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maclatunji:
^What you have just described is still mental. When I say 'mental issues', it does not automatically mean madness.

Did not know that there were any other kinds of mental issues besides mental issues. Okay how does believing something that has been hammered into your heard since childhood equat to mental issues. No be quarrel o as I always like to see what you have to say

maclatunji:
^I wouldn't call her Ogbanje, I would just call her a pretty girl. I don't know what to tell the poster. No question there exists paranormal activity. However, in this poster's case I seriously doubt it. It is more likely the girl has mental issues.

She might not even have mental issues. It might have been drummed into her head since she was a child. You have no idea how many light skinned beautiful girls have been termed ogbanje in Nigeria or how many kids with siblings who all died have gotten that label. She is just repeating what has been programmed into her

2mch:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-773873.0.html

I know you are trying to help but I don't think she has gotten to the stage of reading about infertility. She is not infertile. She most likely does not need any medical intervention. I wanted to send a PM but it is not enabled on this forum. I am only saying it because I am sure she is already considering going through unnesasary medical procedures and I doubt that she needs to.

May their souls rest in peace and may their loved ones be comforted

garnetty:
@ Outstrip, thanks a bunch for your opinion. Love your knacking concept,

You are welcome. My friend got me into using that word. Sometimes she will call me and go "you are knacking that poor man right now" LOL. She watched a Nigerian movie and heard it there. She cannot call me without talking about Knacking so I just use it now LOL

jennykadry:
Outstrip the knackology expert, I hail thee

Look who is talking. Who taught me

[quote author=omooba-nla link=topic=861744.msg10109616#msg10109616 date=1328249681]@Outstrip, Not at all. She lost her job just before we met. For the kids, no ll don't have our biological one yet.[/quote]So she does not work outside of the home yet she does not even remember to cook. You guys really need to talk. She should make herself useful. Maybe she is depressed? Maybe you gave her false expectations of what you have. You need to pull that fantasy away. Bitterness has no place in a marriage. It is just too soon for you to be bitter. Ask her what she wants from this marriage because you are feeling very discouraged. Ask her what she thinks her role is as your wife. Ask her what she expects from you as a husband? No matter how unrealistic hear each other out. Then decide how you guys will tackle it. marriage is never easy in the beginning

debrief08:
Very sad how Some Nigerians look down on service providers. How in heavens name can she justify pouring soup on another human " being, hot soup. Haba. The poster who came to add "lol" at the end of her post is just sad. Later we will go to church

Before nko. And shout the loudest halleluyah

Na today

She is not an ogbanje

I personally would not tell them anything. You were not feeling well so you stayed home. End of story. Don't let this get you down. It does not diminish your worth. You will have babies. Focus on other things. Good luck

So what if the girl behind the counter jumped the counter and beat the crap out of Jackie. bet she wouldn't feel so powerful anymore. There are many things she could have done and none of them includes proving to the world that she is more mannerless than the unruly waiter

Look on the bright side. They are now required to register online so that means that other fraudulent doctors will at least not be able to work in that state easily. They should require all doctors in private practice to display their certificates in a very public place in their clinics. People should be able to see it and go to the department of health and verify if the Doctor is real or not. I just wonder how many poor people lost their lives because of this animal

Please I have to draw the line somewhere

Look how they wrote the story to totally absolve this loser of any wrong. SMH. May her soul rest in peace

SisiKill are you basing it on the article above or you have something that proves that he infact raped little boys

Everything you have mentioned are exactly the things EVERY single married person deals with. You are not unique in this regard. I think you have made a mistake by already running to your family to discuss your wife. My advice is you need to be open about it with your wife. The fact of the matter is the average person who you constantly give money to will never understand the importance of that money until they learn to make that kind of money on their own. She will have to learn but try not to let this be what destroys your marrriage. She has some serious growing up to do just don't expect it to be overnight. BTW what does she do for a living? Does she work outside of the home? Do you guys have kids?

As long as you are not marrying him because you feel you have no other options. If you love him then you have to love his baggage. You have to be honest with yourself

Typical

And she hijacked it right back LMAO

It breaks my heart to hear adults say things like this happened to them. i wonder if it is the hardship in raising kids that makes parents say things like these to their children. How can they possibly expect that anything good will come out of telling their children that one is better than the other. It just vexes me

@OP in response to the quote directed to me. I agree that things do get boring after a while but even with your analogy of the same good getting boring then do something different. Bottom line make it fun for you. I am sure if you are tired for just one day she will not divorce you. If you feel like you are just not into it like you used to be but you still love your wife then I don't think you should worry too much. Some men do suffer from low libido at different stages in their lives. I am married just to answer your question. Sex should never be done as a chore though there are times that you do it more for your partner than yourself. When you do though you still make it worth it for the two of you. The idea of planning or scheduling it just totally makes it unappealing. Honestly I am not trying to be mean but for newly weds you should be knacking everyday. Your new wife should be bow legged by now

That is even more worrisome. They should not even stop to eat or drink

I am not sure exactly how it can be explained to you. Aptitude tests basically test how you reason. Sometimes there might not even be one correct answer and sometimes they will ask you to choose the answer you think is the closest to what you think is the right answer.

Sounds crazy but if they seized their uniforms does it mean that the students were stripped naked? Unless they had other clothes under their uniforms. If this was any place else I will say the teacher was clearly in the right but I have seen what teachers do to pupils in Nigeria. The boy is no saint but I would like to see what exactly the teacher did to the boy

ronkebp:
Frequent kpekusing is good. , but daily (also good ooo) i just can't Be Intimate daily,

Okay I get what you are saying and nobody can really actually do it daily forever but it should be frequently nah.

ronkebp:
But, like inventing styles and drama everyday to spice up the action it really becomes tiring after awhile

You make it sound like a chore. Abeg stop pulling my legs before I vex