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Let him return all the money he has stolen then we will believe that his intentions are genuine. This must be another Alam.

Conscience fighter indeed.

O boy which kai thing be dis? U dey ask question and still dey anwer yoursel?

Love covereth all things but not in this case.

dns:
i do understand this one hooo nairalanders please help me. 4 instance ur girl just call u one telling u that she has no feelings for any man that she want to be alone, and that is just the she feels what do u do, and what does it mean. help hooooo!

Let her be. Abi you wan hang yourself?

Sometimes ladies need break to make a review into the koko things of life.

The time to act is now. Do you think it will be easier to leave in 1, 2 years when you guys are deeper into each other. For you guys to hide your relationship from people means that their lots of issues than you listed.

If the foundation of a marriage is not well laid it will not stand the test of time. You as a lady have a lot to play in the whole thing. You can decide to have anyhow marriage or a decent one. I believe things need to be done decently and honourably.

Since the reason been given is not political, tribal,religious, social status, I think you better have a rethink before you add to the complicated issues. You guys should work on the reconciliation first before considering any sort of relationship.

You better start loving her before I grab her commot from your hand.

Gaggi:
I think its most common with the Ibos. I'm yet to see any Ibo couple married over 20 yrs who have less than 6 children. I served in the East and know this for sure. Some school of thought says they're trying to recoup the population lost during the Civil war

@ Osisi,
I talk lie?

I dont think it`s peculiar to a particular tribe in Naija. The Igbos are the most monogamous family yet they still manufacture children like a selling commodity. A Yoruba woman can marry up to 5 men and still give them 2 kids each. The Hausas are sit down at home and manufacture as many as our government can support. It cuts across the nation in different version.

A village gurl who is been fed with efo (vegetables) will have as many kid as the nation want without  C & S. You see her look fresh and young.

A city gurl who si been fed with pies, ice cream, chicken, pop corn and so on will rarely have two kids without C & S, thus scaring them from having more pregs.

Can someone tell me why it is so? I wan go pick wife for village because I dey consider raising a football team for this nation before 2020.

peelovee:
Posted by: Ournaija
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How old are you and how old is the relationship

What has age to do with this, if you don't no what to advise on, please stop too much question i no dey for interview.

no be curse, or insult.

Your post is senseless and childish. True lovers don`t need to seek for public opinion before telling their guys what they feel about them. I think you are a fake lover.

Do you think reducing the seven point agenda to two as proposed by the CBN governor will help Mr. president achieve something before the end of his tenure in office?
We are yet to see the fulfilment of one of the points agenda set by Mr. President.

Please can someone tell me what to drink,chew and eat to add flesh in a short time.?I need this for something.

O boy see bullets everywhere. I berra leave here now before them shoot me. Who started the shooting?

Confusion everywhere.

How old are you and how old is the relationship?

I don`t fink you really want her. Genuine guys won`t ask this kind of question especially when they are dieing to have a gurl. She even summoned courage to initiate the r/s and you are here asking stupid question. I fink you will use it against bcoz u already showing. Abeg leave the innocent gurl alone for a more deserving guy.

You berra dump him now and get a berre guy that will love and respect you. If you dont leave him now he will leave you sooner or later. I hope you will be able to gather enough energy to hook up with another guy (if they will be available for real).

Men with BREAST sha

@pepper boy

Add pepper to the ice cream to make it unique. I`m sure she will never forget how she was proposed.

"I am sorry" could be too expensive to say by some people especially when the person they are to say it to is considered too cheap. Maybe there is no good reason to waste it on you. Are you sure that you are in charge ?

I wish someone can foward this to Mr. Yara adua so that he can see how these youths have lost hope in themselves.

I no fit talk. Dis kind matter get as e be.

v3nom4eva:
@all
I've tried to get a restraining order (from a court) to keep her on a leash, but she's friends wit my elder sis and she uses her most times to get @ me. . .I've had to switch SIMs to the point i can't EVEN remember my contact numbers. . .I've gotten an attorney, filed for a warrant (that she'd get the paternity test done)

@Ifeleke
Nope. . .wasn't

@Sasha009
She's a good girl and the thought of losing her cuz of it all TRULY scares me, it's not like she's not getting the vibes regarding everything thats happening but she just can't handle it especially when my elder sis doesn't like her @ all. .

Guy you don try too much. All you need do is open up to your Gf. Be cool,mild and matured with your presentation about the whole matter. And for the blackmailer IGNORE her and tell your family mambers to do the same. Let them know that anyone that affiliates with her in your name does so in his or her own peril.

I am talking from experience, Once everyone ignore her she will be forced to come out with the truth. It is the attention you are according her that is making her do more. Ignore every calls and SMS. You must do all you can to ignore. Dont let her get to you with this blackmail. Bone her and move on with your chick. It has worked and I think it will work in this case.

I am short of words. Your hands are not clean. The only way out of this cage is paternity test. Know how to present the matter to your Gf before you kill her emotionally. Please dont drag her into all these mess. Sort yourself out like a man.

Are you sure you are not lusting after her just because she is the only available girl around?

What do you mean My Friend Girl is Running after you Or am missing something?

If you love your guy abeg stick to him and make yourselves happy.
Dont give a shit about your cousin, she thought she will have her cake after chewing it. This is a lesson for materilistic girls out there. Anybody can make it anyday anytime.

Abeg fashy that gold digger cousin of yours.

Dessicole! Dessicole!! Dessicole!!! how many times did I call you? Why did you choose to end your life like this after all Mama and Papa did for you?

@poster

Abi you want us to join you to dey beg the babe?

@poster
You beg to toast her, you beg for her to accept, you beg her to follow you to the bank, you beg her to calm down, you beg her to go home, you beg her to receive your calls, you beg her to accept your begging, you beg her to stop acting the way she is doing, you beg her to take her to the spot of the incident, You beg her into marriage and on and on .

If you continue with this shit of begging your children will stand up and curse you . Abeg wake up and stop begging.

Since you have told him leave it there and let God do the rest. You have done your part and let God do his part. If truely the girl is fetish as you claim God will reveal everything. You shouldn`t stop praying. if he is for you, God will preserve him for you. Maybe he is for the Jazz lady.

Some will say it`s two years of dormancy, others will say it`s two years of no action. I can`t lay my mind on any tangible projects this government has achieved since it took over from Baba Iyabo. Baba is a hero anyday anytime. Can somebody tell me what this go slow governmet have achieved for the past two years? Is it worth celebrating?

What is stopping you from going after what you want ? I cant imagine you considering a heartless girl who is toying with the minds of three full grown adults ( Bobo1, Bobo2 and You). How are you sure that after your marriage with her you woundn`t become Bobo three when another Naija guy will be dragging the case to Nairaland for another advise. Abeg go for the Igbo babe if she is available abd settle down sharp sharp. Abeg leave that ashewo for your good.