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Ikea was made for you to spend hrs in it. Why else do they have a dinning section You shop until you are exhausted then you go get something cold from the restaurant. You get your strngth back and you continue. After 5 hours you leave with a table that you have no where to put in your house

Masters in finance and he wants you to master housework instead. It sounds like your husband is a wonderful man but you will have to let him face reality. God forbid something happens and he is without work tomorrow. It would be your job that would keep you guys from being homeless. With the employment climate in Nigeria today I am not sure how he could even suggest that. Unless he comes from good old solidified money I would advice him to think again

blank:
2 months is not early but normal. Most hospitals carry out 3 scans. One at 8-10weeks, another at 20 weeks and the third at 36 weeks. I am concerned that she is experiencing pains just from a normal scan. Do check with ur doctor.

Why so many scans? Is that typical in the UK?

What does Jessica Biel's request from Justin Timberlake have to do with the law. It is request she is making. It has nothing to do with the law. He can also make the same requests. It is his choice to disagree.

No one said spikes. There are age appropriate heels for kids. A 13 year old should be able to walk comfortably in small heels.

Little wonderboy

mrkels:
Proving once again that nothing says romance like a celebrity prenup, Jessica Biel has reportedly asked Justin Timberlake to sign a fidelity clause that would give her $500,000 if he were to ever cheat on the actress.

Does this divorce thingy really make sense? Them get luck say nor be Nigeria, this law is gender sensitive, dont you people think so?

www.2349ja..com/2012/02/500000-if-you-were-to-ever-cheat-on.html

Maybe you should start by understanding what you are writing about

I like Funmi Iyanda. Never heard any of the other womens views on anything

She's trying too hard

Hmm. I don't have a daughter that age but I think 13 is okay for heels. The type of heels matter though. A 13 year old in stilettos is not appropriate

Since it was just the wedding band though why did she not just buy herself the engagement ring and wear them both. He even engraved their names on it. I guess they are getting a crash course in communication in a marriage

When I said what kind of scan I meant if it was the one were they insert it or just the typical one were they actually scan your abdomen. 2 months is actually early for any scan unless there is an underlying issue.

moremi2008:
So what can they do to poor old grandpa and grandma? Besides, no amount of corrective plastic surgery can completely remove those marks!

"Poor" ke. The only part that is correct is the old part. They should not be allowed to ever see the kids again PERIOD. I am not even opposed to throwing them in jail for a day or so. I truly have no sympathy at all. They are conniving and evil. If they were not they would not wait until the mad left to do what they did. They should sit in kirikiri like their fellow criminals.

parisienne:
Hnmmm. U won't believe somthing simillar happend to a couple we know. They took their second child with them to their hometown, where they were to attend a wedding. On their return their child had been given tribal marks by grandma n grandpa. They were so furious! But they couldn't do anything.

Strange and very annoying but true.

There was a similar situation like that that was posted her a while back.


I don't understand what you mean by there was nothing they could do. I cannot even imagine. I cannot believe that they just let these people mutilate their children and moved on as if no wahala. DO they even understand the social ramifcations of cutting up your face. mscheeeeeeeeeeew

As for the woman and her mother I believe this is grounds from removing that child from the mother. It is abuse simple and short. She is not fot to be the childs mother.

queensmith:
THe story is just shocking!!

She should go to dotuns graveside, wake dotun from the dead. Then kill dotun again!

This is a tough case sha. Imo she should liquidise everything in if she can before the guys bastard children know what he owns and what he doesnt.
These should be some sort of clause regarding whether or not the children should be from them both?

But the guys children still have to be entitled to something from their father

Please leave Dotun jare. Why would she let a man convince her that he is buying land in the name of imaginary people. she should just be slapping herself non stop

What kind of scan did she get

She was not smart sha. Why not buy land in your own name? Can you honestly by land with an imaginary name?

ROTLMAO Na wa. She went and bought her own ring. Is she marrying herself? For those of us judging her it is easy to do so when you can flash your own with pride They both need some serious sit down time. She should wear the ring her gave her but he needs to not be a jerk about it

I might seem mean but my opinion is that this girl was so over sheltered by her parents that she honestly has no mind of her own. first she got pregnant because at the end of the day she could not stand up to her parents to say she would marry the man. She decided to use her pregnancy. The man turned out to be totally useless and at the end of the day it is still daddy and mummy that are trying to figure out her life for her. The only thing I would say and only because of the child is to see if you get her out of the country. If she gets a chance to get out all of you should get the heck out of her life and let her make her good and bad decisions on her own

She looks beautiful. Finally she can rest. May she rest in peace

Thank God nobody died

Ah abeg I could not finish it. I was already crying. May God give the family strength. This kind of pain cannot be quantified. May Simi's soul continue to rest in peace

Another blanket statement from you Goshen. There are cases were an abortion is absolutely necessary. Every abortion is different.

Intelligent man that does not know that he should wear a condom. It also seems to be a norm for him since any woman he looks at for more than 2 seconds gets pregnant. On the bright side we know that this woman will not leave him if he cheats because she stayed all these years.

Does the judge have the right not to grant the divorce       What if she hits him with a 2 by 4 and kills him tomorrow? Will the judge take responsibility. Beyond ridiculous

I will not advice any woman who is not in the know of 100% of all financial transactions and assets of her husband to do this. If that honesty is not there in the first place then why trust him with this one

People jumping down the posters throat have not seen the fannatical christians in action. The best approach is to be honest with his wife about his feeling before she gets too caught up in it that she forgets that she has responsibilites to her husband. I wish them luck

Research has shown that if you want the money to be put to good use then you give it to the women. This was mainly focusing on the very poor. Even when there was a man in the home. When interest free loans were given the women paid back at a high rate and established businesses too. This can only help especially in a country and culture that the discrimination against women and womanhood is so disgusting its sometimes hard to believe that it is 2012.

A lot of times adults put thoughts in their heads. Let the child live his/her life and make this decision later in life. If he likes to wear pink let him wear pink but don't equate it to he wants to be a girl. Some kids are just like that. I have a cousin that had she grown up in the US she would be gay today. She never liked long hair. She had short hair and would only wear boy shorts. She would cry if you even bought her a dress. Today she is well adjusted and is not a lesbian because nobody brought up that issue. We just know when the other kids got dresses she got shorts and when the other girls would braid on sunday she would get a hair cut every other week with her dad.