You say?
Well done

Ogamysamo:

The Fact That Some Are Starving Doesn't Mean No One Is Feasting, Get That Into Your Brain And Stop Using Some Peoples Predicament As A Reason For Not Believing Others' Stories.
For There's No General Formula In Marriage

I'm glad when I see comments like this. As long as it's possible that marriage should work, I have made up my mind and working it that mine would work and that should be the mindset. I see beautiful homes around me and it gives me hope. Are there bad ones? Of course, yes but that only encourages to work towards mine.

Even outside nairaland, people air their opinions without critically analyzing the situation while others just sing along with the loudest voice or opinion. Both romance and family section of the platform should be a place of learning for and from everyone but comments are just made for the sake of it.
It's a new year and we must learn to approach issues with wisdom even if they look ordinary. Even to people that don't know us, we can help and contribute to them.

Buziness101:


But why have you suddenly found another love after 8yrs... What has he done to get this wicked act from you... Have you even taken time to think about the effect it will have on him... Why are you women like this abeg.

And the men like this ńkọ́? This wickedness is not a gender thing ó.

Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him

This is serious o. I almost fell for this years ago and I would have regretted it. Pray that it should be broken and disconnect yourself from it.

This is a great comment and I advise the OP to take it. Stop broadcasting it and just use it for the good of those around you. This has placed you at an advantage and most people you tell will not like that so shush your mouth and put that gift to good use.

Entprys:

No.
I mean, stop telling people about it. If you develop and master it well, you will be respected as a very intelligent man. If you love diligency, you make wealth ahead of your competitors. This is one of the qualities you need to outsmart others, to outshine others, and be ahead of your mate. Other way round, if you expose yourself, you will later understand that spiritual robbery is real. If you doubt go and tell your pastors every thing your feel and see.(you may be a fanatic o, it will dawn on you)

May they not change your destiny

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Celibacy or faithful marriage

I don't know if you opened the door for that kind of conversation or not so I won't comment on that. The point is she has made an intention known to you and it doesn't matter whether she said it jokingly or not, you must be wise in dealing with her moving forward. And be prayerful because she is probably preparing you for a plan ahead.

Don't allow somebody to use you play handicap o.

HenryDion:
Right before I came into the real world, I was equipped with a vital tool that have seen me through to this day.

That is understanding the human nature.

Through years of reading, study and insane obsession to know why people act the way they do, and why I do too, I have come to a point where I believe I have unlocked it.

I can take a look at you, and determine if you'll be successful or not. If I have a little more data, I can even tell exactly how you'll die.

My friends have called me psychic numerous times, but the fact is that I use the data available to me to arrive at a possible outcome.

How I was able to acquire such a magnificent ability is nothing but books and years of study in human psychology.

This fascinating super power have helped me navigate the real world since my graduation. I have secured numerous jobs, without having to know anyone.

Without having to write a CV, and most times, without even having the right qualifications. All I have to do is learn about my target, the manager, and formulate an effective strategy.

When others are following the normal route of job board application, the 1% like us are stalking the manager of our dream job in the night. Learning what he or she likes doing, where he enjoys going, and the things that bring him both pain and joy.

This was how I secured a 3 months contract with a Sweden company, $10,000 monthly, and so many like that for the past few months as a copywriter.

My understanding of human nature and the drive to manipulate them into acting a certain way have made life so easy for me, especially in my career and personal relationships with people.

The reason many are poor isn't because they are not skillful, talented, or pretty. They just don't understand the human nature yet. They are still zombies, blind from the real world of money and power.

This is not something formal education teaches. They didn't event teach me how to floss, and I almost went through life not knowing what flossing is, and how important it is.

Though young, I have seen a lifetime of a 107 years old man. And I believe it's time I stop hoarding my knowledge and impact.

Not for money, but because I'm so damn bored and I need a challenge. Making people millionaires is not a bad challenge I guess.

This year, I want to make many people millionaires, by teaching them what I know, not everything, at least enough to elevate someone from poverTEA to financial freedom using their skills.

What if I offer to teach you how to become a millionaire this year 2022, what would you say?

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Which one do we start writing now because they are many but we are grateful these words have not kept us down. If anything, they have encouraged us to do and be better version of ourselves.

redstaarx:
Omo I’m going through this right now tbh
I trusted and depended too much. We broke up last November after almost 2 years of dating we were friends for about 2 years before we started dating. She was like a sister a mother and girlfriend to me. She still wanted to be friends after I broke up but i didn’t want it. IM LEARNING TO BE STRONG ALONE. Blocked her line and deleted my social media acc. I want to learn to be happy by myself it’s hard but I have to

never be over dependent in a relationship

At bolded saved my head last year because it would have been a different story. This your story is similar to mine.

Fornicate khe? Why not make it about serious relationships?
For me anyway, my man must meet these requirements because I cannot and will not start grooming a groom.
Good looks and neat
God fearing
Integrity
Very intelligent
Not traditional
Well mannered
Hardworking and persistent

Sharp guy! It would have being another lawsuit and the lady would have won. But, such level of desperation is disturbing. Lazy people who want to reap where they have not sown full everywhere.

Will they hear? Sleeping with more than 2 persons through lifetime sef is too much. Ladies and gents, go celibate, it won't hurt you.

advanceDNA:
Sorry make una no vex oooo.....it’s just me thinking out loud

I understand prost!tutes and gigolos that sell their body for money...they are supposed to have many clients maybe 2 or 3 per week or even per month if they don’t do runs regularly...

But you so called posh, fine, normal guys and babes ....do you people like sleep with everyone you meet? cos I don’t understand how somebody will have body counts as high as 15-20 in one life time....is it not irritating??


Kò proper nowwww.!!
U people should adopt some self control

Sex is not food jàrè!

Try sex holiday for like 6 months if you are not married ..It’s good for the body...And it will help you maintain discipline in marriage when your partner is not available.

Marriages don’t automatically make people faithful... if you are used to jumping from one pvssy/pen!s to another like them swear for you....a ring on the finger won’t automatically reset your sexual appetite..

Once your spouse travel, or you go for one out of town trip...to change channel will start to hungry you like someone that is possessed.

Try some sexual discipline
It’s not that hard...
and it’s saves a lot of worry like regular trips to abortion clinic, std, and so on..

Ohkay, Sir.

Fiscus105:



I'm Very sure you are still below 30, from 30 above, most especially 35 upward you will understand clearer full philosophy of life.


I have seen man that changed from xtian to Muslim, xtian to herbalist.

Let me tell you popular, converts ,Olusegun Mimiko was Muslim even as commissioner but he changed to full blown Christian , what of Adewale Ayuba, he devoted to the extent of being baba adinni, today he is attending redeemed.

At adult thre are certain steps you would take that you can never imaging find ursef in it when you are young.

Life seems to be rossy during teenage years.

Fiscus105:
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And if the man you married in same faith/religion decides to change his faith several years after you have married him with many kids?

Now that is a good and reasonable question to really think on. I hope that won't happen but in the event that it does, certain things will have to be discussed. Believe me though, that would never happen with me or to me. That you don't fully understand what you believe is the only reason you will just move on to another religion. Such a person would most likely manifest this trait in other aspects so...

Tripitaka:


Of course we have had these discussions but as is in my OP, she is still another human being. You wouldn't think I don't know someone i intend to marry well enough.

Again, I'm just thinking aloud. In life, you can never be too sure.

Well, I probably read your post wrong however these questions are not out of place. If she has proven herself in these 2 years then that should give you rest.

Spherical77:
who told you 4 month D&C abortion is risky Biko?

So it's not risky? At all?
Óyá, tell me more.

Olayetan:


What if you fell in love with someone from a different religion?

I can't except I was deceived into which is most likely not going to happen. I just chose the peace that comes with being with someone who I'm on the same page in very important things with. Why should I go through that stress when it's easily avoidable.

I have gone through some things that I cannot gamble with certain things ever.

I, myself, won't even try it. I cannot with my hand package confusion for my children. There is already enough confusion in the world to contend with. Adding the complexities of different religions into marriage is not worth the risk except you are casual with it.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram

Am not in SUPPORT of any..


but u see Dis CUNTREE don OVER CAST..


Make ur RUBBERZ d way u Sabi



ZUZUKI LAND is FAR but wen you HIGH MAMA CHINELO WEED it becomes NEAR



WTF MAN

What exactly is your point?

chatinent:


And when you see her you'll be like: “see dear, I am not a hungry man. I was invited here. I didn't come on my own accord. No, no, let me speak. I am not a HUNGRY MAN..damn it!! You told me there was no meat! What is that there?”

My

I waited at the entrance so long because it was the bride's family sharing ticket at the event center. I had to wait for the chief bridesmaid to take me in even though I was wearing aso ebi and travellled in from another state.

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Peace and blessing upon the living.

Kriss216:

No Nigerian bride will agree to this type of wedding. They rather remain unmarried.

I completely disagree.

debbydams:
yes someone told me she wanted an elaborated wedding because she want to beat his friend that did a own some years back..I was just looking at her

Imagine!! A day that should be memorable to her but she decided that she was dedicating it to pepper her friend. Misplaced priority

RIP to the dead.

Mylordmygod1:
some of the blood have rush out, but it is still growing.. The child might not be sound if i keep it.

Why not just consult a doctor first before deciding because the whole thing is dicey right now. Any decision right now might be damaging to that lady's future so, please.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

lalasticlala..

4 month already and you are just deciding? Damn! This looks to me like toiling with the life of another person. It is risky at this point fa. Please, keep it.

Just like every other life decision, when I decide to move on having weighed the situation, I never look back especially if I have given my all. It doesn't make sense that you would still keep some form of relationship with your ex regardless of who ended the relationship. Things like that later come back to bite and they never leave a little spot.

Hammyaladin:

The question is who am I trying to impress? Most of the things you will do that day will no longer matter after the wedding.

We live in a generation where the need to oppress and pepper others is more important than peace of mind and true joy. But, that is not me. I'm too old for that shit