you should perish.

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Family / Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Opeyemiextra(f): 4:36pm On Dec 31, 2021
God1000:
I've already talked to him, he's not just serious about anything in life.

I don't know why God created me this way, to be kind to everyone

Then you have to do the needful. But it's usually better when you have not opened this kind of door.

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Romance / Re: After Years Of Dating What's The One Thing You Have Learnt About Women? by Opeyemiextra(f): 3:23pm On Dec 31, 2021
Here we go...
Family / Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Opeyemiextra(f): 3:16pm On Dec 31, 2021
These things are really not difficult. Speak with the husband himself and see how you can go from there. How do people get so close to their neighbors that they take such liberties as this?

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Nairaland / General / Re: Describe Year 2021 In One Word by Opeyemiextra(f): 2:51pm On Dec 31, 2021
smartr:
Humbling.
This was just it. I was humbled in every way but I'm thank for the things I picked and learnt in the process.
Family / Re: Nobody Genuinely Cares About You by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:46pm On Dec 31, 2021
EkehPraise:
Nobody genuinely cares about you not even family members angry

There is no month that goes by that I don't support nuclear and extended family members with cash and foodstuffs especially during festive seasons. But this particular Christmas that just passed I decided not to share anything to anyone and guess what? Nobody called (not even my cousins whom I sometimes send pocket monies) to even check up and know if I am doing okay angry angry


Have low or zero expectations from people and your peace would not be disturbed neither would you be disappointed. Most people these days don't care. I raise my trust and expectation in and from people when they have proven themselves. Although it's more disappointing when it comes from your family (which, fortunately, I can't relate with) but you still have to work with what you have.
Times and situations reveal people to us better.
Merry Christmas and happy holidays.
Foreign Affairs / Re: New Zealand Officially Enters 2022 by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:54pm On Dec 31, 2021
No time. They couldn't wait for us. We sef go join you in less than 12 hours. Make dem dey test run the year and give us top info before we enter cheesy
Na turn by turn. We dey queue.

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Phones / Re: FG Extends NIN-SIM Verification Deadline Till March 31, 2022 by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:47pm On Dec 31, 2021
Buhari will leave office and this thing will still not be done by then. No system, no vision, no drive, nothing! This government has over and over proven itself to the people.
Why waste resources on things that aren't all together priorities especially in a nation like ours at a time like this. Real issues that need attention are being ignored here.

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Romance / Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:46pm On Dec 31, 2021
MisterKennedy:


Nice one dear
Thank you.
Fashion / Re: I Have Never Felt So Much Pain In My Life, Lady With Artificial Nails Cries by Opeyemiextra(f): 10:04am On Dec 31, 2021
Even for a person as low as you, this is still too low. Grow up, it's another year in the corner. Don't go into it still childish.
Love and light from here.
KillAlabi2021:



When you reach your house
Tell your husband
Who's this, that's if you're married



You small gals don't have respect again
Fashion / Re: I Have Never Felt So Much Pain In My Life, Lady With Artificial Nails Cries by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:20am On Dec 31, 2021
NGArmyTerrorist:
Thanks for your testimony. I always encourage people to keep natural nails, if you want to make it more attractive; you can apply that shiny White nail polish or any other color that matches your skin and this size of nail is not actually bad for a reasonable lady . I see ladies with long artificial nails in a different way and I love the ones with short nails. My opinion; God bless you.
Mine were never as long as those and it was still a problem. I'm also not comfortable with long nails and I wonder how people carry them. The likes of Bobrisky, Cardi B... It defeats its purpose when I can't do certain things with my fingers because of it.

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Fashion / Re: I Have Never Felt So Much Pain In My Life, Lady With Artificial Nails Cries by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:12am On Dec 31, 2021
Horokrox:
And an even bigger PAIN on the brains of those females who dress to impress or please others undecided
I'm not quite sure about this one though.
Fashion / Re: I Have Never Felt So Much Pain In My Life, Lady With Artificial Nails Cries by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:11am On Dec 31, 2021
KillAlabi2021:



Wetty em they use "nice natural nails" do

Em they use am get money tongue


I prefer a bad ugly nails tongue

Who is this undecided

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Family / Re: What Really Is The Essence Of Life? by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:10am On Dec 31, 2021
You are welcome.
Lamanii22:




Hmmmm okay..
Thank you

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Fashion / Re: I Have Never Felt So Much Pain In My Life, Lady With Artificial Nails Cries by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:46pm On Dec 30, 2021
I had this experience too before I learnt my lesson. All my nails were almost gone I knew what was happening. No one even pitied me because they always tell me me I have nice natural nails so it's pointless fixing.

That the 'pain in beauty'

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Family / Re: What Are The Little Things About Life You Don't Take For Granted by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:07pm On Dec 30, 2021
That's something to be grateful for and I wish you greater ones as you enter this new year.
Polynek:
Woow, I love this thread, considering my family background, am always happy whenever I think of the day's I was at home praying 4 GOD to give me the opportunity to stay on my own, to b totally independent.
Right now, even though I don't eat 3 square meal, am always GREATFUL to GOD for making me achieve my dream of staying alone and avoid all family palava.
Aswear the thought sponsoring my academics all by myself gives me a lot of joy grin
OLUWA am forever grateful

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Romance / Re: Where You Served Breakfast In 2021? Share Your Experience by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:00pm On Dec 30, 2021
cheesy
Romance / Re: My distant Cousin bro Wants To Marry My Ex. Help! by Opeyemiextra(f): 6:59pm On Dec 30, 2021
Let them be considering the fact that you acknowledge she is a good person. You don't want to marry her so let who will go ahead except there's something you aren't telling us.

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