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In every dispute seperation should be the first option for resolution.


In this you will find people appreciating the other partner's input. Its more like a factory reset. A time of reflection. All the people that have no impact in the marriage will however not be missed.


Divorce is a final resolution.

For you to be a middle child shows your dad maybe had you out of wedlock then your mum accepted you as her own. For that your dad would not you to accept another as your mum after your mum's sacrifice. Its such a hard matter but you have to show more love to your mom and show her you are not trying to replace her.

She can then talk to your father.

The mistake we all make is that we all believe it is greener on the other side. (Fact is If my mom beats me to a stupor it wont pain me like if my stepmom would. )

My point here is never underestimate the sacrifice of your mum who took care of you from childhood and when you ask for your new mom ask gently.

Disobedience is sin.

When the one who created said follow these rules or do as i have said.

And you disobey then you have sinned.


Choice the ability to choose between right or wrong is a major factor for sinning.

Many people blame devil for their misdeeds but you prefer to blame God.

How did you help God by kidnapping and killing people. When the same has commanded you against such.


Just say i did it for the money cos that is the only motivation to be seen.

We still dont have all the evidence. Evidence of theft, fraud, but what about the murder.

Prevention still remains the best solution..


Being careful and not taking risks.

Women do have a role to play in religion. By teaching the children and other women.

They may not teach the men?(i personally dont see why not).


But there are many matters that many women would only open up to other women about. And women have always been good teachers/role models for children.

The same significance as the jesus portrait or sculpture in Christianity.


They believe these were holy people that can intercede on their behalf to God.

I think that as long as it is used for its rightful purpose then you should pay.

If it is meant for the poor you can pay to the poor the orphans widow etc. If you feel it might not be managed properly.

All Abraham's religion supports a very simple way of life.

If we lived simply and helped others, then everyone would be comfortable.

Fact....

Rape destroys the soul...


Rape allegation destroys the character....



The Problem is proof sha.

When youve spent enough time on nairaland.


And the number one topic is snakes



and buhari...

Most people do not understand that the main body of science and some other subjects comes from God's books.

It is often our interpretation that limits the body of knowledge derived from God's books.

You trying to seperate science from religion or religion from science seems odd. Religious men have had great impact in science

Nice .

The best lesson is by action and good example.

IDeyFlogAllah:
A blessed and honoured religion created by a god who can't do basic mathematics.

Islamic inheritance when there are no sons. Let's assume that the man leaves behind 100 dollars for his family and it is shared in accordance with Quran 4:11

⅛ of 100 is 12.5 for the wife

⅔ of 100 is 66.7 for the daughters

⅙ of 100 is 16.7 for the mother

Another ⅙ of 100 is 16.7 for the father

Making up a total of 116 dollars

Allah's sharing formula exceeds the actual amount of money left for inheritance

I just read this chapter:
The sons should get twice the share of the daughters.


If there are no sons all the girls should share 2/3rds of the estate and the deceased parents 1/6th each= 2/3+1/6+1/6 =1

But if he does not have any children: then his mother 1/3 and father 2/3.

If he has brothers and sisters, then his mother 1/6th so the deceased brothers and sisters can share.


My own interpretation. But you can pass your message accross without abuses or curses.

There is already a defined method of sharing inheritance.

Any body can only make a will to bequeath gifts to people and this should be taken out of the wealth before the inheritance is shared.

And there is a limit that can be shared as gifts out of the wealth.

People with their own truth.

Threads on Islam were always derailed by certain persons with abuses and bad language.

They then created a sign in so such people could stay out. But they are undeterred. Please check any Islamic thread on any Friday and see

The abuse of the prophet, the religion, it's people.
Online bullying and lies to justify their acts
All forms of discrimination.

The evidence is there to see. Everybody's contribution should be allowed but we also should not hide and spew hatred.


Who are the ones doing these - the tribalist, bigots and cyber bullies and...... Just contribute with facts and sense.

Thou shall have only one God...

In all books that has remained the unforgivable sin. When you compare any one or thing or man to God.

Attributing powers of God to any human being.
Callling on any man or thing in prayer.
Praying in other than God's name.
Praying to graven images or idols.


Any other sins he forgives as He sees fit.

Jesus was a MAN. And he came from a tribe or region or country.


He would surely look like his ancestors or descendants....


It's funny how people know Abraham's tribe and his people. And therefore Jacob, Isaac etc...

But want to argue about Jesus's complexion.

That is why it is repeatedly said " this Quran is for a people that have sense and can think"


The Quran was revealed over a period of 23 years. It was memorised and written down during the times of the prophet on several different materials (in bits and pieces). But when the prophet died, Umar compiled it into book form and many vouched that it's compilation was complete.

You can get information on when and where each verse was revealed. It's readily available. Just free your mind and let wealth enter.


Did you know that Arabic is probably the only language presently spoken that closely resembles the language spoken by Jesus? Jesus (may the peace of God be with him) spoke Aramaic. So you should learn Arabic.

And don't forget discrimination includes bullying and ridiculing people based on their beliefs. Stop spreading false information and malicious contents.

Seek the truth and it shall set you free. Practically all information source is now online, just seek the truth.

On the topic, we all need to work hard to benefit the family unit and ultimately society.


The problem is we people lack commitment to their family. Such that kids suffer.

It's not all about money, training love and good behaviour matters so your kids can emulate you.

DuBLINGreenb:
Why is a child who converts disinherited from his/her family's properties that's not right

Why do male children get 3 times more than female children when it comes to sharing properties

The same way a Muslim should not take from a non Muslim's wealth. It's vice versa. Although his parents may gift him a portion of their wealth before any sharing of wealth. (My thinking is that why would you want to benefit from something you don't believe in.)

Male children get 2 times the share of females when sharing property. (Maybe because men are the breadwinners). But remember Islam allows women to own their wealth desperate from their husband and to use it as they please. So even though the woman has that wealth the man is still supposed to take care of her according to his ability and has no right to demand from her wealth except she is willing.

Nltaliban:
But wait, how will they get 4 witnesses?

4 people must be there to testify someone was raped before they can be punished?

Like you said, if we follow Islamic ruling, there will be low rape cases and more false rape accusations why? No fvcking person will have four witnesses

When read in context it makes sense.

Men and women are not allowed to be alone at any time. A woman must go out with her mahram for protection.

And there are witnesses after the fact. Remember most rape cases only have witnesses after the fact. E.g girl comes home clothes torn crying, doctor confirms the girl has been raped.

Cleanliness is next to Godliness.

You can google the word Fitrah for better understanding.


Leviticus 14:8 may help. Bathe shaving are acts of cleanliness.

Circumcision too.

From the story they do not have the culprits yet.


The women themselves did not know what was in the bag and actually caused their own arrest by asking motor park touts to search their bags to confirm it contained rice.

I don't any investigation has been done to get the woman's husband or the person who sent her husband.

So what was in the Facebook post.....




The most vital part of that news article is missing.

Na today. As if right now in Theis enlightened you still do not have status segregation and racism in the UK schools.


There are numerous news items on beatings and even some cases deaths of victims of discrimination (sometimes suicide from bullying of black students or Muslim students )

They just moved in and went jogging the day before - sounds like fact.


He killed her because he suspected he wasn't the father of the second child - sounds like gossip.


Let police do investigation and release the facts of the case, I beg.

It's mainly God, God and God....

When you hear some people's stories, you'll understand...


So never forget the God factor, run your own race. Be patient , be content. Be yourself.

Evidence provided. Case easy. Case closed.

What we need to do is to take our time to determine the type of punishment fit for rapist.

So painful.

Shedrack777:
at her age? no! i won't and don't believe she's a virgin

Unfortunately, that's on you and it shows your upbringing, your past, your relationships, your parentage and all that has come together to form your bias.


You are and will continue to be a product of your past experiences and it's a pity that from this you believe there are no pure girls or boys or women or men.

Goodness exists and abounds plentifully.

It's just a pity.

Covid has reset everybody's brain.


When your first priority is live.


Ever other thing becomes inconsequential.