₦airaland Forum

Look, the way you feel about your ex is natural, but you should wisely stay focus on your marriage, and cut short any form of distractions from your ex girlfriend. Life is in stages, and you are right in the next level of the game. So stop eying your past.

Government Jobs provide better opportunities than private. Private jobs are pay as you go. If they are paying you e.g N200k, they will use the money value out of you. While government job can leave you chance for side hussle. With government job, you can easily secure good loan to setup a private business to manage after hour. But private job will occupy most of your day time that you will hardly have time for your family, talk less of any side hussle.

Kingsnairaland:
all the people Nigerians winning political post have you not seen them online do you take one bad egg and say you won't travel.

I know about many injustice Nigerians are facing in aboard and you will even see the Nigerian consulate being docile to the foreign government. Years back I was a victim of racist attack and I suffered a permanent disabilty on my right shoulder by a white man. Yet, justice did not favour me. How many Nigerians dies in prisons in various countries and no justice. I know what I am talking about. Irresponsibility of our government is the key reason why Nigerians ignorantly rush abroad where they receive inhumane treatment.

This is why I advised Nigerians who are desperate to japa to thread softly. Nigerians are hated in abroad and its better to stay in peace at home than to go to foreign countries where you can face persecution because of your Nationality.

Exodus 34, 6-7 "The Lord...visits the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children’s children, to the third and the fourth generation"

Nigeria has always been extremely soft and linient on any offence that influential politicians are liable to commit, but harsh on poor peoples offences. Let them introduce 50 strokes of electric caning ( to be televised on live TV), plus 5years imprisonment as penalty for anyone guilty of corruption. I bet it corruption will stop. When firing squad was introduced during Gen Idiagbon, robbery became a suicide mission for perpetrators.

Best idea is to sell this country call Nigeria and everyone should rec3ive their cut and walk away.

You did not need a transit visa to stopover in dublin Airport as long as you are not entering the country. All you have to do is to find your way to the transit hall and patiently await your flight to Uk.

To answer your question in the most direct manner, Start processing your way to Canada. That seem to be the only country that is legitimately admitting immigrants presently, but be careful of visa scammers so that your japa dream will not end up to be a stolen mandate.

Nothing is good about being a full time husband. Even if a man is married to a wealthy wife, he should tap into her wealth to establish a sort of business for himself, and be financially responsible. Although that does not mean that men should not assist their wife's with domestic affairs, especially in a situation where a wife is also working full time elsewhere, but not like a full time househusband.

Infidelity is a serious offence in a relationship. Best thing is to call it quit.

About N1,200

I believe she has a motive for doing all this things. One man's meat is another man's poison. While many are insulting her, some serious admirers are there to fancy bobrisky new body.

laborious:
boss you finish talk, this is exactly a simple break down of what i am facing..i am still figuring how to live my life rn, my life has literally been on a stand still since my childs birth..make God help us sha

Divorce may sound like an option, but let it be the last result (unless infidelity is suspected ). A lot of couple experience this kind of problem in their marriages and it is definitely fixable. Meanwhile , I want you to create personal activities for yourself, expecially in the aspect of improving your financial status, socialize responsibly, and meet positive minded people as friends. i.e most men follows a footbal club and spend time in bars and watch centres. This will distract you away from your domestic problems and even make your wife to even miss your presence at home @ times. I believe that your wife too will change as maturity step up over time. Attitude is like a fume, it may fade off in future and both of you may see it as challenges of the past to laugh about. It's better to face this in the early stage of marital life, and settle for a happy future together. Lastly encourage family prayers where you can come together to share the word of God and pray together. Attending a living church on sundays and special programs for married couples can improve your understanding. Good luck !

I am also experiencing similar situation. Most people will not really understand you on this platform and as a matter of fact, you don't really need to site any example cos it takes a man courage to bring his personal matter to public audience. Comparing my situation with yours as a co- adult victims, I can tell you that ladies from NO to BAD parental upbringing usually run husband mad . She is always right in her eyes and doesn't need a man to listen to. She will never like what is going on to be shared with a third party, and in that case a man will be dying in silence. It has nothing to do with how much you lavish money on such women. Brother she can't just stop it cos she lack every orientation that makes a woman to see their husband as a king to worship and obey. Meanwhile don't let this woman turn you into a woman beater, cos I know devil will help you drag the matter to the boxing ring. But try to give space and show less concern to her affairs. This may sound weird, but I will advise that you to have a girlfriend to make you happy for the sake of your happiness and mental fitness cos ladies like your wife will be far less romantic with you, and will leave most domestic responsibility to you cos she is a ladyboss. With children involved, divorce is not the answer. Continue to endure that situation, its your lifetime cross to carry, so that you can train your children and bring them up in a way that will make them to have a good future. Men whose wives listens and obeys them will never know how lucky they are because there are many ladies out there that are not wife materials at all; even church or mosque going ones. Good luck to you !

Rigid Obi choosed to waste the leftover of his election budget in the court, while some wise ones will go for relaxation in Dubai to clear their head.

The Titanic should be equiped with a tracker, at least a technology that can signal it's location.

None of them.

Jamaican's are the world cup holder, followed by Ghanaian.

Nigeria is no more the giant of Africa.

I like this man cos e no get big belle like regular police Bosses. Evidently that smartness will reflect in his line of duty. Congrats !

Racoon:
https://www.thecable.ng/yari-its-unfair-to-have-leaders-of-all-three-arms-of-government-from-the-south/amp

Let someone tell Oga Yari that the North have been the most beneficiary of political power for the last 8years. It is southerners turn and most importantly we have come to fix all the problems left over by Buhari's.

Buhari came just to enjoy presidency and suffer Nigerians.

donbachi:
Wike will put call on his behalf

That was my first impression.

Hoteliers or the victims are not to blame. It is the dynamics of the society in line with poverty.

A sad news for the criminals in the country.

There is nothing wrong about it,, but it's something that both of you have to consult elders in the family for cultural approval.

drizzit:
We need our Naira cards to function for international transactions.....that should be the next logical step for the CBN

That will happen by the time Naira gain weight against dollar in future. This is the road...step by step.

Just started

DSS are the only trusted agency that Tinubu's govt can trust. If EFCC is dirty, then they will be hunted.

alanto:
So how did he handle the situation. What did he do to better their lives?

Modified:
To all of you quoting. So he ended their suffering and GEJ stopped whatever aid he had planned for them?

GEJ exercerbate the fragile situation with his defiance to his predecessor.

damble:
My own be say, when will opportunities start opening in this administration? That is my own concern for now

They are just assembling the government. No minister yet. It takes a little time for the egg to hatch into chickens