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Its the beggar mentality...

The low self esteem mentality....

The lack of self respect mentality...

Yes there is poverty in the land. And the pay may not be good.

But that should never be the answer. I have seen security guards that wear gatored shirts bright, black and shiny shoes who greet you with a smile. I know their pay is not good but would not stoop to begging.


I've met people wey get qualifications pass water who started with very low paying jobs and still did not beg.

The most unfortunate part is the one who earns a lot of money and still begs/steal from the poverty striken (palliative). That is the highest form of begging. They look rich but their eyes is always begging and greedy

Our focus should be what caused the accident.


Human error, vehicle malfunction, speeding



Cars just dont just flip.

We are grateful fo their safety, but.......what caused the accident.

That is so normal.

Imagine your reaction when you break a plate and when someone else breaks your plate..

If she was the one in the car she would have told you how she suffered begging them but they did not heed.


It's just human nature. We always feel we can do better in other people's situations.

Off topic:

Are children really expensive. Breastfeed them for 6 months. Introduce them to our child friendly local diet after 6 months. Two pack of onesies is enough clothing for months.


Their clothes full bend down select at very cheap rates. Cloth nappies as cheaper version of disposable nappies.

People just overwhelm themselves with expenses. Before brands were we not taking care of kids??

Why would anyone accept this kind of seed that leaves you homeless...


God does not want hardship for you and has adviced that you not be stingy and should also not be too generous that you are left destitute....

For this matter even shedrach no get house.

Its a two way street....


North will not get correct pay.... Its only in the south they charge high rates for food stuff.

South will not get tomatoes onions and meat.... Fish go still de. Southern tomatoes go begin thrive. Cotonou onion and meat is not banned.

Everybody will find a way...

From the write up, one can feel the outburst and frustration.


Na as e de hot u take write am...


Try and find peace and joy within your household. Ignore billing requests for a while and try and enjoy your life. Remember pay your self first always.

Not taboo. Either in religion or culture....



Just a matter of personal preference

All I know is it's going to be lit....


Nothing na real life to motivate good music.



God always has the final say.

He will surely progress to a domestic abuser.


Run for your life.

Money cant buy love. Surely cant buy sense.

Lol....

Its the thought that counts



Showing love shouldn't be about material things...


And never ever do more than your self.

Thumbs up

When you can't go front or back....

Huge dilema


and the poor child suffers the most.

Kinda feel sorry for all concerned....

Nice one. Dont say the money is too small just fight go your right.



Just might become precedence and deter others from doing same. That's basically the same as a scam.

New administration at the NDLEA......



Till dem settle new administration....


Everything will go quiet again.



Its not new technology or techniques. They obviously know the people that carry these things.

What is the problem gan.
Is it the bat?

Is it any black bird?

Is it the fact the black bird/rat is hanging upside down??

Or is it that the black bird is in a wardrope.

Or is it a combination of all these??

Most importantly, what is in a BLACK BIRD that makes you think it is unholy.

Just food for thought!!!! -


#stop racism # BLM #black birds matter #let the black birds live too

Several countries have banned flights from the UK after the new strain of COVID 19 virus has been discovered there.




But naija wan de carry last again....

I have always wondered this......

Especially for lintel and pillars (does not need any concrete again).

I believe it has to do with our very conservative nature- not willing to learn or try new things...



Just look at the way we stick to toyota when there are several other good cars. Always tick to the norm or average.

In the olden days and till now, beads stones and pebbles were used for counting.



Perhaps after every fast she throws one to see how many fasts she has left.


Think the best of people yet pray and be cautious in your everyday life.

Unfortunately i disagree with the OP on this, what is HARAAM OR HALAL is quite clear and not all rulings fall into this category. Even thiugh i also did not see the supporting ayah or hadith to back up that ruling.


Sexual development and its resultant issues are unique to different people and often times cannot be controlled or bottled up.

These issues need to be looked at in a wider perspective.. masturbation reduces sexual tension.

Would you prefer that man masturbates to reduce this tension or that he bottles it up to the point where he grabs a child, an animal or a woman to forcefully rape it or her

Number one: that is pure chemical. Nothing natural about it.


Number two: i would rather not cook that food than buy that thing for anything above N80.

You have a choice, you always do and it is when you exercise that choice that the CONSUMER BECOMES KING.


People will be exploiting the xmas season to jack up prices. Better change your menu to efo riro and semo to frustrate them.

Putting a square peg in a round hole?

Would it fit

That is purely a money making venture....


That hitler story is just for advertising. Notice how the story is vague, unconfirmed? "Rumour the alligator was part of Hitler's personal collection"


But it will sell sha. People will pay to go see it. I just home they made good use of the meat and bones too

If anyone told me i would be fed up i would never believe it.

The only they worship is money.
They are above the law.
Leaders that are oblivious, nonchalant except when their safety is threatened.

The increasing cost of living.
The job losses
Businesses closing
The naira losing value daily.
Yet not one single palliative to its people
Not even the aged
while leaders ride their four car entourage.

With their limitless salary.
Oblivious and nonchalant.

Powerfly:
If i hear that allahukabar.. E mean say bomb wan detonate.. But if i hear praise the lord, e mean say preaching wan start.

You've been hearing it everyday for all call to prayer. It is said perhaps 200 hundred times per day in every mosque in the whole world.

It means God is the Greatest!!!!!.


Just because some bad eggs abuse it to suit their agenda does not validate their actions nor does it demean the sentence.

One thing is certain. Death is assured for everyone. And fear the day when the only thing you can use to bargain is what you have sent forth- YOUR DEEDS.

They won't let him live


They won't let him die



They definitely won't let him die in peace....

I just love the way the doctor was attending to him...

Doctor: are you okay?

Man: nods very slowly.

Doctor to the Punisher: please continue.

(That man has to say yes cos if doctor pours methylated spirit on that wound and they continue the whipping.... Hmmmmm case closed be that)

Igbo amaka.

The story not clear. Cars could not speed or even pass the protest sites.

Did she fall from a stampede.


And where was the exact venue of the incident

Mother thinking what have I done to deserve this

The friends and family are just lucky. Enjoying two parties on the same day. And the celebrants will just be glad you came....



It is the celebrants who are .........

Spending twice as much
Not celebrating each other (NOBODY got your back like your twin)
Letting us miss out on good music
Reducing their synergistic value (PSquare was a brand)....


And the list goes on.


Those two need to remature and mature up.