lonelydora: I'm tempted to say Nnamdi Kanu, the Oha-ma-dike 1, but I remembered "Igbo enwe eze", that is there is no king in Igbo. Every Igbo man is king in his house
This is why igbos will always have problems even if you give them Biafra
Starlight10: Hello dear, my sister did, he is rich, educated and forms spiro outside. but was a monster at home. she left with her son taking nothing and asking for nothing. she started life again and learnt to smile again, her jaws even was finding the smile strange as it hurt little when she smiled after leaving him. till today he begs and cries but she won't go back.
I am talking about verbal amd not ouright physical sis...abeg tell me another story...maybe there is another reason...what am i even saying sef...how many ladies will even anger a rich man.
Gloriagee: I would and Emeka Ike's wife did. As you grow older / more exposed and enlightened you'll realize that generalizations don't usually work. I dont hang out with foolish and hypocritical Naija ladies. Stop verbally insulting women whether you are rich or poor.
Did you read the story of Emeka ike as regards why the wife left? please go back and do that...as for you saying you will leave a rich husband that verbally abuse then you are not a typical naija lady or you are just fooling yourself.
Tunagee: I made efforts to appease her from sept 2018 to January 2019, but she was unwilling and was adamant saying she has no time for marriage and that she lost her brother. Pls if I was proud, I won't have been begging by kneeling to her at her mother's place. This is in addition to the several appeal messages to her pleading. If i was proud, i wont have been visiting consistently for 4months, despite no result.This should answer your question below.
That's why he is making half hearted efforts at getting her back. The woman knows he hasn't changed, that's why she is not budging. Jeez. How difficult is it to understand that?
My brother i appreciate your boldness for bringing your matter online but trust me, 99% of those making comments here are totally ignorant of what you ae passing through.
I begged my ex too for months and even my family member begged her not because they felt i did her anything bad but because THEY KNOW I LOVE HER AND THEY DID THAT FOR THE SAKE OF MY SANITY.
See bro abeg relax...is there any other language i can use to tell you this?
RELAX YOUR MIND and focus on your life..in fact let me give you the gist...STOP BEGGING HER and get another lovely lady to keep you company and watch what happens.
Remember i am not like any other poster here but i have lived your story first hand and in fact asides from the fact that both of you have a child together, your story is just like mine. I remember the way i was disgraced in her sisters house during one of those days i went begging and i almost lost my sanity.
IhateInjustice: Don't mind him, too full of himself... He doesn't know that verbal abuse have the same effect as beating, if not worst.
He claimed the wife was lying against him to his in-law but from the look of things it's not true. He is shocked that his wife could open up to her family about his real character.
Op, you are a Narcissist ...you are the one with a problem . You make excuses of verbally abusing her but capitalize on the fact that she opened up to her family, what exactly do you want, for her to die silently while your unemployed self call her unintelligent and God knows what else you call her.
See funny comments...i just cant help but smh! Most people making comments just imagine stuffs and make a judgement based on that..
Which man just wakes up to start abusing his wife verbally? Hypocrites everywhere...
You say men should not beat their women we agree and even when pushed to the wall with her actions we should refrain from letting out our anger verbally...arrant nonsense and epic madness i will say...why not just see us men as robots without feelings..rubbish.
All the stupid comments i read here from people who have no idea of what the OP is passing through want to make me puke.
Gloriagee: Puma too...whatever that means. Theres no justification for calling your wife a slut. Yall speak badly to a woman in the name of being a human not realizing you are planting seeds of discord. You dont need to speak when you are upset. Take a walk...do something and learn from the op, not everyone is receptive to insults. Shes 40 years n may never meet anyone else yet she still left. Shes happier being a sales girl to her aunt than chopping insult. I repeat learn from op.
That is the foolish hypocrisy with many ladies especially naija women... If the guy is rich we wont even be here writing this cos she would have coped. Which typical naija woman leaves a rich man because he verbally insults her?
Gloriagee: Wawu, how did I miss the memo? Yet to call my spouse or any other individual a LovePeddler or slut... guess I'm not human after all. Or is the name calling reserved for only male 'humans'?
wettin this one dey yarn?
Abeg park well biko...do you know why i called her that name.. Puma
Jenna announced that she and her husband will be leading the ‘xxxchurch’ which is a Christian website that exists to help porn addicted individuals and deliver those working in the porn industry.
According to the former pastor ‘Craig Gross’, he heard his lord telling him to hand over the church and it’s activities to Jenna Presley whose real names are ‘Brittni De La Mora’.
The statement she released to the website goes thus; “My husband and I will be the new faces of XXXchurch.com. We are humbled and honoured that God has called us to this ministry”.
De La Mora was working in a strip club so she could afford college tuition before she joined the Porn Industry.
Her statement to Fox News goes thus;
“I grew up in a broken household so I really didn’t know my value or my worth.
“I discovered early on that if I was naked in the presence of men that I was going to get what I didn’t get at home – and that was an affirmation.”
According to De La Mora, she was enjoying working in the porn industry and making nude videos until she discovered she’has contracted Sexually Transmitted Disease, and that made her rethink about her life and immediately quit PornHub. She said; “I’d never gotten an STD in my life so I thought from that point on, ‘What am I doing in this business?'”. https://www.yugo.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/xxchurch-6.png
She also revealed that when she discovered she’has contracted an STD, she began abusing drugs like Cocaine, Heroin and Methamphetamine.
Regardless of the fact that she converted to Christianity, De La Mora continued performing in the porn industry for about 3 and a half years, because she came in contact with a love-vendor. But, one day she decided she was tired and couldn’t continue. her statement goes thus; “I went to go film a porn scene in Las Vegas and brought my Bible with me on the airplane and I was reading scripture,”
“At which point I really felt that [God was telling me], ‘Brittni, this isn’t the life that I have for you…know that I have something so much greater in store for you but I need you to give me a step of faith today. I need you to quit the industry and I promise you, your life is going to turn around.’
“So I quit the industry that day and I’ve been out since December 2012.”
After she quit the industry, she got married to a pastor name ‘Richard’ and they co-authored a book which helps couples spice up their relationship, and it was named ‘Fire and Fresh’.
https://www.yugo.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/xxchurch-3.png She continued; “My husband and I believe the greatest relationship is the relationship with God and with each other,” she said. “If those relationships are on fire, everything else will be on fire.” Lol! She better keeps a fire extinguisher handy!
The xxxchurch states that ‘Jesus loves porn stars’.
Wow! What I want to project from this is the fact that no matter how sinful you think you are even after accepting Christ as saviour please don't give up your salvation but continue to trust in the HOLY spirit.....in the long run...he will perfect your salvation.
omochelsea004: Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.
The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.
Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.
Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
you will be amazed when you eventually realize she has even a stronger drive than you..
Just focus on giving her pre-intimacy without asking for sex and she will be the one begging for it.
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Quotable Lyrics
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[Pre-Chorus: Tiwa Savage] Tick tock, pretty baby You can get it back, don’t you waste it To grow from your past, gotta face it Oh yeah, yeah, yeah Tick tock, pretty baby (Tick tock, pretty baby) You can get it back, don’t you waste it (Get it back, don’t you waste it) To grow from your past, gotta face it Oh yeah (You’re the key to the kingdom)
[Chorus: Tiwa Savage] Oh, you’re rather empty, don’t know what’s inside But you’re the key to the kingdom You’re the key to the kingdom Oh, so believe Even if you can’t see, I’ll never leave ‘Cause you’re the key to the kingdom You’re the key to the kingdom
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[Pre-Chorus: Tiwa Savage] Tick tock, pretty baby You can get it back, don’t you waste it To grow from your past, gotta face it Oh yeah, yeah, yeah Tick tock, pretty baby (Tick tock, pretty baby) You can get it back, don’t you waste it (Back, don’t you waste it) To grow from your past, gotta face it Oh yeah (You’re the key to the kingdom)
[Chorus: Tiwa Savage] Oh, you’re rather empty, don’t know what’s inside But you’re the key to the kingdom You’re the key to the kingdom Oh, so believe Even if you can’t see, I’ll never leave ‘Cause you’re the key to the kingdom You’re the key to the kingdom
[Outro: Tiwa Savage] The other sun and the moon bow for you
spongeisback: Majority of nairalanders are pure idiots with low IQ. How can you support a man that is abusive towards his wife? He doesn't provide for his family and he's also abusive. I read one idiot's comment saying he has a right to abuse his wife, like seriously? When did a woman become an inanimate object?
OP you're a wicked man. I've no pity for you because it's obvious you have broken that woman. Both you and your useless pastor that asked you not to visit your family would get what's coming. GTFOH here. Age is just a number and maturity doesn't always come with age as you've displayed.
To all those supporting the OP I hope you can stand someone insulting you and your family, if you can't and you're using your dirty fingers to type shït, then like the OP you're a big hypocrite.
Sometimes I laugh when I see advise coming from those who have no clue of what the OP is passing through...
I have lived the experience 200% and I can tell you there was no verbal abuse at all but the OP is so confused at the moment that he is trying to attach a reason to why she left.
She left cos he lost his job and frustrations were setting in for her...
Ladies can play the victim card...
My wife left because I was down and out at a point and she told her family the exact thing the OP narrated...infact s i was reading the story it was as if I was reading my own story...but guess what...the lady walked back to me after 2years then I was the one who finally did the ditching.
Some ladies are impatient and this is why I tell men to make sure their wives have a very good source of income so that they can withstand pressure when the going gets tough for the husband.
Tunagee: My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.
My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)
All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.
Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.
The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.
Pls advise on what to do.
We are legally married.
Hehehe
Bro this is the best advise you will ever get here cos I'm advising you from vivid personal experience...
Go to her family"s house and let them.know you love her but you will let her be hoping she comes back to her senses and that if she is truly done then let her file for divorce then let her be and focus on your life and how to get back on your feet.
Is there any child or children between you two? If yes it even makes it more difficult for her and if NO it changes nothing..
When time reach nah she go carry herself come back come meet you.
Adebuble: Am a registered Nurse, married with kids.
To be promiscuous is an individual thing, it's not a profession thing..
The way u see some nurses being promiscuous is the same way we see other professional colleagues messing around..
I have seen more agency or drinks industry People messing around more than all the years of me practicing as a nurse.. Am in the drinks industry now, and the way the girls hump guys is just alarming.
J4JUVENTUS: Help me tell am.... If anybody will make heaven in Nigeria ,infact the world sef,na by grace.. No b only that one be sin nah. Who no dey sin Being a Nigeria citizen sef na sin..
And who told you people make heaven by the sins they commit or their act of righteousness... The bible says we are saved by grace and not by our works lest any man should boast.
Ephesians 2 vs 8..''[8] For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. ''
This is why many people end up in hell. They think GOD judges them by the errors they make by falling into sin even after they gave ther life to Jesus but this is not so. The bible says as long as you accept Jesus as lord and saviour,he will never drive you away
John 6 vs 37..''All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.''
To cap it up, God knows we are not perfect and that we can still sin sometimes even after we have accepted JESUS so he has made provision for that by insru ting us to ask for forgiveness in the name of Jesus and we will reecieve forgiveness.
1John chp2 vs 1..''"My little children, I am writing this to you so that you may not sin; but if any one does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous" (2:1).1 "No one who abides in him sins; no one who sins has either seen him or known him. . . . ... All wrongdoing is sin, but there a sin which is not mortal."
But Paul now said well,we should not because there is abundant grace and we can always recieve forgiveness for our sins we should then enjoy sins o....
Romans 6 vs 1 ''What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase?
So wettin be my point?
Give your life to Jesus and he will acept you as you be,if you sin after you give your life to Jesus dont be discouraged or disqualify yourself but pray for forgiveness and bounce back. Don't enjoy sins and submit to the holy spirit who is the one that helps every believer to get better and better until the day we die and go to heaven where we become very perfect.
AerialMapper: You’ll be online rationalizing something stupid until you are directly affected by it then you will change moniker and start wailing. Pray that someone you know or someone close to you doesn’t fall victim to this. You know how easy it is to shoot first and throw a couple of ballot sheets on the body, pull down trousers and say ballot snatcher.
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Being a Nigeria citizen sef na sin..
